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I just close from duty,I never reach house 3 puna dey call me this night ,am thanking God I won't perform duty on 31 st nights happy new yr eve.mean while nkechi and amaka will hear it hot in tree some. Chicken style loading. I am cuming ,am coming .....

I still thank God am an average man,but we don't know your own percentage, Mr single guy, your penis is just a waste of time ,u only use it to piss not having kids,if money no gree come then get married bro,stop insult.

Igbo people can marry late oo,

10 ways to sleep with a hard to get lady

Every marriage has its ups and down but,the joy I felt as a man having a child has change the way I think,I usually feel silent joy seeing my daughter walking gradually has she is now one,kids brings silent joy to parents. My salary was 71k but immediately I marry I now earn 150k,so when I retired after 35 yrs, by his grace I will have trained 2 of my kids .its a joy to give birth on time ,so when u are older or in sickness time your kids will be by you to care for u,seriously single people won't know that joy of being a parent.

What arw u doing with her since ,can't u marry her or do introduction ,marry her when she takes in then open a business for her ,a real man don't put a lady in a business without marriage or pregnancy. They can fyck up well well na.

FASASI1:
We have two types of mamba we have the green mamba and the black mamba but this is not a mamba but it's a boomslang, you can tell from the eyeballs if it was a green mamba it will have a coffin head like shape nevertheless a boomslang is not a snake you should mess with because a bite from it will cause internal bleeding

Bro na true

Omo na green mamba oo,kill it

Give the poor woman a break sometimes,woman really needs a brake after kids wahala for yrs.hey its Christmas already.

Na the nose u go take know or mouth or face ,I trust my blood ,they must look like me na

Bro what is your problems na,as her if it's yours if she say no move on,your sperm no dey finish ,since u na flex man,she na marriage she wants


Woman are funny o,another guy dey nack her steady while another new bf that marry her was waiting till after marriage

If I could turn the hands of time back,I would have bought 5 plot of land here in Kaduna ,now a plot there is like 4million. What about u.

So it all started 4yrs ago when I could not give up on her but endured till I got her , I love all about this fair lady and while having sex ,sorry to say,she mess and I was like damn girl,that's gonna make me go 3 round more ,and we both laughed and had great times,she cooked for me ,and all was fun ,I guess if she never messed in your side pls check her ,she dey pretend oooo.��������may God bless our beautiful gf especially the ones we called besty.

AND O TUT ONE MUMU IGBO PERSON HERE ONCE TOLD ME NOTHING LIKE THAT IN EASTERN SIDE .

Oga pls calm down ,woman plenty,a woman is a woman even I'd she be Mrs president ,or she is the first person to go to abroad ,did u know how many girls she has Bleep in Ukraine, pls leave that thing ,and are u guys married, until u marry her she be your gf,so take what anything u see,sometimes I pity navy personnel that are always leaving their wives away.bros marry her first .before I can give u good answer.

Although not all marriage works out but ,I have seen even the wrong marriage obtain one form of blessings or another.
So I got only one land in Lagos while I was single but until I took that bold step and got married, was when I knew marriage is a blessings,
I got another land .
My wife put to beg a beauty baby girl.
Started build to lintel level.
Soon I will start to call my self a land Lord .


I know marriage is not easy,pls people don't be afraid ,I tut I was investing while single only to spend more ,but when i married my eyes opened, that even having a baby can bring "SILENT JOY". but if couples know what they are doing ,you could start like me.marriage is indeed a blessings, I rejoice in my heart when I see my own child,if u are single and stagnant,then plan a lil and marry ,trust me power must change hand if both of u are not lazy. Soon I will be buying a car,and building again.
Aunty/brother ,if any one say make u no marry or you are afraid things will get worst its a big lie oo,especially when you are working hard and smart.,they will tell you don't marry o,woman or man are this or that ,but its the same people that is having that silent joy when they see their own kids ,so don't mind them ,show me a fine beans and I will show u another beans that has beetle inside it and people still cook and eat it together, which marriage way no get problems, but the kids will console u.no marriage is perfect even pastors own are the worst.
The Hausas and Yorubas are one of the people that will see their kids grown older before they die,while many Igbo parents will die and their kids are still 10yr and 6yr due to they did not marry on time but business means a lot, how will your lil kids take care of that your business if business before pleasure always and you die .pls marry on time once u have the opportunities, don't wait for any one time dey go.marry who is ready to marry.just watch and see your blessings will come some how.

