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It's funny how we only appreciate suffering when women are involved...

NwaAmaikpe:



This is sad.

The woman should have first considered how this exposé would ruin her husband's friendship with Aboy before doing it.
I don't trust her myself, her husband shouldn't either.
She may have set Aboy up just to win her husband's complete trust before she begins a slutting spree.

I also don't blame Aboy for trying his luck because it's only natural to be attracted to your friend or even your brother's wife especially if she gets close enough to you.

I only pity him because the worst thing that can happen to any man hitting on his friend's wife is if she goes and rats on you.

But it's all a gamble, what did not work for Aboy may work for Kebiru.
You never know unless you try.

I'd just advice Aboy to get a good lawyer to sue this couple because he has a good case at hand.
Considering that the intended coitus was consensual and not coerced, this is both blackmail and revenge porn but most importantly, a breach of contract capable of disturbing public peace.

You're such a shame to mankind. Just read the rubbish you typed up there. You're not even worth engaging in a reasonable argument.

Bawss1:
Depends on the time the picture was taken.

More photos of "deserted" streets but this time from Montreal

Cool.

Montreal is so beautiful and Europe-like! Wow!

shegzhkn:
Is it possible that when an individual is shooting for something big , humongous , that can change the course of one's career and shape the future one may be weary , tired , procrastinate till it gone ?

Yes!

Most times, you become overly obsessed by the big picture of that prospect that you ignore the small building blocks that would lead to the end goal. If not curtailed, the excitement continues until it's almost too late to gather all you need for the big move.

PureGoldh:
Welcome back home ma'am

The media should curtail how they spread fake news... It doesn't add up at all.

But the break too much fah... She is married and as such she have some marital duties to perform.

Meanwhile... If you need Pure Original HOney.. Call or whatsapp 081 016 667 71

Chauvinism. Do we say the same for men who leave home for another country for years? I understand it's in pursuance of finance but even if a lady leaves for the same or even better reason, people would still guilt trip her for leaving the home...

solos007:
Beautiful!..ain't it?

Awesome... but where's everybody?

Is it really that "empty"?

smartgenius:
I also landed in September. I stay in down town Toronto. Nice and cool but mainly whites and Chinese residents. Are there any nairalanders living close to Young and Eglington? We could meet up.

Downtown Toronto? I thought people dread that that side cause of the cost of living? I really like downtown but afraid is catching me. Lol

airsaylongcon:
First of all I will ignore your insult. Secondly musicians perform where they can earn a lot of money. 99% of the Nigerian population in Cyprus are students that aren't working and therefore cannot pay an artiste a decent sum. Thirdly, I tell you for free that Cypriots and other Europeans in Cyprus don't listen to Nigerian music.

So what was it you were saying again?

Dude, you aren't making sense at all. An artist decided to perform in Cyprus, and you're here lamenting he won't be paid well. You think he didn't study the market before going? You know the industry more than his managers? You think money is the only reason a rising artists goes to perform in the abroad? Oga, if you do not know what's obtainable in the music industry, keep mute when it's being discussed.

airsaylongcon:
How many Africans live on the entire island of Cyprus that Rema is going to perform there? I'm even sure this is the poorer occupied territories rather than the free South

Just see the way an adult is reasoning. Those ones you see in the video aren't human enough for him to perform for? Is it only Africans that listen to African music?

chibike69:

What's funny nah?

Beautiful pictures, I must say.

Many more years to her. Mothers are golden.





Fathers are simply priceless.

KngGezy:
No maam not so,

Even men with unexplainable wealth are being questioned. When we know your field , know you have no side business, know your salary cannot fund your lifestyle and know that your source of income is fixed.

In this case her house, her car, her clothes , her vacations purportedly run into hundreds of millions. Please maam how much do they pay OAPs? How long has she been an OAP? The most successful OAP is Paid how much?

Maam you can do the maths yourself

Here's the problem. You concluded I must be a lady to have spoken in favour of them, right? We allow gender biase to decide our judgement; a woman must side women, a man must side men. Tell me, how did you know she has no side hustles? Do you know her financial adviser? Do you know her financial/investment strategy? Do you know her personally? Is it not what you see online you know? How can you sit back and make such dirty insinuation about someone's hustle because she's a lady?

Such chauvinism.

ednut1:
Desperation for marriage makes women do silly things

If it were a woman that defrauded someone, we'd all be shouting "fear women!" Now it's a man and we're still looking for a way to put it on the woman's head. Nawa o

KngGezy:
This is nice

But joking apart

These dresses must cost a fortune

How these female OAPs and actresses make more money more than their Male Counterparts is still a mystery to me.

What are you insinuating? You guys always look for reasons to water down a lady's hustle. Who told you they make or have more money? What if the men spend on less flashy things while the ladies' spendings are more pronounced?

The commenter above is going through a lot in life

Very pretty...

The editing too much shaa

It's a sign of harmattan in Lagos.

Don't mind anyone telling you you're one lucky dude cause that's the opposite of the case. Yes, you were unlucky. You just missed your hookup. You went to hook up with lady at night and you went with a police escort. If she was the one that came with a police man, wouldn't you have also run for your life? The lady obviously saw you and police vehicle, suspected phoney play and did the right thing for herself! I bet she'd also be telling her friends how heavens saved her on that day! Y'all be running from each other.

