₦airaland Forum

MrBrownJay1:
That's not ego, that's dealing with a traumatic incident... The 1st issue when a rape occurs is to A) take the anti HIV drug called PEP and B) to take a morning after pill to flush out any criminal seed, and finally C) to get proper emotional help to deal with the trauma.

mr1759:
we are looking at a victim who spent close to one month with those who adopted her at least she will know then she pregnant, so you going to hospital then is not to prevent anymore but to abort

Anyone thinking that just having the child would solve anything, while baby's face will remind this psychologically damaged mother EVERYDAY of the nightmare she went through, is wrong. That child may be abused, seriously lack love and affection, and grow unwanted and uncared for.
That's a demon child to many, and the 1st sign of trouble will be blamed on that poor unwanted child.

edwife:
Yes but not all efe. There are many who will rather remain childless than to think of conceiving for a criminal. I , particularly would have adopted kids and will never want to have a kid after 45.

If the same woman is raped by a mad man, should she still keep the baby? Because for me it's the same.

Eddygourdo:
Whoever kept that semo on the floor or within reach of my daughters. Tempted them . And must purchase it back with sudden alacrity( though if investigations prove I am guilty........... Well to err is human.

mr1759:
I love Ur point, but some naive girls will say is murder to go thru abortion as a Christian as such keep the child that will destroy their happiness for life

MrBrownJay1:
But if these people have waited till 12th hour then they would know better.... If she keeps the baby she will lose her husband. What do you think is more important in this scenario?!

Having a baby by some criminals who raped her?! That baby will suffer anytime this women get reminded of the trauma she went through

edwife:
By then I will know that my partner is the problem and i will look for a more suitable sperm donor. I can't live with that fact that the child is that of a criminal who raped me. I don't want to be constantly reminded of that horrible experience.

DarkRebel69:
Sure, sure; I wasn't judging, though; I'm one inexorable epicure myself.

Now I hope every miserable, tiny-dicked simp out there and those crop of men who have this misplaced conception of women as either being on the good or on the bad side (Madonna-whøre complex) can now see that most women are usually a nasty combination of both, and that they entertain about thoughts that are just about as rique as ours (males). In my own very candid (and unerring) opinion, even the most uptight woman has a dark, bïtch side beneath the surface,

It's nice knowing I wasn't wrong after all. Cheers!

dangotesmummy:
nl is boring jare .it's not the same as it used to be.na so so dry dry topics and I hate the fact that all my Monica's haven't been banned because of making controversial comments that will provoke nlders

Who niceties EPP.I don taya for nl jare.moreover the influx of foolish teenagers spewing childish rants makes it a total turn off

Then again the regular nl folks I hardly see them on nl

I don't see tearoses,kanwulia,cococandy,efemena,bukatyne,edwife etc so what then is there to learn from teenage blabs

Abeg make una come back and set nl on fire again.

durentchigozie:
Ewoh. Una don derail my thread finish!


Sortez!! Tous est Toi

edwife:
God knows and should forgive me, because i am not keeping any kidnapper/bandit/criminal/smelly seed.

It ain't happening. I will even demand to be quarantined.

edwife:
5? Lol

How is Summer coming up? This is officially my first summer staying in London in 4 years. I have some projects i need to work on before resuming work.

mr1759:
I salute your knowledge .
because some persons was saying abortion in such circumstances is murder and the bible say that hough shall not kill

DarkRebel69:
See them... Real Housewives of Berverly Hills.

edwife:
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ifyalways:
Howdy Madam?

Nld has lost the plot but I'm still around.

edwife:
I am still here, coming back in few weeks.
Footie till August.

How are you my darling? Chilli is fine.
dangotesmummy I see you.

armyofone:
After that kondo hammer person finish for one night, you will call in late the next morning.

DonQuix:
Ancestors

DarkRebel69:
Efe! All these adjectival fireworks just for me? Today must be my lucky day.

It would be unfair if I didn't reciprocate by proferring a topographical description of you as well. So, who is Efemena?: Efemena is a woman who has a photo on her DP which I reckon was intentionally put there for the purpose of keeping the imagination running wild with guesses; she also is one who's too stingy with her books, who didn't want to send Mysterious depths to me so I could peruse through without payment, like the Ijebu man I am.