He has justified the slap with having sex or dating another lady so he now place his 50/50 no cheating.

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Favfables1:
OP hinted that she has a sewing machine and she is a fashion designer...
If she truly was a Hustler she should have made plans to maximize the use of that sewing machine... Maybe look for a place that she can merge with or keep her machine outside her house ((depending on the location)) and let people know she sews...

Or she can go out there and get her hands dirty by looking for something to do...

Women have to stop this stupid mentality that it is my husband's responsibility to set me up, that's trash and archaic, can't they set them self up before getting married?? I'm not against men setting their wives up or something, buh while the man is doing his best, she too should do hers!!

Only the man will provide money for food, money for house rent, money for clothes, money for child upkeep, money for this....money for that... And the lady will sit at home nagging and screaming that the husband is not doing enough, when she is clearly not doing anything (money wise) to help the home...

And besides, why her change of attitude?? Did she not agree to be patient until OP builds their house?? What kind of indecisiveness is that one?? Can't she follow through with the decision she has made??

Thank u so much u said it all,why do woman feels like its the responsibility of a husband to always make them happy.

Offpoint:
Thread for the females....

If I was a lady and a pastor sexually harassed me or make an attempt, I won't quit his church. I will go there everyday and sat on the front row, look for a seat that faces him straight. I will sit there every Sunday and do nothing but stare at him..... I swear he'll be going off keys and on keys.

that's his punishment, I'll torment him...
There are sundays I'll take the mic and I will be like "There's something I want to say about the man of God, something I've been shouldering all these while. something some of you may know and some may not... many will doubt it but it's the truth.... I want to let the whole congregation know OUR PASTOR IS A GOOD MAN OF GOD"

yeah, imagine what he would have gone through for that few seconds

This one na another mad person ooo hahah

BRATISLAVA:
You will need to check the guys character. There is something she saw that made her say no.


We once had such a thread on the forum asking ladies why they turned down marriage proposals. Truth is that men need to work on their characters, too.

Sometimes the problem is with the men. For instance a lady who wants to get married as a virgin. So many guys will come and go until she meets the one who is patient who she desires. Meanwhile onlooking men will say she is beautiful but old and unmarried and how they have gotten married and have children. That she's choosy etc

Life is more complex than what we think and see.

Like the guy Bard head ,most girls this days are choosy ,but can only pretend, they alone knows when to defect once u proposed

So I eventually used that 500k and got married to my I wife, instead of another land but immediately she took in after given birth she change ,I mean the woman that once told me not to buy sofa or couch but plastic chairs for now ,but get a land and build,I was like thank God the woman I married is a good woman oo, hahahaha.
Fast forward to how I kept on explaining to her that for now let's managed and move to our own house before the next rent, my wife was like wait a min dude,u mean u will be building your house and u are telling me a fashion designer and a boss in my job which I relocated from East to west due to marriage,to seat here for 2 yrs doing nothing or serving u and taking care of the house and baby before u could save a gain and established my business. I don't think so,,OK I said for now motivate your self ,with your sawing machine and let's look for another skills u can combined with the one u have before ,,after gaining that knowledge, what next again, she still insist rebeling on me that she can't be patience for 2 yrs oo, bla bla bla ,...........if that's the case as we are managing so we can move to our own house as soon as possible then y didn't u buy built before coming to marry me ,I was like were u not the one that said we can hustle together or mange, bla bla bla hahahhahahahha

MY POINT IS THAT

Pls my advice to those aspiring to get married is that ,be the man of your house, wedda u built before marry or u married before building ,or your woman has a skill or learn a trade or has nothing doing,marry her first o,pregnant her sharply immediately because if u find a job for her or train her in sch or paid for her to learn a skill or trade and she disappointed u or meet jamb another person better than u,bro that's were u will know that even money can buy standard woman want they start getting confuse. ,woman na woman oo, they must give u one problems or another,but as a man pls be very carefully of the type of pressure u put in your woman oo, through, if your pressure or heat is too much ,it's bulged a woman only very few,can never bulge. For example give a woman 1m tomorrow she will still tell u that ,what is 1m,the money that is not even enough,is papa emeka not given mama emeka 5m.so oga don't do pass your self ,the hand u start with a woman ,is also the hand that will cost u problems with the hand change or is now managing,mind how u start up or how u carry your woman. They only get satisfy after a while .in sex u can't always pls a woman like wise money .but few woman that has pass through good mother's will always endured and be Patience ,not like our girls of now adays who are desperate and ambitious than we the men,a real man don't always pls a woman no matter the heavens that falls,they wise to marry or congratulates their friends, but a lot don't have the patience marriage needs .

