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Martinez39s:
Have you seen heaven, hell, or any purported afterlife before? Why is it that we believe there is no afterlife for insects and other animals, yet we think differently for humans? By all indications and common sense, there is no afterlife. Your brain is the seat of your consciousness; once it stops working and it perishes in the grave, you are no more.

Recent science does not support your claim. The brain is the channel of your consciousness and not its seat. The consciousness remains active even when patients are in coma.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.sciencefocus.com/news/brain-scans-discover-consciousness-in-coma-patients/amp/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/nationalpost.com/news/canada/life-after-life-does-consciousness-continue-after-our-brain-dies/wcm/da7e0f38-55cc-4772-a22c-f57d523bd34f/amp/

Walewow:
Religion can't help you bro funny enough they always assume they av the answers always right and quote another stupid chapter Na Dem know
Quality thinking
Seek different advice select the best possible ones
You r the most important person in ur life remember
Stop doing sacrifice it's pointless
Focus and be sober
Use ur common sense
Don't get to attached emotionally you'll get hurt
Anyhow life it's a series of stages
Don't go to church or mosque or herbalist they only sell invisible product they ask you to pay be wise.
Well then.

Did you read his post till the end? Even commonsense failed him as well. He mentioned that he is skilled but his skills are not helping. When you say "use your common sense" be more explicit about how he is to use it. Be specific as to how he is to select the best advice...you claim others are being stupid but your advice leaves the guy in need confused as to what to do next.

It's not enough to call others stupid for airing their views only for you to also offer an advice that takes the OP nowhere

DeMoneyGenius:
I wanted to type something, but my keyboard isn't working.
This niggur is obviously suffering because he misunderstands religion.
Religion has never, and will never solve any problem.
It is in itself a problem.
If you want to go forward, then work!
There's power somewhere in the universe.
All beings tap from there.
The sacrifice you offer depends on the magnitude of the power you want.
Sadly, no one can do that for you.
If anyone ever asks you to pay money for a spiritual solution, sorry sir. They just started the journey of milking you dry.
It's either they don't have the power to solve your problem or they they'll use the power they have to replace your problem with a bigger one so that you will go back to them.

Here's my advice.

If you want access to the supernatural, fast yourself and pray yourself.
That is called faith, and it's different from religion.

Fast and pray unto who? Faith in who? You are further plunging the already confused guy into more confusion with your obscure counsel!

@HopeSpencer you claimed your life was in shambles after 30 years of Christianity, Lol. Were you expecting to become a rock star after being a Christian? Were you expecting to be an instant celebrity billionaire after being a Christian? The salvation of your soul is not a ticket to stardom here on earth, dude. Paul was beheaded for his faith. Mark was dragged to pieces for his faith. Others were maligned, abused, called names etc. Any attempt to heed the call of Jesus leads to the acceptance of a life of struggle and contention! If you want a hedonistic life here on earth look for it elsewhere dude, it is not guaranteed in Christianity!

The life of a Christian is one dedicated to the will of God and God's will, according to the scriptures, is for you to know God and to help others know God as well. If you tie your ambition to these two objectives you will reap a 100 fold here on earth and get reward hereafter. This is how Christians become rich.

Kunbee:
Well my sister comes home yesterday and said she heard a lady in the saloon (which we all know is the best place for gossip) anyways the story goes, a happily married couple the lady got home 1 night and her husbands countenance has changed and she asks his family and him what happened and he said the truth will unravel the next day. So he calls her family members the next day unknown to the wife the husband don pack her load for her and he says i have something 2 show u all and suddenly a sex tape she did with an ex pops on the tv, and her screaming in a falsetto, everybody in tears and she packed her stuff 6 months after marrying the guy and her hubby asked for a divorce. The wife shocked that she didnt know and she gave explanations like the video wasnt clear cos the ex used a webcam 2 record it cos she noticed that the laptop was on the whole time, she didnt know cos she was facing it and the ex's back to the camera( i mean in the height of sexual pleasure how would she).

Her stupid husband sends the videos around his and her office so tey that gateman sef get am and how the husband saw the tape was during a boy's night out and sum1 showed him and all his friends had it on their phone before the wedding and just felt that dat shouldnt define their love and the guy said it did. My point was explaining 2 my sisters and mother that it dont matter cos from the story she did it in university and that was some 5 years ago(i guessed ) and that she's sorry and her ex probably did it 4 some stupid reason and if it was vice versa she would have forgiven him and nobody will ever hear about the video.

