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Beuberry:
You mean you're a trash can?

I'm glad you recognize your true nature ...

Lemme take a wild guess, she's a single mother ...

And this is not some attempt to throw shades at single mothers, but the fact is, it takes a man to raise a boy into a man ...

Cause there can't be a masculine figure in that boys life and he acts this way, nahhhh, snot happening ...

So women, before you start screaming "I don't need a man" "I'm strong and independent" and blah, please understand that kids that grow up in two parents household fare a whole lot better than kids raised by single mothers ...

Thus, if you want the best for your kids (male or female), give them a good father figure ...

I'll go back to the early 2000 and get me a sh.it ton of bit coins and then patiently wait till date to contest for richest man in the world with oga Jeff ...

First of...
Where's the indication that this man is broke? ... Cause women will not marry a man who they feel can't take care of their basic needs at the very least ...

Secondly...
For this man to leave her and go for her kid sister, it's proof that the kid sister is obviously a better choice long term than she ever was and there's nothing wrong with that ...

Abi is she expecting the man to marry her when he has seen a better option that is ready to commit to him? ...

Beuberry:
Love is dynamic. It's the reason why s woman that loves you ll want you to raise her child even if you the kid isn't your seed.

TRASH! ...

Quintopia:
Stupid oaf with no brain.

Deborah is one person.

Israel is looking to kill thousands of innocent people in Palestine.

So far the death toll for Palestinians is 1,600 in just two days.

Half of them children, a quarter women.

You say Deborah was one person, so I ask, doesn't the life of one person count? ... Isn't the life of one person just as important as the life of others? ...

You say that a of quarter of the death toll are women, so I ask, wasn't Deborah a female? ... The people that hamas killed, weren't they innocent as well? Were they not women and children amongst those who were killed? ...

You see it's very easy to cry foul when the odds are not in your favor ...

I don't support this war, however, those guys are getting what they deserve ... If Israel wasn't attacked, Israel wouldn't fight back ...

Or were you expecting Israel to just fold their hands and watch their people wiped off the surface of the earth without doing anything about it? ...

Quintopia:
In the next 10 days that number could hit 50,000 or more killed, with outraged nations like Iran joining in, backed by Russia. That's where this seems to be going.

If this happens, then it wouldn't be the first time that countries have teamed up against Israel and yet they're still standing strong ...

Google "The 6 day war" and read it up ...

As much as we all want to believe that an 18 year old is an adult and bla bla bla, this is a major decision that she shouldn't be allowed to take alone ...

If I'm to take a wild guess, your sister is still very much dependent on your parents and thus it's very possible to (for want of a better phrase) force her hand into doing what her parents want her to do ...

This shouldn't be too difficult ...

But if she's still hell bent on taking on this huge responsibility before she's actually ready for it, then allow her face the full force of it ...

As for her dreams of becoming a doctor, it's not dead in my opinion, but it's definitely going to be delayed ...

Where is that dude that opened a thread with the caption, "the hypocrisy of men", please your attention is needed ...

But I'm happy for her sha ...
That's her standard and if you don't meet that standard, stay clear ...

louken:
An average African man will joyfully clear the bill or run to his kinsmen to assist him clear the bill while giving glory to God for blessing his family with a bouncing baby. Still our womenfolk deride us and call us toxic and immature.
Oya naa, see an oyibo husband trying to split (or even refusing to pay) child delivery bill.
I wonder if any of our deluded feminists can accept what this woman went through.

Sheybi I've been saying it, let's give our African women the "equality" that they're seeking, na them go run ...

Once they have a taste equality in the realest sense, they'll trash this talk of feminism once and for all ...

Why on earth would I want to be with a girl that takes alcohol? ...

Those kind of girls aren't worth taking serious at all, just fo.ol around with them if you must and that's all ...

This is trash! ...
Premium trash! ...

You said "girls have short attention span", so why then should it be the responsibility of a man to keep her attention? ...

If her attention span is short, then it's proof that's she's dumb ...

I mean, it takes paying attention to advance in anything, so if their attention span is short, then she's dumb - no wonder women are generally mediocre at best ...

And any woman that is dumb is dumb and trying to be "creative" to chat with a dumb woman is dumb ...

Sincerely...
I can't put this much effort for any dumb woman, God forbid! I have better things to channel my creativity towards ...

Go back to the shop and ask to for another pair of sneakers in exchange for this one, cause I doubt they'll want to give you a refund ...

I'm more concerned about what will happen to the woman after now ...

Why did she hide the fact that she was fighting cancer away from her husband? ...

Isn't there supposed to be openness and transparency in a marriage? ...

I mean, if she can hide something as important as this from her hubby, what else is she hiding? ...

Prolly her secretive nature is what pushed him into the hands of another woman ...

This woman just used her hand to spoil her marriage ...

Anyways, it's fiction ...

When we talk like this they'll scream "misogyny", but this is nothing but the truth ...

The average modern woman is not worth it at all ...

That religion is a useless religion ...

If you want to pray, go somewhere and pray! ...

Why block a commercial road all because of your useless prayer ...

The people of that religion are become a menace to the society and it's high time we do something about it ...

Intergrated:
she go soon reach fourty .then the foolishness inside her go mature.

This attitude is prolly the reason why no man in her past relationships took her serious ...

And you talked about the hypocrisy of men ...

You hinted that men are hypocrite cause they'll have numerous body count and yet want a virgin ...

Well...
If you have an issue with that, then I hope you have an issue with...

