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Come on United!

Lovely concept, sweet couple. May it remain sweet for them always.

Errmmm, I have noticed that couples wear the same jersey for pre-shoots. I guess it's because the women care less about club football which is okay BUT me no go wear Arsenal jersey oh . It's United baby! GGMU

Eddygourdo:
are u saying God saw me yester night

Depends on if you believe in God or not. If you do, you know the answer to that

God help this generation

The one thing I despise about those who produce fake is that fact that they mostly produce what is either ingested (drugs, food) or used on the skin. You have to be evil personified to produce stuffs like that since it causes harm to users. Produce fake shoes, clothes, accessories etc but stop there!

UjSizzle:
Nice post, Miz. Read the (1st?) edition on your blog. Decided to come see the comments here but... well, family section happened after the second page.

I agree with you on this one-- self-love is the very foundation of love itself. You can only project what you give yourself.

And Enoquin, nice one about serving oneself At least I know am not queer when I 'over set' the table and carry my food in a tray

We all should learn to be kind to ourself.

How else can we learn kindness if not to ourselves first? We aint queer jare, we are treating ourselves right. According to Dettol's advert (modified) If we don't take care of ourselves, who will?

Chillis:
Feminist!!

Another one.

Now I can take my whiskey and go to bed.

Job well done!

C'est fini.

Africa ôn the rise!

Feminist? Oh, that tickles
If that would make you sleep better, be my guest!

MizMyColi:
Wo, it is well with you beyond measure.

Truth is, being overly nice does not help.
Wait, being overly nice is cool, as long as you're equally overly nice to yourself.

But the idea of treating someone else better than you'd treat yourself?
That's Self-Hypocrisy!!!

Actually, I've learned a lot from your post.
Thanks!

You are welcome

Beautiful! I wanted to open a thread about something like this but you beat me to it and rightly so because I procrastinated.

I love EnoQuin because it is only after I have loved her that I can truly love someone else. And yet it isn't a narcissistic kind where I believe myself above faults.

That is why it unsettles me when I see posts from ladies who believe it all begins and ends with a man. Yes, men have their value but so do women!

Loving your self is also valuing yourself and you will find that in doing that you subconsciously set a standard even for yourself.

An example: I found out last year that whenever my bae came to town I served him/us better than I served myself. If it was a meal like eba. I'd bring the washing bowl, hand wash, hand wipe, put the plates in a tray, open the water and pour in a cup and then we'd both settle down to a meal.
But when I was alone, even though I ate little; I'd use a wide plate, put small eba on the plate. Put my soup plate on the space of the eba plate, neglecting the tray. Sometimes, I'd pick a bowl of water, other times I wash my hands at the sink. An haphazard sort of service. To me it didn't matter, it was me serving me.
But why should me serving me be worse than me serving anyone else? Did I regard others more than I did myself?
And so the change began. I starting serving myself as I would another I loved.

Is she now divorced? If not, how did she get to do the interview and new single? How will her hubby feel about the interview she just granted baring her feelings?
Janet, you wanted money now you garrit; so invent ways to enjoy it.

Two phrases caught my attention 'fullness of time' 'I have moved on'...my head is already spinning enough theories...oh the conspiracy!

lawyer:
Pls web developers in the house this is a very simple question. How much would it cost to put a mobile apps for social media and a hand over clock? Besides have you seen the website? Is that website worth N12million? And finally to maintain and upgrade that website, would it cost N78million?

Please let's be objective here and stop playing favourism. Fraud has no name and has no party. If it would cost N78million to create and maintain that website, then nobody would be able to afford a website in Nigeria.

Also if it was a PDP minister or governor that spent N78million to do that site, in all honesty what would be your reaction?

This is Nigeria's money we are talking about and tax payers money spent recklessly with a rebuttal given with so much aloofness sprinkled with a smattering of GEJs " I don't give a damn what you think" mentality.

This favourism of APC good and PDP bad must stop. What is bad is bad and this is very bad and what is most upsetting to me is that APCfans fail to condemn this misappropriation because it's Fashola. If Buhari fails to look into how tax payers money has been spent recklessly, this whole probe business should just be seen as a huge joke and selective. When it comes to fraud there is no special pikin and the earlier Nigeria understands it the better.

I am really pissed off at his rebuttal and his lack of humility and empathy to this sensitive issue is border line arrogant and sickening.

Thank you! Nigerian politicians never admit to any wrongdoing but I am not even angry at that, I more angry with those that are giving him a pat on the back for financial recklessness. 78 million naira for a website, what the heck! As someone posted on the thread, the website was designed by those who had no website themselves.
Was there any bidding for the job? IOS apps, BBM bla bla cost exactly how much?

For those supporting 'this' robust reply: Is it okay to use taxpayers money for a high maintenance website? No, it isn't. Yes, he wanted to show off his works, he should have paid for his personal website out of his money.
If Nigeria must be clean, then there shouldn't be any selective cleansing. I know there's hardly any politician who hasn't enriched his/herself BUT don't brandish it in our faces and don't play the 'sentiment' card either.

