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And Pureface1, I even went to your profile and scrolled through it. I saw a topic about you giving advice to men. All fine and good. Dandy.


Now it's one thing for you to do that, to care about men that you want to help them become better and navigate the dating world well, it's another for you to go picking at women's comments and trying to get them to conform to YOUR standards of how women should be like. And you're not even disagreeing with WHAT they said. You're attacking their persons and calling them names.


It's not cool. It's so not cool at all.

pocohantas:
They are always crying more than the bereaved. Yenyenyen, 40yrs. Ehen? Is it your 40?

Honestly, it's so exasperating.

Like what is your business with NL user Poco if she doesn't get married?

What? How does it affect you? Is she someone you'll like to end up with? It's literally so weird. Aside as a bant, and using it as a clapback to an 'instigator', I cannot imagine me seriously speaking on someone else's life like these dudes, and then I keep going on and on just to humiliate them or make them feel bad or 'break' them.

It's giving massive projection of misery.

PureFace1:
Marriage is a cage women designed to imprison men.

- She said y'all said you don't benefit from marriage. So what's the issue?

Keep deceiving yourself by pretending you can win, tick tock the clock is ticking and by the time you wake up it may be too late.

You will just settle for one aboki goro at 40 or 50 while men at that age can still get fresh virgins of 20 years and above.

So you said marriage is a cage women designed to imprison men, YET you're tauting her for being unable to cage a man? That's what you're saying if I'm getting you?

If marriage doesn't benefit men, why are you attempting to scare her into the same marriage?

Why do you mention a 20 y/o virgin as if it's some form of REWARD for men, yet the same 20 y/o is going to imprison the man?? ?? ?? ?? ??


I'M BEGGING y'all to at least be trying to review the talking points you parrot. Please. For the love of God.

PureFace1:
undiluted truth often sound like that

I'm just trying to help her cure her delusion.

I roll with some men at that age and young girls of 20 and above fight to get their attention. How many men are fighting for the attention of a 35, 40 women ? unless she is unusually beautiful and have the character to match.

She can only win that age war against a man that don't know his value or valueless, any woman that think otherwise is delusional lol.

Okay. What is YOUR PROBLEM if women end up with men without value? Are YOU going to be the MAN? How does it literally affect you whether women get married or not or remain unmarried at 40? Do you want them to PICK YOU and settle FOR YOU? Do you have plans to date any of the women of NL that you speak your 'undiluted truth' to?

And undiluted truth in what sense here? In what context.

For a so-called logical gender, it behoves that you actually make sensible, relational comments.

YOU brought in marriage and age into a general comment that was made, when you do not even know sht about the person you quoted. Is that sensible to you? You just see an 'f' moniker and you dive into attacking the comment, needlessly, with no care to understanding the context behind the comment.

You do not even know if she wants to get married. An intelligent, independent thinker would treat every user on the forum as an individual with a valid personality and beliefs that should be respected as a rule. You're speaking an 'undiluted truth' to someone whom you don't even know their worldview.

Oh. So you're saying unless she's unusually beautiful and have the character to match. So you actually do not know FOR A FACT. Isn't that embarrassing?

PureFace1:
undiluted truth often sound like that

I'm just trying to help her cure her delusion.

I roll with some men at that age and young girls of 20 and above fight to get their attention. How many men are fighting for the attention of a 35, 40 women ? unless she is unusually beautiful and have the character to match.

She can only win that age war against a man that don't know his value or valueless, any woman that think otherwise is delusional lol.

You're the only delusional one. Get off your high horse. You're literally irrelevant and do not matter in the grand scheme of things. There is no woman y'all know off of here, so quit it with the projections. Like it is you people that even takes here more seriously than we do, because from where to where? Who made you a god over someone's life that you're going to such great lengths speaking on someone's life and making a judgment about their reality when their comments are just 1% of who they are?

Does what you're doing really seem normal to you?

You do not have the capacity for self-reflection? What exactly is the joy you derive in being a mean bully at 40+ of age? Is your life own going well for you? Are you happily married or in a relationship? Or even as a single, are you living a great life? Because I don't no one who has something going on for themselves in their real life will carry a stranger matter on their head like you're doing.

You did the same thing to another lady on another thread, and here you are again, but you're supposedly the one who doesn't have mental issues.

Leave women alone. Fu*king leave NL women alone! They make their comments the way y'all do. Just as biased and experienced-based even. Direct your energy to productive things and things you can actually change and have control over.

