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TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 7:52pm On Jun 25, 2021
Ilekokonit:
Boris dare not sack anyone on grounds of having extra-marital affair. If he tries it (which he won't) the British Tabloids will roast Boris and mock him for the next 3 months every day in the newspapers as Boris himself has now been married 3 times, has a series of extramarital affairs and even has a love child born whilst he was married to wife no 2. His Wikipedia page does not have an accurate figure for the number of kids he has and just reads Children - at least 6 and Boris himself has not disclosed how many children he has. I'm not judging him though as no body holy pass. He is just following in the steps of Former Prime Minister John Major and Former US Prez Bill Clinton.

So he dare not sack Hancock for the same thing he is guilty of and las las he will give him a soft landing during a cabinet reshuffle.
I like the part in bold. In Nigeria sef our politicians do not care about this kind of thing.
Christianity EtcRe: Those Who Lived Wayward Life In School Get Better Opportunities Than Church Goer by dustydee: 5:11pm On Jun 25, 2021
obembet:
Dear Nairalanders, there is something that I don't really understand about life or let me say religion. I know some people may see it as luck or destiny. But if we call it destiny, then every Christian or all child of God suspose to be prosper and leave a better life than Dangote.

Because according to Jeremiah 29:11 New International Version that's says For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

But when I check those guys we call pastors and Alfa in School (University) they don't play with Church Fellowship or Mosque prayers, they get the best results, as in when it come to Education, they are very sound but most of this people end up teaching in one local private school or the other. While those Stubborn guys, that go to Club and party every night, many of them manage to get Third class but they end up in better companies, some are abroad while some are in government.

Also, those ladies that doesn't allow man to touch thier hand not to talk of hugs, infact majority of them are still virgin base on thier looks and behavior ( Not all). They always reserve thier body for thier future husband Many of those ladies too are on the street looking for husband up till now and looking old now. Even those that marry among them are still looking for the friut of the womb. But those strippers, Club girls, they hardly attend attend class and many of them even graduated with poor result get the best husband, have beautiful kids and better job.

Now my question is, why those who lived a wayward life in school get better opportunities than Church goer or those Alfa?
I think so many "Christians" in Nigeria completely isolate themselves from the "world" and neglect to do what is needed to advance in life.
Even Jesus alluded to that in one of his parables (Luke 16: 1-12). Verse 8: "And the lord commended the unjust steward, because he had done wisely: for the children of this world are in their generation wiser than the children of light."
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 3:48pm On Jun 25, 2021
justwise:
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How did Boris meet his current wife?
Exactly my point. He too cheated on his ex-wife with his current wife and cheated on his 1st wife with his last ex-wife. Who knows what will happen with this one lipsrsealed
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 1:18pm On Jun 25, 2021
justwise:
He is a dead man walking, he wasn't doing a good job then this... newspapers and his political opponents will not allow him to walk away from this...while he was constantly shouting 2-meters distancing to the rest of us he was busy kissing and grapping backside of his side chick in public
The man has issued a statement already and wants to continue the "good" work he is doing saving lives. Boris may stick by him.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 11:33am On Jun 25, 2021
wallg123:
That will not happen. Have you seen him sack any of his other cabinet members since all their controversies started popping up almost every week?…
You will be surprised Boris is also having an affair with one of his back room staffs. British politicians and extramarital affairs na 5&6 grin
Boris is a known philanderer so it will be interesting to hear what he has to say.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 11:31am On Jun 25, 2021
Mamatukwas:
Today is the last day of School in Scotland. A lot of crying mothers and teachers everywhere this morning, especially those moving to P1. I looked at my dry eyes and wondered if Nigeria dried the wells inside.

Na wa oh. Me Sef for like cry cry
Why were they crying?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 10:14am On Jun 25, 2021
sgtponzihater1:
The visa usually states that no work or recourse of public fund. With those you cannot work legally.

