Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 4:03pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Jackanda1: The claims made by religion are actually 100% real. Back then, i use to think spirituality was psychological and mental until i had some experiences. Ofcourse people ought to be scientific and rational with their thinking, but religion is very important. aint it all based on belief? Im a xtian but I believe all problems can be explained scientifically and may be solved or managed |
Health › Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 3:59pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
ayo2008: Better repent Jesus loves you instead of looking for who is judging who Bross I belive you need jesus pass me cos as it stands,me and Jesus live in same street .same city.but you and devil live in same street.same town same state ,same country and same continent |
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 3:57pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
clinician2x: But I'm not interested in winning any soul. What I am telling him.is what he can do and get better. What happens to anybody soul is not my fucklng business nor mimd thrm ohh smalll thing dem go shout jesus look town wey nor dey shout jesus better pas him village |
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 3:55pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
clinician2x: See mumu like you, the fact that you even know how to read and right is it not because of the early missionaries? haha Ignorance of the highest In a small corner not 2 far from tralgagar square lays the national history musume.in it there are every evidence that we Africans had out own language and means of communication b4 the missionaries step foot in Africa.This is well documented.The missionaries brought with them Guns and took out our way of life.They encouraged the slave trade.The west learnt a lot from is africans but odiota like U are blinded by religious sentiments that U cnt see further than your nose.I was in Morrisons stores in Muswell Hill went to buy tooth paste and saw that they now have charcoal toothpaste is that not what we used in the villages back in the days and people with mindset like yours would say we 2 local or poor? and the charcoal one cost £3.I think I know more about the missionaries than you as I live in same city with them right about now.Bit I tell U what.I rather give honour to people like sir Isaac newton than subscribe to your damn missionaries and all they stood for. |
Politics › Re: Independent Candidacy: A Viable Option For Proffesor Osinbajo (Opinion) by erico2k2(m): 2:37pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
Toks2008: What if Proffesor Yemi Osinbajo comes out as independent candidate?
History has shown that indirect primaries in Nigeria have never produced candidates who truly have the interest of Nigerians at heart and we can no longer put the future of our children in the hands of these old inept recycled politicians.
I still believe in Proffesor Osinbajo and there is a provision for independent candidacy in our constitution.
I am convinced that this will be a viable path at this juncture, an option worth exploring. Does the constitution of Nigeria allow independent candidacy  ? |
Politics › Re: APC Primary: I Passed Character Test By Not Paying Any Delegate - Pastor Bakare by erico2k2(m): 2:35pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
ednut1: Spent 100m if church money . What a big fool he 4got that bit.money he could have put in moving God work 4ward. |
Politics › Re: APC Primary: I Passed Character Test By Not Paying Any Delegate - Pastor Bakare by erico2k2(m): 2:34pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
SeunTheOwner: That will be a wicked leader. The Delegates did not come from their respective states, pay for hotels, food and transportation, only to be given bulk sms in return.
He would have honorably steps down for someone rather than lying in God's name exactly |
Politics › Re: APC Primary: I Passed Character Test By Not Paying Any Delegate - Pastor Bakare by erico2k2(m): 2:34pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
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Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 1:59pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
MartinsD12: Phone and internet to find a job or what ? well were I live 2022 no Internet no work.no bank account no phone no work.Internet is compulsory for research and networking..Op can meet like minded persons and share experiences and result.it can unlock ones potential and be a kind of virtual coach.there are loads of freebies online.Loads of charity on lome willing to help and the right pointers are all on line and so are the idiots. |
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 1:54pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
clinician2x: You cannot study medicine and surgery. It is not for people like you.
Secondly, denounce that usless Islam religion, they have already ruined your life. Denounce the useless Allah and Muhammed all those stupid things they made u recite
Then accept Jesus Christ into your life, find a Bible believing church and join and u will have a breathe of fresh air. It will take some time but you will be happy you did.
At this stage, you are defeated but not destroyed. Accept this light and it shall be well with you. its Only Ignorant folks and fools that think one religion is better than the other. Question for you.Name two things any religion has done to help mankind?? |
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 1:51pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
MissionaryArchi: He just did, so do yours what do you mean by do yours?I gave my advice its only logical for you to give yours without sounding mischievous. |
Career › Re: I'm In A Critical Situation, Please Advise A Confused Soul. by erico2k2(m): 12:45pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
spiritualmubi: Hello, good day Nairalanders. I'm presently in a critical situation in my life. I really need your advice on this situation of mine. I just feel like a looser, I am an undergraduate studying botany. In 300 level due to me deferring a semester due to a Relapsing illness (schizophrenia). I suffered from brain fog when I resumed school after the relapse and lock down. I'm 26 and I don't have any skill and don't have a degree at hand.
The reason for this is not far fetched because till date I still harbour that anger for what my Dad has done to me. When I was in Jss1 in a very good school and also doing well, he removed me and my younger brother from school and took us to a Quran memorizing Islamic school following the advice of a hausa colleague of his in his place of work.
