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I think some people do not understand what Individual strengths and weakness are .

Some people will never work with a BREWERY.Due to their drinking habit.

Some people avoid having ARGUMENT with other people. Due to their Temperament(ANGER).

My friend resigned his job in with a Bank because the temptations are to much for him. While some stayed in the same bank, stole fund and are currently in jail.

No matter how smart you are, your weakness will always be there to hunt you. And the best way is to avoid the temptation.

The poster made the right decision. Let him stand by his decision and his wife will respect him for that in the future.

I forgot to add that HTC EVO 4G can stand as a wirelees Router for other devices.

But I PHONE 4g will not try that.

@poster

Are comparing Android OS with Apple iOS , or SAMSUNG GALAXY WITH I PHONE.

MY TAKE IS

1. Android OS far better than Apple iOS. Because Android OS is based on Linux open source, so you can ROOT and Jailbreak it . And still enjoy you device to the fullest.

2. Among Android OS device, HTC is has the best phones on Android OS and not Samsung.

The best Android OS Phone till date is the HTC EVO 4G and not the SAMSUNG GALAXY.

So if you compare the HTC EVO 4G WITH I PHONE 4g.

HTC EVO 4G WINS

BECAUSE THE HTC EVO 4G CAN GIVE 4G CONNECTIVITY WHILE THE I PHONE 4g CANNOT.

swiftycool:
Is this kinda dumb or am i the only one getting this picture? You hav a boyfriend you hav only met 6 to 12 times in 6years and you are still there deceiving yourself worried about him getting mad from miles away. I tot Naija girls were wiser than this. Trust me you will soon discover after another 6yrs that he has been happily married or in a relationship with someone physical for all these years. You will b back on NL to tell d story of how bad men are 4 wasting your precious years! trust me we've heard it b4. As far as i know u guys are just online chat bodies. Believe it or vex. NONSENSE!!!

Well, if you say so,

Then that MR.B may also be her other backup boyfriend.Since she is closer to the MR.B than her bf.

And MR.B is also in a  long distance relationship too. So fair is fair.

sleekch1c:
@op,it is not in your place to forgive her
u self righteous freak!
forgiveness belongs to God
and only he can judge your so-called purity/perfection
2 things-either continue with her,
or move on and find your miss purity
damn!
i think the tests u re going for is bullcrap,for judas' sake
the chic had an abortion and not a hysterectomy!

@sleekch1c

I hate to see people, insult the post because of his MORAL STAND.

THE POSTER IS A PRODUCT OF GOOD UP-BRINGING, IN A SOCIETY WHERE PEOPLE SEE SEXUAL FLING AND ABORTION AS NORMAL.


I am sure that even that girls parent do not know about that abortion.

Because no reasonable parent will tolerate that.

I will advise the poster to carry-on with the lady since she has opened up to him.

BUT THE TREAD IS RATHER OLD, I THINK THAT POSTER WOULD HAVE FORGOTTEN ABOUT THIS ISSUE.

[quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=567208.msg7329415#msg7329415 date=1292281485]It is not everyday that you see an ex-agbero turn into a bank manager. Women have their reasons for seeking a CEO husband. If you must put up with[b] the crap known as men[/b], you can as well put up with a very successful one.[/quote]What do you mean by that statement in bold.

So the EDUCATED SON of a BANK MANAGER is a crap to the DAUGHTER of MIKE ADENUGA. Because their STATUS DIFFERS .

I really wonder how some people reason.

naijacutee:
Photoshop

It is not a Photoshop.

That is Pionen White Mountains Sci-Fi Data Centers in Stockholm.

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/sci-fi-data-center-stockholm-pionen

http://scyfilove.com/708/pionen-white-mountains-nuclear-bunker-in-stockholm-offers-office-fit-for-a-bond-villain/

http://gizmodo.com/5626342/pionen-white-mountains

naijacutee:
Photoshop

It is not a Photoshop.

That is Pionen White Mountains Sci-Fi Data Centers in Stockholm.

http://www.trendhunter.com/trends/sci-fi-data-center-stockholm-pionen

Women are funny creature.

They want to marry a men taller than them.

They want to marry a man higher than them.

They want to marry a man with status above their own.

Yet, they do not want the man to control them.

Yet, they want equity in the relationship. How ironic.

They forget that STATUS it-self is not permanent. Only change is permanent .

I have seen MOLUE BUS CONDUCTOR become a B.SC holder, and he is currently BRANCH MANAGER with a BANK.

idupaul:
https://www.umuahiaibeku.com/DSC_0275a.jpg

THE SOLDERS DOING THE KILLING ARE LOOKING SAD, BUT GOVERNOR ORJI SEEMS TO BE THE ONLY MAN SMILING.

THAT CRIMINALS DEATH, IS A NICE COVER UP FOR HIM.

no way!!!