Broke women who want rich men ...
Short women who want tall men ...
Obese women who want fit men ...


Oh wait a minute, it's considered preference when it's a woman ba, so there's no issue - got it ...

I dunno what exactly you saw in your "friends" Facebook account ...

But one thing I can tell you is that, there are two kinds of women in every man's life ...

Those that are for keeps and those that are for peeps ...


And each of the females in those category have different degree that qualifies them for the category that they're placed under ...

To qualify for the peeps category, all you need is be a female with breasts and VA.gina and that's all! - All women qualifies for this category ...

But men become more meticulous when it comes to a woman that they intend to keep or take serious ...


So just because men will pay to sleep with a w.hore doesn't mean they'll take her serious by wifing her up ...

She's fu.ckable, yeah, but she's not worth keeping ...

That's why you'll never hear a man say "no virginity, no nacking" ... It's always "no virginity, no marriage" ...

This alone should tell you that what men sleep with and what men consider keeping are two very different things - don't confuse them ...

Oga focus on your family and leave her alone! ... Don't go and look for issues when there's none ...

Even men who play runs far away end up bringing trouble to their homes, how much more when the runs is in the same compound ...

Oga abort asap! ...

I can't take a woman who exposes her body seriously ...

If she's fond of exposing her body, then she's not worth keeping! ...

Tell him you bought the camo for a skit, out to the camera and when he looks RUN!!! ...

Before you try this, be sure that you're a naija version of Usain bolt ...

If possible, let Israel wipe out the entire Palestine from the face of the earth ...

How can you wake up one morning and slaughter innocent civilians in their homes just like that ...

If these guys attacked an Israeli military base, ehnhe ... Then they could play the card of "resistant fighters" fighter their oppressors (Israeli military) ...

But killing Israeli citizens in their homes? Nahhhhh, wipe them all off ...

Godoverevery:
Would have ghost her but I met her through a senior bros.

She happens to be the man niece so I just want to end things nicely.

Oga it doesn't matter! ...

Any girl that isn't understanding and tries to emotionally manipulate you into doing something you don't want to do is bad for you ...

And so you must cut them off asap! ...

Their very presence is bad for your mental health ...

But if you think your mental health is worth risking because you met her through a senior boss, then that's on you ...

Tell her that you don't have any money to spare and if she still tries to emotionally blackmail you or make a fuss out of things, DUMP HER!!!!!!! ...

If at that age, she still can't set her priorities straight, then it's proof that she's not mature enough to consider doing life with, LEAVE HER! ...

Believe this story at your own peril ...

Cause in the eyes of most women "it's never my fault" ...


And if you pay attention to that write up, she emphasized that her husband was a "family oriented man whose nature and character she admired" ...

How then would a good natured family oriented man wake up one morning and seek a divorce? ...

That woman is the problem of why that marriage crashed! ...

Jman06:
Don't you know that to be a "real man", you're not supposed to have choices but follow the choices of the female gender like a zombie?? The plan is to create a world where women can eat their cakes and still have it. That is the agenda of the feminist movements! They employ different strategies to achieve that goal, including blackmail, movies, pornographies, femdom bdsm/cockoldry movements and porns (they promote this greatly nowadays). All of these are aimed at feminizing as much men as possible to transfer power to the female gender.

Honestly eh...

If not that I have very sensible females in my circle, I would've said that ALL FEMALES ARE DAFT! ...

Cause the way most females reason is worse than the way my 3year does ...

Very myopic way of reasoning ...

Honestly eh...

I don't know what prompted this guys to go to war with israel ...

But regardless of the reason, it is fo.olishness to fight a battle you know you cannot win ...

No matter how just a course is,be sure of victory before pressing into it, cause if you don't, you'll end up being a martyr who'll only be remember 6days after their demise ...

And guess what?
NOTHING WOULD'VE CHANGED AFTERWARDS

Sincerely, I can't advice you ...
The best I can do right now is tell you what I would do if I were in your shoes ...

Now...
If this is someone I value, someone that I think is worth keeping, I would try my best to get to the bottom of this...

Does she have asthma?
Is she a sickler?
Is this genetic?
Is it spiritual?

I would do my best to find the root of the problem and where possible deal with it ...

But if it's one this urgent 2k entitled girls, I would dump her without looking back ...

I'm too young to be carrying this kind of burden ...

Bliss52:
You want a woman that would care for you like your mother and not a girl that you will care for like your daughter

.

Oh please!🙄
This is a load of crap! ...

So a man having a PREFERENCE for older women now means he has mummy issues? ...

So how about women who have a preference for young boys, would you say they have "son issues"? ...

See eh...
It's high time y'all females and babies in pants stop trying to shame men for having a preference in women, it's getting stale already! ...

@OP
I believe this is a phase that will pass ...
Many young men I know had this phase before they got married, it's equivalent to the h.oe phase that most females go through ...

Just don't touch another man's wife ...

I'm concerned by the fact that she has the effrontery to ignore you ...

I mean, if she gave you an explanation of some kind, then it would've made sense, but nope, she just pretended not to hear you ...

Well...
What I would do is this...

1. Prepare her favorite meal to welcome her ...
2. Make sure all her clothes are clean before she comes back ...
3. Make sure the house is clean and every chore is done ...
4. Run her a hot bath, so I can massage her feet when she comes back ...
5. Apologize for interfering in her business ...
6. Buy her a gift to appease her and promise never to do it again ...