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FamilyRe: Stereotype About Only Sons by efavour: 3:31pm On Feb 25, 2020
VICTORCIZA:
The number one issue is that only son normally die earlier (don't get me wrong because it not your portion in ijn) reason is that the eyes of the enemies is always on them.
but when there plenty boys the enemies will be confused who to channel their arsenal first and most time it will be on the first son.
I use to fear dating them only son too, I react same way your girlfriend reacted too.I fear that once they are successful them village people and extended family enemies can do away with them and no one to protect the wife and kids. Or if they die premature, no grown Male like brother in law to protect the family. My dad died not too long but with plenty brothers like that, we don't look for who to represent us when a man is needed. If na only son, na to pray make nothing happen to him till children old and you both go almost same time. Na my own opinion oh.
RomanceRe: In A Relationship With A Single Mom; Please Advise by efavour: 11:58pm On Feb 24, 2020
LOGOBELT:
I can't believe this comment is from a woman
Don't mind her, like it's all fathers that abandon their child. What would say of those single mothers that their baby daddies actually want their child and take responsibility?
CrimeRe: Kidnapper, Okechukwu Uche's House Burnt Down In Imo by efavour: 5:50pm On Feb 21, 2020
PastorAmotekun:
They should have sold the house and share the proceeds to the kidnap victims
who will buy the house? It's better they bring it down and render everything to ashes including the kidnap king himself
HealthRe: Marathon Sex: The Evil Of 'Harder! Harder' by efavour: 12:19am On Feb 17, 2020
JasonScoolari:
Like I said last year and I will say again,



"I don’t owe any girl orgasm, once i cum, i cum. We both started the same time.
I’ll leave the dick for you sha, if you like ride it, bend on it, jump on it, it’s your problem, HUSTLE for your orgasm.

I can't come and kill myself because I want to go 2hrs on top of a pussy".


https://www.nairaland.com/5115552/tramadol-3-futo-students-die#77247922
clown
CelebritiesRe: Oge Ezeonu Weds Remi John: Ngozi Ezeonu's Daughter's Wedding Pictures by efavour: 11:13pm On Feb 16, 2020
SultanOfAbia:
On Behalf of We The "Lonely Nairaland Feminists"(L.N.F)
We Announce that We Are Sorry For Calling Men SCUM
We Realized How Depressed,Angry, Bitter and Useless We Have Been All These Years..
Please Come and Marry Us
I bet you don't have a wife sef,mr menist , very soon you will be 50 and still be okokporo.
EducationRe: Help, I'm Afraid I Could Be Expelled From School After 3 Years by efavour: 11:30am On Feb 13, 2020
BabaOwen:
Let me tell you the truth, without jamb admission letter, you're just wasting your time. After you graduate, when you wan start clearance, nah then you will understand me.
Nawaoh, Is this same for all school.does school still offer direct entry into some courses? Is direct entry possible for those that didn't write jamb? My brother who has completed 3 years in School of health for lab tech has been given direct entry into university to study med lab. He has already started oh , Does it mean it's invalid cos it's not from jamb.
CelebritiesRe: Chioma And Davido Storm Dubai Club by efavour: 2:50am On Feb 03, 2020
ablemachine:
Calling her my bittchh??
so? They are in a club and having fun, she can be his bitch there, at home he can be his wife, mama ifeanyi and whatever fits their fancy, for bedroom, if he wants a LovePeddler, she will become one. I don't know what this couple do una. So Davido should go get another bitch to go club with?
CelebritiesRe: Chioma And Davido Storm Dubai Club by efavour: 2:46am On Feb 03, 2020
Kendumazy:
Go for what fit your lifestyle. Imagine chioma to be someone that cannot gbe body. She would be at home while davido will carry another lady go Dubai. Stay woke!

Let's handle your ebay/Amazon orders. Check my signature below for more details.
am telling you oh, infact na every dey she go dey cry for home .
EducationRe: Can A Person Lose His Sanity Due To Excess Reading? by efavour: 8:26pm On Jan 29, 2020
ojaysam25:
Hello Nairalanders

This issue has been bothering me for a while now......I had this friend who during our school days was so brilliant,in fact this friend of mine wrote his common entrance at primary 4....at jss1 he wrote his junior WAEC....