Options to work Legally are:

1. Hooking a man on tier2/ILR like Lexusgs430, with this visa you are a dependent and can do unlimited work and unlimited hours

2. Getting a job based on your skill in Nigeria and then applying for the Point based system tier 2 visa, you need 70 points to be accepted; I am currently in via this route

3. Applying for a Master etc; you are eligible to 20hrs or so per week. But unlimited during holidays, but you can always tweak the system

Sharp guys have worked with the visiting Visa, but it's not legal
Prioritise this. Lexusgs is your man any day. He can even book you an appointment with the Queen if you ask nicely. wink
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 10:12am On Jun 25, 2021
Ilekokonit:
The Brits have been so regulated by so many laws and taxed into submission that some of them get their kicks in extreme but coded ways especially the high and mighty [b]and that is why when an MP is at first exposed for weird or extreme sexual antics, at first there is an uproar but it finally dies down because a lot of them are at it as they need that outlet to let off steam from their stressful jobs [/b]and the constant search light being shone on them.
I am waiting for Boris to sack Matt Hancock over his alleged affair grin. Will he be bold to do that? He is guilty of same although the PM can claim COVID-19 was not a factor then. Let's see.
EducationRe: New Oxford Science Academy Accepts School Fees In Cryptocurrency In Kano by dustydee: 10:01pm On Jun 24, 2021
AroleOduduwa2:
I thought crypto was banned in Nigeria or was it banned in southern part of the country only
Crypto was never banned in Nigeria. The CBN just asked banks not to deal with crypto exchanges.
BusinessRe: Mcafee Anti-Virus Founder, John McAfee Found Dead In Barcelona Prison by dustydee: 8:55pm On Jun 23, 2021
Sad
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 9:48am On Jun 20, 2021
Lexusgs430:
When you reside in a village in Kent, to only use Legedes Benz..... E go hard....... If not near enough impossible........ (for me anyway)........ cheesy
Does this have anything to do with old age? grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 9:48am On Jun 20, 2021
Lexusgs430:
It's on YouTube.... You go see your brother, forming oyinbo........

I am too sure, he was born in one local clinic in Ajegunle......... cheesy
Ok, I'll check it out.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 9:41am On Jun 20, 2021
Lexusgs430:
Wetin we go gain if we add or subtract........

Pure, unadulterated, realities + a tiny dash of blue therapy......... grin
What's this blue therapy? I saw it trending on twitter about 2 weeks ago but couldn't find any meaningful reference.

Also, are you now leg xus? Wetin happen to your fleet of cars? grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 7:43pm On Jun 19, 2021
Lexusgs430:
Let's hope, he also did not forget his loans and credit cards....... wink
Perhaps she meant to say she hoped the bank and credit card company forgot about the loan.
I once told a friend in my school to respect the 20hr work restriction so he is not caught, which might jeopardise his chance of getting a visa should he choose to continue his education. He said he will not comeback to the UK to study so he didn't care. Fortunately he wasn't caught but he came back a year or two later to further his education. Never say never. For some, they go back home thinking they will not return and then their jobs back home decides to send them back either for training or assignment. That's when the "had I known" cry begins.
Hopefully this lady and her husband have enough to clear the debt and move on with their lives.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 4:18pm On Jun 19, 2021
wealthtrak:
I respect a lot of your thoughts
here. Well said. smiley

Nigerians worldwide have to develop emotional intelligence, balance, financial education, and
collaborative thinking for the
good of all. Books such as
"Think and Grow Rich" by
Napoleon Hill, and "80/20
Principle" by Robert Koch will enable people to find a balance
in their lives instead of showing
off or oppressing others... Kinda like "Do you know who I am?" grin


But I disagree with you demonising other people's religious beliefs.

I'm not an adherant of the
Ifa religion (Yoruba religion) but
I have studied the global spread
of the Ifa faith to Cuba, Brazil,
Trinidad and Tobago, U.S.A,
UK, due to the late 1700s and 1800s trans-Atlantic deportation
of Yorubas via slave schooners
and legal migration after 1900.


There are over 10,000 Babalawos (Ifa priests) in Cuba alone among Afro-Cubans and white Cubans and
Professor Wole Soyinka regularly visits Cuba on invitation to give
lectures about the Yoruba religion. Fidel Castro even gave a rousing welcome to Ooni Sijuade anytime he came to Cuba to see the Yoruba Diaspora being the leader from the Source or Ife.

Bahia in Brazil is another major focal point of Yoruba culture and religion from the 1800s, and one of the sons of Alaafin Abiodun of the Oyo Empire (his son was taken as a war prisoner and shipped to Brazil where he got married).

