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Sister be happy and go for thanksgiving.
Thank God for saving you from a prospective terrible marriage experience.
You might not like this advice but still I will advice you to ignore him and move on with your life even if he comes back begging with his whole family.
It's better to stay single than to experience a terrible marriage because once you enter you will start giving yourself 1000 reasons to stay and endure which might mean you will live the rest of your life in bitterness and regret

MrRhymes101:
Lol drugs in her handbag? Even people wey d hide the drugs for belle they still d catch them.
Landed at the airport and just starts running? Even Jackie Chan no fit outrun airport security.
This story no clear...

Story that have been popping up since 2021

sarrki:
If everyone can hold their governors accountable the center is just the unifying factor

We see Wike

We see umara zulum

We see hope uzodinma

We see David umahi

We see Babajide sanwolu

We see el Rufai of kaduna

We see umaru ganduje

What excuses do others have of not performing

Lately we see charles soludo

That's one of our major problems, we so much focus our attacks on the federal govt and allow state governors and get away with their incompetence.
I believe if we are able to hold our governors, reps and senators accountable, they will do the work of holding presidents accountable

The problem is not that they are relating but that they are doing it behind you and that’s a very big red flag.
Something might be going on but just observe more before you conclude

Your pregnancy? Child she will carry for 9 month while you continue with your life is "your pregnancy", "not her pregnancy" or "our pregnancy".
If she dies at childbirth now, the next week you've jumped into bed with another woman.
Sometimes sit and reason well. If she asks you to give up 9months of your life for something she wants, will you?

Kobojunkie:
What the heck kind of question is this? Does her being HIV positive somehow diminish the fact that she is your sister?

Ask him that again.
It's unfortunate that someone with access to the internet still choose to reason like a primitive being. Even if it's not his sister how does her HIV status affect staying in the same house if they are grown ups that can maintain personal hygiene and make sure she is getting her drugs regularly.
This type of stigma is the reason why people are keeping their status secret, not going to hospital for drugs and just roaming about spreading the virus.
The only crime she committed was abandoning the family cos It might have just been one night of mistake that gave her HIV.
Some people are saying she went into prostitution forgetting that there are faithful married people that got HIV from a cheating partner and lot of us even have unprotected sex without encountering such consequences so let's not judge.

If you plan to use the phone for at least 3years then I'll advise you to buy iphone 12/13 or any Samsung 5g phone cos you don't want to be stuck with 4g for long in a country with 5g network

MrOjay1:
I expected him to treat me with some decency bro.I'm his cousin bro and we were kinda close when we were kids.He occasionally visited us with his mom.

Even if you were a total stranger, he ought to treat you better. There are good people in this world and there are bad people, it doesn't take killing someone to be a bad person and i can tell you that someone that behaves as your cousin is just a bad person.

You could go back but one thing i know is that such a person will never allow you get to his level, he might eventually make you feel like you belong but he'll never really allow you belong

Could be postpartum depression.

Na scam and it's always friends running this scam, your brother should just remove that person from people he calls friends.
Someone i know even did the same scam on his own blood brother, the guy paid only for the people to tell him that he will have to scam someone else to get his money back

VictorUSA:
This was the message I sent to my uncle who lives in America and he sent me just N30,000.

"Good morning uncle...I first of all appreciate your previous assistance.But I want to tell you that it's not enough.I'm 19 and jobless, but I really need money.I would appreciate anything that comes from you."

I pity those around you cos you are clearly an entitled prick, why don't you text him and tell him never to insult you with such poor amount of money.
Because he is in US you think he plucks money from trees, do you know his living condition there abi you are not aware there are people also struggling to survive there, did you sit to think of all the other people he is shouldering and other financial obligations before him.
Employ a town crier let him go around your community and tell everyone how wicked and stingy your uncle has been to you

henrimoto:
I think this is the latest format in town. A friend of mine had an encounter, what saved him from doing the bid of the scammers was someone that was around when the scam call came in. Once the caller from the other end of the phone gets your full attention, they would use it to hypnotize you

It's not latest, this type of scam has Been happening for years

Children are also capable of great evil.
One morning while on my balcony I saw a boy that stays just opposite my house dragging his younger brother to school with him and the younger brother was crying cos he doesn't want to go to school.
After walking like that for a while the elder brother now got angry and started dragging him back home, picked up a small stick and flogged the younger brother on his buttocks.
On getting close to their house the younger started punching his own head.
They got to their compound and this boy hit his head on a wall, fell to the ground and started shouting on top of his lungs, their aunt came out and saw the bump on his head and started shout for the older brother, another passersby came and asked the younger boy how he got the bump on his head and this boy opened his mouth and said the older brother hit him on the head. They were about to dissect that older brother before i now started shouting for them to not touch the boy cos i saw the whole thing and the older brother never hit him on the head.

