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If she has been honest with me about her past from the get go and I still chuck head, then I wouldn't bother who says what about what, I prolly would break the head of any who tries to use it against her ...

But if she has been secretive about it, blimey, na me go help open her nyash if I ever get wind of it ... I'll make sure I amplify whatever consequences that her past would bring to her ...

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Thank God I entered nairaland this morning ...

And thank God the people that entered before me didn't see this ...

And thank God that those who saw it couldn't crack the puzzle ...

OP please tag me when next there's something like this, the awof too sweet ...

1. The sons age is 45
2. The answer is 54
3. His current age is 51

In a woman's mind, she's always the victim ... Once you understand this, you'll learn to not take women's tales of woes too seriously until it's verified ...

She has been in 10 relationships (that she told you about, they could be more of course ) and in those 10 relationships, she gave the impression of being the victim ...

So she's the saint and her 10+ exes are the devil's ba? Nice one ...

Secondly...
It's no news that like attracts like, so what exactly is it about her that is making her attract guys that are "Scum bags"? ...

My brother, that thing that pursued 10+ men may very well pursue you too and when she meets the next guy, you'll be the 11th ex, what a charm that will be ...

Thirdly...
Let's assume that she indeed is the victim here (I highly doubt this, but let's continue )... If she's the victim, can you really trust her decision making abilities? ...

I mean, what kind of person chooses the wrong fellows 10 times? If she made the wrong decision 10 times in the past, how are you sure she's not making the wrong one now? ...

Fourthly...
Never trust a person who speaks bad about their exes ...

She was in a relationship with these people for a number of months (prolly years). Is she trying to say that there wasn't anything good that her exes did for her? And if there wasn't why did she stay for the period she stayed? ...

Wow, she must have been really selfless ...
A truly selfless female in the 21st century is indeed a unicorn, but alas! Unicorns don't exist ...

Finally...
A girl who has been in 10 relationships (and more ), probably have as much body count (and more ), is her "good qualities" enough to make up for all of her shortcomings? ...

If your relationship ends after you ask this question, it's a pointer that you're (the female) not worth marrying (building a future with) ...

No man wants a liability and so even if the man hints that the future isn't clear, as long as she's not a liability he will atleast try to keep her in his life by reassuring her, but if she's a liability, then it's clear what happens next ...

But they're some guys sha o ...


Think on this
Ladies need to understand that in a guys book, they're two kinds of women - Those that are useful to just mess around with and Those that are worth building a future with ...

The sad part is that MAJORITY of the females in a guys life (asides family) are only useful to mess around with, nothing more, they aren't worth keeping AT ALL ...

But alas! The ignorance of many ladies make them unfit to build a future with ...

Mistake?

So was it also a mistake when she fixed a date to go see her boyfriend? ..

Was it also a mistake when she started making out with the guy? ..

Was it also a mistake when she pulled off her clothes and probably helped the guy take his own off? ...

Was it a mistake when she laid down on her back and allowed him enter her - possibly helped him by adjusting and/or putting it in? ...

Was it also a mistake when she allowed him to finish in her without protection? ...

Was it also a mistake when she didn't take a morning after pill after going raw with a guy? ...

Sighs...
Lots of "mistakes" if you ask me ...

Well she's a "she", what can we expect ...
In their minds "it's never their fault, they're always the victim" ...

#TeamIdontneedaman ...
#TeamIcantsubmittoaman ...

Hahahahaha ...
Even women sef don't want their sons to marry single mothers ...

Well ...
If a man's left overs is your spec, that's fine, by all means go ahead and wife them up, but as for me and my family, we no go do ...

I don't care the circumstances surrounding her becoming a single mother, as long as they're virgins girls out there, then single mothers wouldn't make it on my list of datable women ...

When I say women are a while lot smarter than men are relationship wise, men will be keeping face as if they ate sour grapes ...

5 women were interviewed, and 4 of the women said that "if they contribute, then it would be in both names", only one woman agreed to be the property will be in her husband's name ...

But men of these days will be buying properties in the name of their wives and girlfriends all in the name of love ...

And then when things goes south, they start crying like babies who've been denied breast online, make them sha continue, time will tell ...

Davoneskay:
I am speechless with this. You analysed it so well.

As in eh...
The analysis shock me ..

@OP
A man who takes back a cheating woman is a fo.ol in my opinion ...

But alas! Fo.ols still doth dwell amongst us ...

@Liballo
Whilst the OP may have generalized, everything s/he said there is facts not "bashing" ...

@OP
I have no issues with single mothers, but I can't advice any man to take any serious ...

I know one might argue that "there are still some good ones there", but my dear, Dem no dey write am for forehead ...

most single mothers comes with baggage that the regular girl don't have ...

Females already are a handful, talk more of adding baby daddy issues, kids issues, child expenses in addition to female drama ...

Can't deal! ...

OP how far you na? ...
Wetin happen? ...

Come on, You can confide in us ...

Prettygirl200:
Again a 12years old girl is a child, and that's also child abuse, the south don't allow such here, so if u want to make such comparison it should be from 18 years old that's the legal age of a young adult. Thank you!!!

Hahahah ...
Maybe you should go back and read the OP's submission again, then you'll see how hilarious you sound right now ...

The comparison is not in age or in child marriage or child abuse , it's in whether they marry as virgins or not ...

So going by the topic of discuss, do northern females marry as virgins as compared to their Southern counterparts? Yes or no? ...

I understand that post on virginity is a very sensitive topics for most females on nairaland, so I totally understand ...
But it's fine sha ...
You win ...