Back them we nickname him The "guru"....There was no time I visited him at home,that I wouldn't see him reading,this guy can read from morning till night.....though I was irritated with his attitude but I kept on admiring him because there is nothing in this world that this guy don't know....there is no words in the dictionary that is new to him... he was respected among our peers.....

Suddenly, he was no longer communicating with us with plain English,any small question will always be meant with grammar.. In fact this guy will go to the market to buy something and will begin to communicate with the market people with grammar...they we just be looking at him like a madman...

Then,one fateful day according to his mother,he ran out with a dictionary screaming "loquacious"all effort to calm him was in vain
the guy is in the asylum right now.....

This episode has left me confuse.....expert in the house can you help me out.....

CAN A PERSON LOSE HIS SANITY DUE TO EXCESSIVE READING?? Its It's possible, the brain can break down with too much activity just like any machine, I worked in assisted living, I noticed that most of the elderly people that has alzheimers are mostly top top professionals, heart surgeons, profs etc, all those professions that require serious mental activity, those activities stresses out the brain.while the ordinary people will still be alert even in their 90s.
Foreign AffairsRe: Protests In Tehran After Iran Admits Shooting Down Plane by efavour:
fydence:
There must be more to this crash I doubt it was an accident..but I'm no accident investigator

However, if it was an accident...na so Iran wn take fight US and Israel so? Only to bomb two empty bases una don dey make mistake shoot civilian aircraft..
I dey tell you oh, some of this nations just have mouth oh. US singled out just a man among many and got him and IRAN misidentify an air plane that took off from their own airport. Its is so funny, the way they are going, they will nuke their whole country just in trying to test their nuke sef. It's like an amateur fumbling to shoot, they might inadvertently kill their self sef.
FamilyRe: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by efavour: 3:12pm On Jan 11, 2020
stupidity:
grin grin


Here’s my plan. I’ll date you, we’ll have kids and live like married couples. When we get to 60s, 70s, and I discover you are indeed a wife material and you did not mess up, I’ll go pay your bride price and we do our marriage officially. In a grand style. By then sef money go boku. All my friends go don turn politicians and CEOs by then. Enough money to steal and spray at our grand style wedding.

Everywhere good grin
So you actually think life revolves around you? Like she has no choice, no plan for her future or what's she wants it to look like but to tag along with you and take whatever rubbish you think fit?
FamilyRe: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by efavour: 3:09pm On Jan 11, 2020
Rawtruth1:
BEWARE of divorced women and single mothers. Ask questions why the legs that went there ran away. They are deep ditches waiting to swallow the gullible
If only you know,most divorced women ran away from useless husband.
FamilyRe: I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regularly by efavour: 3:06pm On Jan 11, 2020
streetsoldier1:
BroZ, no matter how sweet your gbola is, someone who is messed up will always mess up. Never should any guy think he is going to make any messed up woman change and behave better!!!
And now that you are messed up Kwanu? You think a single girl would fix up?
RomanceRe: Woman Attacks Lady At Ikeja Mall For Trying To Snatch Her Husband From Her by efavour: 4:36pm On Jan 09, 2020
therealMcCain:
Marked by what? is Ese Walter not married?

You cant try that with some ladies, una go die there. That woman achieved nothing, absolutely nothing. Even if she backs off, another will take her place, how many is she going to confront?

The video is already on Social Media, that lady can get the woman arrested for assault.

lastly, such actions usually draw the man closer to the sidechic.
If only you men know, what in the world makes you think that that side chic wants to marry the man? She is there only for what she can get, she has no intention of being in marriage with that man. Most men make this costly error only to learn the hard way.
RomanceRe: Woman Attacks Lady At Ikeja Mall For Trying To Snatch Her Husband From Her by efavour: 2:35pm On Jan 08, 2020
greenguy:
Chai, the kind of race this young lady will pick ehnn when she sees the man again!

Women have every right to ATTACK (in Donald Trump's voice) anyone encroaching on their territory. Surely she must have accosted the man before now, but since that pus.sy keeps calling him back then the pus.sy must FALL.
yes, good she is disgraced.they should have videoed her very well so her market fall kpatakpata. Am sure she was warned but she refused to listen. React or not she is marked for life. Video saved until I see her pre wedding pics.
PropertiesRe: Tallest Building In South-East In Umuchukwu, Anambra (Photos) by efavour: 1:15am On Dec 31, 2019
AkeNathan:
That facility will not be financially viable for average Nigerian national.

