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FamilyRe: Men, Can You Overlook This If You Find Your Wife Being Held This Way At The Gym? by edunaragold(f): 9:36am On Feb 27, 2022
Zonefree:
Everything is bad in that. What sort of exercise is this? What's the end product of this rubbish?
. Its called leg speed exercise
Foreign AffairsRe: Taliban Tell Russia And Ukraine To Resolve The Crisis Through Peaceful Means by edunaragold(f): 5:01pm On Feb 25, 2022
Seriously, Taliban,life no balance
CrimeRe: Suspected IPOB, ESN Members Attack Imo Police Station, Kill Two by edunaragold(f): 8:26am On Feb 22, 2022
Metrix147:
https://abntv.com.ng/140053-suspected-ipob-esn-members-attack-imo-police-station-kill-two/
. Did I hear Igbo amaka,I tut they say East was the safest place and Igbo's are running back home,Kaduna is even safer than they think
CrimeRe: Anambra Businessman, Chief Gab Ofoma Shot and Killed On The Highway by edunaragold(f): 8:20am On Feb 22, 2022
Fairmedia:
They are very stupid and cowardly, see how a gang of men dey use them like fools.
. I swear brother, zone Igbo man is another Igbo man problems, na the East wet them say its safe than north.
CrimeRe: Anambra Businessman, Chief Gab Ofoma Shot and Killed On The Highway by edunaragold(f): 8:19am On Feb 22, 2022
I tut the Igbo's said East was safe than north,trust me Igbo people will still say its still safe
RomanceRe: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by edunaragold(f): 9:24am On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,
So I noticed too

unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
. Reputation Matters a lot
RomanceRe: Why Do Men In Their Late Thirties And Early Forties Easily Say "NO" To Sex? by edunaragold(f): 9:24am On Feb 16, 2022
lecturer50:
I have observed that males in their late thirties and early forties can easily say NO to sex.

As in, they may interact with females and do not think of sleeping with her.

Even if the lady is very beautiful and wants sex with the man, he can easily refuse or delay it. And the surprising thing is that they have more opportunities to sleep with women,
So I noticed too

unlike the males in their twenties and early thirties who are always looking for sex which they won't even find. Such an irony!



People in late thirties and early forties tends to be more focused and self fulfilled, and tend to discover that Sex is not that important.


I don't mean those who are chronic sex addict. I am talking about a normal somebody.

(As in, those males who are chronic sex addict, even if they are 100 years, they can still rape their great grand daughters to satisfy themselves. So I am not talking about those kind of males.)


My observation though.
RomanceRe: With The Level Of Hookups And Runs Going On In Lagos, How Do Men Get Married? by edunaragold(f): 1:00pm On Feb 14, 2022
luizpippo:
A bag of rice is 26k, while fish and meat are sky high.
Normal office work for most females is 35k tops per month while transportation from it is around 15k.

But some charges 10 to 15k for short time which may not be up to 4 hours, remove TP from it and if they get this 3 times in a week, then you think they would want to do any white or blue collar job when red collar job is more profitable?

Some even gets satisfied by the guy. Laughing

Imagine runs girl expecting to be sucked and wants to cum!!!!
EducationRe: Unic Vilos Teacher Flogs 2-Year-Old Pupil Who Could Not Recite English Alphabet by edunaragold(f): 3:00pm On Feb 11, 2022
Madam you no go withdrew your kid
TravelRe: Which Country Do You Wish To Migrate To? by edunaragold(f): 2:58pm On Feb 11, 2022
Jerusalema
RomanceRe: Help, My Roommates Hate Me So Much Because Of My Looks. What Can I Do? by edunaragold(f): 6:57pm On Feb 10, 2022
Senomi:
Bros comot that ur number jor
,omo if bolanle like better things na who come b me na,lol
RomanceRe: Help, My Roommates Hate Me So Much Because Of My Looks. What Can I Do? by edunaragold(f): 6:06pm On Feb 10, 2022
Brownygold002:
Hey, Nairalanders

Something has really been eating me up, I think I need to share. I'm a young gal of about more than 17, I'm brown, tall, slim, have a long curly hair (I'm from a mixed race - Lebanon and Nigeria), brown eyes and nice lips I'm endowed (no be mouth).

I'm a fresher at UNIZIK. I know I am attractive which I don't deny, I don't boast nor make anyone feel inferior. I have 3 roommates. I respect them cos I'm the youngest amongst them. But they don't seem to get along with me. I have tried everything I Can.