I just remember 9ICE married RUGGEDMAN's EX and the rest na story.

zionmmv:
@switdick (m), Define a MAN for me?It is that ego/pride of yours that is your weakness, which of course they are smart enough to exploit, by making you feel as if you are in control while you are not.The moment you are N.A.K.E.D in front of a woman,every pride that you have is gone.That is always their aim, to lay you bare and have Your life in their hands.
Being loyal and recognizing that they are stronger doesn't make you weak,rather it puts you on the side of strength which if you are smart enough,will keep you alive from High Blood Pressure/depression and stroke which is what you will suffer when you drag power with them.Your relationship with the opposite gender IS LIKE A GAME OF CHASE.'I am the man' doesn't work,as you are subconsciously and constantly giving your powers to her.
I don't know how old or how read you are,but experience will show you as you grow older.If you doubt it,go ask your mam,she knows how to get your dad.

MAN I AGREE WITH THAT PART.

That is why you see SMALL GIRLS, bring down PROFESSORS, GENERALS, POWERFUL MEN OF GOD e.t.c

But a man still have the power to dictate his role, if he shows high level integrity in relationship.

@ Poster

I can see that you are one of those SMALL BOYS that counts bleeping women as an achievement.

Mr Mumu, i dare!!! to release your so call wiki leak sexual act with those women. And let's see who will suffer.

An indigenous Information Technology company, Zinox Technologies Limited, had brought in 14,000 units of the DDC machines from China and Dubai, on Sunday

What is INDIGENOUS  about  ZINOX TECHNOLOGIES when they have to import  14,000 units of the DDC machines from China and Dubai.

Now some of the DDC  machines are missing.

LOL in Efik .

NIGERIA WE HAIL THEE!!!!

Pame:
LET ME TELL U CATEGORICALLY HERE THAT Kmoney HAS SAID IT ALL. TRY TO UNDERSTAND THE BODY LANGUAGE THE WOMAN WAS TRYING TO PASS ACROSS TO U.THE HANDWRITING IS CLEARLY SEEING ON THE WALL. I WILL NOT ADVICE U TO THREAD THE PATH OF PEEPING INTO THE HONEY POT OF THE TWO OF THEM IF YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND YOUR JOB. EAT THE CAKE THAT CAME BEFORE YOU FIRST(THE BOSS) IF SHE PRESENT IT BEFORE YOU. DON'T FORGET TO GIVE HER A CLEAN JOB- MIND THE HUBBY AND THE SISTER HAVING KNOWLEDGE OF THIS.

JETTISON THE IDEA OF GETTING DOWN WITH THE SISTER FOR NOW, THAT MAY COME IN LATTER PROVIDED EITHER YOU OR SHE IS NO LONGER WORKING IN THE OFFICE AGAIN. AS LONG AS YOU STILL SEE THE PLACE AS YOUR PRESENT PLACE OF SURVIVAL, THE ANTY (YOUR BOSS IS YOUR GAMING). PBLEASE MAKE THINGS SNAPPY. CUT OFF SEEING THE SISTER, PRESENT YOURSELF A GOOD BOY AGAIN BEFORE YOUR BOSS.

THIS MAY SOUND ODD, BUT IT'S GOOD FOR YOUR HEALTH CONSIDERING THE PRESENT SITUATION OF THINGS

AND WHAT KIND OF ADVICE IS THAT. Do you have to bleep your boss at her request?

Why is our generation SO SEXUALIZED , thinking about sex all the time.

GUY!!! FACE YOUR JOB OR RESIGN .

If you mix your JOB WITH RELATIONSHIP, you will l regret it.

BECAUSE YOU WILL SURELY LOSS BOTH .

Phate07:

Not necessary if you trust your partner.

TRUST

Bros, marriage it self is filled with drama.So you cannot say 100% you know whats on your partner's mind because you are not GOD.

I am very happy that AMERICAN MEN have woken up to realities and protecting their hard earned assets in-case relationship fails.

jellyface:
MY BOSS HATES ME FOR DATING HER NIECE.

Hi Nairalanders, I am in dire need of opinions as I am under intense pressure and facing a difficult situation. For more than 2 yrs, I ve worked in perfect harmony with my boss and she showed fondness for me that made my colleagues wondering and asking if I was dating her (My Boss). She calls me when on my Annual leave or when on a trip and always invited me to her house for Easter, X-mas and her Buffdays alongside some selected staff. We ve never had any problem till I started dating her niece whom I met last year on her Buffday. I liked her and exchanged phone numbers. We got along and she loves me so much. She got me gifts and treated me like I was married to her. The affair has been perfect for a year without her Aunt’s (My Boss) knowledge.

When some of my colleagues discovered I was dating My Bosses Niece, it was no longer a secret and I decided to tell her myself before she discovered. She didn’t get angry the day I told her after office hours but I could see she was shocked. I called her that same evening when I got home and she said she needed to sleep over it. Then the subsequent days, she began to act strange in the office but I kept my cool and didn’t say a word. We hardly spoke to each other beside greetings.