Kriss216:
At least he sold the lands for valid reasons. Not like he's squandering the money

How are the first and third reason valid.

He sold a land to marry, meaning he has no savings or steady income, how does he now take care of the new wife and her children if not to sell more lands.

He sold a land to get tittled, please what a broke man's business with tittle. Tittle that in some places means it will cost a hell lot of money to do the man's funeral rights when he dies.
Yes the children has no right over his properties but that man is a very selfish father

All this people talking about separating and then growing fond of each other while separated and then coming back together, I'm here to tell you that you are all mad. As long as abuse is involved whether physical or emotional, brothers and sisters please divorce.
Someone inherently evil and wicked will remain so whether they are fond of you or not, It will only be a matter of time before he/she goea back to abusing you after you get back together.
Brethren please divorce that devil and have peace because dying in a abusive marriage will not automatically take you to heaven, infact if we are being literal with the Bible, being in an abusive relationship will take you to hell because is it not the temple of God that you are subjecting to constant demolition, mentally and physically.
Mind you that emotional abuse in some case is worse than physical abuse so it's not until he/she starts beating you that you'll say you are being abused.
If Jesus comes today I'm sure the church will crucify him again the way they did before because he was not conforming with their interpretation of the scripture.

DontBullshitMe:
I have a very big problem with Osibanjo's declaration.

The declaration for Presidency by Osibanjo is borne out of nothing but greediness. C'mon, this man has been in Aso rock for almost 7 years and spent about 1 of it being the President.

Isn't it obvious to him that Nigeria is fundamentally unfixable. To fix Nigeria, there are some harsh, unpopular policies that need to be executed and promoted nationwide. One of them is : to aggressively slow down population growth. Another is : coming to realization that Nigeria is not a very rich country, and taking active steps to foster industrialization so that taxation can be more aggressive.

Osibanjo himself knows he can't fix Nigeria, who is he deceiving?

A person who has never held any position of authority in Aso rock can still pardoned for thinking they can fix Nigeria on the basis of ignorance.

You've said it all but the most important of your points is our population issue.
Why our leaders have never made curtailing population growth a topic is still beyond me. I know due to religion and some traditions it's seems to be an unpopular opinion but we just have to accept that we are outgrowing our resources at a very fast rate, that's if we've not already outgrown it cos i don't see any wonderful government policies that can be able to lift 80% of our current poor population out of poverty in the nearest future.

Our population is one of our biggest problems after bad governance and the worst is that the majority of births each year is from the poorest in the country

Staph is found everywhere, even on your skin so a mistake while collecting the urine sample could have contaminated it but still go for another test but this time be sure that the urine goes directly from your prick into the container, just collect the urine midstream

If you are anambra i can direct you to a police officer that have dealt with a similar case

I tell people that I'll rather marry a woman that doesn't go to church at all than to marry one that is a religious fanatic

Their pastor will be lord and savior, his words will be final in whatever decision she wants to make

Someone is alwys spiritually responsible for any minor discomfort and it's always your friends or your family members, the cause of your misfortune or theirs is never from her own side. In the end she will destroy your relationship with your family and friends

Their is always a Neighbor that is attacking her spiritually, most times it's the landord/landlady if you guys are still tenants

To them, problems that can be sloved with critical thinking can only be solved by praying and mistakes that should be blamed on human errors will be blamed on forces from the village

Infact when they talk, you find it hard not to believe that they have lost some of their senses if not all and i can not with clear eyes go and marry a lunatic

donbrowser:
That's not even the issue. Bandits have been calling with phone numbers and none of them have been tracked with NIN. So what's the point?

Or maybe the bandits didn't link their sim and now that outgoing calls have been banned, maybe their operations will be impacted.
Let's call a spade a spade, their is no excuse why anyone should not have linked his/her NIN.
Telecos made it very easy and yet some of us has sworn to be more stubborn than a male goat and now we are online to rant
Truth be told the attitude of the majority of Nigerian makes us deserving of our leaders, the little we can do, we won't do it but rather blame govt for everything

I don't like the idea of Tinubu as president but what's with all this childish name calling here and there. It's not even as if the name calling is to his face or will it stop him from becoming president if majority of North and Southwest decides to back him.

Seems we have not learnt that election are not won through petty name calling and emotional utterances. In winning elections one just have to be strategic.

