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Sagamite:
Happy New Year, babes.

And Happy New Year to you too

ifyalways:
@Emboldened, hehehe.
Happy new year babes.

Happy New Year to you too dear

Mimzyy:
Will you please post a link of the supposed modified version? A copy n paste will aid you in your search. Not a line of this is plagiarized. The entire content is exclusively mine. Thanks.

I don't have to.

zayhal:
Not really plagiarized but appears like a recycled version of a popular story about two friends. One has a loving husband but she's not happy in the marriage. Seeks her friend's advise and the friend poisons her mind against her hubby, taught her silly things to do and how she takes no nonsense from her own man and how her man worships her.

The bubble burst the day friend 1 leaves her house to friend's house and at the entrance overhears curses and beatings from the supposedly perfect husband to the no-nonsense wife.

The story is all over the place and your story line is just too similar. I guess this is what madam is saying up there.

You've nailed it, thanks. That's precisely what I'm saying.

We've seen this story several times here. This is simply a modified version of the original.

MrPresident1:
The best lovers are the people who are led by the spirit of God, because God is love, and who ever walks in love walks in God. In the Bible, the man is commanded to love his wife, and love is conceived in thought and expressed in deed. By loving his wife, he can even prolong her shelf-life . How does he show his love, and how does he prolong her shelf-life?

By helping her always, not as a duty, his wife must recognise this, but as an obligation in love. That way, he will ensure that her beauty, and his own too, gets mature together

It is HIS home, and you all are his subjects

This doesn't answer the questions I asked you.

MrPresident1:
I hold the Bible supreme in all matters.

Maybe we need to be more exact in our use of words. The man is the spiritual head of the household, and the woman is his support. If Amelian means it in this wise, then I agree with her. But if she means that a woman can usurp the spiritual role of the man in the house as the head, and things will still be rosy?

I disagree, it does not follow with the Bible

So what has this got to do with a man stepping up and undertaking domestic chores to ensure the smooth running of his home?

Will his performing domestic chores make him less spiritual? Or lose his place as "head of the home"?

MrPresident1:
A woman can never be the spiritual backbone of a home, it does not follow

Doesn't follow what?

Acidosis:
I'm a realist.. You're the same lady who said you'll rather quench than solicit funds from an ex.

It shows you have self-respect and dignity.

Now let me ask you:

If your in-laws, hubby and the whole world stumble on you in bed with a lover boy, would you remain in the marriage, even when your hubby is ready to let go?

A lady of integrity won't desecrate her martial vows in the first place.

Try a different analogy.

Acidosis:
...walk away from the relationship (bond), not a home I built with my money.

You're being unrealistic by making baseless comparison.

There's nothing unrealistic about the comparison. What's good for the goose is just as good for the gander.

How many married women can walk away from their matrimonial home because of one single side chick?

A lot more than you know.

A man isn't the be-all-and-end-all of a woman's life. Besides AIDS is real.

For a man, shame won't allow him accept the philandering woman. Even the woman won't want to stay (out of shame) whether the husband forgives or not. You can't compare

Really?

Breathtaking hypocrisy.

Acidosis:
Earn money from his indiscretions in Nigeria?


And why are you all scared of dealing with an intruder? Don't you all know the road to a barrack? nawao

To do what at the barracks?

Who will pay for that project? The man or the side chick?

Mindfulness:
Even if she is as strong as Xena the warrior princess, people should be aware of the trouble they can get themselves into by fighting other people. For what? And some people want us to think that it is the way to save your 'home' when it is a way to destroy one's entire life.

Consequences:

~ Life imprisionment

~ A criminal record

~ Job loss + never being able to work in a professional capacity

~ Kids taken into care

All because of a side chick.

Acidosis:
I'll surely walk away, after dude must have lost one of his limbs.

And how many of such men will you be prepared to fight?

Mindfulness:
Reality? What reality?

Have you considered what can happen to a person who engages in a fight?

What if the mistress beats the sh.it out of the wife and the wife loses some teeth in the course of the fight, ends up in a wheelchair or dies?

What if the wife is actually stronger and hurts the mistress severely?

Physical injury is punishable by law. And the law does not excuse it on grounds of jealousy - on the contrary. You can even end up in prison for causing harm to other people and if the person dies by any unfortunate chance, you can end up in prison serving a life sentence.

What will the children do then? Visit mama in prison? Because daddy is a damn cheater who does not know how to respect his family?

Nonsense!

Precisely.

Only a classless illiterate will descend to gutter levels to fight with countless mistresses, ending up with nothing but broken teeth and bones - when she could earn money from his indiscretions.

Acidosis:
A time will come when I'll stop posting on Nairaland. Its hard really trying to deal with people who run away from reality.


I can imagine them walking away from the same home they've built for years because of one hungry side chick; walking away from the man they love sooo much.

Welcome to Nairaland

The wife didn't walk away.

The man did. Into the arms of his side chick. Why should wifey stop him? Or infringe upon his freedom??