You had quoted my other post before, the one wherein I posted that YouTube video portraying those tonsured monks. Was that a slip-up? I was thinking that the video touched you in a way, and poor me was already itching to refer you to more of those Gregorian chants, hopefully to get you initiated into its cult of listeners.

generationz:
Why not?
Many of our mothers compromised na, with cheating husbands who wouldn't touch them for years that was one of the secrets to their long lasting marriages , even wives of successful men, and men of God are sex starved

Lytech:
Pardon my blunders....
The message is what matters most..


As a primary school teacher who earn below 20k monthly,i decide taking some extra coaching both at work and home coaching.

Early last year,I was lucky to meet this wealthy igbo man who offer to pay me 20k monthly for taking his four kids 3times a week(home lesson). I was happy and gladly accept the offer as i dont need to waste a dime on TFARE (very close to my house). I tried to put in my best jst to impress the man(God help me in the process)

The man has some shops he built infront of his house. A woman who operate a beerpalour happens to be an occupant. She approached me one evening asking if i can help tutor her kids. I declined as i dont have time. She begged and i asked if she will allow her kids to join me in school in the evening(mix them with the student i take in school). She agreed and God used me to transform her kids.

She was impressed and have preached the gospel about me to people around her. Currently,i met a man through her who is paying me 10k for tutoring his 3children on saturdays and sundays.

We are this close that i do stay in her shop to whiletime and charge my phone on most cases when am through with my lessons.
Her husband had an accident of recent and had a broken leg.he was admitted in the hospital close to 2month.i was there to check on him twice to show some concern before he was discharged and could recall going there with some provisions on the two visit. For the past 3months now,there payment have not been regular... I didnt complain bcoz i understand their situation.


The main issue.....


Ever since the man was discharged,he do stay with his wife in her shop because he cant go to work with his leg.ofrecent,i observe this strange look on him towards me. He do snub my greeting and most cases avoid my greetings. I dont really take that as an issue but i told a close friend about what i noticed.

I was with the woman landlord kids ystdy when my friend who wanted to use my room come around to collect key.i ask him to wait for me at the woman shop bcoz the gate which lead to the man house was locked and the landlord was around.


On getting to the woman shop,i try greeting the man which he ignore as usual.i backed him while attending to my friend. My friend notice the lion look on the man and asked us to leave immediately. He told me the man looked me like he should shot me with Gun.

Now i suspect he thought am having an affairs with his wife(close to 40yrs while am jst 27yrs).before God and man i never think of it for a moment talkless of making a move.


I become scared and afraid. I taught of stopping taking their kids and avoid the wife but there is no way i will enter into the landlord compound without passing through her shop,plus thats the route to my house from work.

Even if i avoid the woman and her shop,that wont still clear the man thought about me... And i wish to clear myself from the husband.


Fellow nairalander.....
Please help me out with some piece of advice on this issue.
Thanks.

FortuneTeller:
Do you not understand when I say I tried everything? You don't think I've tried being the initiator. There are some things he does not want to do. There are some ways that you cannot touch him because it is deemed as being sinful. Can you imagine a man who does not believe the woman should be on top? Can you imagine a man that believes a wife giving him mouth action is sinful? My husband is old-fashioned and he does not want to try anything that is new.

Atk1nson:
Where does compromise fit in marriage? Sexual preferences rarely align, but may be both parties can be willing to settle for a little less than they want, it may just work

KanwuliaExtra:
That is HOW TO SURVIVE A FORCED or STALE MARRIAGE.
Get a BOY-TOY!
Hanhanhanhan
Na so men dey propose to women these days o.
From my "latest" crushing tinz!
15 years younger too.
Life is gooooooooooood!

All I hear deez days na. . . . .

"Mammy you dey look gooooood
If you no go mind
I go like to SAMPULU you"!




OP!

You dey hear?
Get BUSSSSSSSSSY!

. . . . All the way to TAMALEEEEEE!!!!

DarkRebel69:
It's a good thing that I'm quite versed in the well-coveted craft of the ancient Hindu Brahmins.
Now, place your trust on the flat of my palms and allow me serve as your cynosure, that patient flourescent flame that guides you into the fifth dimension, as the Poet Virgil guided poor Dante out of the Inferno. Give me your hands and let me take you on a tour which only ends when a certain cosmic wholeness descends upon your shoulders and that ostensible imbalance is forever banished into the glooming dungeons of nothingness.

All you have to do... is to close your eyes and give me your hands.

GOFRONT:
And to think that his present Employer is a Muslim Billionaire Alhaji man

He may stand d chance of loosin his Job...coz d man employed him based on Muslim family friend thingy..