We memorized the holy book but for me it came with it's price, I didn't even have solid memorization of the Quran self to speak. I went through hell in those two years memorizing the holy book, ranging from mental, physical and spiritual challenges, which I believe triggered the schizophrenia am suffering from today. After the graduation ceremony from the Islamic school he enrolled me in conventional secondary school into Ss1 which means I never attended Jss2 and Jss3. Had episodes of relapse of the ailment am suffering from after then twice apart from the first occurrence after my memorization of the holy book. I believe that if I was allowed to continue my education back then I would have been a graduate by now and even working and must have gained financial independence Presently my mum brought the idea that we should meet a Sheikh who is a saint of God, regarding my issue of not being able to read, assimilate let alone retain, the Saint said that I should defer a session, that is a year so that he will pray for me that there is a good spirit standing beside me that needs to be dissolved into my system, which (the spirit) is as a result of a spiritual book, litanies I read that my father gave me.
So now I don't have any skill, my Father has no source of income whatsoever, he doesn't earn any salary, he only has ND, the money we are even feeding on presently is a contribution by BOT of a foundation he founded to buy a house for its Islamic school.
I started learning photography during the lock down but left it for no tangible reason. My Dad insisted that I should learn shoe mending, that it is easy to learn and get small small change, I started it but had to leave it when I faced the challenge of sowing and polishing shoes, I don't just like the work.
Presently am been pressured by my parents to get something doing to be getting money because even to eat once in a day is a problem for us now, and to buy the drug am living on which enables me to sleep but believe me I'm at loss of what to do, should I go back and learn photography as a skill or should I find a job, like a company that can employ an Ssce holder. Cos the former needs start up fee and also need time for me to master it before talking of getting money from it.
Secondly, regarding my academics, I am thinking of using this one year or two years which I would defer to gain financial independence and mental well being, then rewrite jamb and apply for my original passion which is medicine and surgery but hmm, am already in my late twenties, so please Nairalanders help a confused soul.
Sorry for the long write up, just had to say everything. Thanks, any contribution is welcomed I am really in a critical situation. you have passed the 1st test.U identified you got a problem 2nd step is to do smthing about it.U got a phone and internet use it. |
Health › Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 12:38pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
ayo2008: Judge? I laugh The truth is bitter If he terminates that innocent foetus, the blood is upon him...is called MURDER
I have a feeling you have done something similar? Better repent and give your life to Christ Did christ not teach you not to judge? Also of you are not a hypocrite why did you mot answer my simple question *Are U a virgin  |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Kill Six People In Ondo State Days After Owo Church Massacre by erico2k2(m): 12:05pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
an0daGuy: Yes it sounds unsettling but that doesn’t make it not to be true. There are Hausas in the Catholic Church in many towns, because you haven’t come across any doesn’t mean there aren’t any. If you’ve lived in Lagos as a Catholic you’d know this. Nah I havnt met them |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Kill Six People In Ondo State Days After Owo Church Massacre by erico2k2(m): 12:02pm On Jun 09, 2022 |
an0daGuy: Wait are you really implying that you don’t believe notherners can be members of the Catholic Church?
I mean, the biggest church in the whole wide world?
Don’t be myopic bro. O never said that bit this is Ondo not the North.my security man is Nasarawa and xtian.Catholic in yhe SW is a whole diff ball game.like saying Igbos going to mosque in Bornu.find it unsettling to say the least. |
Health › Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 11:59am On Jun 09, 2022 |
ayo2008: Wickedness! sleeping with a girl about to start school and impregnating her? Is bad o Let me ask you now what do u stand to gain by sleeping with her and at last impregnating her? A medal or trophy?...it doesn't worth it cos sin might look sweet but the aftermath brings Shame and sorrow...so unfortunate
The Bible is clear on committing fornication cos it is a sin.. my advice is keep the pregnancy and if you attempt abortion, the blood is on your head cos is murder... Let your parents come in and tell them this dastardly act you have committed Let your parents visit her parents to settle it amicably though is not going to be that easy. God will help you.
My final advice is to stop fornication and stick to Jesus Christ.. So Mr Ayo you are a virgin right or you was till U got married abi?who put you in Authority to jidhe? |
Health › Re: Just Got Someone Pregnant... Advise Needed by erico2k2(m): 11:56am On Jun 09, 2022 |
New222: I won't try to sugarcoat it. I'm 25 years old, she's 19. Still in university because of the endless ASUU strike.
I've been having unprotected sex with this particular girl for a long while now. We've been dating for close to two years. I practise the "withdrawal" and "safe" days method. I met her a Virgin too.
Just realised she's pregnant. She started showing a lot of symptoms. Darkened areolas, nausea, breast heaviness, headache, back pain e.t.c.
I asked her to get do a pregnancy strip test and it came positive. Two red lines.
Though it's not what I ever planned for myself, I won't really mind having a child at my age. People will so much insult me, including my family but I'm sure my family will take care of the child.