Acidosis:
You need to study the frustration-agression theory. It is not rocket science... A woman with class may not use acid, hot oil or water... but I can assure you, she won't ignore.


Only those who believe in the war room theory would try to ignore.

I never said ignore.

I said she should play her cards close by getting herself a good lawyer and fleecing the bàrstàdó for every penny he's got before walking out of the joke of a union.

That way she keeps her dignity intact + a health bank account, while the man keeps his side chick(s).

It's a win-win situation.

Mindfulness:
One thing I must give these young boys, they have taken opportunism to a whole new level.
Let them find their perfect match: brainless, helpless, insecure women who will raise some dvmb babies.

Oh well, it's clear he's watched too many episodes of Xena, the warrior princess.

Mindfulness:
It's called dvmbness.

It's new aged. For young Nigerian boys like acidosis struggling with metamorphism

Mindfulness:
You can destroy your wife's lover then and keep fucking her lose pvssy at night. Have fun! What a lovely home.

It's called liberalism

Acidosis:
In my world, before you destroy my territory, I'll destroy yours. I won't leave without leaving a mark behind.

A man who leaves his "territory" open to destruction is not worth fighting over.

What you fail to understand is this: a woman with class won't get her fingers soiled with vermin.

Let the host deal with it.

Mindfulness:
She is the loser for sitting in this home house, so true! I would either kick him out or get a new home for myself. Thanks to daddy for teaching me independence. I won't make my hands dirty fighting any wandering dick's prostitutes.

It is only possible in your world, not mine. In my world, women respect themselves and are respected. In your world wives fight their husbands' prostitutes. And then open their legs for such dogs again. Where is the smelly pvssy thread? Number one cause of smelly pvssy, dog-husbands.

No time for nonsense. Life is good.

Acidosis:
No, the wife should make the husband's controllable irresponsibility unattractive to whores.


By the time you give a few whores thunderous slaps, they'll tell stories. You know bad stories spread faster.

So she should take responsibility for his irresponsibility.

And what should the man's role be in this?

inemani:
Phew! What a script! Dunno if this is real or some literature, honestly.

It's not real.

It's fictional and @op seeks traffic for his blog.

Acidosis:
When prospective side chicks see you as a docile humble house wife, they will step on your toes and do the unthinkable.


Why is it that randy men and boys run away from soldier's wives?

So the wife should take responsibility for the husband's irresponsibility? Yes?

Acidosis:
Yes, from the wife's viewpoint.


Please study "frustration-aggression theory".


No woman in her right senses will happily ignore a side chick with such brutal tongue. The wife's frustrations according to PSYCHOLOGY would be poured on the intruder FIRST.

And why should the wife demean herself to get involved with the man's bit by the side?

Why should she clean up his dirty work?

How many side chicks should she chase after? 10? 100? 1,000?? At what point should she draw the line and say "enough is enough"?

Acidosis:
a lot of Nigerians, including the Nigerian police, will be willing to do that for as low as N1000. Sharia forces would do it for free.

So the police should be paid (by whom?) to beat up the man and his side chick?

Now if this isn't a warped sense of justice, I don't know what is.

The police are meant to uphold law and order in the land, not condone jungle justice, much less get involved in (non-physical) domestic issues

Acidosis:
It is my door, and I have the rights to open and shut it whenever I want. Whoever comes in uninvited will have himself or herself to blame.

So the side chick was uninvited??

HARDDON:


If only u know......
Bin trying for us to look @ this objectively but u blowing ur top like some gurl that has caught her guy in sexy steamy romps.

My lyrical quill i hereby retire early

Really?

And would you have the same opinion if I'd said she should fast & pray?

Why does my advocating a hard punishment that would wreck the man financially + make him lose his marriage perturb you this much??

Acidosis:
The blames belong to the dog, but the beatings belong to the side chick.


Let any side chick say such to my sister, I will personally handle the beating...

And who should carry out the beatings? The wife??

Acidosis:
The fault belongs to the husband as the beating is to the side chick. They both deserve to be served.

Tell me something.

If I leave the doors of my house unsecured and wide open, and a thief walks in, who should take the blame if I'm robbed?

Apply the same analogy here.

There wouldn't even be a side chick in the first place if the so called dog of a man hadn't condoned the affair in the first place.

cococandy:
When it comes to silly stuff like this, those women who claim to be 'good exemplary women' are the usually the worst.

The man might be having the time of his life enjoying his marriage and they will go drive a wedge between them because they think they have the recipe to a perfect marriage.

True that.

thorpido:
EfemenaXY,the Op is confused.I guess because he is schooling in a village.The high school he keeps mentioning is the same as secondary school.
He probably thinks it means something else.

Ah! I get it now, thanks.

The schools don't offer free education.Even when i was in high school it wasn't free.I know the fees are low though and the schools are poorly funded by government.

True. Very true. I remember now, thanks.

cococandy:
What a stupid thread

And to think this was composed by a woman.

Smh.

Some minds eschewed in mental slavery are irredeemable.