₦airaland Forum

gidjah:
haba sister mi, why u dey binu now, we are not fighting na, kilode sef? just baring out my mind ni o!(namaste)!

Same here.

If you feel marriage will send you to an early grave, then why do it? It's afterall just a piece of paper, abi?

gidjah:
I don't expect most men to last long once they get married o!, too many 'ONE CHANCE WOMEN 'on earth this days , they (the women ) are the major causes of the untimely death , they trouble Their men until they loose control, they emotionally mess their men uo, they nag until the man can't come back home on time and fall into the hands of another karishika (and thus die b4 his time), they cause the men to develop hbp and hypertension and madness too,all this factors contributes to the short life span of the man.make una no adjuge the reason to be bad driving and smoking o!my land lady na case study (a serious terrible benue idoma )

Then don't marry na. Na by force? Shioor

lonikit:
must u comment

Must you respond?

KanwuliaExtra:
Muchechechecheche


You mean HUNGRY?

Nope.

More like an explosion waiting to happen.

That definitely is a weapon of mass destruction

lonikit:
I think 60% of Nigeria homes have single parent alive and it usually the mother. why is this so common

What's with your morbid fascination with death?

You planning on killing or getting killed?

KanwuliaExtra:
Enjoy it to the fullest and STAY BUSY!

Nne, that's one very angry cassava you've got.

I've got both.

Re: friends, always choose carefully. Quality over quantity.

mrwonlasewonie:



I wan faint

But it's true na. How can they be thinking of sex while starving? Hot sex for that matter sef

lisbonabdulahi:
thanks, see my previous post https://www.nairaland.com/3887957/wife-been-taking-me-granted

I've read your thread.

Have you had a really deep talk with your wife to find out what the issue is? I certain she'll have her own version of events which will most likely be different from yours.
Unfortunately she isn't here to give us the full story. You are.

lisbonabdulahi:
Thank you for your time. I have done everything I can. But madam is just not cooperating

Why isn't she "cooperating"?

What have you done to offend her so??

mrwonlasewonie:
Efemenaxy
Kanwulia extra

Make una con put mouth for this matter.all this Toto and prick matter for nl don taya me O

I don't even know whether na juju at work abi the waist.


Nawa o.may God have mercy on us in this country

I don see them. Two dried sticks wey carry poverty mentality for dem Congo

thorpido:
Men(and women) most times still feel a thing for their exes and some just want to still have sex with them.

Re: the men - but why?

Some even after TWENTY FIVE years...

Ovo22:
before the end of this month I av to cater for my younger ones allowance and move around,feed etc

Move around to where?

Ovo22:
dont get me wrong..I want to borrow to the money to move around nd get some tins in place nd will pay back by the end of the month from my thrift contribution

What things?

Zinny25:
I have a little job I'm doing. But it goes beyond it. It has to do with the state of the mind. My environment is also not helping me out. I believe if I had moved out of this environment since last year, I would have gotten over this by now. I thought having a job was enough but I hv come to realize that it's not.

Slow down and start from the beginning.

mrwonlasewonie:


Yes that's all for now

Meanwhile I'm still female na.it's SAMBARRY you know

I've not changed my gender

Oh! My bad

But this your name come resemble another one

Ovo22:
I am planning on collecting a loan from a mfb of which they will nid 20% deposit

So you want to borrow to borrow??

Awww...

Over two decades since I squealed like that

Mindfulness:
I am good sis, what about you?

Just kicking

And procrastinating again #wails#

mrwonlasewonie:
lol.I'm good.

oya buy me yatch

The one that will have driver,outside space for male stripers, another place that I will be in my lounge and tearing fried chicken laps and drinking whisky then Whitney Houston will be playing at the background

Another room will have spa where I can go for body massage

That's all

Izzz dat all?

#rolls eyes#

Your standards don dey drop oh!

Since when have you become female?

mrwonlasewonie:
efe baby.how you dey?

Long time no see.hope the ministry is getting prosperous?

Abeg buy me fine Camry when you dey come naija o.you know say rain too much and fine woman like me no fit swim Inside dirty water go work

Lol!

Camry no go help in that flood. Na yatch you suppose ask for.

I'm good oh! You nko?

Have you reported this to the police?

Funky123:
I just want to know people's opinion abt this...i know some people we are of d same age{early twenties}and they re married but it seems my dad is not cool with this,so i just want to know if its bad to get married in my early twenties cos i don't want to loose my man who will be ready any moment from now

There's nothing wrong with getting married in your early twenties. A lot of us did back in the day.