Sisters and mum go mad dat i am stupid and dumb dats live on fairytale NL  and 4 the best maybe not check nairaland too much as often as i do  dat i should wake up and smell the coffee dat this is the real world well dey rain insults on me 4 like 5 mins and said wat d guy did served the girl right, and stupid me brought out all our uncles cheating on their wives and their wives love them like white on rice hey another rounds of insults and saying cheating is different from having a sex tape(which is i guess) and events take over bring about the pros and cons of premarital sex and i was irritated so in stormed out i know premarital sex is not good but eveyone forgets her ex set her up.
Anyways my point how do i convince my family dat the lady does deserve a second chance at her marriage and there r worse things in life than a mere sex tape she made like zillion of years ago and also if u were in the guys shoes would u stick or scrambble

P.s pls try not to judge

Drop a plastic plate and you do not need a second chance because the plate will remain as it is but drop a china plate and boom there are no second chances...we must realize that some deeds carry a weight of consequences so huge that it cannot be reversed easily or at all. Tell me how you want to manage the damage that results when just typing your name in google.com throws us the first 100 results leading to a porn video involving you. You may claim that changing your name would be all that is necessary but tell me can you change your face? Well may be you can change your face but you must know that the very instant you do that you have also erased every part of your previous identity (good and bad)! Some rules can be bent but some other rules should never be broken.

Shile981:
All these unnecessary lies just to attract tourists and foreigners. Who cares?

They are lies, right? Lies presented by archeologists adhering to the scientific method, right? Lies that would likely find it's way into a peer reviewed journal, right? But when you are told that your ancestors evolved from a rock and that your not too distant fathers were apes you leap for joy like the ape you likely are, right?

Kobojunkie:
What has a bath house and the remains of it to do with Jesus Christ? It seems the reporters of these pieces are desperate to insert the name of Jesus Christ into just about anything found.

All of sudden experts have nothing of significance to say when it seems to buttress the existence and life of Jesus...but when experts have something to say about evolution and all other forms of crappy science you will dart like an atom in joy!

Macsjebs:
Source: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-9078599/Archaeology-Ritual-bath-time-Jesus-Garden-Gethsemane-Jerusalem.html

Evidence uncovered at the site suggest that the church was destroyed in the 12th century — potentially during the Ayyubid dynasty's conquest in 1187, when captured Jerusalem from the Crusaders and ordered the destruction of the city's churches.

Religion of piss folks, destroying anything associated with Jesus even when they claim they love and respect Jesus.

hashtagged:
Better be done o, except you want to share a sex tool with another guy. And probably raise another guys child

Listen to this person's advice...indeed you may end up fathering another man's child and in the event you offend her she will be running into the arms of the other guy. A clean slate is better than a white marker board with a lot of inscriptions written with permanent marker!

lebete3000:
Continue dey talk like crackhead. Afterall you're the offspring of a broken pvssy...Loads of cum were deposited in her mouth, and you were lucky to have been fertilized in her intestines, before she shat you out her anus. This was the only way she produced you & your siblings, since she has a broken pvssy, no one would wanna dig their tin in there, save by her mouth...

Your reply is a clear proof that you must have perpetrated these actions you just described with unfortunate ladies...my prayer and hope is that your siblings and other females in your family are not also victims of your lewdness because with this level of lecherousness flowing from you, no female, even in your household, is safe from you...bro, you need the help of a neurosurgeon, combined with a psychologist and a deliverance minister!

Kewtt:
You said it all. Men stop seeing your spouse as investments

So you have made up your mind to marry a liability, right? See counsel ohhh!!!

lebete3000:
Dey there...mumu.

Na your type dem go dey pin your wife for bed for your back and you no go know...

Your imbecility requires grant funded scientific study. You dey find who go suck you till you run mad...well done ehn.

lebete3000:
Would they suck you till you cum?

No dey will suck you till you shit...imagine question...This life don finish tey!!!

demmymoney:
They mutually exclusive

But She enjoyed the sex

In theft the victim doesn't enjoy the process Like sex

This is not even theft. In theft you take what legally belongs to a person without their consent but this is prostitution. The lady offered what was illegal to offer in exchange for monetary reward that wasn't forthcoming...

