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TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 10:39am On Apr 20, 2022
jesmond3945:
well I mentioned that I have no problem with racism, I even laught it off. I agree with you wholeheartedly. However, blacks should always support each other when issues of discrimination are discussed. We should not dismiss it or find a way to blame each other because we have no allies when all is lost is only a black brother that will come to the rescue. Even this thread is a testament to that. You can see Nigerians are good people with their quality advise but would prefer to relate behind the computer than physically.
Ticha:
I agree with you. As adults that have been fully formed and immersed in the Nigerian confidence before heading to the UK, it is easy to shrug off and minimise the racism we encounter. The problem is then that we do not fully equip our children and youngsters to deal with what life as a black person in a majority white country gets throws at them from the moment you step foot here. And that is the underlying issue. When people raise concerns about racism, I don't ever minimise it . I listen, offer support or advice as needed. Sometimes, it's not even possible to follow up on it. It doesn't mean we can't validate that person's feeling at that moment in time.

It's very much like the trans issues going on at the moment. The trans movement (supporters of the trans movement) seem to be eradicating women's right and spaces left, right and centre. I support the right of a trans woman to be a woman and my own right as someone who fully identifies as female and a woman to be a woman - I don side track now grin
I agree with this.
I remember a former colleague who was often looking at things from a racial perspective. I used to dismiss his opinions. Then another black colleague had a "chat" with a white colleague about a toy she had on her desk and how racist it was. The white colleague pushed back and eventually the manager (a white guy) asked her to remove it due to the toys racial connotation. When she told me her story, I dismissed it and said "it's just a toy". Some days later, in the pub, this lady told me not to ever dismiss things just because it does not mean anything to me. She explained to me why she took that stand and I quickly understood. Having crown up in Nigeria, I did not experience some of the things that she experienced and what could trigger some unpalatable memories. Since then, I do not dismiss peoples experience.
Back to the first guy, one day, he explained to me what happened to him at his previous employment that made him seem "paranoid". He went out after work with his colleagues and they took a picture. The next day when he got to work, he saw the picture on his desk but his face was edited and replaced with that of a monkey. He report to HR but nothing came out of it. He found out when he was leaving, during his exit interview, that there was no record of that incidence. He also narrated other experiences he had in that same company. I now understood why he was very suspicious of actions and words by some people.
If you cannot offer support to anyone, that's fine but don't minimise their experience.
CelebritiesRe: “adulterous Twerker” – Tonto Dikeh Blast Celebrity Dancer, Janemena by dustydee: 10:00am On Apr 20, 2022
Gistposter:
Fear of being taken down by Instagram...you never really know which words might put the post up for policy violation [
Thank you for the explanation.
CelebritiesRe: “adulterous Twerker” – Tonto Dikeh Blast Celebrity Dancer, Janemena by dustydee:
Gistposter:
Tonto Dikeh, a popular Nollywood veteran actress and philanthropist, has reacted after Instagram dancer Janemena threw shades at her on the microblogging platform, Instagram.

The popular Instagram personality, influencer, and waist dancer posted a post about l*vemaking in which she detailed two factors that she feels cause women to submit their bodies to men: money or relationships.

In response, an Instagram user mocked her by recounting how the released audiotape of Kpokpogri purportedly stated that she romped with Tonto Dikeh’s ex-lover from dawn to evening.


In her response, Janemena implicitly drew Tonto Dikeh into the controversy. Tonto Dikeh, who never fails to respond to such matters, has retaliated against Janemena in a heinous manner. READ MORE >>
Why do they blank out some of the words, even those that are not swear words?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 6:22pm On Apr 17, 2022
Seyi0T:
Good morning all and Happy Easter.
Please who has attended HSBC bank interview and what are the likely questions.
Thank you for the swift feedback.
What are the benefits of an IPO?
What is normal distribution? Why is it called so? Given an example to support your explanation.