Unless they expect wealthy Nigerians domiciled in Lagos/Abuja to leave foreign Hospitals for a one in Anambra State grin

I laugh in Ebonyi dialect
If he attracts quality foreign doctors and the research facility is well equipped and I guess it will be getting international aids, then people can go to that place you call remote. John's Hopkins hospital, the main the main is located in a very bad place in Baltimore, a crime ridden area that they have to have their own police.yet people come all over the world to it. They are not moving instead buying more run down neighboring houses and expanding. World leaders both from in and out swallow their pride and come down to the poor people abode to be seen and treated.
RomanceRe: My Wonderful Relationship Is About To Suffocate by efavour: 3:11am On Dec 04, 2019
Ghostfaze:
Kindly approve to the homepage, mods.


Hello everyone.
I have an unusual issue at hand and it's really giving me a headache.

I have a girlfriend I met in August this year when I traveled to my state from Abuja. She's beautiful, a graduate, and she's everything I have ever wished to have in a woman or so I once believed.

I loved her and our relationship was going to lead to marriage.

After we met in August I traveled back to Abuja and a few months later her NYSC call up came. She told me about it and we planned that she will serve in Abuja. I paid one NYSC man to work her posting but unfortunately, she was posted to another Northern state.

On her way to the state where she was posted she stopped over at my place in Abuja on the 3rd of November, That night we had sex without a condom and after the sex, I gave her a pregnancy prevention drug tablet I had collected from a doctor.

She refused to take the drugs not until after much persuasions. The next morning, some thick blood mixed with water started coming out of her and she was also having stomach pains so I called the doctor that gave me the drugs and he said we should come to his hospital.

We got to the hospital and after explaining to him what happened the doctor said she was already pregnant before taking the drugs that's why her body reacted that way to the drugs.

She denied that she's pregnant and eventually she had to undergo a pregnancy scan. The result came out negative but the doctor kept on insisting that she was pregnant and that the reason why the result came out negative is because of the drugs she took and how young the pregnancy is.

She left for home angrily that day and I had to beg her to forget whatever it is that happened.

A few days later she left for NYSC camp in the state where she was posted. After two weeks she started complaining to me that she's been feeling cold, hungry, and sleepy often than she used to.

I told her that it could be because of the change of weather and the approaching harmattan season. While she was in camp I was working for her to be reposted back to Abuja and somehow she didn't want to serve in Abuja again. She wasn't really open to me about that but she was subtly letting me know of her desires.

Finally, her reposting worked out and she came down to Abuja three days ago. Today she told me that she wants to go for a pregnancy test and I obliged and escorted her to another hospital different from the one we previously went to the first time she came to Abuja.

After the test and scan, the result said she's 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant. We went to another hospital and the result came out the same.

Remember that I first had sex with her on the 3rd of November. Tomorrow will make it a month I had sex with her but she's already 6 weeks and 2 days pregnant.

I could not understand why she should be 6 weeks pregnant when it's not been up to 4 weeks I had sex with her. I have asked her to tell me if she slept with someone else earlier before she came to Abuja but she has maintained that she did not.

I have equally asked the two doctors we met today plus a few other doctors I spoke with on the phone if they think that I'm responsible for the pregnancy but their answers are all contradicting.

Now I'm confused. She's in my house, with a child I'm certain does not belong to me. I don't know what to do. I'm really really confused. Please, any mature advice would be gladly appreciated.