The issue is the girl. Her family (Deeper Life) are wahala, big wahala. Educated people that behaves as if they never went to school. Now, we detected very early, her first period is supposed to start tomorrow (which I'm sure she'll miss). She's still very young and about to start schooling. I'm sure her dad will disown her (he once sent her away from his home over a slight misunderstanding, refused to let her back in until it was shown she was innocent).
I told her we have two choices, keep the baby or remove it. I am confused too, but I didn't show it. Pls what do you think?
We're really considering ending the pregnancy. Since it's very early, I'm considered getting m...p......r..l. I need medical advice pls. Above all, I don't want to endanger the girl's life. I've read about abortion pills. I don't know how to get them or their price. Or should we keep the baby? Her dad will surely disown her, might later accept her, but it will definitely end her Education. What do you think? Should we get the drugs pls. Or consider another option? Should we keep the baby?
P.S: I know nairaland. I've been here for years, insult are welcomed. I never imaginned I'll ever open a thread like this.
P.S: If you're using withdrawal method and it works, it WILL STILL EVENTUALLY FAIL YOU. I used it for a really long time, now I'm here. so she has not missed jher period but U found out she is pregnant right? |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Kill Six People In Ondo State Days After Owo Church Massacre by erico2k2(m): 11:49am On Jun 09, 2022 |
an0daGuy: Deborah who was recently killed for blasphemy was a Christian Northerner from Niger state.
So what are you trying to say?  Catholic?? |
Politics › Re: Gunmen Kill Six People In Ondo State Days After Owo Church Massacre by erico2k2(m): 11:25am On Jun 09, 2022 |
ArewaNorth: The gunmen killed six men of northern extraction in the Sabo area of Ondo State. Sabo, also known as Hausa, is dominated by Northern Nigerians. The victims were reportedly buried Wednesday according to Islamic rites while one of the victims was still receiving treatment in an undisclosed hospital in the state. Northerners at Catholic church?? |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar To Name Wike As Running Mate - Tribune by erico2k2(m): 9:47am On Jun 09, 2022 |
MadamVanessa:

Whoever advised Atiku to pick Wike as his running mate want to bury Atiku politically. Atiku stood a chance of coming second in the election, while Jagaban third . Now his decision to pick Wike has dropped him to third position while Tinubu second.
The first position is reserved and kept for our Amiable Peter Obi. God bless the incoming. peter Obi ke.Ogbos are a group of politically betrayed people.They have 5 states that speak one language Igbo yet can't support just one party for sake of their own unity.match my word let is see the %of those who will vote 4 the Obi campaign from the East. |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 6:30pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
omolawale: My mortgage alone is a bit over $3000/month. Wetin you want make I do?? I think we talking UK? |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 11:05pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
kamez: She was earning 55k at imo state ministry of health..hope u can see the difference
She has 3kids..and she has already started making plans to move them over there 55K imagine lol Fuel bill for some people in NIgeria |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 10:20pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Litmus: Funny you should mention that, you'll find that UK doesn't change much. It's not known as "old England" for nothing. Those 20 years ago reputation is just as relevant today. What do you know about the Uk in 20 years that you recon has not changed? |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 9:55pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
istina: Then why haven't they all returned to Naija, if things aren't better for them over there Nor mind them oh, nah the way them take the stage their relative be that, Nah the package |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 9:54pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Litmus: Because they are trapped. When you burn your britches in Nigeria, shame as well as your practical position no go allow you return. Yeh eyhh, this talk is 20 years OLD. trapped how and where? |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 9:53pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
mcdokwe: He just got there and he is studying. Lazy? No, not in our blood. He has actually started out a lot of things and there are yet limitations that hinders him from earning more at the moment. ehe now U are talking, D way you worded it made it seems as if he has been here like 5 years.For a person wit no papers its hard as you are limited in hustle by these things, even to rent box room nah problem |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 9:48pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
mcdokwe: Earn ke? Most of his bills are subsidized from here Bills like?? your bross dey scam una or he be legbere, xtreemly lazy |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 9:37pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 8:51pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 8:45pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
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Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 8:44pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
HRprof: When I have issue with my Android phone and she needed an information from me at that time , the only way was to communicate through normal phone call and she complain of the high charge for international call from UK that's why flash , I have to do the calling using Ariel which is cheaper for international call from here. it is true, the society is structured like that, its free to do stuff fru internet, the vast majority of us are not set up to use our contract phones to call abroad, so its like setting up a whole new line if o ne needs to call Africa as the infrastructure here is not set up to support such, so you pay premium. |
Travel › Re: Nigerian Man Speaks On High Rent In The United Kingdom by erico2k2(m): 8:42pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
kamez: My elder sis moved to the UK for her MSC last year August.. schooling and working..
She makes 2200 pounds per month working in a care home....
That's just about 1.6m naira a month...
She told me last week that she is never coming back to this shit hole when she lives here for 20 years her narrative will change, anywyas its different for women than men |