₦airaland Forum

PETUK:
You forgot Walkman

luminouz:
I want the full gist bro...

Narrate your heart out

adonainana:
Following this thread carefully

Thank God it was in the US the person made his 450k dollars and not in the UK

Uk na your mate, they no born any immigrant in the UK to make £300 k cash in even 15 years self more less 4..

Even the British prime minister earns just about 150k per year and tax is 45 percent for him . ( tax rate in the UK is 20 percent from between £12570- 50720PA, then its 40 percent tax BTW £50721- £150,000.)

So if the prime.minister of a country is been taxed of up to 50 percent and he hasn't even paid his rent, living expenses, etc where he wan save £300k from more less an immigrant with a less paying job

Like they never born that immigrant that would dream of making such big amount here in the UK.

I have never been to the US before but wages there are extremely higher than the UK albeit higher taxes but real good emphasis on high wages

pansophist:
Go to the website of the country's embassy you want to apply from, then read and follow their procedure. If you do it right, you might end up paying only the application fee of 60 euros.

You may spend money gathering necessary documents such as health insurance, legalisation and translation. But it's easy. To get an appointment, send an email to the embassy (I'm sure about Spain since I helped someone got a visa last month there).

At worse, you'll get a refusal, which doesn't have any fatal effect. But if you use agents, especially when you pay for them to gather documents on your behalf, you risk not only s rejection, but a ban. You'll never get a visa to visit Europe anymore.

Tell me your circumstances, and I'll diagnose yout case and calculate your chances or getting a visa, and how you should go about it.

advanceDNA:
How did we get to this point where its okay for someone to date or marry a person just for money.??.. we now have pple that tell men that have no right to have feelings until their accounts have lots of zero....that they must make money before they can deserve women that have nothing.....and we also have pple like u that justifies these dirty superficial women...

Its absurd

pansophist:
This your calabar analogy, abeg break am down. Are you saying that a successful person should help someone who is hardworking (the cow) and not lazy (the horse)?

If yes, then it's true. You're right. There is this false notion that when someone is suffering, it's not their fault. That he is suffering because his brother didn't help him, or his father is a drunkard.

In many cases, lots of people are suffering due to their own fault. I know many idiots like that. I am a very empathetic person and hate seeing people suffer, which made me became a magnet for lots of people who need help.

Over the years, I've come to accept the harsh fact that some people are like stone, even if they believe they are seeds. Doesn't matter if you expose them to the brightest sun, freshwater, manure and the most fertile ground, they are loosers. They won't grow.

If you help them up, then you must keep being the foundation so they will keep staying up. If you leave, they disintegrate. Their strength is external, not internal. They are basically scum.

I know a looser with three baby mamas, smokes and do drugs, lazy and pompous to the core. I hosted this guy in my house for a year, but while I though I was helping, I didn't know I was training a snake filled with envy.

His seasonal Yahoo money was not sustainable, but he wouldnt go get a job. This was far back when I was still a student. I was doing a dirty job, struggling in a foreign land, but when I come back home, I can't sleep on my bed because this idiot brought a girl home.

Until I kicked him out. Up till now, he lives in lonely women's house. Women whom are desperate for a man. He is a leech that needs a host. If you don't know him, he will create stories that will make you pity him and help.

So that's just a good example of how a lot of idiots are the architect of their own problems. So yes you're right. You help a cow, not a horse. Cow that have sense.

LikeAking:
Broker men have suffered on NL..

pansophist:
How about the understanding that you can take a horse to the river but won't make it drink water ?

Richy4:

Which kind vow Una swear?

That day when them ask you...Do U promise to take this man to be your lawfully wedded husband, to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, forsaken all other,..
U opened your well brushed.. Colgate minty mouth.. Lipstick infested lips and 15 megawatts of smile and say I do.. u think say Na play u go play for there?🤭🙊

Make U stayOoo, U supposed to honour the "poorer" aspects of the vow😝

Na that AC part of the story got me laughing...Abi he no dey on AC before when he get job? How come u find it disgusting now?. make you just remove the AC and sell first before he first you remember am😂

pansophist:
op, if you mean this post in the context of marriage, then of course you made a whole lot of sense. The worth of a man is in the provision, to be able to take care of his family. But if it is in the context of a mere relationship, then no, he owes you nothing. And also, feel free to assume your duty as a woman only after marriage. So no sex, kissing, and domestic duties. It's fair that way.

In my book, a vulcanizer that has his own self-contain, who earns honorably, and who can take care of a woman reasonably is responsible in my book. Lots of men can start a family, but the expectations of women these days are very high, making men feels like they are not good enough.

If you want an iPhone 14 pro that costs over a million, then a banker earning 300k monthly won't be able to afford it for you. Does it mean he is not responsible again? The issue here is the disconnect between women's desires and the reality of things.

Women's needs are not proportional to realities on the ground, but exponential. So for example, a man earning 200k naira monthly in the context of Nigeria is above average, but lots of women will consider him poor, that he is not good enough for them. This is the lack of proportionality I mean.

If both of you live modestly, his salary should be enough, and if you are not lazy, you can make it easier if you work as well. Also, the way women analyze the financial depth of a man's pocket, the man is also analyzing if this girl is a gold digger.

