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Sonnobax15:

Imagine some werey for up just dey advice madam op to cheat on her husband .

That's to tell you how irredeemable our society has become........When you come online to seek advice,na then you go know say over 90% of people using smart phones are just humans with the brains of native goats

WriteerNg:
⚡Serious malfunction in IDF: A bomb weighing about a ton fell from a fighter jet over Israel. There were no casualties.

They are now considering evacuating the residents from the nearby houses.

There is always no casualties.
You can always predict their report

pansophist:
And the intentions of the men no pure at all. They are just looking for an extra plate to add in their harem, or make her the first plate.

Besides, no man with options, who has value will be looking to wife up a friend's divorced partner. Attention has no value, though lots of women live and die for it.

Anyways like I always maintain, life is hard in itself, but harder if one is dumb. If any woman Take signal from honey men serious, and destroy her perfect relationship, she will have heself to blame.

Men pernis are very cheap, but their commitment is not.

Your last paragraph is true.
About the man trying to date his friend's divorced wife.
Na lashing now. Marry who? For wetin.
He had been rushing on the woman since because she is beautiful but the benefit of doubt is that she has a man in her life.
Being divorced throws the door open for many insults

WriteerNg:
⚡Riots in the French overseas territory of the Pacific Islands have not subsided. A ban on public gatherings had no effect, so the French authorities were forced to declare a state of emergency in New Caledonia for the next 12 days.

New Caledonia's Prime Minister Gabriel Attal announced the deployment of troops to restore order - a contingent of several hundred law enforcement officers was transferred from Marseille. Access to TikTok, which France called a tool for inciting unrest, has been blocked in the country.

Although Paris planned to end the riots in a few hours, it has not yet been possible to do so. Rioters are targeting warehouses and administration, while the police and army are primarily seeking to protect airports and critical infrastructure.

While we are busy watching the physical wars going on in isreal/Gaza and Ukraine/Russia, I think there is a silent war going on underground between the global powers.
Many countries under the shackles of western powers are being liberated from them codedly thereby quitely erroding their financial power.
Colonized countries are part of bedrock or pillars of western hegemony

pansophist:
Even without money, the mere presence of a male figure is security for a woman.

Instinctually, the predators of the earth (aka men lol) routine avoid targeting women who have a strong masculine background behind them. Either in the form of her fathers, husband, or even brothers.

To narrow the contribution of men to mere finances in being intellectually dishonest, or such a person never enjoyed the security coverage a man brings.

For example, in the US (I can't find data about Nigeria), most of the prison populations are from single-mother homes. Also, the girls you see doing only fans, e-prostitutions, and just unfortunate people.

It will be extremely difficult for a woman lady/man who has a proper upbringing in a healthy masculine household to fall into any of these societal vices.

Men bring direction, stability, authority, leadership, protection, moral guardians, and a figure of hope. Even a man who doesn't have enough money can still provide these things proportionally.

Anyone who downgrades, narrows, or vilifies the importance of men to mere cash has never had a good man, is trying to win an argument instead of being right, or is just downright idiotic.

You are 100% right bro.
They just have a funny way of downgrading men's efforts in the family ni.
Also like you said, a woman without masculine figure is bound to go astray or devoured by sharks.
A woman without a man in her life is a roaming prey in the mist of predators.
There is respect associated with women who have husbands compared to single ladies.
Have heard from a woman working with UBA whose husband lost his job and she is the one financing the house saying the reason why she doesn't want to divorce the man after catching the man cheating is because all sort of men will start approaching her and toasting her immediately they know she is no more married and in her husband house again.
One told my wife after divorce that she was shocked when one of her hubby's friends approached her (afterall she no more with the husband), and all sorts of idiots - taxi driver, co-workers, church members, she said it so shameful even the gateman of the house she packed to was also codedly giving her greenlights.
Something that would have been avoided if they are seeing hubby with her.

ChybuzzDD:
So, which other major care should a man provide other than these??

If a man manages to provide everything he kids need, he's definitely caring for them.

