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Sagamite: Sagamite:Thanks for this Saga. Yes, I wanted to address the earlier point you made about swift career progression of Kweku from the BackOffice to the FrontOffice, but this is going to be purely from my experiences and what I've seen for myself. Kweku's progression really isn't that unusual in the Investment Banking environment if he joined in on the Graduate Scheme. I too joined in on a similar scheme shortly after obtaining my Masters Degree (another point I'll address). You don't even need to have that much experience as a Graduate Trainee but you must demonstrate the drive, motivation, and of course, good grades to back you up too. Regarding the graduate scheme I was on, it ran on a series of (optional) placements. I say optional because although not mandatory, graduates were encouraged to broaden their experiences by working in different areas of the bank. For those of us in Investment Banking Technology (IB Tech) we had to run with that position for at least two and a half years, out of which it was mandatory to spend at least one year in a particular role (the first six months to get to grips with the job and the latter six months to demonstrate what you've learnt / deliver the goods). Hiring managers were made to understand that such graduates could move onto any area of the bank they so wished, irrespective of what their performance rankings were once their one year tenure was up (but obviously, if you were completely crappy at your job, you'll get an awful reference feedback and any other potential manager could choose to hire or not hire you at their discretion - it was subjective, if you get what I mean). So potentially, those of us in IB Tech could out of those 21/2 years rotate 2 or 3 years. Some chose to remain were they were and others chose to explore. I think (can't remember) for those in Operations, their tenures were shorter. 6 - 9 months was all they needed in a particular role before moving - based on the assumption that working in Operations was far easier than Technology. Additionally, graduates were encouraged to network with others including potential hiring managers via any one of the numerous corporate bonding activities, social events, lunches / dinners / Friday evening pub quizzes / get-togethers. There's so much I can't list them all. So it's very possible that Kweku could have been an extrovert who easily socialized and was able to network efficiently. His progression isn't that surprising either. On the graduate scheme it's been Analyst --> AVP --> VP --> Exec Dir --> MD and onwards. On completion of the graduate scheme, if you did well, you become an AVP and shortly afterwards a VP all in the span of 3-5 years. If you came in via the non-graduate route, it'll be Analyst --> Associate --> VP --> Exec and son on. Now, to the bit regarding the type of uni one attended. Sure, employers will always actively source out high performing graduates from top elite schools but that doesn't mean they don't look elsewhere. I got my first degree from Naija (UNN) and then my Masters degree from a not so great Uni over here. Infact, I tried my best to get into schools like Imperial College (like my dad did way back in the 70's on scholarship), but for where. It was tough. Of the six Universities I applied for, five said "No". I was so upset, I didn't even read my mails for a month and nearly missed the sixth one that offered me a place. But guess what, after I'd accepted the offer, I found out that my school was at the bottom of the league table. Saga, bottom oh! not last but one, or third to last - but the very bottom. It didn't help either during the course to see my course mates drop off like flies. Of the six of us who started, I was the only one from that set that completed the darn course and got my degree (thanks to my dad's encouragement). He used to say the Uni wasn't as important as completing the course successfully. "Just get your certificate girl!" was what he told me.Anyway, my point is: yes, my Uni was crappy but what managers look out for when interviewing someone, (i.e: apart from their qualifications, experiences, and interpersonal skills) is whether that person will fit into their team. It's subjective, I know, but they silently ask themselves "can I work with him / her?". So yes, my school wasn't that cool or anywhere close to the Russel Group of Universities, but you know what, I held my own beside all those Oh, one more thing: For my particular intake, I think we were 30 in number of which there were 4 blacks. 3 black girls and one black guy. I sometimes think we were carefully "race-selected". Black girl1 - British Passport holder Black girl2 - American Passport holder Black girl3 - French Passport holder Black guy - Nigerian passport But funnily enough, we were all Nigerians (ethnic backgrounds) apart from the French girl. So I guess this might tie in with your statistics. I don't know what the % of blacks were for previous and subsequent intakes, but I'm guessing it might have been something similar. |
