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rahymat:
this is nothing compared to what i can do if im rich enough

Don't wait for wen u will b rich, prove it now then riches will trust u with itself to take care of the less privilege.

It's 8years and counting, she is yet to say Yx. Don't blame me. It's just that I will b her first and her last if she say Yx. Good thing don't come easy. I am willing to add two more yrs after wich I quit if she no say Yx.

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO U NAIRALANDERS. WE WILL NEVER C OR MEET SHAME. PROGRESS AND SUCCESS IS ARE TWINS CHILDREN. THIS YEAR IS GONNA B LIKE A BLESSED ONE.

Prexxy1:
But some guys cant control their urges

Is it the girls that controls themself? it doesn't take one person to commit fornication.

ivyy:
Ofcoz why would I even think otherwise. Once the heart is pure nothing evil can happen

U will live long my dear. Those shouting prevention is better than cure are they ones that will lead the sin into fruition. They don't trust themself bkx they can't sleep with the opposite sex without ehmm, u know the rest.

Vivly:
I no dey drag land for Nairaland.

I should b d one demanding my land back from both of u. keep off ooo or....

U will learn how to treat your wife in future and how to be faithful wen she is pregnant.

lilbazy:
Forgiveness is all about forgiving and Forgetting,if you forgive without forgetting then that aint forgiveness....I forgave ahmed Musa for not making nigeria qualify for afcon 2015,I forgave president jonathan for not perfoming up to standard,I forgave muhamadu buhari for what happened during 2011 elections...Lastly I forgive my fowl for running away when I wanted to slaughter it for christmas.

U de craze. I forgive u for making me laugh when I plan not to.

Airforce1:
kids fine pass mama

I guess ma papa dem resemble

u bad ooo. I know sey u want say they look like neighbor.

striktlymi:
Not a good reason to marry someone.

But that's how it is. or do u have a reason to explain the many unhappy homes, cheating spouses,divorces,and husbands who turn their wife to sand bag?

CashdownNG:
haa.. Oga softly ooo better have a baby mama, at least that would kill any worries.

regardless I'd what women say, they are the orchesters of most relationship issues either direct or otherwise

Yx, they kill tiny worries but end up giving the biggest worry that will end up your life. 10yrs of killing little worries and a day of killing u with the biggest worries ever. Does it worth it? it reminds me of the devil that gives u wealth with the right hand only to use the left hand to take your soul.

CashdownNG:
not compulsory but advisable.

it's really painful for anyone to weed out another man's farm. it also is for the best interests of the child for him to have an identity of who he is ..

I know some women would be claiming trust issues and whatnot but most times than not a woman can con even demons a man is just learning their names

My pain here is not training another man's child, I can do that to many. but the pain is your wife having the mind to sleep around and even have the mind to keep a pregnant that is not yours. Devil incarnates. #contractmarriege is smelling around me.

Nitefury:
My neighbour's last son ain't his. After about 15 or so years being married to his wife and 3 kids that look like clones of the man (big lips and ish), the fourth one came out looking neither like the man or his wife but like their pastor. Both couple are dark skinned just like their first, second and third kid.

This boy is light skinned, stubborn as a goat and everything like the pastor (transferred now). Boy was even nicknamed pastor.

Now this came after about 10 years of marriage. Yes they are still together and i believe this is only because the man is disabled. His family couldn't do anything because she still complimented him in more ways than one.

It takes a second to destroy trust built on years.

so all those saying why marry who you don't trust, please take a chill pill. No one prays for a cheating spouse, but with the issue of randy bosses and colleague at places of work, with most ladies having hot pants for their exes, a DNA test becomes necessary

*Modified*
A friend of mine who got a girl pregnant denied it. As soon as i set eyes on the baby's picture, i told him to go get his baby. My other friends swore the child ain't his just to make him feel good. Even when he wanted to accept, his mum would have none of it (probably because she had him outta wedlock) The girl eventually gave the child to another man who eventually married her. But i know karma has a way of balancing issues.

Karma! I love that name so much. I even have a song on that.