Your dad isn't cool with your decision (and rightly so) because he'd rather you concentrate on your studies, finish up and graduate. You're already in your final year anyway - not long to go - so why the rush?

Re: losing your man - no dear, you wouldn't. Not if he has your best interests at heart.

sixtus3606:
My friend Chuma(not real name) confided in me that his mum who is staying temporarily with his elder brother, asked his elder brother wife yesterday being Saturday, that; "why is nobody eating and the time is already past 12noon?). My friend's elder brother wife response was "we will eat whenever he leaves money for feeding".

Does this means, even if her husband is not around for a week and her mother in-law is around, no one's gonna eat??

House, I need your opinion on this??

Royalroy

But he wasn't away for a week was he? And even if he was, he should ensure there's enough for his family to feed during his absence.

While the wife's response on the surface might sound disrespectful, she was passing on a message to her MIL in a non-confrontational manner, so that MIL will approach her son to sort out the situation he'd created.

Benita27:
Any thing could have been the reason he failed to drop feeding money. Let's just assume things are hard for him or he forgot...it happens.

If it were her mum that asked her that question, would she have tendered the same response she gave her MIL?, if I were in her shoes; I would look for what my MIL will eat, whether her son dropped money for the day or not. Then we can talk later about his attitude. Anything could have been the reason. Starving the woman was totally wrong, and responding in that manner was adding salt to injury.

The problem with that approach is that an irresponsible man would take that as the norm and always leave it to the wife to sort out. How can you be sure he's not done this to the wife - not once but several times? So rather than wifey fight him over the matter and look bad, she's simply decided not take the blame but pass it on to Oga. The shame should make him sit up.

In marriage you start as you mean to go.

Mindfulness:
Special Agent EfemenaXY

Lol! Good day to you too. How're you?

Been looking around for you

mira24:
hmmmm,it's 9 month not enough time to meet,date n get married to someone!I know exactly wat am doing, a rather marry an abroad based man,than marry someone u cn barely put food on d table based in dis country .....

There is more to marriage than using your spouse as a meal ticket. So now you've got food on your table, what next?

Interesting read. I learnt a thing or two.

Thanks for sharing @ op.

mira24:
I love my husband so much,he is exactly d kind of man I hv prayed for,he is really my missing rib,but d problem now is ,he is based abroad leaving me behind three months after our wedding, I know he doesn't hv plans of taking abroad wth him at d initial time,cause he said he doesn't like d country to raise his family there,but d truth is ,am lonely. Am alone in d whole house no one to talk to nothing ,I would just roll up n down my bed,feeling him almost evrynight,n wishing he comes back very soon.pls any wth my kind of predicaments n how hv u been handling it,matured advice pls

@ op are you trolling?

Barely 9 months ago you were desperate to get into a relationship due to your low self esteem issues. https://www.nairaland.com/3377486/eating-self-esteem-away-need

Now you say you've been married for 3 months. So when (if at all), did you date this man to understand him? Do you even know what you've gotten yourself into? And you're just 24.

What was the rush if you don't mind my asking? Or you saw "abroad" and decided to jump feet first?

Well, good luck.

Interesting.

Practice makes perfect.

If this story is real, then it's truly heartbreaking. May they rest in peace, amen.

Engr06:
Please I need serious and mature advice. My girlfriend who I love so much is pregnant for me. We actually saw it coming but the problem is am nt financially stable. Our parent arnt rich enough to carry the burden, but my woman and I has agreed to live on the little I earn as salary. Also, we are planning to have our introduction as soon as possible just to salvage the situation. I hinted my mum about my plan for the introduction (hiding the part that she is pregnant already). Mums response was to be patient since I already know the situation of things from the home font, she advice we shud wait till probably next Year, hoping things will be better. Its really a trying moment for me presently as I can't concentrate, thinking how am going to cope as there is no help anywhere. I love my girl, she understand the situation of things and she is ready to sail with me no matter how, and I dnt want her to suffer for any reason. Being a poor boy, I dnt know how to go about the whole thing.
Please I need advice on what to do. (abortion is out of it)
Note: is there anyone who has experienced this and scaled through.

This rankles.

Why should your parents take responsibility for your irresponsibility?

Your entitlement mentality is breathtaking.

#Born first then God go provide#

Oga Engineer man up and sort out you ish YOURSELF. Hope your misus has got a job / source income? If not, good luck on your meagre salary.

Never a good idea for husband and wife to work for the same employer