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Finestme1:
Hello nairalanders, I have made this observations concerning most of our ladies please don't crucify me Ladies I didn't say all ladies.here in our beloved country Nigeria most of them do take the affections of a guy for something else the moment you make your intentions clear to them that you have interest or love them they seize the moment to make it a money making avenue to enjoy themselves thinking they are smart

Fortunately for me as I thought I was kinda introduced to a young lady 2 Sundays back at a get to gather birthday party of a friend I meet at the venue so i decided to tag along with them in good spirits so I met this girl there and we kinda kicked it off from there I introduced myself exchanged contacts and we started talking and getting to know each other well so last Sunday with the whole flooding wahala in Gidi tho where I live was pretty decent up mainland Awuu �� � So I decided we go out on a date and it was amazing for us we discussed and as a great guy I treated her well on a scale of 1 to 10 I did pretty good I'll grade myself a well deserved 7 I made sure she was treated well brother take away self was involved too i no shake

When I started noticing this stuff is going south just Sunday till today I have been asked to top up phone no wahala done she rang me saying that her phone she's been chatting me up with is bad and it's with a phone repairer that she's going to give me update about the phone soon bro I weak am waiting

No wahala shall I can get her another one but please sincerely is it not too early to kickoff a relationship this way I have been In not one not two just like this before and I know too well how it's ends. Advice and comments are welcomed

You started lavishly and she saw you as a mugu

Finestme1:
Hello nairalanders, I have made this observations concerning most of our ladies please don't crucify me Ladies I didn't say all ladies.here in our beloved country Nigeria most of them do take the affections of a guy for something else the moment you make your intentions clear to them that you have interest or love them they seize the moment to make it a money making avenue to enjoy themselves thinking they are smart

Fortunately for me as I thought I was kinda introduced to a young lady 2 Sundays back at a get to gather birthday party of a friend I meet at the venue so i decided to tag along with them in good spirits so I met this girl there and we kinda kicked it off from there I introduced myself exchanged contacts and we started talking and getting to know each other well so last Sunday with the whole flooding wahala in Gidi tho where I live was pretty decent up mainland Awuu �� � So I decided we go out on a date and it was amazing for us we discussed and as a great guy I treated her well on a scale of 1 to 10 I did pretty good I'll grade myself a well deserved 7 I made sure she was treated well brother take away self was involved too i no shake

When I started noticing this stuff is going south just Sunday till today I have been asked to top up phone no wahala done she rang me saying that her phone she's been chatting me up with is bad and it's with a phone repairer that she's going to give me update about the phone soon bro I weak am waiting

No wahala shall I can get her another one but please sincerely is it not too early to kickoff a relationship this way I have been In not one not two just like this before and I know too well how it's ends. Advice and comments are welcomed

Your fault bro!


Stop showing em or better still;stop spending on em ladies... You have the right to say know, that you don't have.period.

Good move

I kind of agree with the OP

Even a 9ja billionaire isn't interested,not to talk more of a billionaire in dollars

sexybbstar:
So flawless... I love her skin.

Dats why Caro white is there for people like you.

IamAirforce1:
I will be 28 this August and I know how pretty difficult it is to stick to one girl at this young age
But right now I feel its time to call quit the "Play Boy" game with girls and stick to this one girl.

I've seen it all in women, Big, small, thick, thin and medium so nothing dey shack me again so I'm officially done playing games.

My girl friend is just 23 and down to earth.
She's got a very soft heart I wouldn't want to shatter to pieces.
She's one in a million
She's everything and got the quality every young man wants in his woman.

I never believed I could love no girl because all my life, I've been all about the money chase but today, love don arrest me.

I'm sorry to all the "slay queens" after my dicck that I never got to love for real.
I needed a homely girl for a relationship and not a slay queen that got nothing to offer me than cheap and worthless sexx.

Love is a beautiful thing when you find that special someone who would advice you to "Save more and spend less".