Enjoy the rest of your day ...

Even though you weren't aware that he was married, why take in for someone who you aren't married to? ...

Maybe she thought that getting pregnant for a "star artist" will get her the ring ...

AndrewTate:
We've seen things like this over and over again that it's beginning to look like bashing Oga you know exactly what I'm talking about... Let's not use the witchcraft of jennyclay to face others.

Just because it "looks like", doesn't necessarily mean that it is ...

And also you got me with the "Jenny witchcraft" comment ...

Error401:
Most of them are very disrespectful
They have too many emotional burdens
they think about the child
about the ex husband
family problems
work wahala
highly manipulative
Lastly, they dont mind to share pussssy for evry dick and harry cos they have nothing to loose.
Ive been there, i can never try it again. Better stay with someone who is single andnever married with less emotional burden and wont blame you for someone else mistakes

Sarcasms lost on you man ...

mamagee3:
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Congratulations...

AndrewTate:
I'm not trying to carry their flags for them but don't y'all think the women bashing is becoming a little too much on Nairaland?
At least I don't see topics like "10 types of men to avoid" or "why do young men patronize hook-up" at least let's just be fair...
Doesn't mean that I will hesitate to bash any wrong doings by women tho.

But the energy is not matching here... Let's talk about other things atleast.

All the OP did was list out some of the different kinds of women in dating market and if you've being paying attention, you'll see the above listed characteristics ...

If this is called "bashing", then we might as well open threads saying "all women are angels" ...

trueking:
What if the woman lost her husband to accident through no fault of her own, abeg we should be considerate, in passing judgement, they are human beings too.

If she lost her husband, then she's a widow ...

And no one is passing judgement on anyone, we're just stating our preferences as regards the dating market or is it bad to have preferences? ...

Vyzz:
No we are not matured,
we are not responsible
We are not understanding
and we don't need strong and experienced women..

Its fine if you don't like single fathers or broke guys but when we say we don't want single mothers Y'all cry

Hahahahah ...
Sarcasm is lost on you man ...

How come?!!!!!! ...

Single mothers are strong and powerful women who have braved the odds to raise those kids, so why don't men want them?! ...

Spits!!!! ...
It's like men of this generation don't like strong and brave women, it seems they need their heads checked ...

NNEWIsuper:
Child marriage is evil

Who said otherwise? ...

Prettygirl200:
12 years old female isn't an adult and as such shouldn't be marrying at that age, if they allow thos girls to marry at 18 as a virgin then what u are saying would be valid sir!!

"What ifs"...
"What could've or should've"...
"What couldn't or shouldn't"...

All of these don't matter ...
What matters is "what is" ...

So the question is "Do girls in the north marry as virgins as compared to their Southern counterparts?" Yes or no? ...

If yes, then the OP's train of thoughts is valid ...

NNEWIsuper:
It's worse in the north. The only thing is that Northern girls marry at 12 years old. Any 12 years old anywhere in the world os likely a virgin including Southern Nigeria

This doesn't disproves the OP's point na ...
They still married as virgins (even if it's child marriage) ...

But here in the south, females rarely ever marry as virgins ...

Keyword - Marry...

Carcholce:
You mean Nigeria will shut down?

Hahahahhah ...
I see what you did there ...

franchasofficia

This is super insightful...
Please keep em coming...

Sincerely...
I feel very sorry for any man who ends up with a broke woman tahhhh!!! God forbid!! ...

I can't even wish a broke woman on my worse enemy sef ...

Lemme give you a few reasons why broke women are bad for relationships...

1. They're usually very entitled...
2. Relationship is a poverty allocation scheme for them...
3. Their love for you is based on the strength of what you can provide...
4. They're usually up for the highest bidder, resulting in their unfaithfulness and thus they jump from pole to pole and dare I say that they have a very high body count...
5. Their idea of "boyfriend" is walking ATM...
6. They usually have very low financial IQ, thus they can't manage money, neither do they have any money making ideas...
7. .........

In summary...
Get yourself a rich woman at least that way, when she tells you "I love you", you'll know that those words aren't coming from a hungry stomach ...

All these for a girl that has been ran through by many men, is rude and disrespectful, entitled and dumb, lazy with low financial IQ? ...

Nahhh...
The average modern female isn't worth even10% of the above ...

Honestly...
I wouldn't advice any man to disclose his full income to anyone (wife included) ...

That's cause most women of these days are not worth it at allllllll ... Tell them how much you earn and they won't rest until they spend all that money ...

The only exception to this is if your wife is very prudent and submissive even when y'all are having issues, then you could let her in, asides that? Nahhhhh ...

DenreleDave:
Actually I was investigating a scam issue and the guy is the one in question.. My research led me to his nairaland account and I found the weird females only followers. Definitely guy is using the scam money to carry women

Hahahhah ...
Why do I find this funny ...

You're funny o ...
The way y'all just come online and make assumptions is what beats my imagination ...

Can you prove with evidence that it the guys who are leaking the videos of all these women? ...

And besides...
With how the internet is flooded with leaked videos of people, why would anyone bother to make a se.x video or allow another to make a video of them, isn't that st.puidity?!! ...

Omorr...
It's obvious that it's the girls that needs to learn ...

Na wa o ...

So following females automatically makes one a "potential rapist", tis well o ...

I wonder what you'll call a person who follows only male accounts ...

And besides...
You must have a lot of free time in your hands to be able to dig out this "valuable" info ...

Wahala ...