His wife then gave birth to a prominent son in Brazil who served and distinguished himself in the
Brazilian army in the 1800s.
Dom Foncecao was his name.


I have a deep knowledge of comparative religion right from
the early 1980s which breeds tolerance and respect for other wide range of global faiths/religions
and states of awareness.


Now, the Ifa priests (Baba Alawo) negative potrayal in some of
those Nigerian movies is false, defamatory, and is usually done
by especially ignorant Christians and some Muslim film producers who create fictional movie scripts without consulting the real Babalawos for guidance.



Internationally prominent Ifa priests or Babalawos such as
the 3 men below:

1. Professor Wande Abimbola (a former two-term Vice Chancelor
of OAU in Ile Ife).

2. Professor Odeyemi (a nationally prominent Geologist in FUTA from Ekiti State, who worked on accurate earthquake or earth tremor
predictions. In 1985, he said an earthquake fault line runs from the
Atlantic ocean through Lagos State right up to Oyo State).

3. Chief Elebuibon

...and more have on many
occasions in newspaper articles corrected this defamation by letting people know that it is against the spiritual laws for people to say Babalawos kill for rituals because there are karmic consequences or repercussions for doing so.

The Ifa belief system emphasises purity of thought and spiritual balance. I personally respect them
for that.


"TERMINOLOGIES"
1. The Yoruba term Babalawo is wrongly used by some ignorant folks and some sections of the media for "Herbalists" and "ritualists," but Babalawos (Ifa priests) - the priests of the Yoruba religion, are the equivalents of Roman Catholic and Anglican church priests or Buddhist priests or monks, etc, who are in charge
of religious liturgy.

2. Onisegun (the Yoruba name for
a Herbalist who uses herbs or plants to treat people like you have
Herbalists in China, India, UK, U.S.A).

3. Oloogun ika (the Yoruba name
for those who commit evil or use diabolic or psychic means to harm others).

I hope this helps to
clarify things.

Cheers!
Thank you for this. I have learned something from it.
RomanceRe: Fauiza And Jonathan’s Wedding: Igbo Man Marries Fulani Woman (Pictures) by dustydee: 9:31am On Jun 19, 2021
No sharo? shocked
Fulani wedding without sharo, is that a Fulani wedding? grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 4:07pm On Jun 17, 2021
justfrankz:
Thank you. I actually found someone but he’s not in the UK. And the person that gave me his contact is a student here whom I don’t know that well. I’m looking for someone here because of trust issues. Just being careful if you understand. I also have a Dorm account in Nigeria but that still not possible as only account owner can deposit into it and transfer isn’t allowed.
If you have access to your nigeria bank account and have a UK bank account, then you can use p2p on binance.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Have You Ever Lost A Job Offer Because You Negotiated Your Salary Too High? by dustydee: 2:55pm On Jun 16, 2021
Robertkenny:
Okoye Vincent

Recently i got an interview in one of the leading IT Company. It is CMMI level company so i thought to try. I gave written test and technical round of interview, then again technical round with manager and he put me on hold.
After i asked the reason to HR, she told me manager put you on hold. Again after 3 months i got a call that now you have to give final round of interview.
I went there for another technical round and got selected. This time my appraisal is due in current company which is on next month so i can’t accept first offer which is 15% raise.
I have 50k salary so it’s obvious I will get 15% in current company so i asked for 30% raise and she offered me 54k on hand. My current on hand is around 45k so i told her that i won’t join at these much less and if she wants to renegotiate, i am open for that. She after offered me 55k. I was like shocked that is this called negotiation. She is asking me for 1k more. Am i at grocery store or what? I said no.
She said she is chasing me from few days to convince me but now she won’t. So i said, if your offer is convincing, no need to chase anyone. What does it make sense to give someone 1k more? She said, if you want to join at the offer, call me or reply me.
I never replied and called.

Thank you Bogger for sharing my story.