These are some questions from glasssdoor. Head there for more.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 10:58pm On Apr 13, 2022
Oya UK asylum seekers, kuku ma buy ticket to Rwanda instead because Britiain will now ship them there. I don't think it is right.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 9:15am On Apr 12, 2022
Alexia20:
Hello Family ,I want to start planning for my family ( family of 4 ) to join me in uk by next 3
month or so , how do i arrange for the pof in my spouse account ( I have sufficient amount in my own acct) , is it just ok to lodge in a large sum in her account or I will need to be sending it incrementally, get someone else to do the transfer i and what other things I will need to put into consideration to tie up any loose ends .kindly advice ,I am on a skilled work visa and my maintenence was been taken up by my employer so I don't have the experience of self- maintenance.
Follow the UKBA guideline and have the funds in your account since you are the "sponsor". No need moving money to your spouse's account as long as you have the required funds. If it were me, I'd add a bit extra just to be safe.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee:
umarwy:
Discounts plus big brother monitoring


Case in point
Haba! 106mph, you wan kill person? shocked Them for even cancel the insurance sef. tongue
TravelRe: Uk Student Visa/tier 4 Pbs - Your Questions Answered Part 7 by dustydee: 4:50pm On Apr 11, 2022
gabiomoesu:
My people, una good afternoon. Please I'm trying to book a return ticket to Lagos from London, can anyone please suggest cheap websites I can book my ticket from? Na beg I dey cry huh


Stenon Fatima04 Eriko2k2 Dupyshoo Dustydee CodingSoft umarwy DisGuy
Go to skyscanner.net and search for flights. Once you find what suits you, go to the airline website and book, hopefully the prices will be the same or you can search using "google flights".
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 11:44am On Apr 11, 2022
Lexusgs430:
My wife was studying at Kadpoly at that time, she stayed with her Uncle off campus........

I was accused of all sorts, kidnapping, getting her pregnant etc etc etc

Kaduna is a small town, our secret marriage was a major scandal within the Yoruba community, my oga was also accused of all sorts .......

Her parents stayed in Ibadan, the news spread like wildfire...... Considering the fact that prior to this secret marriage, I had never spoken to my in-laws, nor meet them.......

I had to call my in-laws, apologized to them, clearly stated my position/intentions and why we had to conduct the marriage etc etc ......

Silver jubilee is around the corner...... I have never reported her to parents, they have never intervened in our union, likewise my wife ...... We are buddies, just like biological siblings...... People might deem it an exaggeration, but we have never had an argument or raised voices....... We might have one in the future, which I seriously doubt ........
Don't we all like the "olden" days? Just meet and marry kawai . No dogon turenchi . grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 8:24pm On Apr 08, 2022
Santa2:
if you sabi way for naija you go get your passport next day..Na money e go chop.
You don't even need to pay anyone sef, depending on where you are doing it. Pay official fees and still get it in a day or two.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 3:35pm On Apr 07, 2022
BorisJohnson:
Sorry. I am sorry Sis.
Let’s make Love . Let’s make Peace. No more Fight.

One Love. This life is too short to War War. Let’s Jo-Jo.
YOLO.
Amarathripple0:
Lol no wahala. Apology accepted.
Ah! Eeeweh!! shocked grin
Or am I overreacting? lipsrsealed
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 9:40pm On Apr 06, 2022
TheGuyFromHR:
This one is interesting.
I usually see UK residents for past 3/5 years, etc. for this sort of job.
Except where it has to do with national security, that's the sort of thing where you see UK citizens only.
If this is an ordinary document controller position, then the stipulation for UK citizenship appears really strange to me.

Unless its MI5 or GCHQ and they're not saying.
Document controllers handle sensitive documents as well and depending on the project, may need security clearance. The ones in my company have it else they cannot work on some projects. Not sure about citizenship except if it has to do with the required level of clearance.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 9:37pm On Apr 06, 2022
KOVIC19COVID20:
I am genuinely surprised at how pretty standard procedures can suddenly be given racial connotations.

Someone made an application for debt. A company feels something doesn’t add up. The company says, NO, we can’t give you this credit because it doesn’t meet our policies. Company communicates to the applicant, saying sorry. We can’t give you this. Applicant almost immediately uses their debit card to make the same purchase, from the same company. Because the smell of the fish(y) from the first instance hasn’t completely gone, company says wait a minute, just a couple of hours ago, you wanted this same thing on credit. We said no. Now the same you have suddenly come up with £800.00 to make an outright purchase.We need to investigate further. Company details their fraud unit to investigate, to prove that this person is who they say they are. Because company doesn’t want to hold funds for too long, company returns £800 to customer. This was referred to fraud unit.
The fraud unit guy enters the name provided by the customer into Google search engine. The first hit is a LinkedIn page. Fraud unit guy browses the first link. And turns off their computer.


Customer (who uses LinkedIn Premium) now sees that Company employee had looked them up. Customer now claims they were refused because they were black? And African? Customer now says Company had no authority to ‘Google’ them? Because of GDPR?