Lol... hooking up in convoy.

ladymarshall:
First, let me say a big thank you for your wishes and prayers since I first announced. I’m so overwhelmed as I type not just because of the happy shock of PPR but also because I never expected the outpouring of love. Thank you. I really appreciate you all.

Second, to those post-AOR awaiting PPR, please check your emails even as you read this script. Golden email can come at anytime like play. Only two nights ago I was so depressed at the thought of CIC, I ate only once, had a sleepless night, woke up yesterday expressing my frustration in group chats early morning until 9.05am and from nowhere, golden email came in at 9.06am. There is hope.

I hereby give you infinity/10 !

Now, let me go and read the script.

Kayceenaz:
Bro, all you mentioned are merely physical attributes which can change later in a person's life without nature's necessary interference. Plastic surgery, amputation, castration, etcetera, also feature. You remember Michael Jackson? Nature's consistency, in this case, lies in unambiguity regarding the gender of a new-born child which is and must be either male or female. Even in the absence of all the nice physical attributes (which Aristotle once termed 'accidents'), the substance of a person reflects nature's consistency.

Thank you.

The problem is that we only appreciate attributes when they are physical. Psychological attributes do not get any attention in Africa. That's why we hardly ever care to provide proper facilities for mental health, and depression is eating deep into our society. You may not agree with me but a guy who walks like a lady walks that because that's the only way he knows how to walk. A guy who talks like a lady does not have any other way of talking. I know someone who's been feminine from the time he was a kid. People make jest of him and he pretends not to care but the day he opened up to me, I cried.

Let's stop making people feel unacceptable, it's depressing. Live and let live. Even if they're a few who do it out of will, it does not necessitate alienating everyone who doesn't conform to the societal version of masculinity. Kids may bully their fellow kids out of ignorance but as adults, we should know better.

Commentor:
Stop telling us about your skull.

I meant to say your response was devoid of logic. But then I actually knew you'd resort to insults as that's always the case when logic fails.

Thanks for your time. At least, I got to share my opinion. Moving on!

Commentor:
Fine.

When you come across Law enforcement, please tell them it is your right not to have one.

Empty

Commentor:
The word is obligation.

The military would not criminalize you, but you would wish you had it.

By the way, why are you not proferring solutions?

Are you not a Nigerian citizen?

What do you understand by "criminalise"? Going by the bold statement above, one can deduct that someone who's seen without his card will suffer some kind of punishment. So what are you saying?

I'm a Nigerian, denying people basic amenities when they cannot prove their identity is my suggestion. Not mandating them to carry it around all the time like a tag. Besides, even if I had no solution, that shouldn't silence me when I feel another person's solution is to the detriment of others.

zizi4real:
Bros no need to argue if you dont live in Europe i guess you have one or two friends ask same question, The between 300-500 fine wey you go pay, you won’t forget your ID at home next time

I invalidated your post based on the sweeping expression "in the abroad...". Why would you say "in the abroad..." when you were only referring to Europe? This is clearly not the case in North America especially not in Canada and that's part of the abroad too.

Commentor:
In Arizona, should the police suspect criminal activity (his suspicion cannot easily be determined) you are obligated to provide ID upon request.

This does not criminalise not having it at all times. Please, get the point. It's not a crime not to have one's ID card, it's only advisable in case of unexpected events.

[quote author= post=82974070]In every sane countries, every citizen over the age of 18 must have atleast a form of identity.

It prevent loads and loads of issues.

The problem in this part of the world is how to make it easy for the citizens to get.

On the same breath, Nigerians will always wait till the dying minute to start registering for their ID's in cases like this.
We've seen that many times prior now.

We go all dey alright las las in this country![/quote]You're not mandated to carry your card around out there. Even the non citizens are not obliged to go about with their cards. You're only denied social amenities like health care, bank services, telecom services, rentals, etc if you can't produce your card at the point of accessing them. That's their way of taming illegal immigrants. Be sure before you type.

XaintJoel20:
ggf

You still didn't make front page despite everything...

zizi4real:
Bros even abroad if you don’t hold your ID and police stop stop you , you will pay a fine, so i don’t see anything bad

This is not true!

ladymarshall:
My people o, it's Peeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Peeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Rrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr, as in PPR

Just now. I can't breathe. Oh my God. This feeling is indescribable o. I was sleepless last night and ranting on whatsapp group early this morning o.

God has humbled me. I'll be back with my full script. Let me catch my breathe. I wish I can send voicenote so you can hear my screams and fast breathing.

Congratulations once again! Now, we can plan together! Niagara things!

Itzchord:
@ladymarshall Oya spill it

You came before me !

Jeezy:
Sure you can PM me. Its a bilingual city. I you go to a supermarket for example, the cashier greets you with "Bonjour, Hi". If you respond with "Hi", they'll continue the conversation in English. If you respond "Bonjour", they'll speak to you in French. Generally, you can get by in most places in Montreal with English. Places like Notre Damme de Grace, Westmount, West Island seem to be more Anglophone. The north of Montreal is more Francophone. You'll feel right at home

My French is at B1 level, not fluent, I speak English 90% of the time, and i get by. You , my friend, would have no problems as an English & French speaker. You are exactly the type of immigrant that they are looking for.

This is motivating! I'll PM you right away!

Bellerin:
[NARRATOR] but it actually took 3 + 4 weeks. 7 weeks later....

CE: CLB 9
CO: CLB 7
EO: CLB 7
EE: CLB 7

More to follow...

Congratulations! This is so inspiring! Wow!