Like to share your job negotiation offer?
Indian story. This was written by an Indian and modified to suit Nigerian audience.
If you know, you know. wink
TravelRe: Help Please by dustydee: 6:28pm On Jun 15, 2021
DaveDave001:
Please i need contact of a reliable person working in Poland embassy(Abuja).
I want to make an enquiry.
08068440467 is my whatsapp Number
Reliable in what sense?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 9:05pm On Jun 13, 2021
Jbloc:
All born abroad.
I hear I could skip the ILR and go straight to naturalization, still researching though!
I can confirm.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Nairaland Was Down For 2 Hours by dustydee: 11:44am On Jun 11, 2021
pode:
Something is telling me, fg will soon ban NL
I suspect the same too. When Lai was making the twitter and other social media registration announcement, my mind went to nairaland. I hope they don't touch it but also wish the owner will reform this platform to be more civil and clean out fake news.
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Nairaland Was Down For 2 Hours by dustydee: 11:41am On Jun 11, 2021
Seun:
Fellow Nairalanders,

Nairaland was down for two hours due to a minor miscommunication with our host that was related to copyright infringement.

It shouldn't have taken as long as 2 hours to restore Nairaland, but it took a while for us figure out exactly what to do because it hadn't happened before, and we also had to wait for our host's support team to restore us fully after taking the necessary steps.

We are sorry for this inconvenience.

We know that keeping Nairaland working is especially important in this terrifying political climate, and we take it very seriously. Nigerians need a platform that they can use to share their views freely with each other. We believe that Nairaland is that platform.

Best Regards,
Seun Osewa.
Did you say freely? I doubt you mean it because some of your moderators here do not allow us to express ourselves freely (without insulting anyone). Also you banned the word "crow we", why? Why not ban the word "twitter" as well?. We may not like the people behind it but let's hear them out at least.
TravelRe: My Journey To Hanoi, Vietnam by dustydee: 9:42pm On Jun 10, 2021
@Justwise, salanda wants you to go to US instead
Pls patronise him grin
salanda:
Guys if you want to go to Vietnam and study or you just have to go there, that's all well and good but there are some things you should consider.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 6:49pm On Jun 10, 2021
Aphrodite007:
Please we are lively enough Dusty.. I only left for a few days and I’m 10 pages behind cry
Good evening ma. We've been on fire these past few days. grin
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 10:56am On Jun 10, 2021
omopapa:
This urs?
yes
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 10:22am On Jun 10, 2021
cheesy
It's possible

TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 7:17pm On Jun 09, 2021
tushqueen:
Really?
Yes, no need for ILR if they were born here and you or your spouse has ILR.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 5:07pm On Jun 09, 2021
Jbloc:
I just paid the £3.3k for two and its really heartbreaking cry
Still recovering, to do another x3 for kids. smiley
If the kids were born here, you don't need to apply for ILR, you can apply for citizenship after you get your ILR.
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 5:05pm On Jun 09, 2021
Chukwuka16:
I will go for the Tier 1/Global Talent as the easiest. 3 Years to ILR (5 for passport and 5 for spouse for ILR/passport), the least documentation and time spent on Tier 2 counts. The cost is the only downside. I'm due next month but still considering applying as I haven't been able to justify that amount of money leaving my account. All my previous visa's bar one were done at a cost to my employer including my wife's, but this time around I can't fathom £2300 + £800 (same day) + £200 (transport/fingerprint) = £3300 for ILR at once!

The UK is really making a killing from visas. I'm only happy now because our EU friends will feel the same heat and they don't even have that kinda of money especially for Tier 2 (skilled worker as now is).

Again, there seems to be a catch with Tier 2/skilled worker visa - salary threshold when due for ILR.
Yes, surprisingly not many know about the Tier 1 route and how you can get ILR in 3 years. If you can, get the ILR as soon as possible as the cost keeps increasing.
PoliticsRe: We Have Moved Out Of Twitter (pictures) by dustydee: 4:05pm On Jun 09, 2021
Seun, why is crow we censored?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee: 1:35pm On Jun 08, 2021
dupyshoo:
Hello everyone!! It's been a while. I have been busy moving jobs, covid, childcare,homeschooling etc. I have sincerely missed all the arguments. Can see not much has changed. grin.
Yay! Welcome back. Are you still in the Uk or did you port to Canada?
TravelRe: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by dustydee:
davide470:
This group and drama.

Oga Justwise, kindly unban Ralphjean. Not sure he warranted that long ban
If he was banned as a result of the TV license thing then that is wrong. My major problem with the mod here is the penchant to ban dissenting voices even if they have not committed an offense. Justwise please unban him. We need as many people as possible to make this thread lively and informative.

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