Thank you!
married, never cheated, each time I got pregnant, I always go for test immediately and it's usually say 6 weeks. I once asked the dr that I had my period like a month ago. He explained to me that eggs are usually like up to two weeks old before fertilization and that adds to the age of the fertilized embryo. Again, I lost a few weeks pregnancy, went to test and I still showed positive because the pregnancy hormone will still be in your system even 2 weeks after loosing pregnancy. So if no pregnancy was detected when she had the first bleeding, then she was never pregnant. Any ways, warn her strictly that you will carry out DNA on the child after delivery because of the circumstances surrounding the conception cos you both were not living together then. And do it to have rest of mind.
RomanceRe: 'I Hate It When A Lady Drinks Beer' - Man Says But Got These Reactions by efavour: 8:33pm On Nov 30, 2019
itsme01:
cool


thats his harmless choice na, some women want tall dark and handsome but this dude only hate a beer drinking woman

we all have a right to our prefrences

as for me i cant date a lady who dont drink, i cant be drinking and you watch like an housegirl
Don't mind world people. I hate men that smoke and bleach. Everyone have something they hate abeg.



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FamilyRe: Help! Family Planning Keeps Failing Us, She Is Pregnant Twice This Year by efavour: 3:56am On Oct 29, 2019
gabazin080:
what's the essence of family planning if one can't enjoy it raw
go do vasectomy when you ready, you go reverse am
PoliticsRe: Aisha Buhari: I Cannot Confirm Or Deny Buhari’s Rumoured Marriage, Not My Duty by efavour: 9:54pm On Oct 15, 2019
judgementyard:
All na wash grin
RomanceRe: My Fiancée Works But She Prefers I Pay Her Bills by efavour: 1:46pm On Sep 30, 2019
Ahmed0336:
What are you still doing in that relationship? OP kindly walk away she's an extortionist.

Where are these feminists on nairaland at angry
Well, sincebyou guys are talking marriage, I suggest you guys hash out financial part of the house first. Speak up now and hash it out so it won't come and scatter marriage after. Ask her what she thinks on husband and wife contribution at home considering that both works. Who gets what Bill's at home when you both are eventually married. Please these bills sharing is different from gifts you give to each other. You both must learn the act of supporting each other when one is down financially cos anyone can loose their job. She needs to lhave it at back of her mind before marriage begins oh. After sorting that, you can let her be till you put a ring on it , but before you do, don't go trying to impress her, do things you can out of love and not because you're obligated to take care of her. She is not your wife yet. Just show her that you love her with little things and not big big money.This is my own opinion oh.
PoliticsRe: Ike Ekweremadu Eats Local Yam In Enugu (Photos) by efavour: 1:33pm On Sep 30, 2019
festacman:
IPOB ntooooor! Ike Ekweremadu has finally eaten a new yam. And he did it with his red cap and a smile.
hahaha, why he no wear coat of Nigeria lol. This is so funny
CelebritiesRe: Sophia Momodu Poses With Her Daughter, Imade And Tiwa Savage’s Son Jamil (Photo) by efavour: 10:08pm On Sep 28, 2019
GraGra247:
Men the amount of paint these women dump on their face sha!!

Easily puts me off. Yet Sofia is naturally okay so why all the paint. Anyway I'm not among her targeted audience so what am I even saying.
na only paint you see? You no see that wiliwili she gum for her head and call wig? Overdo dey worry her. Who pums with for hair, draw am nearly reach eyes sef
PoliticsRe: Buhari's Daughter, Zahra Meets With Bill Gates At UN General Assembly by efavour: 11:09pm On Sep 27, 2019
AroleOduduwa2:
She was there as what exactly.
We like to imitate after all Ivanka attends all the world meeting with Trump
CareerRe: My Boss Asked Security To Throw Me Out Because I Asked For My Money by efavour: 10:48pm On Sep 21, 2019
Bari22:
Some people are wicked


And then I agree to the poster below me, there are three sides to every story, his side, her side, and the truth. Let's wait for the truth to come out
Forget it, not in Nigeria. I have worked for someone like that who employed people market his freight company with a verbal amount of remuneration. After some weeks, he sacked some that they are not bringing in business which was not part of the contract. These young people have invested their little savings into transportation thinking they will get some form of payment back but was left high and dry. He took their leads and follows it up.there was no side to the story. He felt he conned them.its rampant in Nigeria
HealthRe: Help! Am I HIV Positive? by efavour: 1:37am On Sep 20, 2019
Starke:
I am a young professional sharing a room and parlour self contain with a friend. Now my friend has always been in the habit of bringing all sorts of girls to the house. This is a conduct which I have tried my best to ignore in order to allow peace to reign.

