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I think I'm the only one who doesn't find this butt size one bit attractive ...

But it's good for parents to spend time with their kids sha ...

You said this isn't his first time...

I'd like to ask, in the previous times where you lended him some money, did he pay back promptly and without issues? ...

If the answer is yes, then you might want to consider lending him the cash ...

Who knows, he prolly needs it for something really serious ...

It's your call sha ...

I'd stay with the private sector for the following reasons ...

1. The pay is better, if you save that extra 150k every month for a year you can use that cash to do something productive ...

2. The private sector will over work you,so you'll more or less grow very quickly in that field, that knowledge will prove invaluable if you intend to start a business related to your job description ...

3. The fact that the private sector doesn't have job security means that you'll have to think of a way to secure your own future ...

Believe it or not, there's just something about discomfort that makes a man think ... If you're too comfortable you can't grow ...

It's just my personal opinion sha ...

Person wey never see 300k cash, na him you go dey send 3million, lol ...

Dey play, just dey play ....

If you check well now, you'll discover that that girl is from a broke family and so rather than work legitimately to free herself from poverty, she's resorting to scamming ...

Avoid broke girls, e get why ...

Promiscuous girls are usually from broke homes ...

That is why it is expedient that you date ONLY girls from wealthy families ...
(Or girls that are well to do via legit income)

So that when she tells you "I love you", you'll know that, it's not motivated by hunger ...

Hahahahhaa ...

Maybe God is trying to tell you to stop your promiscuous ways ...

Hahahhaahh . .
OP o ...
You no go kee me with laugh ...
Oga say na verified tinder account ...

I know you want the best for your sister, but guy, at 21, I believe she's old enough to make the right decision ...

So if she feels tinder is for her, then please allow her ... Don't spoil show for de Boyz dem ...

That's true ...
When a woman is married to a man, her life should improve as proof that she's married to a man ...

But News flash!
The same thing applies to men too ...

Men if your life doesn't improve when you get married, then trust me you made a HUGE MISTAKE! ...

Women according to scriptures are not only helps, but they are supposed to carry favor ...

But sadly, the average female of our generation comes with bills, family problems and all sorts of liabilities ...

Jewessgratitud3:
There's no such thing as faithful man or husband. I never came across any during my dating days and have never come across any in my life.

The law of attraction states that like will ALWAYS attract like ...

So if only unfaithful men are coming your direction, then it's proof that there's something wrong with you ...

I mean...
Ants are attracted to sugar and flies to poop ... It's a law ...

So madam, check yourself well ...

Did you say 50,000 dollars? ...

DynamicWriter:
Lol 😆
I made a typo mistake, I'll correct it now 🤭.

Oh my goodness.

Hahahhahaa ...
Tis well o ...

God will help you sir ...
More grace to your hustle👍

Am I the only one who read the letter in the picture? ...

Gosh!!!! I had a headache reading that crap ...

OP...
I know it's not going to be easy for the next couple of months, maybe years, but you'll cope by God's grace ...

And in the near future, you'll realize that your wife leaving you is the best thing that ever happened to you ...

Think of it...
First of, she was frolicking with other men on Facebook, entertaining them as if she was single - that's SUPER DISRESPECTFUL! And it's prove that she would prolly cheat on you at the slightest opportunity ...

And now, she's making such a drastic decision based on what her village oracle told her ...

Oga move on jareh, you dodged a bullet ...

Just imagine if her village people tells her that you're the cause of her problems and for her to be free she has to poison you ...

Do you think you will survive? ...

okeganiyu:
Any muslim single mother that has job around lagos or Ogun should DM on WhatsApp;0706 441 7083. Thanks

Muslim single mother? ...
What an interesting combination ...

I wish you good luck in your search sir ...

Charisma01:
Men don't like single mothers because
1 Many of them are emotionally damaged. They carry the hurt from being abandoned to single parenthood.

2 Most of them are temperamental.

3 When you start having your own children, everything you buy for one & don't buy for the other is a competition.

There was a single mother I was dating, na only she tell me say, I know my son will be a barrier, that's how she left me.
Someone I was planning to marry.

Whatever the reason, the fact still remains that most single mothers generally have lots of baggage accompanying them ...

And thus, they're not desirable to lots of men ...

Females just need to accept this and stop trying to shame men for having standards ...

DynamicWriter:
It's natural for women to seek for attention.

It's not every LovePeddler bleach and vice versa.