Yes, Fashola is a smart man and likable but on this; he didn't give a robust reply. It was more like an attempt to 'pull the wool over the eyes of many'

I think the opposition needs to sit up even though they aren't responsible for this expose.

MrGuruMaraji:
@Enoquin do you come to say hi to MrGuruMaraji?

No, I stumbled on the thread. Still trying to understand...let's just say curiousity is keeping me here

valmunich:
E pain you shey?

Bad belle is allowed

immortalvoices:
And na falcao him used... HE IS CRAY CRAY,,!!!

No mind the OP. As if his club can tie the shoe laces of even a relegated Man U

Is Chelsea and Man U especially with Falcao the only kind of example you could use? Sho ara e oh

jonaifame22:
+peeling roasted gorund and blowing the chaff away

sha no blow am on me

princemi:
young lady, inasmuch as u started out making sense, u av to erase d part wer u said "there can't be youths breaking strides in engineering, literature and the rest and some still interested in how much of a girl's cleavage is showing and how to tap every a.s.s " dats just totally wrong in all ramifications.

Young man, if I erase a part of my opinion because of you, who then becomes the owner of the opinion?

I think people that ask this question don't know that in most parts of Nigeria and even those with the 'high' bride price are very few and mostly depends on the family - sometimes the bride's father might be late and whoever is standing in as her father wants a quick buck or the father doesn't like his daughter - so, the brideprice is usually a token. It is the list that drains money not the 'price' for the bride.
Before any one starts hyperventilating, refer to the most in my post.

So, yes a bride can help out with some things on the list but should leave out the price because it is a symbolic traditional gesture.

Discipline and high regard for one's self has been eroded for pleasure either physical or material
So as the lecturer removed his shirt to lay down on the couch, really?
Should a lecturer be shirtless in front of a guest?
The girl came on him just like that and started playing with the hairs on his chest and since he had no regard for himself, got turned on and got a condom, after all another conquest opportunity had presented itself. No reprimand or scolding; just straight to action.

Why did he answer the correspondent outside his home? It was so that the shame of his actions wouldn't taint his home...well, now it does. Your wife now knows and so do other landlords and their wives with lecturers and students too.

And for those touting indecent dressing and virginity...you do know that shallow thinking is an offence now right? I mean there can't be youths breaking strides in engineering, literature and the rest and some still interested in how much of a girl's cleavage is showing and how to tap every a.s.s that swings.

Pear - Eben
Corn - Akpakpa
Coconut - Isib

Akwa Ibom (95%) and Cross River (5%)...I don't know what the other pecentages call them.

Rafael's departure hurts real bad.

LVG better know what he is doing. I wasn't impressed with last season

@chronique Reading your story made me get angry on your behalf. A 24 year old is grown and in some cases too not so grown as they would like to think. A child that would come in continually close to midnight (not rarely but continually) is disespectful BUT you shouldn't have flogged her (I know you now realize that). I am female and if my sister did that continually, I wouldn't have opened the gate for her that night and the next day, tell my parents to come and pick up their child. Much less, cooking seperately and not sweeping the house, I can't deal with that kind of behaviour.

Apart from her attitude, I think the bf also has more of the blame. No responsible male keeps a lady till late and allows her enter her home at midnight not once or twice without calling to apologize to her guardian or who she stays with and trying not to make it a repeat occurence. It is wrong and disrespectful.

I love my siblings and our journey has also been fraught by strains and misunderstandings but I learn from the misunderstandings and so do they. As the learning helps create new boundaries and adjustments.
No matter how high I raise my voice when angry, none of them replies back and as such we have never gotten into a shouting match.


Apart from Parents' upbringing, I think each sibling - except for the absolute crazies or evil ones - is responsible for continual unity in the family. So reading through most posts on this thread about how your sister/brother hates you whereas you have been the saint isn't trying to make things right. No one is perfect not even the saintly 'you'. Love is an act that is sometimes painful to carry out but as long as you preach love you better learn to wear its 'selfless' shoes.

Yes, as the first born child I deserve some form of respect but I also respect the fact that my siblings are growing individuals and as such deserve respect too. Do they get me angry? Yes, sometimes but I am also aware of the fact that as a human some of my actions might get them angry too. Now, how we solve issues goes a long way in helping keep the bond or totally destroying it.

smsshola:
So that stori no go enter later...let her feel d joy of real marriage. But is it really by marriage? Som married throw cash and splash d TV screen but d marriage doesn't last long. My dear any1 that makes them happi shu be priority.

You said 'some' and yet 'some' marry without splashing much money and still break up. It is not only the rich that break up.
Na their headache jare

The way you guys write captions sha. I thought I'd see the flaunting or love shown.
Badoo, you stopped riding okada years ago so marry your baby mama/madam/true love/celebrity crush

Dear God! If you went that far, you should have waited to hear how much you will be paid.

It took me longer than usual to type...God knows I cannot laugh and type.

OP pele oh

Nmeri17:


so u fine like this and u went to put that pic on your profile that looks like u were dancing shoki

Am I on Nairaland for a picture pageant? Shoki indeed, kpeme idemfo

Nmeri17:
oh my!!! be still my beating heart

Comot my pic before I knack you kondo for head

What a crass display. It's depressing

Oh, mbom!