xin5: Please is that how it's been done? I bought a land early 2018 and now I feel like selling out. The families who sold it to me said they are entitled for their own percentage from the money the buyer is offering. Please I need to know if that's how it's done. I only went to inform them I would be handling the piece of land to a new owner and thought kola nut and palm wine would be it, since they also sold to several people there and also have some available I thought I should let them know for future reference... instead they are asking how much I am selling and wants to know every details of it.
Meanwhile the deeds that's about to be prepared would be in my name and that of the buyer, what consigns the family?
I had to tell them that's not possible it's my own land I bought from them I am selling, he went further and said it's either they buy it back from with same amount I bought 2018 or I give them their percentage from the appreciating amount or I develop and let matter rest.
Please help
Na you go find trouble na, lion dey sleep, monkey go touch am for tail..... Which one be say you carry kolanut go meet them.
donbrowser: Where's that dollar man? Read this update, it's very important. CBN is repaying billions of dollars in cash to banks, there will be excess of dollars next week which will most likely crash the price of dollars a bit. Good morning
Speculation, without doing the economic work.
Nigeria will have to start manufacturing, and stop importation.
Orika385TV: Why would someone fake HIV? Do you know the stigma, shame and backlash people face from saying that they have HIV. Now I repeat my question, Why will someone fake HIV or Claim to be HIV positive?
Orika385TV: Hello good morning, thank you for sharing your opinion and engaging with this post. Cause by you engaging with this post it will get seen by more people, so +1. Now down to your comment, you are free to say whatever you like cause it's your phone and your life. But mind you that the same phone on your hand can be used for research purpose. So feel free to go online and make your research to know if the video is fake or not of which I guarantee everyone on this platform that this video is 100% real and you can search for it online on other websites or Google. Well I don't expect you to do that, cause you are so used to seeing fakes that you can hardly tell real from fake. So I understand. Enjoy your ignorance.
U might not be the originator of the video, but it is 100% fake
Funkybabee: Good morning to my beautiful ladies here and our fellow brothers though una can wail like you normally did before. This post is not for you but for ladies to share their opinion 👎👎
I saw a post on instablog where a ladies share her opinion on why you shouldn't marry a man who cannot afford the thing you can do for yourself.
Back to my own view, I think it's not about how much he earn but how much he can give, a man can be rich and be stingy at the same time while a man can be rich, give and still not care about cheating thereby disrespecting your feeling.
I met a guy this year, got to his apartment saw there are no things there when I asked he said he just moved to this state with a new job but still setting up small by small, I said that's good to me for the fact that he's going to one of the old disciplined church while also he has completed is Master unless he has no ambition that he will be definitely good to go.
Later I discovered something about him, he don't used to call unless you chat don't know how it look somehow to me because I don't like calls too but I feel somehow, if you ain't online, he will wait till you come online to chat whether two or more days, he's after sexual thing though he said he's a believer, our house is not far to his place I normally trekked that's why I don't care about tfare at all so one day, I loosed my hair, went to his place to greet him omo he doesn't even look my way but after his satisfaction and later on he began one filmsy excuse of waiting for his brother to come that I should prepare to leave now. it didn't bother me too much until I got home and call my brain to order that am I for real with this guy, I later left him but he keep begging me it's not what I think, but I told him to come and see outside for him to spend assurance while herefused to that
Omo ladies come and share your experience concerning this una guys are welcome with your bashing
A love without giving is a lust. It's not about be material or how much he can give but the willing in his heart and to love someone without caring about his materialistic is not an offence
Just like what your topic implies; My dear, you are what you attract.
Why not enroll into adult education, or better still go back school fully, to help you adapt into the use of english?
Karen2024: This is common to every Nigerian guy I have dated. I have dated guys from Ghana, Niger, Cameroon and South Africa as well but only Nigerian guys leave their boxers and innerweears like singlets unwashed. I once deprived one guy, my ex, sex for spamming cum on his shorts and didn't wash it. And the worse things with Nigerian guys is that they are authoritative, boring and stingy too. I don't know how it came to be like this. I have stopped dating Nigerian guys a long time ago and I am imploring my fellow Nigerian ladies to take same step for their good.
You are what you attract, if you weren't a walking bacteria, you wouldn't have attracted them.