moca:I did too. Love the way he always puts his points across. Straight to the point. No waffles or beating around the bush. Sagamite, nice one - thanks, but there is an area I don't entirely agree with you on. Will come back to it later, after mass. ![]() |
free2ryhme:This has got nothing to do with skin colour, but rather an ignorant person (whoever snapped that pic) trying to show off with the little they have. People need to understand that in this world we live in, not all fingers are the same. Rather than make mockery of others wallowing in abject poverty, DO SOMETHING to help. If not the parents, then for the kids. Not only is this picture distasteful, it highlights the photographer's level of ignorance and massive inferiority complex. A mixed race kid is no better than a black/darker skinned child by any means. For all you know, the nákéd kids could be smarter on several levels, starting with their survival techniques. |
Finally, some intelligent talk. Nice one, Tearoses and Damiso. ![]() @Sagamite, Jaybee3, and SirShymexx: I'd love to read your views on institutional racism in the UK from a working black man's perspective. Is it truth or myth that the ceiling of achievement for certain highly paid positions are mirages / made of glass? And that the doors only swing open for just ONE black man, then get firmly closed off against more of our men? |
I am cheating today. Big time. Will run it off tomorrow. |
motigbademi:So sorry for your loss dear. Ask the mods to delete that post and close off this thread. Explain to them that it's your sister and you lot need to grieve her passing away, but also require privacy to do this. Ishilove will understand, I'm sure. Once again, my condolences. (sigh) |
Chillis:Lol @ staying past rent! Chilli, I wore a size 10 dress and tanktop jumper today o! Size 10!! Oh-la-la...will tell you all about it this weekend. Night-night dear. ![]() |
Chillis:Lol! I did babes. You look good. No. You look very good! Oya make I go baff 'n look for some leftovers yo eat. Too tired to cook. See you during the weekend. ![]() |
Chillis:Chai! You sure say you don born pikins, chillisauce?? See how the belle just flat! Omoge-sisi-eko, fine-fine-skin-no-pimple!! Moi is totally inspired. You look good mami ![]() |
Chillis: ![]() Honestly, you're worse than Babyosisi with this your attention seeking. Oya show face. Na b/cos of yours truly I've logged on in here mid-week... |
opella:Thanks dear. I think you're doing too much too soon. Cut down on the exercises for starters. Secondly, sounds like you aren't nourishing your body enough - and you're breastfeeding. How old is your baby? Did you have normal delivery or C-section? Eating clean doesn't mean you have to starve your body of essential nourishments. That explains your weakness / tiredness. But mist importantly, you need to sleep girl. Getting enough rest is just as important as exercising. You need to give your body time to recover. There is no rush. This is a lifestyle you're adopting for life hopefully, so pls do go easy on yourself. Exercise is meant to reduce stress. It's an outlet, but you've got to do it in moderation. If the tiredness persists, then I suggest speaking to your doctor. |
damiso:Lol @ psych stalker! ![]() Yeah, been thinking about that one too. I can't see myself compromising my run for anything else. How I go do am during the working week at winter? Short of begging hubby to come jog with me (for protection), I can't think of anything else. Or maybe I should go by myself one mean-looking Alsatian / German Shepard. So you went to work during the tube strike? I worked from home oh! Till 12 midnight. Got to the point I was so tired that while drafting up a doc, I was intending to type *** administration but instead typed *** nursery school. You see ma life? ![]() And lemme confess, for the first time in months, I ate Eba and Ogbolo soup that morning. Can you imagine it? Infact, I can't take the blame for that. I blame hubby for cooking that wicked soup, and London Transport for holding that tube strike. ![]() |
opella:Lucky you. When you get to my age, you'll find it's easier to add and difficult as hell to shed even half a pound. ![]() I swear, even smelling certain foods make people like me pile on the weight. I'm sure of it. ![]() |
damiso:You are so disciplined oh! ![]() I now feel even more motivated than before sef. But you know what, once you've come a very long way, you'll never ever want to go back to where you were when you first started on your healthy living / weight loss journey. For me to have come down from 92kg to 69 kg nor be beans. I'll never forget how I used to huff-and-puff just to bend down to buckle or unbuckle my shoes while sitting. ![]() I was even beginning to have joint aches. Imagine getting completely out of breath from climbing a few flight of stairs with just a handful of shopping? And to think I used to be a lepacious 55kg at the time I got married? Men, I soooooooooo totally let myself go. I cringe now when I think about all the 'poisonous' stuff I used to eat. Hmmmm....still surprised I never came down with type 2 diabetics / high cholesterol / high BP. God is good sha. |