Each time we go out, I'm usually the center of attraction which is not new to me, nothing special. They just hate me. I don't boast. I try 2 look as simple as possible. But guys do come for me and they get jealous.

I have tried talking to them but they said they're fine but deep down I know they don't like me. The other day they intentionally frustrated me, they hid my assignments and burnt a new gown a guy at church got me. I'm tired of all these attitude everyday. I feel lyk taking my life, the hate is much. I didn't make myself. Help me guys!!
. Read 48 laws of power and thank me well,08130971314
RomanceRe: Help, My Roommates Hate Me So Much Because Of My Looks. What Can I Do? by edunaragold(f): 6:01pm On Feb 10, 2022
My love try as much as possible to avoid them all,just be who u are and play the perfect courtier,,
HealthRe: Why Are People Still Smoking After Reading This? (Pictures) by edunaragold(f): 4:42pm On Jan 31, 2022
Na smokers Like your post pass even me,I smoke igbo not cigar
CareerRe: Can I Be A Referee For Someone Looking For A Job Where I Work? by edunaragold(f): 4:40pm On Jan 31, 2022
No ,if u will do that know the person house ,but no,or you collect money ,depending on if ur greedy ,but to me no
Nairaland GeneralRe: What‘s That One Thing You Love That You Can Never Outgrow No Matter Your Age? by edunaragold(f): 7:46pm On Jan 29, 2022
Sociality
RomanceRe: What Is The One Thing That Always Gets People Attracted To You? by edunaragold(f): 10:12pm On Jan 22, 2022
MY voice
HealthRe: Having A Heart Problem At The Age Of 28.. I Need Help And Advice by edunaragold(f): 9:17pm On Jan 13, 2022
The fear of the unknown is the beginning of failure
HealthLife Advice,take It Or Die Not Taking It. by edunaragold(op): 3:53pm On Jan 12, 2022
*Recently, A Civil Servant Was Promoted From Grade Level 16, Awaiting Her Level 17 ✉️ Letter And Suddenly, She Had High Blood Pressure Which Resulted in A Coma And The Next Thing We Heard Today is Her Death.*

*It is a tragedy to work your ass off all your life only to pass away in your fondest moments. 'God forbids', I hear you say.*

*� See , we are often got carried away giving our best to life when we forget that we too, deserve the best from us.*

*Beloved, you need to start taking care of your health. Eat good food. Rest very well and take life gently.*

*If you can't build a duplex, build a two-bedroom flat and enjoy yourself.*

*If you have a car thank God, If not, don't kill yourself.*

*� Send your children to schools you can afford. Success does not necessarily tied to big schools. Cut your clothes according to your cloth.*

*Dear, if you can't buy Lace, put on Ankara.*

*If you can't afford designers, slay with Okirika. You can't impress the whole world by wearing expensive clothes. So far you are not wearing rags, my dear, you are doing just fine.*

*� Women , if your husband is misbehaving, try to fix it. But if he refuses to change, pretend as if he doesn't exist.*

*If your wife is not giving you peace of mind, work things out. But after trying your best and no change in sight, neglect her and face your children.*

*If one of your children is frustrating your life after giving him/her proper parenting, pray to God to intercede and do your best and don't give up on them, but if they aren't heeding, don't kill yourself. You did not kill your parents. Did you? They will live fine if you die. Perhaps, the barren also live a happy life!*

*See, if your workload in the office is becoming unbearable, speak out and do the little you can. Just be honest with yourself. Laziness is different from overdoing!*

*If your circle of friends, old school mates or family members are more of a competition rather than encouragement, don't do pass yourself, stay on your lane!*

*If you are amongst people who are full of envy and hatred, edit and exit their midst.*

*If your business folds up or is on the edge of folding up, look only unto God and seek workable solutions. Avoid different terrible advice from family and friends to do juju. Don't be tempted; it never ends well.*

*As long as there is life, there is always hope. Yes! Never compare your life with others. Know this and know peace!*

*And then, when you receive your salary, eat good food and sleep very well.*

*In 2016, a man dropped dead immediately after collecting a thrift of 150k. He was a taxi driver who worked more than a wall clock. The money he saved for six months was lavished by some people who couldn't imagine the hell he went through saving that money.*

*In all my research works, I have come to realize that, your job lives longer than you. And the fact remains that, YOU CAN ALWAYS BE REPLACED.*