Orika385TV: A HIV Positive Nigerian Woman in a trending video has vowed to distribute and share HIV to fellow Nigerian Men and Women like palliative. This is a call to Nigerian Men and Women who don't want to stay one place and who don't love using protection, please be careful in other to protect yourself and your loved ones cause HIV is spreading like wild fire. In the video the woman confessed that she got HIV as a result of her doing Olosho work and she also covered her face in the video. So I would advise you to watch the video to know if you can identify her, cause this is serious. Click on the link below to watch the video: -
thesilentman: My blood is burning now as I write.My wife has now completely changed for bad, a few days after our second child.
An erstwhile submissive woman that i thought i had tamed for life has now become a thorn in the flesh to me. I just parted with over 300k unplanned fund for her C.S. I thought she'd be more respectful to me now but no,she has changed completely!
She dares me to do my worst,she cries over small issues that i wonder if it's witchcraft.Or she thinks I can't quit cos she's got two boys for me? The mind boggles. Am just mad and gobsmacked at the same time as all my Red pill O.T have failed and am even considering divorce right now.
I'm at a bar drinking my sorry ass away, brainstorming the best option for me. What could be outta place?
I need candid advice,folks.
In all you narrated, you still didn't say anything
I hope other ladies can read and learn. The reason some men claim they don't want marriage or they have more to lose is because women carry it for head. Always fighting tooth and nail for (registry) marriage. So they sit back and allow you do all the work while acting like they did you a favour marrying you. Have you ever considered the fact that you would be the one needing to escape from an evil man in record time? Breaking head over a man's property even at the expense of your life.
This OP claims it favours women more but he is restless because he met a woman who has mastered her emotions. He wishes she were chasing him upandan for a legal wedding and flying to catch ring. He is bothered because he doesn't hold all the ACES.
Isn't this the kinda arrangement they claim to want online? #TEAMBABYMAMA? Why is OP worried and why the responses from his fellow men above?
Men want this marriage as much as you do if not more. If they hated marriage so much, they wouldn't be open to polygamy or rushing to marry another wife after a divorce or death of the first wife. No man keeps two (polygamy), even four of what he doesn't benefit from. They benefit heavily from marriage. In fact, after tasting marriage, they find it hard to stay alone again. Unlike women who would rather enjoy companionship without commitment.
Stop fighting these men over registry. Tell him you don't want. Let him be the one to create thread and beg you to sign those lines. Stop begging them to see the usefulness in marriage. Stop answering stupid NL questions like "what can you offer a man?" He has the option of remaining single or marrying a fellow man or new yam.
You are the prize. If he isn't giving you same energy, disembark.
Poco can you swear with your life that you will never ask for court wedding, when the time comes?
Samantha124: I'm gonna speak from an African woman's perspective, especially a South African woman.
There's this stereotype that an African woman is expected to have a curvy figure like a figure 8... For example, as a South African woman, I didn't know that South Africa is considered to have a high number of curvy women until I joined nairaland because it had never came to my attention one bit.
At first I didn't take the comments seriously here on nairaland, until I came across two videos of Nigerian women based here in SA talking of how SA women are gifted with curves and big behinds... I never paid attention to any of those things, maybe because I'm also an SA woman.
So I decided that I was gonna do my own findings, this other time I was at a mall and I decided that I was gonna check my SA ladies out and I was shocked by what I saw, it was like 85% of them were bootylicious... ... But I was like noo, I can't make any conclusions yet because I'm in Durban and maybe it's possible that it's only the Zulu girls who have the booty, so I waited until I go home to Polokwane to check my Sepedi girls out...
Of course I finally did traveled back home and this one time I was at a shopping center with my nephew, we had ordered for some pies and while we were still waiting for our orders, I decided that I'm gonna check out my Sepedi ladies out to confirm what some male nairalanders have been saying... .. I was shocked the second time.. .. I saw Nicki Minaj figures walking around and I couldn't help but wonder to myself how come I didn't notice all these things all my life... Not all of them were curvy, but most of them did have the curves and the booty.
So as an African lady, if you lack self confidence, you might end up having a low self-esteem and using butt pads to look like other African ladies outside.... Even now I'm still shocked by what I saw...
I have been telling same, although some of SA women did BBL.
But what is the need of having a big-non-soft-bouncing-ass?