Ishilove:
Dr Alaska is an idiot himself and his cup is full. Go to Ubi Franklin's IG page and see women testifying to either rape or being cheated by this useless man

What evidence are they providing? How are they different from the lady who accused the so called Obi in the first place? A bunch of harlot.s bundle themselves together to defend their professional colleague who was scammed "legally", Lol. Instead of ladies admonishing ladies to seek honest hardwork they are glorifying prostitution.

SmartyPants:
I'm not a fan of silly women like these but what he did is a close relative to rape.

Rape is to obtain sex without consent. To obtain sex on the basis of payment and thereafter to default in payment is to vitiated the consent.

It's as close to rape as fraud is to theft.

No case. This is nowhere close to the definition of rape in the penal or criminal codes. She consented to solicited sex (which is not legal) but was not paid. The case here is the defamation of character and not rape!

sapphiere:
There's a video showing the man admitting to an agreement of such. That video is evidence.

Verbal evidence is nothing ma. This is just a case of lying and lying is not a crime in our constitution. If not, 99% of Nigerians would be in prison now.

sapphiere:
And the man too sued for breaching a contract.

Which contract? Did they both sign any contract documents before witnesses? Verbal agreements are nothing...that guy will walk a free man if this is taken to the courts. If the guy hadn't released the details of the chats she could have held on to the rape allegation and won a case against the guy but as they guy released the chats and video evidence which are quite concrete it is the lady that has a case to answer for defaming another person. Besides prostitution is not legal in Nigeria so she just got legally scammed. If she seeks justice she should seek it elsewhere!

Jodha:
I get yhur point....but everybody cannot be wrong...if more than one person has accused him... then there is something really wrong with him...

Sorry but history has shown that indeed everybody can be wrong...there was a time every physicist on the planet believed that no one could split the atom and that the atom was the smallest indivisible matter...but we know today that this is wrong. One billion accusations cannot pass for evidence in court. You need to produce convincing evidence to prove beyond the shadow of the doubt that indeed a wrongdoing was committed!

peacekante:
Arresting the guy doesn't mean jailing him. He should go and clear the allegations against him. Did you hear when he admitted to shortchanging some other ladies? Did you also watch where 2 other girls told ubi Franklin that they were also raped by this same guy? Go to instablog and see many other girls on his matter. Please let us reason this things out. The guy has a case to answer

All the rape accusations are baseless accusations. Accusations with zero evidence. The only lady that could have provided evidence of rape is the lady the guy just slept with and at least a medical report can prove that sex happened but with the guy proving beyond a shadow of the doubt that this is a case of unpaid solicited sex the rape allegation will fall to pieces.

Elpipitaaa:
How About the other girls ubi Franklin spoke with that indicted Alaska. didn't you watch the op video?

What other girls? If one of those other girls, the girl in question, can slam a rape accusation on a person who didn't pay for solicited sex and given that some other girls reported that he is fond of not paying for solicited sex, then I can reasonably assume that the rape accusations are all baseless even if it is coming from other girls (in the same mould as the one leveling the rape accusation). This guy will clearly get off the hook. Prostitution is not legal and verbal contracts have no legal basis. This guy can easily deny all allegations against him and slam a defamation suit on these ladies.

peacekante:
Truth is that the guy is notorious for what he does and should be arrested. In the live chat he admitted that he doesn't pay some of the girls he contract for sex and pledge to pay up. Ubi Franklin even interviews some other girls and they confirmed that he is a rapist.
Funny enough one of the girls said he is a broke ass nigger and uses stove in his house .

For me, the guy should e arrested

I don't support what the guy did but what are you arresting the guy for? Is prostitution legal in Nigeria? Did the lady enter into a legally binding contract with the guy? Does she have concrete evidence of rape? The answer to all the questions is "No"!. The lady does not have a case!

Aliencraft:
They can. I use to have a bird as pet years back but it got very old and died. But some animals are just meant to be eaten

If giants existed and were on top of the food chain...imagine them say: "puny humans are meant to be eaten"!

BeLookingIDIOT:
But this is not true. Muslims generally mind their business unlike Xtians who derive joy demeaning,cursing and demonising others.

No they don't...give muslims political power and they will use it to force every other person to fall in line...this is evident in Pakistan and other Islamic countries where they persecute non-muslims.