If he fails to do these, you guys will still crucify him

Leave them make them they play.
They have a funny way of downgrading financial impact of men.
They will tell you aside money what else can a man give as if that MONEY is not really the Koko that other things will fall into place.
Then another set will come that of money is the main thing men provide, then what else about women who make their own money and still going to carry preg and take care of the kids?
My answer to them is that then such a woman needs No Marriage or Man rather just sperm.
Then the whole hell would be let loose on me that am misogyny, woman hater blah blah blah but it is the bitter truth.
For a marriage to bond well and last long, there must be a strong reason backing it up and not just emotions or Love hence it may not go far.
A woman must need a man that will provide for her, better her life and change her status and in return a man needs a woman he can relax with, take care of the kids and home.
If we remove all these, a woman will lose taste in marriage because there is no incentive to be in one while the man will lose incentive to settle down too.
I can make this more visible with a clearer example.
Under normal condition, no one will like to wake up and go work for a company but nature as created that situation so as to make working mandatory and you see a reason to do one.
An employee needs money to solve his problem while an employer needs someone to do his work for his company to function.
There won't be a work in the first place if a company just needs to be paying set of people for no reason and employees too will stop working if they have to be working without being paid.
And the more lucrative the work is that can provide good comfort for the employee, the more dedicated and happy they will be to keep working in that company and achieve their life dreams like house, car, etc
I see most women with money as those who don't need marriage because a graduate from a rich home with a family that has so many companies and he has a family trust set up for him that is giving him 50m per year minimum will have no reason or incentive to look for work.
Incentives has to be there for things to function

IamHonourable1:
I married a woman based on the misconception that she would be a responsible woman just for the fact that she was raised by teachers who are her foster parents.She was in marriage and still jumped from one married man to another, about few months back, I just discovered she's a lesbian (although I had been suspecting her,I even asked her and she denied it).I also caught her with a intimacy gadget (very big vibrating preek). Coming across that woman is my greatest regret in life.

Chaii

Osonobiaaaa!!!

gigabyte13:
As a man
Help men more than women
Women no dey remember who help Dem, when road clear for them.
I dey tell you from my experiences
Help more men, no dey reason am say
Shebi you be Man like me
Let's say you help 100 women, if at all 30 remember you, na to ask for help again.
But men case no be like that .
Help men more.
E get why

TrainPark:
Married a narcissist on the verge of turning an evening newspaper.
She love bombed me and was well disguised to get me to marry her.

12 out of the 13 years of marriage was hell on earth. I did everything that I would normally never do from drinking alcohol to finding comfort on the breasts of oloshos just to survive and retain sanity.

Gave her heaven on earth hoping she will change since we already had kids. I took the mugu abroad only for her to dump me there leaving me with two young kids as a single father in a strange land.

I thank God she left the kids for me and I was alert to avoid any police case in oyibo land. I also thank God that she left.

I thank God that I met a beautiful smallie who is the best step mom for my kids and the peace of mind for me.

I thank God for a second chance to enjoy life, peace, and real love of spouse and children.

Watch the partner you are planning to marry with utmost caution. IT IS THE MOST IMPORTANT DECISION OF YOUR EARTHLY LIFE!

TRUTHaDDICTED:
Eeeh let them come and start paying our Groom's Price

masterfactor:
If you can find a way to negotiate with your creator, tell him that Africa expercially Nigeria is a no go area for you.

Fash20:
If your facility is 1km under ground I'm not sure even a nuclear bomb can get to there.

I think nuclear can get there.
If they can use nuclear to split the ground to create a path way for a new canal, it can do anything

heartofcity12:
Lol 😆

Helper indeed.
She dey find mugu

https://www.nairaland.com/8092048/relationship-7-years-going-down#129950866

Guys check this thread up.
You can feel the pains of the guy as he sees his relationship of hard 7 years slips off his hands.
Have been thinking about it and will reply him in due time but what amazes me regularly in relationships is how women easily work out without looking back.
It has to be studied.
7 years of emotional, physical, sexual, psychological investment and you can just easily discard all those and work out.
No wonder many women are not good in business and are hardly in first 100 richest humans in the world without inheriting the wealth from parent or divorce.
You can't have such mentality and be good in business or innovations.

WrriterNg:
⚡US McAlester Army Ammunition Plant is being expanded to increase the production capacity of the GBU-57A/B Massive Ordnance Penetrator (MOP).

Right now there is facilitation for just 2 of the massive bombs per month. The new assembly area will open sometime in the next 5 months and will allow for production of at least 6 and possibly 8 MOPs per month. It will also support production of 2000 & 5000 pound bombs.

MOPs are only integrated on the US Air Force's B-2 Spirit stealth bombers, and are essential to contingency plans for striking Iran or North Korea's hardened WMD & ballistic missile facilities.