queen47: ![]() A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. Queen oh! I stepped on the scale 3 days ago and guess what? My reading was 69.99kg!!! And a day later, it came further down to 69.0kg!! ***Dancing Azonto here*** ![]() But I know what's caused it sha ....STRESS! So much stress from work to meet deadlines and hand in deliverables. Been doing very early morning starts, finishing late nights and not getting more than a couple of hours sleep. But you know what, the more stress I got, the more I exercised like crazy. I mean I had to. The environment I work in, it's not uncommon for people to turn to cocaine or commit suicides. So my own stress relief na to hit the streets and work it all out. I never for once missed my 30 mins lower-abs workout / sit-ups and 30 mins run every morning. Still do my 30-45 min swim class and 1 hr run on Saturdays too. Breakfast has been nothing other than a squeezed lime and lemon in a very large glass of warm (almost hot water), 4 or 5 cherry tomatoes, and sometimes, a couple of cucumber slices. Lunch at work has religiously been cold salads. All greens available - lettuce, cucumbers, broccoli, shredded carrots, sweet corn, grilled chicken pieces, mackerel, chick peas, green peas, and half a spoon of pasta - if space still remain to add am. Oh, and a teaspoon of olive oil. Then two bananas for tea and a litre of water for the whole afternoon. We've even got a scheme going: buy 4 get the 5th one free. Got my fifth free 1ltr bottle of Evian water today. More fruits in the evenings and anything else - but definitely no rice / yams / poundo, etc anymore. ![]() 69.0 kg...Yayyy!! CC: Chillis / Chilisauce, I don enter the 60's group oh! ![]() |
moca: This is just too funny! ![]() |
OlafenwaMoses:Most Nigerians love doing absurd things. That's why other Nigerians love reading about their absurdities. |
ifyalways:You aren't fat Ify. |
LarrySun:I hope you haven't given up on writing and still churn out those wonderful stories of yours? ![]() Same question goes to Ishilove too. ![]() |
bukatyne:Imagine this! So Bukky, they drove / sent you lot packing on the grounds that you lot aren't intellectually capable to hold down an intelligent conversation with them - and instead of holding your ground and proving them wrong, you hightail, with your tails firmly tucked between your legs, and meekly (submissively) oblige...only to come here to talk knitting / boy-friend saga / idle, non-substantive, female chit-chat?? I feel sooooooooo insulted. Infact, c'man take ma name off that your list jare. ![]() At times like this, I seriously miss ~ Debrief ~ Aisha2 ~ Ileobatojo ~ Jennykadry ~ Carefreewannabe ~ BabyOsisi a.k.a BabyMama. ![]() |
Chillis: Now I know say you nor dey wish me well. ![]() I don't want that kinda blessing. Infact, I jump am pass, dash you in quadruplicates. ![]() Edwife, Damiso, and even Tearoses desperately need am. Infact, they're well over due sef, starting with Damiso (twins), Edwife (triplets), and Tearoses (quadruplets - all boys) ![]() |
Chillis:My dear, abeg nor vex. I've been crazy like Kilodey. Work's hectic so tey I nor know whether I'm coming or going sef. ![]() Agege bread ke? Far from it. Anyway, howdy? I hear say you dey dash out blessings in duplicate, triplicate, and quadruplicates ![]() |
naijababe:My dear, I don't do childminders or au-pairs. Never have and never will. I'm just to skeptical to trust them. I've only ever done (top-performing, Ofsted rated, grade 1) nurseries and my little girl's in full-time nursery (yes, even during the hols) and it costs us...me actually - £200 per week (7:30 a.m - 6:30 p.m) Mondays - Fridays. But that your £80 - £90 per week is nothing na. A whole gbo-gbo Scottish big gal like you? Abeg make we hear word jare. Just dip your hands deep into your pocket and pay the £360 jare. ![]() |
tearoses: ![]() Guilty on all counts! Yes ma'am, I did that too - several times over. No time for 'swegbe' (slowness) ![]() |
^^ Nice! ![]() |
Chillis:Yimu. You be real Waffi babe. Abeg, see you all during the weekend jor. Night-night. |
moca:You had a C-Section? Men forget exercise oh. Nothing for you before 6 weeks. It took me months to recover. Months! All you can do now is to talk walks. And keep brreastfeeding too. It helps to contract the uterus. |
firestar:I'm good dear. You still into churning out poems? ![]() |
edwife:Change your lotion. Na you dey attract them hia. Your fault. |
Chillis:Nne, I be wan log out jare. Make I wash all the pancake commot for face. Need my evening bafffffffff.... ![]() Moca baby, I see you oh! |
edwife:I know. That's why I'm gonna move on jare. Don't like crowds. I prefer a nice, peaceful life. Just like the lonely roads Chilli rides her bike on. |
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