@willingheart many of the marriage counsellors offering their mumu advice here are most likely not married. Sister, money does not guarantee you will last 1 week in a marriage ohhh. Someone said it is better for you to cry in Dubai but I pray you don't see what will make you cry in Dubai ohhh. May you not shed the tears that billions of dollars cannot wipe away. Marriage could be a one way ticket to bliss and could be a one way ticket to destruction. Marry who can work, walk and waltz with you through any situation. Marry who matches you. Marry the person that you can face uncertain times with...don't make the mistake of marrying because of socioeconomic considerations only to later get pregnant for your true love later and plunge your rich husband into paternity fraud.

Remember the condition of a man's pocket can change overnight but the condition of a man's heart may remain the same forever...choose wisely and remember that whatever your choice is, you will reap the reward or consequences all by yourself!

[quote author=jajeri3216 post=96970513][/quote]Here is one doctor with a lot of peer reviewed research and his submission clearly indicates there is something fishy with this mumu vaccine. There are drugs that can help with this COVID but they are shunning these breakthroughs in the name of pushing for a vaccine.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tq8SXOBy-4w

ny1234:
It is a shame that the Nigerian government has sold out it's people to the globalists agenda over COVID-19 pandemic scam. Once again, I advice Nigerians not to take the vaccine. It is not safe. Open the link below and watch what this doctor has to say.

https://www.bitchute.com/video/Ofm3QnUjcIJT/

Spread the word.... Be vigilant.

More blessings upon you bro for sharing this video...anyone who can think should be able to see that the rush with this vaccine indicates that there is a hidden agenda...

PhDinView:
Dear OP,

There is nothing spiritual about your problem. To reduce the rate at which you experience sleep paralysis, try and set multiple alarm clocks to wake you from your sleep at intervals. Also, try and force yourself out of your temporarily paralysed state each time you experience it. It might be difficult at first, but with time you might be able to just snap out of it at will. its all about your mental strength.

PS: The suggestions I've given do not have any scientific backing. They are just my opinion and it possibly might not work.

I sincerely hope that you find solution to your problem quickly.

There is nothing special about FTC.

Everything you have said is just your opinion, including the bolded.

RedPhoenix:
And Tinubu, Ganduje, ElRufai, Aregbesola


Are all not guilty of what these same governors have been accused of. Continue the goal shifting. I pity who take any yoruba person serious




Was Fashion not digging boreholes 100 million Naira each?




Does Lagos state ever opens it finanvial books or has the books of Lagos state ever been audited since 1999?



Does anyone know how Lagos state handles it's contracts handling and why yoruba Muslims takes up up to 80% of contracts the state dishes. Go and do your findings, from Lawma, Lasepa, all Lagos state handlings are handled in a very secretive manner that sees Muslims heads the entire top echelon on their management.


I said it. I can defend it if called upon

If you cared to read carefully you'd see that my post is aimed at everyone who supports any politician in power who later becomes a criminal. I am not guilty of this because I have never believed in the Nigerian political system and have never voted. If we don't dismantle the current political system we are joking!

Kay17:
As a general principle, Being is a component of parts and by its necessary complexity must come to exist by a precedent entity which makes up its complexity. This general principle applies to The Universe, the water cycle, man but theists refuse to apply this to God. God is clearly a being and therefore a composite of parts. God has the mind to direct and the power to effect. There ought to (following the general principle) be a some sort of direction that brought these two parts together otherwise a coincidence.

I eagerly await replies.

God in His wisdom put examples of creations that remind us of Him. Think of black holes for example. It is said nothing can break the light speed barrier yet the speed at which matter is sucked into black holes is so great that even light cannot escape this pull. Physicists have mentioned that the laws of Physics breaks down at the event horizon of black holes and this is a clear case where the regular principles that one is aware of completely breaks down. I see God as a singularity as well. Our rationality is only reasonable to a limited degree and it is only when man attains transcendence can he attempt to comprehend the rationality in the domain of divinity.

That is just my opinion
Try finding a woman who cheated and confessed and the marriage still continued
Men can get away with confessions of cheating,not women
If you were lucky not to be caught,repent and move on

This is the illusion many pull over their eyes...that they can be lucky not to get caught...well, more often than not, sooner or later, they almost always get caught!