It is not MASCULINE in anyway. Like you are even the one who jump into their mentions. What MAN with a high self-esteem do you honestly think would go picking arguments with women, and bickering with them in attention-seeking pettiness? It doesn't make you feel ashamed? You don't find it off-putting and turn off-ish? What is the problem with you all??

Really?

So when they start with the vitriol, you're sure you can with withstand it, and filter them?


Okay. Because I sure don't see the reason for creating this thread if at all it was true.

CockPit:
Most Nairalanders are bunches of insecure little kids who hide behind the anonymity of internet to spew rubish.

I am waiting for them.

PureFace1:
Marriage is a cage women designed to imprison men. Keep deceiving yourself by pretending you can win, tick tock the clock is ticking and by the time you wake up it may be too late.

You will just settle for one aboki goro at 40 or 50 while men at that age can still get fresh virgins of 20 years and above.

The kind of comments y'all make to stranger women online must be some kind of fetish p*rn at this point.


Just what the heck is the meaning of all this??

obinna58:
A necessary step for feminists, not advisable if she’s a good woman

Your waking thoughts and dreams at night must be filled with fantasies about feminists, because what in the name of obsession is this?

What the heck does this comment even mean?


And in your ****** mind, feminists are synonymous to bad women?

folake4u:
When that incident happened, I wrote it on my diary sef. Lol.

Please, he wasn't appealing to my eyes. I nor even care if him be Zaddy.

I like fine men. If you give me a Ned Nwoko guy with money, I will not like to see his face during sex. I'd cover his face please. I also care for my future kids. I can't be getting called from my kids school where they fought with a fellow kid for being called a monkey.

What if his ugly gene is strong? Toh.

Your mouth. 🤣🤣🤣

Sadly, men set these sort of 'standards' because they know the collective of women are willing and ready to meet them. Anything to be called 'Mrs.'


They know the majority of women buy into it and would still reward them with a relationship and that is why the dig down to the bottomest of bad behaviours to exhibit.


The moment they realise women will not put up with such is the day they'll sit up. And that is why they hate the few nonconformist women.

Firstly for the fact that they refuse to put up with their shits, and secondly for 'fear of corruption.' If more women see more 'bad', stubborn, etc., women being happy, with or without a man, who will remain for them to control and put on a leash?


Torh. The women who are enablers should continue being enablers. Nobody will help them share in their nightly tears and pains.

folake4u:
My dearrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!

. He literally said, "I know this is not the type of man you were expecting".

I just saw where you mentioned his age.

But he could have been a Zaddy, you know? You could have turned him into one.

folake4u:
I NEVER knew him oh. It's an old man in my estate back in Abuja that said he wanted to link me up with his nephew abi cousin. The old man kept disturbing me that he would be a good fit for me.

Just look at, lmaooo.

These are the parents from 'long-lasting marriages' who are notorious for setting up arranged marriages for their kids o.

I wonder what he saw that made him think you were a good match for him. Baba prolly didn't know that the world has moved on from analog qualities to digital.

There is nothing you people cannot eat sha.


What is this, fgs? 🤮

Tallesty1:
.A first impression should just be interesting enough to not be boring, that's it. Don't set expectations too high.

Yes, that is it.

A first impression matters but not to the point of pretentiousness.

It's literally about how well you rate the person and the effort you're willing to put into respecting, and not embarrassing them.

folake4u:
My dear. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

It was a blind date oh.

Thank you.

Ahh. Kanipe it was someone you knew ni, his thoughts and opinions would have given you a glimpse into the kind of person he was before you agreed to the date.

folake4u:
The day I went out on a date and the man was breaking bones and using his hands to eat, I was too stunned. He even wore Timbaland shoes. Deleted the number right there at the restaurant. I was traumatized.🥲

Awww.

I cannot imagine.


Pele, baby.

guvna:
you should have a brothel !

You think this is a gag?

A brothel is a slaughterhouse for men's destinies, and a whôre's bed is an altar of purpose exchange.

The only people who lose in a coven of virtue carriers are the men and I'm all for it.

Tallesty1:
Also do bear in mind that a good first impression is a trap.

You say?


So you would not mind me breaking bones and drinking small stout on a first date, with my wig pulled off my head and resting on the back of my chair?

ClassicMan202:
I am her boyfriend by the way...

Who is your dealer?


Whisper the answer in my ear.

