ObabyObaby: Good evening all,Pls I need your help,there's this dispatcher I'm using to pickup an items, yesterday I bought an item (fan) from a NL,and I send the dispatcher to pickup for me,after picking the item he refused to deliver it to me,I've been calling his number he is not picking up up till this moment, Pls I want you guy to help me to call this number (07032404040) if he pick tell him to deliver my fan he pick up at at lekki.pls if you have idea how he will be arrested pls share
Lure him out with an eloquent and charming woman posing as a prospective customer. Even the gods cannot resist the charms of an eloquent woman.
Beremx: Very good. [b]She’s worth the gift. He should make sure he extends his generosity to his parents if he hasn’t done so. A good child is the pride his parents
bewov: Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.
These might be long, but please bare with me
There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!
After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.
My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.
We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.
I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.
So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.
January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.
This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.
She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".
She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?
She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?
Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!
Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.
When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.
Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"
Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!
She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".
Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.
Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?
Please guys, I'm very confused here
She is who she is. Marriage does not change someone... I would strongly advise you not to ignore the red flag.
Despite the newly increased tariff. 1000 Naira worth of electricity token for prepaid meter users is now 19.6 KW. This year's January it was 33KW. Eko Electricity Distribution Company thunder fire una!
FavourWrites: Please help me Nairalander! Do I have a medical problem? Why do I forget things a lot?
Here’s the thing, I am someone who forgets things a lot. This may not sound like a big deal to you, but this problem is ruining the relationship I have with people.
There’ll be times when my friends would call telling me to do stuff for them, and the next day when we meet and they ask for the feedback, I’ll be there looking stupid because I didn’t remember them calling me at all. This is a problem because most times they think I faking the fact that I failed to remember.
I’ll be nineteen in a few months but I’m seriously worried for myself. I’m the kind of person who buys about three PEN every single day because I always forget where I dropped the last ones.
Don’t get me wrong, I do well in school, I currently have a 4.8 CGPA. The things I’m taught in school always seem to stick in my head, but every other thing doesn’t.
I have lost a lot of valuable friends because of this. Yes! It’s that bad.
There was a time I had a huge quarrel with a toxic friend, we ended up breaking up our friendship. But when the next semester began, I started wondering why she wasn’t talking to me. I tried approaching her but she ignored me.
I didn’t understand her behavior until the day I was flipping through my diary where I read that I had quarreled with her.
Please, I need help! My mum complains a lot about my behavior! Do I have a medical condition?
This problem is so bad that I had to buy a bracelet that connects my phone to my hand because I have lost count of how many times my phone slipped out of my hands. If not for the sound that my phone makes when it hits the floor, I never would have known that it slipped off my hands.
I can’t write all of the experiences I’ve had, but please I need help! I’m tired of carrying a book Jotter/planner around, and I’m tired of setting an alarm for something small like “TAKE THE CUP BACK TO THE KITCHEN".
HELP ME!
I think you're exhibiting the symptom(s) of Alzheimer. Young-onset (also called early-onset) Alzheimer's is an uncommon form of dementia that affects people younger than age 65. About 5% to 6% of people with Alzheimer's disease develop symptoms before age 65.
SPAMBOX7: They are musical lyrics that motivates and inspires us to keep going in life no matter the condition we find ourselves in. Mine are "If them tell you say e easy na set up" by 2baba and "Overthinking no dey solve problem" by Zlatan
Drop yours let's harness from each other's motivation/inspirations
Ussycool: Mr. Mike lord is wonderful... [b]Hard work really pay. [/b]I wish you more than this in coming days... Pls help me with work in construction company. I am jobless and hopeless. Pls save a soul.
Wealth is not the result of hard work and enterprise. The grace of God found the OP when it mattered most. Even God Himself admits the race is not for the swift.
Yahaya Bello halts schedule to attend to people with Special needs
Moved to compassion on Wednesday, Kogi state Governor, Yahaya Bello, alighted from his vehicle to interact with some disabled persons who had been waiting outside close to his residence.
Joyfully displaying a banner with the Governor's portrait on it, the people with special needs expressed gladness when Governor Bello moved closer and exchanged pleasantries with them.
"Your Excellency. A man of simplicity. I doff my hat for you," a voice echoed from the crowd as the Governor exchanged pleasantries with everyone.
"I was just told you have been waiting to see me. I didn't know. I had to go out for a programme. So, when I was told, I had to turn back to come and attend to you," said the empathetic Governor.
Governor Bello, however, promised that they will be well taken care of and will listen to their demands/requests.
TheGidRedpiller: WHY ARE ONLY THE MOTHERS GLORIFIED Like seriously, why?!