There is this story in the bible where Jesus appreciated the offering of a poor widow and rejected the ones by the wealthy men simply because it came from a good heart, and it was over-proportionate to what she had. She basically gave all.

In my book, a vulcanizer that gives you 50k, but earns 100k a month is a hero, compare to a yahoo thief that buys you a phone worth millions. But in this Nigeria, many girls will choose the yahoo boy over the vulcanizer.

So it is not black and white. Men are trying. The average man wants to be loved and will do everything to get that taste of a woman's warmth who loves him purely. A bit of empathy is needed for men.

For men, the love they experience dries as they grow older. So for example, a girl of 16 years will be receiving love and attention from multiple channels, such as parents, toasters, boyfriends, brothers, and so forth.

A boy of 16 probably gets love only from his parents, no girls are lining up to take him out. If he asks a girl, then love in form of cash will go from him to her. And the older he gets, his parents will become his dependents. Meanwhile, a girl will marry and her husband continues showering her love from where everybody stopped. But of course, after she has selected the best of men in all her charity givers.

But even if a man marries his choice, he still has to spend heavily. She will probably love the kids more than him, and her love is only as valid as how long he can be useful materially. This is the reality of men. Even in these circumstances, men still accepted it. The least women can do is to match their desire with the realities on the ground, this is Nigeria, not Netherlands. We are broke in this country.

Whatever.

Regex:
Gold. Virtual gold that has no connection to the USA

pansophist:
It will collapse. The USA currently is very broke. By summer, the USA may not be able to pay for the interest on its 32T USD debt. It's a house of cards that has outlived all maneuvering, that the only thing that can save it is to defeat Russia and bail itself out via the spoilage of conquer.

Indeed, interesting time ahead

DontBullshitMe:
30 million is the 2023 population estimate and it will keep growing.

DontBullshitMe:
All these promises for less than 4 billion dollars yearly budget for 30 million population?

I wish everybody involved well.

cmoney22222:
Pls when is the other event and how can I contact the yatch people straight up to ask for the next event

luminouz:
Your last paragraph is dumb to be honest. You are ranting because a man chose to unwind on a boat cruise with his money? You want him to use the money to do community projects while neglecting the useless leaders whose roles are to provide these amenities?

You even made a blunder by saying when private individuals provide community projects then the chairmen and councillors will sit up and work? Lmaoooo...don't be a clown. Those mudafuckers will just have a bigger percentage of money to embezzle.

Say it. It hurts that another man is living your dreams.

EriMma1:
Why should a woman be the one to meet your needs? Are women meant to til the ground? That's the man's duty from creation and even though women are now doing it. It still doesn't give a man the right to her money.

Simpguy46:
I think these people are confused. Most of these guys quoting figures think the same way they easily rake in #1M monthly in Nigeria is the same way it dey easy to rake in $50k monthly in America 😂. LoL, except you're actually a business owner. Most of Those guys quoting figures are actually students on student Visa in the US making nothing more than $1500 monthly. But then it's a faceless forum

Regex:
Omo, the way guys are lying about this abroad something eh... 😂 😂 How! I know nurses are paid more, but not to the extent of nearly half a million. E choke oh.... Health sector in US that is under funded by their budget. Abeg.

naijaboy99:
No you make 10trillion dollars monthly. That factory job wey don bend your back still dey wait for you tonight. I just pray you get back your mental state after slaving like machine earning $13 per hour. Hope you steal your roommate beans and rice today cos the hunger wey blast you yesterday fit kpai you today

okuta007:
you dey see lie? 😂


dem think day as dem dey see N800k for Nigeria na so person dey see $800k 😂😂😂for yankee - if you truly live in the US these lies will irritate you to your bones

naijaboy99:
You can keep dreaming. After dreaming you go still wake up and go your $15 per hour job. I doubt you don chop today. Even doctors will struggle to raise $100k cash. You are allowed to mumu yourself here. Your true reality will continue to flog sense enter your head

bjnice:
When did 1 dollar shot to 900 naira in Nigeria? If I recollect, it is less than a 7 month ago. How did your friend took a loan with that period and within a year build and sold the house double of the money. Please you guys should be taking it easy with your lies biko.

okuta007:
gerrrarrrrahia lie lie master


America wey me I dey for the past 24 years na him you dey take lie for me so ? you no really get work

Kingofmykingdom:
I’ve been here in US for 3 years and will be 4 years next year June and I make more than $700k annually.2022 I made $988k

Falcon84:
Sense full your head bro

Many of them are actually struggling

He thing is, how can one be so pyschoathic as to lie and even be defending such lie

juman:
What I observed was more than ninety five percent of people tell lies.
So if anyone tell me anything, I will just say OK. I take it as probably a lie.

Emetex22:
My friends makes mor, I came here 2010 after NYSC for master but ended up staying. Most nurses at UCSF makes over $110 an hour lol, I am not kidding lol.
My wife is a nurse practioner and makes close to 450k a year

fashrola:
Abeg dey lie small small lol

Femisol:
Professor Katsuhiko Hayashi the Universe will strength you to finalize and patent the findings.

Modern Nigerian girls are cutting short the lives of young men in Africa.

If you are broke during the Research, Nigerian men are ready to support.

I rest my case.