LewsTherin:
My Lady and I dated for 7 years. Were engaged for 1 and have been married for 3 years. In all this time, I have never had any reason to doubt her, amd though we work together and are pretty much always in each other's company, I have never gotten tired or needed "my space". And while she sometimes does things that drive me up the wall, I have never raised my voice at her talk less of get into a fight with her. In all this time we have had only 3 major arguments (infinite disagreements) but have always settled at most by midnight.

I stated all that above because I still do not understand how people cam get married and still not trust their spouse. I do not understand how they can have issues with sharing finances. I can't understand how there can be doubt so strong as to require a DNA test. It just doesn't make sense to me.

Do you realise that your children can be 100% yours amd still look and act absolutely nothing like you? Children's genes are a mix of dominant and recessive genes from both parents, imcluding genes that have been dormant for tens of generations. So if the kids look like your father's uncle's great grand mother thrice removed, how can you say the child "doesn't look like anyone in your family"?

They are so dumb to require for DNA bkx u haven't seen what they av seen ok. Just keep enjoying your faithful wife and leave ppl with their choice. Things ar happening that requires proves to backup trust.

striktlymi:
Lack of trust!!!

Why marry someone you do not trust?

Bkx u r getting very old and tired of searching for the Mrs right.

Better a father inlaw than an ex boyfriend. She is his daughter. He can buy her whatever he wants. Private jet inclused, for all I care. Shey no b me and her go injoy am?

red101:
Earlier on in life, in my teenage years, I had dreams and hopes of what my life would look like by the time I turn 25. Well, man proposes, God disposes.. my life doesn't look at all like what I had dreamed. I am partially disappointed and feel a lot less idealistic as if I lost that sense of "yeah I can do whatever I set my mind to do." How many of you feel this way? Have you accomplished what you set out to accomplish, are you on the right path to your dreams or have your goals totally changed? How did you handle or deal with it? Please share your stories because they can be encouraging.
What makes the situation worse is that now you have facebook, instagram etc and you can see how your friends seem to have perfect lives and the feeling of inadequacy begins to take hold because you start comparing yourself...
Anybody in the same boat as me?
Are you where you thought you would be? Do you still have future goals or you gave up on creating them and are now just going with the flow

It is got to compare. Healthy comparison help motivates u. every disappointment is a blxn. the fear of failure made many to be successful. It takes a successful man to make another. When I was in secondary school, it is only the fear to make a second position that helped me hold on to first till I was out of secondary school. I took extra measures to achieve that. So my friend, move on and never loose hope. we will all get there. Just blv in God, yourself and your dreams. Know this, that all this our successful men and women don't have two heads just that the height they attain wasn't by a sudden flight but by blv in what will make their dreams come true. in themselves and God. It is never easy to b somebady and anything that come easy is nothing bkx even a blind man can get it. much luv.

Joel3:
op red101. This are one of the topics I am really attracted to. Have you ever heard of the word nature is God and God is nature? the God of nature and destinies?

Its real. When you start believing in it then you will understand that all those your plans are likely to be trashed.

I have plans this year but they didn't happened. Nature don't want them it has is own decision for me life.

Nature is what decide for you. just like a computer game which someone else holding the pads and control the game..

What I am sayin is inDirectly You have little control over you life. 90% or the main thing is controlled by nature. Just like you never choose to come to this earth and the family you came out from where all decided by nature, it wanted to use it for something. And nature will end it at it will where it want it to be.

If you are not destined to be rich. Nothing you can do and absolutely nothing any one can do or any power can help.

When you begin to understand what nature has for you. Your life will be easier to plan things accordingly with what nature wants. Rather than wasting your time with dreams that will never happens. Bleep those your prayer dreams. No prayer or miracles can change that purpose of what nature has for your life. When nature through with you then you will know what is life.


There are people who tried to go to school by all means. But nature don't approve that but program something else. Such a person will end up westing the life for chasing academic and at the end the school will not get any head.

Forget about witches and wizard. They can only oppress you because nature want it so, nature put them in your family and way. Those are the tools nature uses to fulfill it curse. To control your destiny to where it want it to be not what you want. I like you Maybe you may want to be my friend to learn more about nature.