Omoh... See bombs.
So basically, there is nowhere or place to hide a bomb that can't be destroyed.
If you site your facility under a mountain, it can be bombed to the underground thereby even causing far more earth shaking explosions of stored bombs underneath that can cause earthquakes instantly.
We are heading somewhere.

WrriterNg:
🤡 🤡 🤡 🇺🇸 🤡 🤡 🤡

So it is all about them leading others and not a fair playing ground.
Interesting.

WrriterNg:
⚡The US is considering sanctions against Georgia, if it passes an analogue of the Foreign Agents Registration Act.

Why always US? Why?
Why always sanctioning other countries for doing or passing laws beneficial to themselves?
Why?
Sanctioning is the duty of UN if any country goes against any of the UN charter and not another country.
US has sanctioned china, Russia, north Korea, Iran, Yemen and so many other countries and now India is about to enter due to a port to be constructed in Iran and Now Georgia AGAIN
With the way US is going, they may likely not be trading with half of the countries of the world by 2050.
One thing US should know by now is dad Humans hate to be controlled or dictated to.
It makes them feel less of themselves. Others are not kids to be controlled by a Bossy person

WrriterNg:
⚡ Malaysia will not recognize economic sanctions imposed by the United States or any other individual country, a top government official said yesterday, following claims from U.S. officials that Iran was relying on Malaysian service providers to sell U.S.-sanctioned oil in the region.

Home Minister Saifuddin Nasution Ismail said that he delivered the message “nicely” during a meeting in Kuala Lumpur yesterday with Brian Nelson, the U.S. Treasury Department’s top sanctions official.

“I emphasized that we will only recognize sanctions if they are imposed by the United Nations Security Council,” Saifuddin told reporters after his meeting with Nelson, the U.S. Treasury under-secretary for terrorism and financial intelligence, the Straits Times reported. “We don’t recognize any sanctions imposed by an individual country,” he added. “The U.S. delegation respected our stance.”

Exactly.
It is not the duty of a country to be imposing sanctions rather the job of UN

WritterNg:
⚡A major fire broke out at a military base in 'Or Yehuda', north of Tel Aviv, after an explosion was heard in a tent containing military equipment.

They have a funny way of downgrading attacks.
Fire didn't break out, the iron dome failed to intercept Hezbollah missile that hits isreal's military base

WritterNg:
⚡IDF observation balloon crashed and fell in Lebanese territory.

Crashed? Or was hit by Hezbollah missile?

useni1:
You don't know what you are talking about. I said over 700k American died during the occupation of Iraq. Nothing have changed since the 70's, wars are still being fought same way. America dropped more bombs on Vietnam than all the bombs dropped by all countries during the second World War. They still lied about their casualties there as over 1.5million Americans died. America have completed dvmb the world to think their soldiers are robot or cyborg. Even the Houthis have killed over a thousand American since October. America can fool the world but not me.

America and isreal can't fool me too.
They downplay their numbers alot.
Imagine isreal claiming to have lost just 140+ soldiers since October 7.
Baba iron.
Those guys have lost nothing less than 5000 since then.
How can you lose close to 1000 tanks yet 140 soldiers?
They don't even know how to lie sef

[quote author=lakeside3020 post=129939727][/quote]Thanks very much

sanyaolurilwan:
1. Everything you see on that page are all important and should be filled if it applies to you.

2. The same employment letter that was given to you when you got the job having all the necessary information such as: salary, position, etc. But it's best to attach a company introduction letter to employment letter, i may attach a sample of this letter here.

3. Yes, you should use the electronically generated bank statement for your application, especially if its signed.

RE: VISITOR VISA APPLICATION FOR OUR MANAGING DIRECTOR, Bleep Bleep Bleep
This is to confirm that Mrs. Bleep Bleep Bleep , Female, Muslim, Nigeria Citizen, Passport No: B****** is the Managing Director of Bleep Bleep Bleep.
She has authorized the issuance of this letter to introduce herself to your esteemed embassy. She has proposed to embark on a trip to Canada and she requires a visitor visa to enable her entry.
She is applying for a visit purpose, Her reason is to attend her younger brother’s graduation ceremony which will take place between the 7th and 8th of February, 2024. All necessary arrangements regarding the trip, all logistics/ travel plan and itinerary have been concluded for her visit to Toronto, Canada within the period of 4th February to 11th February, 2024.
She will cover all her travel expenses such as Flight Tickets, Hotel Accommodation, Transportation, Feeding, etc.) Incurred during her stay in the Canada.
.

