₦airaland Forum

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Coefficient: My problem with your story isn't the rejection but the fact that you're willing to wait for her to start and finish school. Have you considered the emotional stress you're going to be subjected to? The fact that you will always want her to yourself and her being a young girl in school. I hope you're prepared to cast and bind devourers not to take her fom you. And also pray she doesn't fall into temptations in school?

I think you should leave this girl alone regardless of whatever signals she gives you. You are at a stage where you need to focus on being gainfully employed and everything else will fall in place thereafter. She will only be an additional burden and unecessary appendage to you.

Thanks for your contribution... I was counting on trusting her. I've gotten a different view now..thanks.

olumaxi: Guy..r u sure u wont b findin xcuses when she gained addmisn into a tertiary institutn?..ar u sure u culd cope when she bcums a campus girl?..wont u b fealn insecure?..i gues u shld let d girl b..and trust me,she ll giv u ha body wen u least xpectd,but not ha heart

I was hoping she would be coming to spend some time with me when I secure a place of my own...

chelseaguy: Op, she's doing you a great favor by saying no. You should look for a girl of your stature - newly graduated like you or about to. You are too young start fending for a girl in university, and besides you will always be unhappy. Your unhappiness would stem from her absence. You will always be thinking about what she's doing in school since you are not with her. It doesn't worth the head and heart ache, trust me.

But if you still insist on her, I suggest you look for job aggressively. Because, it's only after she knows you are working, and can give her money for school, that she would date you.

Thanks a million. I have actually thought about this but I felt I would be able to deal with it when the time comes but I'm not so confident on that any more.

vislabraye: Like sexymoma said, she's having an affair or is with some1 else.
Look 4 anoda gal.

Thanks... Its sad I have to come to terms with the ugly reality.

sexymoma: The Bitter Truth is ' She has someone she s dating but she doesn't want to tell you because she has a kind of emotional feelings for you' she might love you as she said but she loves her relationship with the other guy. You can keep trying your luck o, she might bend wan day.

I suspected that and I did ask her but she denied it. Thanks... I believe this is the only logical tin. She has a man.

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Maxymilliano: Nigerians and misplaced priorities ...

Of what relevance is a debate between Soyinka and Patience to improvement in the standard of living of the populace ?

Why not focus more on government economic activities at all levels, hold the government accountable and insist they deliver (apology to the owner of this signature) instead of the unnecessary distraction the current happenings has become.

My brother, its a shame our youths pursue goals that will amuse them instead of developmental goals...

bakynes: My point is she isn't holding an elected or political office, so she has no right in medling wit d affairs of Rivers state.She has no right to antagonise a state governor on affairs of the state or dictate to him on what he shd do in d state he was elected as Govenor.

Where n when did she do this? Any proof

COOLDUN: If what Nigerians has been witnessing from 1999 till this moment is what they call democracy, then military regime is the best option.

What most third world country citizens mostly the Africans fail to know is that the democracy that is practiced in Africa is another means of colonization by the west. Our rulers are corrupt , they hide their loots in those countries , for this reason the western people are seizing it as an opportunity to hold them to ransom, you know when someone knows your secrets you won't have boldness to challenge him/her anymore. For the fear of being exposed they agree on anything they tell them to do.

Nigeria's democracy is the costliest one in the world since 1999, the fund which is supposed to be used judiciously for the development of the country is used to fund our democracy. Politicians and families are using the economy for their personal funding.

At least in the military regime we have less officials , even if they steal at least little remains for the country, but this GEJ led government remains nothing for the country, instead they keep on borrowing and fix the payment dates when they might have all died. So that the coming generation would be indebted to the western people who would still hold hostage.

Imagine Power Holding making billions of Naira for not rendering any services to the people, while we are hoping for power improvement, if, someone is payed for a non rendered services, then how would the person care to serve you again?

There are many points to back up the support for a military rule in Nigeria, Africa is not ripe enough for a true democracy. Both GEJ, and the opposition are the same people, you can change a party but party can never change you.

Any sincere military officer that have the interest of the Nigerians at heart can change this country, but hoping on GEJ or the opposition is just like taking an already dead child to the hospital. No one gives what he doesn't have. The forces that brought GEJ to power is more than his capability, he can't do anything because the political parties in Africa are dens of EVIL PEOPLE, who don't care about the masses.