Love is beautiful if you got a girl who would insist on home cooked food to Mr Bigg's, Domino or Tasty Fried Chicken.

Love is beautiful when she supports in her own little way instead of been a complete liability.

Love is so beautiful if she's got vision and brain.


I thank God for my life.

You believe you are young at 28

story seems interesting....

IhateAfonjas:
I would rather go to Allen Avenue, Ikeja and marry an olosho than to have a girlfriend who knows where Uni-Lag is located

If you know what goes on there, you will go on a 60 years dry fasting

bro wat happens?

26andsearching:
I don't know why am always meeting materialistic ladies

Although I didn't do much dating at school, but the few I had were so demanding. Meanwhile the reverse is the case for my guys.

Am not the stingy type, I love to go out on dates , once in awhile​ hand out not so expensive gifts but cool gifts. Send airtime if I can.

But the kind of gals I meet eh
Be like

I need money to make hair 3k...

I need money for one silly thing or the other and so on.

Virtually putting responsibilities​ that belongs to her father on my head.

I tend to yield to some because of konji sometimes, I can't die na

I always admire my friends​ babe. She is so content. I mean I can't even describe how cool she is.
She actually paid for my friends final year fees and supported him when he had family issues. I know there lot of ladies like this out there , but why am I yet to meet one

Okay this happened to​ me last week at ICM. Saw this chic looking all good. I didn't dull we started talking exchanged contacts , immediately we got home started chatting on WhatsApp , in my mind was already happy my have got an honest one.

Next day was a Saturday. Woke up na she they my mind

Started chatting immediately , cut long story short , she asked me for 3k , I nearly mad.

I mean am yet to even ask u out and u had to make that request.

This threw me off balance, and I had to take a long pause and think. It's really scaring me cos am in the point of my life where I have to be serious.

I just can't phantom out wat the problem might be.

Is that am too fine Cos hell yeah I am ( don't ask for my pic)

Or they money smell on me when I walk

Money isn't my issue, but I don't just want to build a relationship around a liability gal.

I would really appreciate good and solid opinions especially from married people.
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Thanks

the way you present yourself in the first place

Destinyy22:
I met this awesome guy a month ago, we fell in love with each other and started dating. Later discovered he had a girlfriend somewhere and still loves her so much, I started nagging cos I let go of every other man in my life just to be with him and he wasn't willing to do same. Guess I nagged too much about it and now he wanna leave. I don't wanna lose him, haven't met anyone like him before. I've sent numerous messages and calls to apologise and promised to forget about the other lady but it seems he has made up his mind. Please what do I do ? Took me a long while to find him , don't want to lose him . I 'm 23 years old.

You can't force any man into your life....Let him go,you still 23yrs & a lot awaits you in the future.

Romerocollins:
It all started in 2016 orientation camp
There was a particular fine girl I had same platoon with,I noticed she liked me maybe cos she saw me holding iphone6.

I was giving her attitude when ever we jam in mami market,fast forward to deployments.....

We were posted in different locations,only for this babe to give me a call to know where i was posted to,I told her,and she said am lucky to be posted in town"any way I am coming to visit you"she said and also asked if I stays alone and I said yes.

3hrs later,the babe show and felt relaxed as if we met long time ago,maybe cos we from same side(Igbo)in my present she UnCloth and lied on the bed shaking her bom bom,I waited for 15mins and I touched,come see how she grabbed me,we had turns of sex and the following day she went back.
And since then we did not do it again,

But what I want to ask is this,did she take knowledge of me to satisfy her sexual urge or she did what she did to know why I did not give her attention at camp,matured,silly contributions please.

My friend go sit down,you lying.

With 2 goals ahead,Nigeria still won't be able to win the match.

Quite sad and pathetic...May their loved ones find the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss & great their souls rest.

Traditional rulers not contributing to the growth of the nation.

Zdoh:
You can help her source for what you dont even know the name and the picture doesnt give you clue.Naso e dey take start.