Yours Faithfully,

N.B: Please remember to include all necessary information about you that relates to your employment in your letter such as: date of employment, current position and salary, it should also be included in the letter that the company had granted you your annual leave during this period and you are to go and return for you to resume your official duties (This is very important).

Wish you the best.

Thanks brother for taking your time to elaborate for me.

One more question.
This introductory letter, which address am i addressing it to for canada?

heartofcity12:
Back to my previous post, it was just a test, see CVs now 🤦‍♂️

Jesus Christ of Nazareth !!!
See ladies dropping CVs like job seekers
Osonobiaaaaa

olamoses75:
As a man, always be ahead of your game with a woman.


Back in 1994, Gabriel met Christina at a party and they really hit it off. They ended up getting married even though she was 30 years younger than him. They were happily married for 20 years.

However, Christina eventually decided that she wanted to get a divorce. But when she went to her lawyer, she was shocked to hear she was already divorced from Gabriel 20 years ago.

And this is because 4 months after their marriage, the couple went to Dominican Republic for a vacation and Gabriel divorced her there because that's the only country where one party can file for a divorce without informing the other party.

He said he did this because he knew one day Christina would divorce him and try to take his money. Who be fool?

I love this.
I really love this

SeaTrade:
If things don't change soon,
Nigerians will be so impoverished to the level of mass exodus.
I have never contemplated Japa,but I'm beginning to get open to the option.
The only hold back I have Is a replacement for myself or someone even smarter than me that understands my route to market like myself.
And another problem too is that I'd be exposing a lot of trade secrets to that person so much so that they can either let my competitors in on my secrets or try to throw me over.

Unfortunately, I don't see things changing any time soon.
And tbh, I started contemplating japa too of recent.
I may have been lucky, the question remains will my children be?
Is this the atmosphere they will grow in? During their time, if they are to work, how much will be salary in relation to standard and cost of living?
About you relocating, I will say it is a very hard decision.
Since you have a successful biz here, I will advise you stay while you plan how your wife and kids will be staying abroad while you go to see them regularly or you just buy a better passport and stay here with them but can easily be entering western countries easily.
Don't ever expose the secret of your biz to another person else they will float theirs later after gathering the necessary experience while your biz goes down.
It's hard running a biz in absentia or remotely Andi believe you don't want to relocate and start doing shitty jobs to survive when you are a king here.
It is better to be a dog in the city than a dead lion in the bush

nedekid:
Cheapest BYD I think is the seagull. About 10k usd in China. 25k in south America. To sell in eg UK, it will cost atleast 20k pounds after taxes are added. That means no way can a BYD cost ₦10m.
Guess what, late last year suzuki was doing a promo 9.7m for a brand new Korope. I hear it is now over 20m.
Even that gray color tiny suzuki car they use for taxi was about 9m then, I hear it is also almost 20m.
Nothing like ₦10m brand new car again, even the cheapest China moto or innoson pass 10m.

Jesus Christ of Nazareth!!!

Brand new car kee?
When many using tokunbo are even sliding into Nigerian used grade.
I wanted to buy Honda cross tour for my wife last months and my budget was 7m.
Omoh....my mechanic and I was soteyyyy for Lagos, for where?
Tokunbo 11-14m and reasonable nija used 8m.
Most we saw for less than 8m are really substandard.
You will see them clean and shining on social media but when you go there with your mechanic, you will be disappointed.
7m is about 5,000 dollars and that money is more than enough to buy you a very very clean and sound second hand in UK or US if you reside there to use but here, it is an eye sore.
Most Toyota Camry 2009/10 sef are pricing 5m for nija used oooooo and you start wondering if they are really crazy.
A 14 years old nija used car and not brand new or tokunbo pricing 5m and above.
They have really messed up nija economy

Vic2023:
🇮🇱🇵🇸 Hamas militants drop ammunition from a copter onto an Israeli Namer armored personnel carrier, however, there is only a hit.

Does Hamas have helicopter? If so, why is it not visible enough for isrealis to destroy and I thought the Gaza airspace is totally controlled by isreal? Right?

WritterNg:
⚡Eurovision 2025 winners.

What is actually the aim and objective of this event? Because all I see is a gathering of gays

pansophist:
Germany lol. Same Germany that deports thousands of Nigerians steadily?

Same Germany that the Nigerians there ain't smiling, dealing a heavy beating to Ike Ekweremadu?

Can't say about the rest tou mentioned, but Germany no follow.