At some point he brought this particular girl and she stayed for sometime with us. From my conversations with her, she has an impressive body count and really dislikes condoms. At some point, she became very sick. Had white patches in her mouth and was very feverish. We had to take her to the hospital so she doesn't die in the house. The Doctor ran several tests on her and her HIV status was positive.

About a week later, I took my laptop to work and when I returned, I dipped my hands in the bag to retrieve my key only to be severely cut by a razor blade my roommate left in the bag. I asked him who owns it and he said he it belongs to the girl and he put it there hoping to dispose of it later. My heart bled. I rushed that night at about 9:45pm to Ikoyi military hospital to get PEP, but the hospital said I have to wait until the next day as the pharmacy had closed. The next morning at about 11:00am, after a lot of delay, I finally got the anti retroviral drugs.

Now after taking the drugs for about 3 days, the side effects were terrible and unbearable. I already had a subsisting kidney problem and the drugs was making it worse so I had to stop. What I want to know is what are my chances if I permanently discontinue the drugs? Am I going to seroconvert? I am scared shitless and if this happens to make me HIV+, I am seriously considering suicide.

Pls help me people.

Pls help me to move this post. I need to get as much input as possible.
Bros calm down abeg. Did you explain what happened and how it happened before they gave you the drug? Did you ask the girl what she did with the razor and when it was last use, I mean calculate it very well cos HIV virus don't stay outside human body for long.if na like that we that stick and draw blood for don carry am taya. For all I know, you no get anything and even that treatment we went for is unnecessary q
CelebritiesRe: Iyabo Ojo Slammed With Tax Of N38 Million By Lagos Government by efavour: 9:58am On Sep 13, 2019
martineverest:
please don't compare USA with Lagos.... do u even know that American government tax their citizens far more than what Nigerian government tax...the tax that average American celebrities pay is far more than. income of Nigerian yeyebrities.. naija yeyebrities escape tax especially flaunting their wealth online...u don't try that in America without 6being taxed heavily
The some of you talk is laughable, American government don't impose tax based on what you flaunt online or offline. It's based on fact, it's easy to find out how much a person or a business makes as a profit. It's based on provable fact. Even issues like the cost of doing business are also deductibles.
TravelRe: Uber Bans A Driver For Throwing Lesbian Couple Out Of Her Car In New Jersey by efavour: 7:10pm On Sep 11, 2019
Sicksoul:
I don't know if I'm the only one that felt so damn cool with these set of people. People shouldn't be judged because of their sexual orientation, in as much both parties consented to it. Lesbianism is not a sin to some while gay is an abomination.
Most people act of ignorance or follow follow, I live in western world and work daily with them, no one notices anyone or cares. We interact like normal people so I don't even understand what the phobia is?
SportsRe: Serena Williams Vs Bianca Andreescu: US Open 2019 Tennis Final by efavour: 9:31pm On Sep 07, 2019
Carbon2Oxide:
Nerves
yeah, I pray she axe this. It will go along way in restoring her confidence. Having a baby took alot out her, I mean every woman.
SportsRe: Serena Williams Vs Bianca Andreescu: US Open 2019 Tennis Final by efavour: 9:29pm On Sep 07, 2019
greggng:
Serena should let go and retire ...she should all the young to grow....
my friend go sit down, how has her playing stopped them from growing? Abi you just want to talk
PoliticsRe: Godwin Maduka Donates Judiciary Complex To Anambra, Obiano Reacts by efavour: 9:22pm On Sep 03, 2019
[quote author=BIAFRONIGERIAN post=81881196]More of this, I'm presently working on establishing a world standard rice farm/processing mill in partnership with my Thai associates in the swampy areas around my small village. Alaigbo must develop whether they want it or not. shocked[/quote good one bros, abeg make una add lectures on modern rice farming too.
FamilyRe: Most Marriages Illegal, As Only 314 Worship Centres Have Licence To Conduct Wedd by efavour: 7:31pm On Jul 24, 2019
stzy:
Carry your traditional marriage go court for divorce and see whether they will listen to you

that's why women will be scared of being thrown out of the house coz the law won't back them .. why?... you only paid bride price to the village elders so if issues arise you must go back to them to settle it
say what you know, customary court handles traditional divorce. I have seen few. Even at the main court during inheritance cases, traditional marriage is fully recognized

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