I support the guy that suggested a patriotic, sincere, brave , young military officers to take over this civilian Hitlers we call politicians in the country and clean up the mess. What we witnessing now is the best time of GEJ. Mark my words.

Do u stay in Nigeria? Have u witnessed any military regime?
I bet u, if u have...then you will value this freedom of speech you have among other things...

plaindealer: I'm Plaindealer and not eko ile, send eko ile a private message to show your love and affection for him if he's really on your mind..


There's absolutely no need to prop him up for anything, he commandeered 12 million votes during the last election and his party was barely six months old, that was a major accomplishment and with four years of planning, improved political structure and alliances, I see him tripling his previous numbers and even winning hands down.

All you have is flawed and sentimental political opinion, but not political realities based on facts and numbers..

How many times has he contested and how many has he won and lost?
If he dares contest,he will lose again... You people better bring a young and vibrant person from that APC if you want to win.

bakynes: Is pointless trying to make Niger deltans on NL look beyond tribalism and look towards Good leadership.Obasanjo was critized by even Yoruba's and his village men when he took wrong decisions.We never heard Stella Obasanjo got involved in politics.I as a yoruba man voted GEJ in d 2011 Elections and I believe a lot of Yorubas did as well, So pls Niger deltans wld your rather want a performing Northerner as president or a non-performing Niger deltan,all bcoz he his from ur region or ur village,we need to start looking beyond tribe and religion to move forward in this country.And Pls stop thinking everyone who is against GEJ is for Buhari or Tinubu.Thank you

What is your point? Is it that she should not be involved in politics? Are people actually criticizing GEJ or insulting him?

If David west is a professor,then he must be a foolish one like those ones sleeping with our young ladies in the various universities and polytechnics. I have some questions for you though.
1. How does a university degree make someone a good or bad wife?
2. How many of your students have you been able to control?
3. Is your wife better than the first lady and in what way?

mgbeketoto: Gooooooooooooooooooo NORTHERNERS!

Sit in one corner and have a GOOOOOOOOOOOOOD, LAST LAUGH as the SOUTHERN IJJJIOTS tear themselves apart. . . !
ONE NIGERIA. . .ONE SOUTH-SOUTH!

Mu che che che che che che

Forget BOKO HARAM. . .those 'things' ain't NORTHERNERS OR NIGERIANS. . . but terrorists sponsored by GEJ FROM CHAD AND NIGER REPUBLIC!

Are u a Nigerian? Please elaborate on what you have just written.

Why and for what reasons are people pointing at GEJ and his wife as the cause of what happened in river state? Could it be Simply because he has problems with amaechi ? Please whoever has concrete evidence to explain to me.

Thank God I wasn't born in those era.

My frnd, thr is no biggy in dis ish. What worries me is d way u placed d lives of d managers above d lives of d lower staff...it gvs a very bad impression n that alone has made u lost d case...
#justmyopinion

Mehn...so wish i had dis morning.

This has gone too far. Thought this is democracy! So why are leaders acting crazy? #jstthinking.

I don't think dis dude bedwets...mayb wat he is having is wet dreams...he said he is a virgin so i'm just assuming.

Issokay...boys wanting quick bucks.

They are all thesame...PDP,APC n co. All they do is move from one party to another.

My presido...nice outfit...u've done well but we need you to wrk harder for our country.

Boys must hustle to survive nah...plus,its a means of getn fast buck.

This is wat i av to say ''LIAR''

Holy sh*t. Not again.

owkay...i'm waiting for d next drama

Which way Nigeria?
Which way my father land?
Which way our leaders?

That mtn advert that osofia n patience ozokwo(pardon my spellings) whr osofia carried a goat...chivita advert, malaria don kpafokaa advert...so damn annoying.

this is wickedness in its highest form. If she is a witch...why not move out of her house to a place she will not have connections to u n thn strt ur prayers thr.

jackbauersballs: Your opinions have been noted. Thanks

I like dis guy...he got humility...thats rare des days

lakhadimar: where were you when yaradua was refered to as 'yaradull' and baba go slow? Where were you when obasanjo was called an ape? Callin GEJ an incompetent sl0wpoke is not an insult its actually stating the obvious

Yaradull!my God, Dat got me laffin..hearing that for the first time