These are the same men expecting women to be falling all over themselves, and rushing to get married o.

Talmabout you'll die lonely and single. As opposed to cheating, STIs, heartbreak, and sidechick dramas?

advanceDNA:
Yawwnnnnn!!! I'm not sure I get what u are yammering about..

I should be saying the same thing about you if we're keeping it real.

.. But if it's all fun....why do u still sound so pained....

Keep saying this, and maybe you'll finally convince yourself of it.

pocohantas:
Coco isn't familiar with the streets. I love how she assumes they want to have a healthy discussion. They know me I am agbero. Na why e quote Coco. E for try quote me na.

No. This. She doesn't know fr. 🤣🤣🤣

Always assuming an argument of bad faith the moment those ilks quote you is the best way to go with them.

pocohantas:
You get time answer the advancedmumu.
He is one of them and only trying to gaslight you. E pain am say im comrade done collect.

Ohhh. 🤣🤣🤣🤭🤭

You didn't have to clear him like that lmaooo.


Like, of all of them, that one GASLIGHTS the most! There is nothing he cannot twist on its head, and he'll keep going and going just to assert his nonsense beliefs.

advanceDNA:
Na Nairaland guys don do them like that....
For her mind, she's trying to clap back .... Na una wey dey take them serious dey make them yarn opata...

But the facts still remains... The gender that naturally isn't in the mood for sex even if u touch them, can't have sex because its not easy after working 8-5pm, and menstrate for 5 days (or even more in some women) cannot be naturally polygamous...

They are just forming what they are not out of being petty and angry over men's usual statement that men are polygamous in nature

Writing so much words like these for something that supposedly doesn't get to you. 🤣🤣🤣


Why are you and the other *****head convulsing over my own 'jab' too? And why do y'all like forcing a pseudo-romantic relation between us and yourselves? It's one thing to blame men in real life for my bitterness, but NL men?

Who tf is fu*king with you guys?? Mtcheeeewwww.

luminouz:
Stop bantering words with that moniker. We ignore trolls. You should know that by now.

🤣🤣🤣

You think Kim[color=deeppink]CUTIE[/color] the alpha male doesn't know that?


He really was enjoying the 'feminine' attention even up to the point of suggesting 'we' take it to another thread so just he could try a change of subject.

Kimcutie:
to prove u are not a derailer mention me in another thread, if you reply to this msg on this thread, u are a fkn derailer

You sure are enjoying this so much you're clutching at straws just to keep it going on. Continue. 👍

Kimcutie:
Lol I know what u are, a derailer.

Seùn Domi.nique this account needs a timeout

Say God. 🥱

Is that all the mods you need to tag? Those two take quite a time to respond.

Nothing less than #500,000k if we're keeping it a buck.

A woman's libido is something of an astronomical nature, and therefore cannot be 'tamed.' Women only get married to fulfil all righteousness, and just to, you know, satisfy the primordial urge of a man for a fulfilment found only in marriage.

So there's nothing like managing temptation for a married woman. This is a truth all men must accept to have a happier, healthier marital life. So the best you can do when you notice that your wife has started looking outside is to pick the young men she frolics with yourself. I mean, she's not doing it for the emotional benefits, she's doing it for the physical release which you alone can not supply.

So your best bet as a man is to help her pick men who are only interested in sex, too, not a man who will want to snatch her from you.

This is the secret of men of old to their long-lasting marriages, but somehow men of nowadays did not have it handed down to them, and now they have the redpill deceiving them that they should not accept a cheating woman. Hahahahahaha. See as a man, your honor is in celebrating a cheating wife, let me tell you. Don't allow bitter young men to mislead you in losing your marriage. Stay with a cheating wife, cherish her, have her needs met by different men, and you'll glow. To marry a promiscuous woman is to marry well.


So, anyway where was I? Yes. The sexual urges of a woman to mate with as much males as possible cannot be repressed. To get married to a woman who doesn't have this urge is a recipe for disaster. So your best bet as a man is helping her to select the playing fields that she plants her juices in.

Let me stop here for now. When I remember more green pills for managing cheating as a married man, I'll edit this comment and add them.

ruggedtimi:
Na the 400 odds you want advertise...definitely someone will hit ur dm asking for code

I wonder what the bunch of ne'er-do-well feminists are doing about the wanton misuse of power that is so rife in the NPF.


Later they'll be shouting oppression and discrimination. Is this not something they should be fighting for?