I'm sorry to say it but if we are being truthful to ourselves, In terms of wining presidential election the southeast and Southsouth holds very little sway cos we don't have the population and secondly year after year voters turn out on election days particularly in the southeast has been going down and this is just why PDP doesn't want to go by zoning .

While we are here calling names, rejecting and binding, Tinubu and his royalist are already building a formidable coalition.

I'm not in anyway exited by the prospect of an igbo president cos if we are being realistic and truthful to ourselves, the current mindsets in this country makes it very difficult for an igbo president to emerge even if he/she happens to be very qualified and that's because a greater majority of Nigerians still vote based on personal interest and ethnic/tribal sentiment. For example i know a lot of us igbos that blame the notherns and some parts of the south for bringing Buhari to power will vote for someone as unqualified as OUK over a more qualified candidate from the north.

To end the long talk, we the citizens are still the ones to a very large extent holding ourselves back.

Small hungry children from different tribes in Nigeria will always find a way to make everything about tribe while those that their work matters are out there building bridges and expanding their reach.

If you cannot have an open mind towards your girl being a bisexual just end the relationship cos you can't change her sexual orientation and she herself can't help it

At various points in her live she will always be attracted to some girls and sometimes she will act on that attraction and you trying to change her by giving her ultimatum or something like that will only make her hide that aspect of her life from you and make her even resent you so gradually the relationship will still end

I've dated two girls that happend to be bisexuals and trust me a lot of girls are on that table and if i learnt anything during my time with those girls, one thing i learnt is that if they are into a guy, they are fully committed to having that guy as the only guy they love but you'll just have to learn to share her with another girl but just make sure that other girl is not a strict lesbian cos those ones don't like to share and if your girl allows her, she'll definitely wreck your relationship cos their men jealousy can't even compare to theirs.

Instead of trying to outright change her, just try to work with her, you might be surprised at how that will be more effective in helping her curtail that side of her and you just might end up having her all to yourself

So if you have an open mind about the whole thing, go for it but if you don't just end it cos she really can't change who she is, you can't and your pastor can't as well.

yanabasee1:
Mumu.... I never said it measure maturity....


You idiots just read to quote and not to understand...


Gettat

Ode what does it mean for someone to have a childish mentality.

If you don't understand having a childish mentality as being mentally immature then you are even more immature than i thought.

You are the one who lacks understanding

AntiBMC:
Every imported thug/hoodlum will be tagged ESN. Same stunt they pulled at d EndSARS protests. We know.

Keep deceiving yourself until your loved ones are the one being burnt.
Let us all keep supporting the evil that will be our end in the name of biafra.
Go and ask the people of borno state that were supporting boko haram in the beginning how they are feeling now. They thought boko haram was fighting a good cause for Muslims but today boko haram don't discriminate in their killings.
Keep on deluding yourself till it comes to your doorstep and you feel the pain of losing someone to the evil you are defending

yanabasee1:
If all the children in your family have gotten married and began to raise a family and you don't seems to bother about it.....than you are yet to grow up.... You still have a childish mentality...


No one is forcing you to get married... But marriage shows that one has gotten to a stage in their life that they'd begin to take responsibility....

Being a man isn't just sleeping around with different girls... but going to get a woman traditionally to become your wife .


Go and marry and gettat from here....

If marriage is your yardstick for measuring maturity then you ain't mature.
It's not only priests and nuns that are exempted from staying single and if it's God's wish that we all should get married then the ratio of male to female birth/death in the whole world should be 1:1
It's Better to stay single and happy than to get married and stay unhappy for the rest of your life

Nothing stopped them from killing him at the point of arrest or on transit to Nigeria.

Those whitish stuff look like tonsil stones and if thats the case you'll need to visit a dentist to get them removed. More could be hiding in those pockets i see there. You might have what is known as tonsillitis.

So long gone are the days when prophets will stand in the presence of kings and criticize them of any wrong doing and also dash then at least on devastating prophesy from God

Immediately i saw the picture i knew it was an ingrown toe nail. You need to see a podiatrist but unfortunately I've never heard of one in any hospital in Nigeria

She didn't see all this before the court marriage abi. Girls please stay clear from any man that gets furious over a missed call, unless it's you who have made it a habit to be missing his calls regularly.
He probably doesn't trust you to be faithful because he himself is not so anytime you miss his call, his first and only assumption is that you are with another man.
With that his anger issue be ready to be receiving regular slaps and occasional serious gbas gbos.

In the quest for marriage I've seen girls turn a blind eye to some dangerous traits exhibited by their husband to be only to lose every atom of happiness once married, they just become a shadow and just by looking at them you can tell how miserable they feel.