In case anyone needs a quality content writer, kindly check my signature for my contact details.

Read the bolded well ...
Will you hire you for content writing jobs if you saw this? ...

This topic is really stale ...

It's like nairaland redpillers association have run out of topics to create ...

And so all they can do is recycle old topics to bash women, tis well o ...

Nice video ...
Short and straight to the point ...

LADIES KNOW YOUR PURPOSE IN LIFE o, e get why

And lemme add to this, when you've discovered purpose, please pay the price to pursue it WITHOUT COMPROMISE ...

But I know most of y'all ladies still won't listen, because most of y'all be mining clitocurrency ...

OP lay your right hand on your head and let me pray for you, cause it's evident that your village people are after your life ...

It's also obvious that they've use your destiny (self esteem) to pluck mango ...


Just before you go haywire and think I'm insulting you, lemme point out a couple of your st.upidity ...

1. She was in a relationship with another guy and yet she felt comfortable having s.ex with you ... And you think that if she eventually becomes your girlfriend, she won't do the same? ...

Verdict: She's a cheat and will prolly pin another man's pregnancy on you in future

2. She made a fuss of things when you spoke to other girls, but yet she could boldly call a man in your presence and you'll be quiet? ...

Verdict: She's SUPER DISRESPECTFUL and doesn't reverence you in ANYWAY

3. She can boldly go outside and spend the weekend at another man's house and still have the effrontery to call you and "shower you with love" lol ...

Verdict: she doesn't regard you as anything ... At best you're just a side tool to cure her urge ....

4. You said something about her having anger issues ... You also said something about her treating other people like trash when she's angry ...

Verdict: if she can do it to them when she's angry, don't think she won't do it to you too or do you think you can always make her happy? ...

5. She is not only a who.re or in your own words, "more se.xually experienced", but she has her nudes scattered all over the place ...

Lemme ask, what kind of role model will she be for your kids? ...

That aside for now ...
However, a girl that that is comfortable jumping from one pole to the other lacks the capacity to commit ...

But it's like you're comfortable having a community pu.ssy for a girlfriend ... Drop her digits and location, so that guys can take their own share ...

So with these few points of mine, do you see why I think you need prayers? ...

Any woman who is scared of DNA is guilty of infidelity ...

Forget all the emotional BS they put up ...
They'll say things like "so you don't trust me" and bala-blu, all those ones are just a means to manipulate you to not uncover their infidelity ...

This is why I advice every man to try as much as much as possible to run a DNA test on ALL your kids ESPECIALLY if you didn't marry your wife as a virgin ...

I know it's expensive, really expensive, but trust me, it's better to pay the price and be sure that your kids are yours, than to wake up after 30years and discover that you've been scammed ...


But thinking of it, how is paternity fraud not a crime punishable with atleast 15years imprisonment? ...

Depends on how serious the relationship is ...

talk2hb1:
I heard an underground rumor that Thinking like this was the main reason why Aliens stopped talking to us.

Because they expected more intelligent from us

I'm sure they did @bolded ...

There's a thread that was created a couple of days ago here on romanceland. The topic of that thread was "Why most Nigerian men fear single mothers...." ...

In that thread, the OP (and many folks) tried to paint the picture that men who don't want single mothers, don't want them simply because they're "afraid" and that, that decision is stemmed from a place of "insecurity" in the man, lol ...

https://www.nairaland.com/7857064/why-most-nigerian-men-fear#126060337


When I went through the thread, I couldn't help but cringe at how narrow minded the comments of lots of folks here were ...

One thing that lots of women (and sadly si.mps) still don't understand is that men too have standards just as women do and if a man is to take you seriously, then you must meet those standards ...


It is precisely because lots of women don't understand this that they go about with their very foul attitude and archaic mindset, thinking that they're the best thing after sliced bread ...

They go about with the believe that they don't have to self improve and any man should consider himself lucky to have their "liabilitically" entitled baggaged filled a.ss in his life, lol ...

No wonder men keep using them and disposing of them like used tissue once they're done ...


Lemme paint y'all a picture...
If a female says she wants a man who earns 500k per month ... It doesn't necessarily mean that she hates men who earn less than that amount or that men who earn less than that amount aren't worthy of being loved ...

It simply means men who don't meet that criteria (of earning 500k) are not good enough FOR HER (please note the emphasis) ...

Those men could be good enough for someone else, but not FOR HER ...