*Work hard but don't be worn out. Dress well but don't dress to 'kill'. Rest well before you 'rest in peace'. Sleep well before you wake no more.*

*Once in a while, take yourself out for shopping. Buy yourself gifts. Make yourself happy. Tell yourself nice things. Celebrate your achievements and live life to the fullest.*

*My brother and sister, don't be selfish but PRIORITISE YOURSELF. Hear me well, Problems No Dey Finish!*

*Be contented. Do your best but don't settle for less. Go extra length but never bite more than you can chew.*

*Trivialise your problems and give happiness an edge over worries. You only have this one life to live. Live peacefully so that you can leave peacefully. Put peace of mind above everything! Please!*

*If only you know how life moves quickly, you would thread with care. If only you know how fast dead people are forgotten, you would take a break. If only you know how temporal our stay on this planet is, you would take care of yourself.*

*Whether you like it or not, life will continue with or without you. Remember, the world did not start with your birth and it won't end bywit byh your death!*

*TAKE A BREAK AND MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY WHILE YOU ARE STILL ALIVE , WISHING YOU A PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR.
FamilyRe: What I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by edunaragold(op): 3:47pm On Jan 12, 2022
edunaragold:
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know ,both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them,while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.
Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from,my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes,,but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage,but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.
When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired,leave me alone,pls stop ,etc when I make advance at her ,I tried to find out what is wrong ,I called her attention to it politely,she told me that I was irritating her ,so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop,I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school,she still continued in refusing me,I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her,but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop,
Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet,she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.
After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did ,and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone
Na who sex help,another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me,but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.


Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment ,give your problem wife s sense of refreshment,or let them miss you so they can know what they have.
I even called my pastor to it,and my pastor said allow her to leave ,after 3 weeks ,she is gonna miss you,honestly that is what is happing now.woman can miss somebody without telling the person I miss you .but her characters must show that she miss you,you don't need to beat your wife,but follow her jeje.even if cheating in her back without her knowing just do it, so both you will have peace at home,when you no longer make sexual advancement to her, no body go tell her say she done dey useless for house .when there are many fishes in water.
FamilyWhat I Did When My Wife Refused My Sexual Advancement For 7 Months by edunaragold(op): 3:36pm On Jan 12, 2022
After marriage a lot of people do expect thing to just be fine,they don't know, both couples have,another life challenges ahead of them, while some couples overcame their challenges another couples are planing to break up finally.

Since I discovered I married an Igbo Lady, and after one kid,I later learn were my mistake came from, my only mistake was that I did not set in mind another financial side were my wife would generate incomes, but am working on 3 ways i can generate petty petty income before my salary enters,no perfect marriage, but its how you use endurance to achieved the well beings of the marriage .a lot of times its after marriage that people realized their mistake despite all the marriage plans before the marriage.

When my wife started given me that attitude and excuses of am tired, leave me alone, pls stop, etc when I make advance at her, I tried to find out what is wrong, I called her attention to it politely, she told me that I was irritating her, so I quickly discovered an idle mind is the devils work shop, I tried my best in enrolling her in a catering school, she still continued in refusing me. I would pretend as if am forcing to rap her, but jokingly, she would scream rape!!! Playfully so I would stop.

Sometimes when I come back from work late or spend few times around while in the area, she would think I went to cheat, my wife is somebody that assumes especially when she saw u talking to any woman or greet, she would conclude in her heart that you guys may be dating.

After disturbing me that she wants to relocate to her own state so her business can flourish ,I called her mom to see if they can agree to it which she did, and after much advice from elderly men and woman I later came to my own finally conclusion after doing my + and - because not every advice one takes when seeking for advise ,I gave her some money to go spent time with her mom and what ever she decide she should let me know, I will be sending her some cash every months and the baby till she comes back to her senses.,they are now in the east and I stay in another state alone.

Na who sex help, another 3 ladies are disturbing to come visit me, but I decline them,I no wan cast my beloved marriage but soon i will answer them not now, especially now that am rushing and focusing to complete my house and put some tenant but all works and no play males jack a dull boy.

Now am more relaxed, marriage no b small thing o,its not a do or die affair ,don't kill your self for those you can't pls. A lot of woman change after having kids.