I can identify the tiger nut tho!

olaolagoodness:
Hello nairalanders. Please I need directions on how to get this similar product in Nigeria

I can help you source for them...But pictures isn't clear for identification,what their name?

avicky:
She's so right. If tbossy feels she was violated, let her press charges mbok and if kemen isn't satisfied with big brother's decision he can also press charges too. How can a finger be inside you and you won't know. She even turned to her side. Is it a sleep of death?
They should all go to the law court to seek redress already. We have a lot of issues on our plates mbok.

Pls,i didn't follow the show...Did he actually inserted his finger?

Alesandese:


Say no to lazy, unambitious,dumb guys. In fact no be vision we go chop! Say no to jobless broke guys!!! . I can't feed myself and a grown ass

Why must a guy/man feed you?

GloriaNinja:
IT STILL WON'T CHANGE THE FACT THAT TTT KNACK AND FINGERED HER IN THE SHOW!

For real?....i didn't follow the show

Thatz why they are called an "ex"...You don't get em back.

Michael is the hero of the day,while Uba is a

Nonsense & zero impact

Nigerian government has been lying to us since independence,so i don't believe them.

If i hear say a typical 9ja man go wan marry this one.

SorftWerk:
I'm really sad right now... I never saw it coming, been dating this girl for 2 months now, she always calls me to check how I'm doing, most times that i don't have airtime on my phone, she calls to know how I'm doing and if I've eaten and all that, we never had issues for once except the day I tried to kiss her and she slapped me then apologized... I took it as nothing and we continued in peace, I see to her every needs, surprise her sometimes with some bank alerts, try my best to see her almost everyday.. We were just totally fine until something happened!

This morning, I was still working out at home when I heard my phone vibrating, I checked it and it was her call, I was breathing heavily from my workout and I can't control my breath, so I picked up. As soon as she heard me panting, she changed her voice and asked me what I was doing, I told her I was having my morning exercises,she still doubted me and asked me to tell her the truth, I repeated my self, then tried to change the topic by asking her if she misses me, she replied with "I don't know" hmmm, I asked her if she's eaten, she said no and I asked why, then she said she has no food to eat, then I said I was gonna prepare some food for her to be brought in the afternoon, "this was another surprise " she was shocked hearing it will be brought in the afternoon instead of morning, still she said OK like she was okay with it.

I quickly got the kitchen and prepared jollof rice for her as fast as I could and dressed it in a cooler before hitting the road, when I got to her place, she was surprised to see me, she asked me to come in, gave me an hug and took the food, (note that, I sent her 50k last week oo) so while she was eating, I noticed her hair wasn't done and it's scattered, I querried her about it and she said she has no money, didn't want to sound bossy by asking her about the last week's 50k, then I sent her another 30k through my mobile banking application, after which she smiled and said thank you.


We continued discussing then she finished with the food, I tried kissing her but she moved her face, telling me there's something she wants to discuss with me, my heart started racing fast, but I composed my self and asked her to speak, then she told me she'll be going to osun state next week, and she won't be coming back soon, and moreover that she's fed up of me... I couldn't wait to hear the rest I quickly took my food flask and bounced from her room heart broken, feeling used and denied, she kept calling me back saying she was joking but i'm gone already, I rode back home and saw her missed calls on my phone, she even hid numbers to call me, what is she calling me for? Why is this life so complicated when it comes to relationships?

What do I do from here? Every girl seem to only wanna use me and leave, why!

50k,30k.bros stp lying,you can do better!

Wow...This is intelligence at its peak,way to go girl

Nigerian government pays no attention to health care;people can die for all they care.

shout out to the current weak minister of health "Prof. Isaac Folorunso Adewole"

I hope suicide wouldn't be his option now

Pathetic

After marrying,she still cheats... Fear women

sarrki:
They should go and work for their respective state

Kanu committed treason

Let him face the music squarely

Please define treason¿