Three weeks later, on a weekend, she met me at my girlfriend’s house (Her niece) as i was leaving, she came to see her sister that happens to be my girlfriend’s mother. When she saw me, she grew furious and answered my greetings in a cold manner. She treated me like I was a stranger, so I left got so confused with the whole drama . I am not scared of her but at the same time I don’t want to have problems with her as its already affecting me in the office. Maybe, I encroached into her territory or I crossed the line. Should I apologise to her and walk away from the affair or act like it doesn’t bug me and continue with the relationship? Quickly come to my aid, NAIRALANDERS with your sincere suggestions as to how I should handle this case. Thank You in advance for your contributions.

Why is it difficult for some people to separate THEIR JOB FROM RELATIONSHIP.

Your BOSS is not have a crush on you, but she is angry that you are dating a close relation of hers .

And more embarrassing is that you are meeting each other at her family house.

My guy no boss in Nigeria will tolerate that to them it is disrespectful.

If you want to enjoy your work always do your job in a very-professional way and trying staying way from any relative of hers(YOUR BOSS).

OR ELSE ONE DAY SHE WILL DISGRACE YOU OPENLY.

I AM TELLING YOU FROM EXPERIENCE.

Im guessing it is because couples just take for granted that their spouse is always there and they dont really appreciate them as they did in the beginning. It goes both ways. You just get used to a pattern and follow it. It doesnt make it right, just what you are so used to.

Question for married couples only, why don't you kiss/hug more often. Compared to when you were dating.

harakiri:
They are more "religious" because of their curious nature. Women always want to bend/twist/break the rules, have an upper hand in manipulating issues. . .etc. Pick out 10 women randomly from a congregation and i can assure you that none of them are there all because they "love" god and want to understand him. . .rather, they are there for the following :

(1)Protection from perceived "enemies" e.g husband snatchers,witches in the village and so on.
(2)Divine favor and blessings e.g promotion at work (even when they aren't qualified)
(3)Divine intervention from "above" e.g Deliverance from frustrating situations
(4)Looking for potential husbands e.g ***self explanatory***. . .lol
(5)E.T.C

They are more gullible than their male counterparts and will believe any story that has an element of mysticism.

CORRECT.


That is why you see them running from[b] ONE Prophet(WOLI) TO ANOTHER Pastor(ALUFA)[/b].

Only for the Prophets(WOLI) and Pastors(ALUFA), to take advantage of them SEXUALLY, all In the name deliverance.

If African Marriages Can't Survive In The West, how many Western marriages are actually surviving in the west.

Go check out the divorce rate among African Marriages and Western marriages. Then you will notice that most Western marriages don't survive.

For those bashing  African men, claiming  only  African men  don't respect their wifes.

Well it is not a racial issue.

I know a lot of white men who treat their wifes badly

Some white men are also dictatorial in their marriages.

Some white men even kill their wifes to prove they are the head of the family.

The main  reason  why Most Marriages Can't Survive In The West is because of the LIBERTY you get in THE WEST .

So wat would u expect from her ? To send her sister's husband to jail even as she has brought so much problems to her ? T[b]he husband at least Loves n care for

the wife[/b] he doesn't want the wife to know becos she might lose her pregnancy from heartbreak n stress if she is to be cognisant of wat is going on.


@macjive01

I disagree!

A cheating husband do not love and care for his wife.

No matter how they try to hide this scandal from the wife through their settlement, the truth will surely come out .

The best thing this NGO should do, is to inform in the in-laws(ladys family) ASAP.

Or else there is going to be serious war btw the two sisters.

These is a case of the Lady taking advantage of the foolish cheating husband .

If she was actually despoiled .She should demand justice and not settlement .

[quote author=Arun-NGO link=topic=558479.msg7248207#msg7248207 date=1291154528]Thank you folks for your suggestions our office have decided to toe the line of majority of the nairaland suggestion of involving her parents and revealing it to the wife so that there could b a more serious discussion abt it by the parties however that line came against a rock today.

Our victim came to the office today and handed us her uncles number of which we proceeded to phone him, we told him who we are and our involvement in it. At first he didn't want to talk rather shouting and casting aspertion on us. Anyway after a while reality done on him, , of which our victim sharply refused, after much haggling he then accepted to foot the bill for resettlement of the victim. However the twist continued.he became quiet n demanded that by NO chance should the wife or his in-laws be told of the situation he then accepted to foot the bill if our victim would have an abortion

Our victim became recalcitrant after she had spoken to him over the phone and blantantly refused to b resettled in Ogun state.  She prefers Canada.

Here is the problem;

1. Our agency would only solicitate for a visa for a victim in the only occasion her life would be in danger if she continues residing in her present location and her case has become known to everybody, of which is not the case in her's.

2. The uncle phone afterward and is now doubting that he is even responsible; in otherwords he is hinting that there could be someone else.

3. I had to book her in again for sometime this week to give us some time to make proper consultations. I'm sincerely dumb-founded. Pls folks what could we do? I'm really out of ideas, n constrained by her difficulty to compromise.

I really appreciate your suggestion n comments. Hope to get more tho.
Cheers[/quote]These is a case of the Lady taking of the  foolish cheating husband .

If she was actually RAPED .She should demand  justice and not settlement .