Shuooooo
While I do not necessarily agree with the racial profiling part, she has a very valid point, in my opinion. I think you should read her subsequent comments. Paypal approved her credit request but John Lewis declined her transaction.
Going by your logic, what did the fraud team guy find in her linkedIn profile that made them decline her third transaction even after the payment was taken from her account and after she called and made a complaint?
Let's let this issue rest abeg.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 7:13pm On Apr 06, 2022
Amarathripple0:
Omo I also asked for advise today and I’ve just learned that when it comes to personal issues on public forums, then I should keep my mouth shut because the ignorance and lack of empathy is just mind blowing.
I am genuienly surprised at some of the comments about your issue. Please do not be deterred and follow it up. You have a very good case and moreover what you are asking for is just an acknowledgement of wrong from them. Maybe because I have undergone GDPR training that's why it's easy for me to see the wrong here.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 1:48pm On Apr 06, 2022
Amarathripple0:
Please do not be ignorant! A company going through your social media page before you are offered a service rings bells for discrimination. It is NOT allowed. Read up a little to expand your knowledge on the laws of the country you live in.
I believe you have a valid point and it is not a coincidence that someone from the fraud team checked your profile around the same time. What he/she did, in my opinion, is to misuse your personal data, which has grave consequencies for John Lewis if proven.
Your linkedIn profile may be public but that person did not know you were on linkedIn except if you had either applied for a Job with them or he used your data he accessed while working with John Lewis.

You can contact them via their social media channels or do a post on linkedIn stating what happened and your observation and tag the person and John lewis. They will respond.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 11:05pm On Apr 03, 2022
Ray7878:
My mother moved back in June 2021 after over 45 years in the UK/USA. She said she wouldn’t change it for coming back, she lives in a gate place in Ipaja Lagos. She complains but she still prefers it than staying in the UK or America.
Great. I am only 10 yrs out here. Didn't expect it to be this long but that jackpot is taking longer grin
Given what I know now, I wouldn't have left when I did.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 9:27pm On Apr 03, 2022
Ray7878:
If you meant any of the bad things that gets talked about then I would say Amen too cheesy
I actually long to go back hopefully well before I reach retirement age. There are security issues but it depends on where you live as well. I am very much in touch with home and visit as well.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 11:16pm On Apr 02, 2022
mdeeokoye:
Hi Guys,
need an opinion from guys that have filled visit visa for their parents.
I am doing one for my Dad who is retired and one question that is on the form says: "Why are they helping to pay for your visit?" What are the typical correct responses that I could use so as to confirm what I have stated is also valid
There is no right or wrong answer. State the reason why.
PoliticsRe: Adeyinka Grandson Jailed 4.5 Years For Inciting Racial Hatred In Nigeria by dustydee: 8:13pm On Apr 01, 2022
naptu2:
https://news.met.police.uk/news/man-jailed-for-inciting-racial-hatred-in-online-posts-445324
If he is a naturalised citizen, he may lose his British citizenship as well.
BusinessRe: World Bank Suspends Isah Kantigi And His Firm For Bribery by dustydee:
Islie:
https://punchng.com/world-bank-suspends-nigerian-firm-md-for-bribery/
Why are some people prone to doing the wrong thing?
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukraine: What Will Happen If EU & NATO Countries Refuse To Pay For Russia's Gas? by dustydee: 10:19am On Mar 30, 2022
Illuminatiship:
What ever happens na Dem know, super he-goats match pain me yesterday.
No lie, e still dey pain you.