Since my wife left our conversion on phone is even better than when we stayed together. Sometimes you need to give a wife the opportunity to refresh them self as no woman wants to be tied own. Marriages get broken due to lack of refreshment, give your problem wife sense of refreshment, or let them miss you so they can know what they have.
FamilyRe: My Daughter Of 4+ Years Would Not Allow Me And Wife Have Sex At Night by edunaragold(f): 2:41pm On Jan 12, 2022
So so funny ,you guys will not kill me with laugh,pls be mean or shout at her,or be a discipline dad now,do the need full,be aggressive to her or wipe her ,so she can zero it,show her the really daddy side for once ,so she will know daddy's are the finally say and with all obeys. For once put aggression.
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by edunaragold(f): 2:29pm On Jan 12, 2022
edunaragold:
Bro pls never put your self in the sport of blaming your self,my wife too did like yours ,but i just left her.am not in support of u slapping her,but with a big yes she really deserve it,for tempting u to go out side ,so pls be a man ,if u can't put your family together then put you and your child together, u can't change how your wife feels about you but u can bring up your daughter in the ways u want, if your wife is acting funny you are in the right position to deal with her without hurting her, my dad told me that not everything that happened to you or what u do out side you tell your wife.if a wife do not play his part at home ,you play yours and let another woman takes her place secretly without hurting her.you can take a horse to the river but can't force it to drink.
for now ,as you done beg pls lock up,she too make big mistake and she deserve that slap if u look at the annoying side of her.she went too fat.,is like something is disturbing her,may be she tut marrying you,will be making her happy by given her what she ask of,but happily comes from no body but you alone can make your self happy.
CrimeRe: I Regretted My Actions. Please Help Me! by edunaragold(f): 2:24pm On Jan 12, 2022
Bro pls never out your self in the sport of blame ,my wife too did like yours ,but i just left her.am not in support of u slapping her,but with a big yes she really deserve it,for tempting u to go out side ,so pls be a man ,if u can't put your family together then put you and your child together, u can't change how your wife feels about you but u can bring up your daughter in the ways u want, if your wife is acting funny you are in the right position to deal with her without hurting her, my dad told me that not everything that happened to you or what u do out side you tell your wife.if a wife do not play his part at home ,you play yours and let another woman takes her place secretly without hurting her.you can take a horse to the river but can't force it to drink.
FamilyRe: Having A Male Child by edunaragold(f): 3:42pm On Jan 10, 2022
Truthisunique3:
let's not deceive ourselves, most men want male children

It's like reincarnation of yourself

And having someone carry your name too

Caring for parents no be gender thing some male care for parents pass female

Na age 0-13 female girls dey sweet, when they reach 16 boys don dey dice them, it's irritating, some one you nutured been disected
I
My aunty is more use full than his brother, she is now the pillar of the house ,while the guy no even send the papa property he can even sell them out.but its the sister my aunt won't allow DAT.
FamilyRe: Having A Male Child by edunaragold(f): 11:16am On Jan 10, 2022
Me I prefer female child and any one male child ,this days female child now are the manager of wealth more than men,and look at the bright side ,u will see your grand children soon than having a male child that will still be hustling till 40 but a female child will give birth even from 18yrs when she marry.
Be patience ,i have seen females child that are more use full than the male child.
Just put it in prayer and accept any one God gives.
PoliticsRe: 2023: Between Goodluck Jonathan And Bola Ahmed Tinubu by edunaragold(f): 7:09am On Jan 10, 2022
Tinubu na,have u forgotten how he change lagos,people forget so quickly
Nairaland GeneralRe: Stupid Questions To Avoid As A Bachelor Or Spinster by edunaragold(f): 11:27am On Jan 09, 2022
Robisky001:
What is the end point of this thread?
is like one girl broke his heart. When a man has not achieved much to be thank full to God ,his ideology will remain this way.if you like don't struggle to do 3 of those you wrote. When you are old,u go hear ram hot.
PoliticsRe: Osasu Igbinedion Gets Engaged (Video) by edunaragold(f): 10:20am On Jan 08, 2022
dollynnn:
Men are still kneeling to propose?
Wonderful!
the guy is a dwarf na
InvestmentPls What UBA Account Is Good For My 1yr Old son. by edunaragold(op): 4:55pm On Jan 06, 2022
So my son has clock 1yr and I would love to open a fix account for her that will be deducted from my salary every month for 18 yrs.God keep us alive .pls any UBA officer here.
EventsRe: Man Buried On His Wedding Day In Cross River State (Photos) by edunaragold(f): 3:46pm On Dec 31, 2021
Is he supposed to get married at this age,rip sir

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