Things are not there for nothing. But for a purpose. Your life is not yours. Otherwise you would have choose where to be. Your husband is some where already waiting nature says so.

Search for nature and ask what it want with your life and learn to program your plan accordingly. Your life will be easier as you learn to love it not because you really love what nature decide for you. But live with what nature says will help your mentality.

I believe I helped a soul with this intelligent discussion.


Thanks

U nearly convinced me until u said everything where designed to be the way they are.

I have some questions for u

1 If everything ar designed to b the way the ar y is God always angry with his ppl weneva d sin against Him if He designed us to make that mistake?
2 y shouldn't I b agry with God for designing(making) me loose my dad
Your advise is misleading. it is just like asking me not to run when been pursued by a mad man with a knife. It's telling me not to struggle to b somebody but to wait on fate to make me whatever I was designed to b. Ar u saying Jonathan wether education or no education he must become a president bkx Destiny said so?

The main question now is "what is the gain of playing a match whose score has already been known? Life is nothing without struggling for something. If u wait on anything to make something out of u then u ar as good as nothing. The dreams we have are who we really are but we can't get there without first trying to scale thruogh. without firsttrying to prove we deserve to b there. A lot of ppl have die with there destiny not bkx it was designed to b but bkx maybe they choose the wrong way, they couldn't have patience,they were at the wrong place ay the wrong time or bkx the dark one knows that their destiny may bring about his failure. There are countless forces fighting against our destiny and that is y we can't achieve so easily. The greater the. destiny the greater the evil forces. I dream to b somewhere tomorrow and i know I will b there if only I hold patience my side, I keep beeng loyal to God and daily improving and filling myself with determination.lastly, not loosing hope and knowing that some discouragments are ment to scare u away from your set goals. Just know this. thw devil never want us to achieve anything no matter ho small. And that u can't gain anything from God without proving how faithful u are to Him. Jesus suffered pains that we. may blv. So u will pass thru lota pain that u may receive.

All a guy wants from his girl is true love and care. He wants to be treated as if he is your king and at the same time your baby. He wants to be treated as the number one.
Am speaking for myself ooo. Don't know about him or others. But some foolish guys take advantage of you wen u treat then thus and some starts misbehaving bkx d don't understand what u ar doing.

Elsquidme:
nagane and ban nemeta ba tukuna. Sonta ne nakeyi kawai

We kunnen iurselv beter begrijpen als alleen maar spreken we in de algemene taal Engels.

deife:
Wow! That's so deep! Thanks for sharing.

K bro

If u luv her, that's natural, but if u r lusting her then I think u r useless and a disgrace to the male folks. we should learn to control ourselves. Know wen we are loving and wen we ar lusting. not all feelings are love and not all luv involves getting intimate b4 it can b call luv. I am not perfect but I don't ingage in things that will hurt another party but me.

merit12:
Why ?nah?

Gat me no friend or place to visit. Just trying to discover my real self.

Njokusboy and sophyrock, I think both of u need a mental checkup.

Sophyrocks:
Did i mention friends here?At least more and more ladies are aware of their anatomy and hygiene. There is an awareness of female hygiene due to how open the female's anatomy is. The fact that some of you think the hygiene of a man isnt necessary or worthy to be discussed goes to show a lot of you are dirty and the complaints coming from ladies are indeed true. #spits#

Boxers are cheap yet some of you wear yours for a whole week without washing. And you are coming here to point fingers.

Thank God u said some. Can't even count the number of boxers I av.

lrguru:
the former bro

I will blv u but not without some doubts.

lrguru:
A man comes home from work to find his wife sliding down the banister.
"What are you doing?" he asks.
She answers, "Warming up your dinner."

warming up his meal or she is self-servicing

It happened to us in 2010. instead of goat we ate chicken. Two years later, it happened again, only that time the goat was killed b4 we culd know it was pregnant.

Life has taught me that its not all about living but living to help and to save a soul. we are all like sacrificial lambs to one another. I wanna leave this earth with the joy that I did something worth dieing for. Just like Jesus Christ did. I luv Humanity. live and let's live. for those I offended here on Nairaland I say sorry. we are brothers and sisters in Nairaland. much luvs.

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