It was painful sha cry
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 10:17pm On Mar 29, 2022
Tunnazboi:
Good evening all.
I got a job offer letter from a company in the United Kingdom, I was told to sign and scan back to acknowledge that I accept the letter and also send a copy to work permit UK visa bureau unit consultant on how to process visa and work permit, I did and the consultant has sent me the information on how to obtain the visa and work permit. Visa fee £655 for 5 years, work permit £1220. Please help I don't want to fall for scammers
It is clearly a scam.
Foreign AffairsRe: US Brands India’s Response To Ukraine War ‘Unsatisfactory by dustydee: 2:36pm On Mar 27, 2022
mysticwarrior:
we learn everyday, I never knew the soviet once helped India, please when did this happened?
https://www.indiatimes.com/news/india/when-russia-stunned-us-uk-naval-forces-helped-india-win-1971-war-563248.html
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 9:46am On Mar 27, 2022
mizGene:
I'm just wondering...if an employee on a 5 Yr sponsored visa switches to a new employer, would he have to pay the visa and its fees again?
During my time, it used to be 3yrs first and then additional 2 yrs extension. My employer paid for both applications but required me to sign a bond that I will refund if I left within a certain number of months. I had to pay my IHS during renewal. My spouse on the other hand had everything paid including IHS and even ILR by the employer. Now I think you can get up to 5years but if you leave, you will have to apply for a new visa and pay new fees but I think your IHS will still be valid. The new employer should ideally pay for it.
Foreign AffairsRe: US Brands India’s Response To Ukraine War ‘Unsatisfactory by dustydee: 9:35am On Mar 27, 2022
The Soviets came to the aid of India when some western countries aligned with their enemies to destroy them. India said they will never forget their friends in time of need. Indian citizens too seem to remember and are in support of their government.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 11:34pm On Mar 26, 2022
Amarathripple0:
Just be patient, start applying for jobs closer to your graduation date. I’m guessing you’ll be done in September. You can go full gear for Job applications in June/July and let them know you’ll be done in September and can work full time. It all depends on how you sell it to them and how you sell yourself. There’s also the option of applying for graduate roles and sometimes, these employers can hire you now and wait till you are done for you to start.
Check out https://www.pareto.co.uk
https://www.gradcracker.com
https://www.milkround.com
Adebayo82
Good morning everyone,
I need more info and contribution towards the tier 4 visa switch to tier 2 or skilllled worker visa. When is likely for me to push for this? my master program is less than seven months to complete. Also, I read it on Ukvi website that tier 2 application must be submitted 2 to 3 month before tier 4 student visa expired.
Some professional job am applying for now, fine the employer were facisnating with my years of experience and the skill. But the my blocker is issue of 20hrs restrictions for BRP stuff. I have done many interviews but they keep on saying the role is for full time, and the menial work somebody is doing all around could not lifted one to the right path neither career advancement, is just to cater for bills and other miscellaneous. moreover, CoS is needed from employer if I want to apply for tier 2 visa even though am paying the application fees. please shed more light all the elder in the house who has climb the ladder before now.
The best time to start applyting for graduate roles is as soon as you start your masters. So for September start, you start your job hunt say around October, to start work around September the following year.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 12:46am On Mar 24, 2022
tshoboy:
My partner is using one of them to learn digital marketing. They will also help you with your CV and refer you to some roles at the end of the program.
Ticha:
For those who want to gain skills in Construction, HGV and IT. 16 weeks bootcamp and they're supposed to be free - I say supposed because I haven't delved into the nitty gritty of each one.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/find-a-skills-bootcamp/list-of-skills-bootcamps
This is very good information. Thanks for sharing.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 4:15pm On Mar 23, 2022
Amarathripple0:
Is 28.9% APR any good? Because that’s what Barclays is offering me. Thanks
I personally don't worry too much about the APR since I make sure to pay off all my balance before the due date. I have never paid a pence in interest to any credit card company in the UK.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 5:22pm On Mar 15, 2022
icon8:
Good point! All, not most. All 3pm league matches on Saturday are not allowed to be broadcast live on tv in the UK.
Thank you. I thought it was allowed on special days like boxing day and new year.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 5:01pm On Mar 15, 2022
hardbars:
I have checked the pricing. £85pm is fair since there are the other add-ons. I however don't need these add-ons. From what you said, it sounds like BT and SKY is all I need. I'd figure out how to pay for just BT without getting into a contract with Virgin.
Thanks for your reply.
Be aware that not all premier league matches are shown on TV in the UK. Legally, most 3pm matches on Saturday are not to be broadcast live. So you may find that even with all your subscription, you may not be able to watch some of the matches of your favourite team, depending on the kick-off time.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by dustydee: 11:11am On Mar 12, 2022
AgentXxx:
shocked Scary criteria in there... Hmmm, i might to have a rethink.... but minimum of how long do you think one could get all of the license done if one would like to settle for it? Or are they other lucrative driving jobs? Also how is leather and shoe industry in London faring? I have skills/certification in leather works most especially footwear.. does it pose as a fast way of getting employment?

Thanks for your honest feedback.... God bless
London is expensive. You said your wife is going to Bradford, have you considered the cost of maintaining 2 homes? Or does your wife intend to stay in London with you? No one can give you a minimum time frame as it depends on several factors the most challenging, in my opinion, being getting a driving licence.

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