I always laugh when I came to understand that marriage needs serious endurance .

[quote author=mascot345 post=108025263]Please I just clocked 35 years two days ago.
I have money to get married but I wan build small estate before marriage.

I wan marry at 40 .

Please I need good advice here. As our economy is too bad. I don't want to bring children that will come and suffer.
People are seriously advicing me to marry next year.
I already have land in a good location.

But some of my girlfriends are encouraging me to marry them before building anything.

My girlfriend said we can hustle together and build a better tomorrow.

I have like 3 girls who are willing to say yes next year.

Please g. Big lies,when money no dey come woman dey always rebellion

BRATISLAVA:
Clearly men are more obsessed with marriage than women are.

In a nutshell, you believe men can be picky but women dare not. You're not a beautiful woman so all you can do is assume the fault lies with such a woman. It's easy to blame her for why you couldn't get her. You couldn't possibly be the problem.

Same men who say beautiful women cannot be wives, due to some silly assumptions, so they marry the ugly ones who they feel they can control.

Most men are scared of beautiful women and know there is competition. Everything comes with a price, but many don't and cannot pay it. It has nothing to do with beautiful women, because if trash men keep approaching her, she has a right to turn them down the same way a man would refuse to marry someone he thinks is a bad woman.

Beautiful women don't have to agree to marry you just because you're a man and she should be desperate to.

u are somehow right dear but,what about a case were by the man jaa been so patience for 4yrs with the relationship and the lady was on a bench warmer ,immediately the guy was ready ,I mean what dose it take for that lady to say yes I will marry u ,after the guy have spent 4 good yrs chasing this lady with all humblness but the lady still decline.

A woman that says she is beautiful and ready to marry but the men are not coming only lies.

Tell me about it?

You see, a beautiful woman always loves handsome men, looks aren't enough to alot of woman.

Imagine a romantic caring young guy with a good job but has a bald head, loving and caring for a fair and beautiful woman he wishes to marry, only for her to turn down the offer. Years later, the guy is married to another lady and they both have beautiful kids, but the same lady is still single.

I always ask my self why, but in her phone lots of guys are always calling her. Most girls go for looks.

So any lady that says she is beautiful and still single never ready I beg; and why is it that lots of ugly girls or the girls that aren't beautiful are always the first to get married? You do the maths and me.

Mexyz:
Hian, so your own orientation about marriage is so that you have your own children to send on errands?
Wonders

the day I got married was the day I felt like a real man ,seeing my own kid gives me silent joy that only a parent can understand. No marry stay there,10yrs coming will say if u regret it or not .

No marry stay there ,when u begin sending another woman pikin message ,and she worns u never to send her child again ,and u feel bad,that's when u will discover there is joy in marriage

I did not hear an Igbo person saying no ooo,nothing pile that ,its peaceful here,Igbos like covering there people,even while they are being killed by ipob.they still want Nigeria to split

Once beaten twice shy

Is she the one.
My New Girlfriend Went Back To Her Abusive Ex Boyfriend by 22o62021: 7:48am
We bonded so well together, she is an NYSC member. She told me that she has a boyfriend but she has called off their relationship because the guy has beaten her twice. The first time , the guy did it in front of his mother to the extent that she lost a tooth. And spent days in the hospital

The second time the guy slapped her because she told him that he comes home late.
She said the guy is a serial cheat, she has caught him on different occasions.

They dated for 6 years. But the guy will not accept the break up. Their families knows each other.

I have her the love she deserved, pampered her so well. I told her that I know she will go back to the guy one day, she said nooo I can’t do that.

One week after I said that to her. The guy was calling and pleading. She stopped picking my calls. I stopped calling her.

I sent her a text to know what is going on. She said it’s not what I think.

I said fine. I deleted her numbers and move on.

This is to say that most girls are confused.
I think they prefer abusive men but on the internet They rebuke them.

Wow ,I love this ,Igbo killing Igbo, this is were I say igboamaka,after if its North they will say so many evils,did I here an Igbo man say IMO state is peaceful oo,I don't like north