Our fathers are the holy-beacon of a stable family, the main providers through and through, the ultimate sacrificers but yet, nobody sees them!! Most mothers are stay at home biittches, they literally do nothing, they just wait for the man to come home and start spending all he went out through out to day to hustle and yet, society deems it fit to elevate and glorify her simply because she has a womb and a human being actually came off her, something that was also the co-doing of the father though!
At this point, i think everything just pisses me off nowadays, i will just be all by myself and start increasing in breathing pressure because all of a sudden, i'm angry!
Fathers are the major constructions of a stable earth, they sacrifice EVERYTHING FOR EVERYTHING!! The people old enough to remember the last world war will give you a hint about the height to sacrifices men can actually make!
Luckydubby7: The way some of his supporters were commenting on this issue in one radio program got me wondering. Something jumped from N3000 to N9,000 to N10,000 and now reduced by N200 to N400. You are thanking Buhari. Say wetin happen.
Jaylynn: Okay, I know I'm gonna get a whole lot from you guys. But y'all take it easy. My best friend's the one in this situation. And I can't even answer her question cx I know how much she loves them.
Let your friend consider who she is most compatible with and be honest with them-both of them.
Anonymous993775: This might sound weird but I'm turned on when I see dead women. I find them attractive. I've masturbated to many dead women in movies and graphic pictures on the internet of random dead women, even here on Nairaland. I need some help. Sex with living women is boring and I lose erection. To sustain erection I have to think of them dead.
I need some advice.
If you are serious about overcoming these thoughts, then counseling is probably going to be the best approach. One of the best treatment methods may be cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT). This type of therapy applies behavioral therapy techniques in order to modify distorted thinking patterns that lead to the justification for the sexual urges. CBT also incorporates relapse prevention techniques. These generally help to control undesirable behaviour by avoiding situations that may be triggers for the desire.
There is help out there for you. I recommend starting with an individual counselor and see what she or he suggests, then go from there.
anytime am in Nigeria people tend to always refer to me as an Igbo boy,like to b honest, that thing is just fucking to frequent.. And for sometimes now, it becoming a bordering to me??
so guys, what are the characteristics that make you assume someone is an 'igbo'
JackDaAlienz: I went to my uncles home for christmas holiday and what i experienced there was dissapointing
How can a GROWN MAN not control and enforce home traning on his 4 little kids. He always leave everything for the wife, who is overwhelmed and is not doing a good job either.
The worst part is that he will allow these kids to be awake watching tv till 12 am midnight while he will be playing video games. If the kid misbehave, i correct them, they start crying loud and this man will always come out and defend them. He cant command his kids to go to bed, he always beg them. A grown man begging his kids to go to bed.. Wtfffff And if you see how big this my incle is you will think he is ufc fighter but at home his children are the boss.
He always talks like he is smart but i feel PITY for him when these Children grow up to be mannerless cult boys, he will be scratching his head asking what did he do wrong.
Some men are not fit to be fathers some of them are still Baby Adults that cant train their kids.
Are there good mannered cult boys? However, I am genuinely concerned for your uncle and his wife.
EdoFirstBorn: Gave my 8 year old a switch blade and taught her how to aim for the arteries and stab pull downwards and outwards when removing the blade. I taught her all the vulnerable spots in an adult man's body, the armpit the lower inside thigh , the abdomen the neck, the diaphragm, the kidney, eye balls etc
My little princess is deadly and can protect herself. I told her how to breath deeply and take a hard punch . Tomoe Gozen in the making. Tomoe Gozen was an onna-musha, a female warrior in pre-modern Japan.
As a single father I gotta make sure she can protect herself to an extent
Tomoe Gozen in the making. Tomoe Gozen was an onna-musha, a female warrior in pre-modern Japan.
Moferere: I thought they said they don't kneel nor prostrate for anybody but God? They speak with both sides of their mouths, very confused set of people Yesterday, it was Biafra or nothing, Today, it is 2023 presidency, Tomorrow, it is restructuring.
DSC7: I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....
We dated from 2012-2016,,,,
During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....
By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....
And we don't have each others contacts again
So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....
Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....
I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be
Your loyalty to your brother is everything. Therefore, I would strongly advise you to tell him yourself before he finds out from the said lady and/or from someone else...
Omuneizzy6: I'm just posted to Lagos to service the country, everything is provided.. But I went to the market to get some foodstuffs including gas cylinder I was told 3kg is 12,000 in fact I thought the price went high because of my uniform... How much do they sell 3kg gas cylinder in your area.. If any one can help me..
1,650 Naira for 3KG at one gas plant situated at Alakija (Festac Town 3rd gate).
Romance › Re: Why Did Your Last Relationship End?? by ekitimanalways(m): 1:07pm On Mar 20, 2022
My best friend's the one in this situation. And I can't even answer her question cx I know how much she loves them.