Now, let me state it categorically here that, MEN HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AGAINST SINGLE MOTHERS ...

Single mothers are humans just like any other females out there and they deserve to be loved just as any other female ...

HOWEVER, females should understand that singles mothers (and girls with high body counts) are a HUGE TURN OFF for MOST MEN out there ...

In the dating scale of preference of most men, single mothers would fall at the bottom as compared to other females their age who don't have kids ...


This doesn't mean that men "hate" them or that men are "afraid" of them, it simply means you're not most men's spec shikinah ...

There's no insecurity anywhere ...
There's no "fear" anywhere ...
You're just not desirable to lots of men, period! ...


Now, are they men who have no qualms being with single mothers? YES! But an overwhelming number of men don't want you because you're not good enough FOR THEM, so your best bet is to go for the men who do want you ...

And I would wish that you and every other member of the society would understand this and stop painting the standards of men in a bad light by tagging it as "fear" or "insecurity" ...

Thankiooo ...

Lol ...
Just imagine you call your sister and ask her, "what do you do for a living?" And she's says "I'm in a relationship" ...

Chai!! ...
What is this world turning into ...

On a more serious note....
Any man who "pays" a girl monthly all because she's in a relationship with him is DAFT in my opinion ...

Relationship isn't a job or an employment status ...

And even if it was, the criteria that you be paid by your employer is that you provide value which a very significant number of girls don't bring or have ...

So what are we saying ...

Nonexisting1:
I just did and I apologize to you personally for feeling offended. You and few other good people here are making me go softer on your gender each passing day and I don't like it.

...
Sorry we're making you go soft chief ...

But seeing that we have a few amazing women in our lives, we just can't allow them be put in the same box as the average Gen Z ...

Well done chief👍

It's the generalization for me ...

Nairaland boys no go kee person o ..

OP o ...
MTN data is indeed very terrible ...

I bought 1gb worth of data for 200 just so I could while away time on Instagram (since my monthly plan had expired yesterday)

Only for me to get a notification roughly 25mins after that my data had been exhausted ...

I was like "what's going on here" ...
So I went to check my phone's data usage to see if maybe an app was using background data and lo and behold, Nothing! ...

Total data according to my phone's data usage records and according MTN app data usage records, what I used was just a little over 300mb ...

So in essence, what MTN actually gives you is 30% of what they promised ...

Take heart ...

Tayorshd87:
Your thinking is myopic or rather because u are not married yet or probably becos u haven't seen a woman you like love and cherish bco6even if she is a single mother u won't still hesitate to do everything to marry her 😊.

You see that word LOVE it will blindfold your eyes

Hahahhaha ..
Lol ...
Wetin musa no go see for gate ...

Lemme get this...
So because I've made a choice not to take single mothers seriously (relationship wise), it therefore means I'm myopic? ...
Lol ...

Sir if at this stage of your life, you've not come to the understanding that people have PREFERENCES when it comes to choosing a mate, then I can BOLDLY SAY that you're the one who is INDEED myopic ...

Not every woman is good enough to enter a relationship with ...

Now if you feel that single mothers are your spec, then by all means knock yourself out, it's your choice! I respect that ...

However, you need to be mature enough to respect the choices of other people when it pertains to their life ...

Enjoy your evening ...

Nonexisting1:
That's the cycle of life for most divorcees. A wife will leave her marriage for a fucckman. After the man is done fuccking her silly, he dumps her. She will then realize her mistake and returns to her husband. By that time, the gentleman has moved on with a new wife so she will now become sidechick to her own husband. You see why I call them brainless gender.

You were making sense until the bolded ...
This is bad, REALLY BAD!!! ...

You don't get to call an ENTIRE GENDER brainless all because of the st.upidity of a couple ...

It's an insult to every smart woman out there ... The words "some" or "most", would've sufficed man ...

I don't support this at alllll ...
Please modify ...

Dreamhighnow:
Liar

Okay ...

madone:
na this type dey end up marryinga single mother oo

Sighs ...
Same old, same old, shaming tactics ...
Aren't you guys tired already?! ...

I mean...
It's the same old script ...
A man states his standards...
Females and sim.ps get offended...
And rather than attack his point, they resort to emotional blackmail and insults ...

Maybe you should try another method ...
At least one that's COHERENT enough (if you know what that means) ...
Cause this one is getting old already ...

Please quote me when you have something that's atleast average and mentally exciting ...