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So if a man voices something that's bad in a woman, it is automatically tagged as "body shaming" ...

Sighs ...
Indeed, being a man in today's world is really hard ...

Itulah:
To you, 30seconds is a long time.

30 seconds is a very long time to be disrespected ...

EbolaTinubu:
Don't mind the frustrated evening newspaper. No be me tell her make she no marry , even at her old age

You should take her advice though - MOVE ON!! ...

Persephone1:
I didn't read, all I know is it's their lives, let them be. Judging from your monicker it seems you don't have good happening in your life either else you wouldn't name yourself after the two deadliest diseases ever to hit Nigeria.

Typical ...

Dreamhighnow:
For 30 seconds? Pls tell me if u have not done worse

Nope ...

MSN1:
My kid sis who is heavily pregnant and my little nephew, have been with me for days now.

May I ask why your "heavily pregnant sister" is with you and not with her husband? ...

MSN1:
I can boldy tell u dat; if u offer me $100 trillion; I CAN NEVER BE A WOMAN EVEN FOR A DAY.

Well that's you ...
For that amount I don't mind being a woman for a year sef ...
Do you know what a 100 trillion dollars is? ...
How much is Elon worth? ...
This OP sef ...

MSN1:
I have and will constantly say; Women are VERY easy to control when u tune to her frequency!.

Am really passing 2ru a lot, from funny actings, diets to unnecessary buyings @ odd hours, MEHN, I NEED A BIG SOFT HUG!.

Why would anyone want to "control" another human being?! Sounds monstrous if you ask me ... And again I ask, where is the man who got your sister "heavily pregnant "? ...

MSN1:
It takes ONLY a heartless person not to have a very high level of empathy for pregnant women.
GOD BLESS OUR MOTHERS and WIVES, DESPITE THEIR SEVERE DRAMAS.

Hahahhah ...
So because a female is pregnant, I should instantly develop "empathy" for her and if I don't, then I'm heartless? ...

Tis well o ...
Make I no talk wetin dey my mind ...

Most broke girls are BEGGARS!! Avoid them ... Their definition of love equals the amount the man is willing to spend on them ...

In their minds, "if he doesn't spend his all on me then he doesn't love me" ...

Broke girls are unfaithful as they'll quickly jump poles for the next rich dude, infact they behave like they're auction materials ready for the taking of the heighest bidder ...

Men, AVOID BROKE GIRLS LIKE A PLAGUE! ...

It's the way the society demeans a man's choice that irritates me, yikes!!! ...

OP...
The reason why most men don't want to marry a single mother is not because of any St.upid "fear", it's because of CHOICE!!!! ...

Most men don't want single mothers, PERIOD!!!!! ...

Y'all need to start accepting men's choice(s) in women and stop trying to demean men for having and exercising it ...


Personally, single mothers are a no go area for me, and my son's relationship wise ...

I don't care how she became a single mother, that's IRRELEVANT!!! ...

But as long as there's a well cultured 18 - 24year old virgin out there, I'd rather be castrated than marry a single mother AND THAT'S MY CHOICE!! ...

Because of what? ...

Well it doesn't matter ...
No one has the right to be abusive (physical or otherwise) towards another unless in cases of self defense ...

So if you didn't attack her first, then I sincerely hope you gave her the beatings of her life, so much so that she would never raise her hands on another man NO MATTER WHAT ...

Boondocxs:
So you want her to abort it abi what
When you were pouring your Akamu inside her you didn’t think of it
Better keep that child oh if you know what’s good for you

"She told me she was pregnant the other day and we both want to keep the kid"

You really should learn how to read before you comment ...

When I hear people put up the narrative of "don't expect to marry a virgin if you're not a virgin", I can't help but laugh at their naivety ...

It's just like telling a girl...
"Don't expect to marry a rich man, if you're not rich" or "don't expect to marry a tall man if you're short" ...

Does that hold water? ...


Lemme educate you a little bit OP ...
Men and women want different things in the opposite s.ex...

Women in general want men that are taller, richer and more powerful than them ...

Men on the other hand want women that are loyal and chaste ...

So allow everyone go for what they want! ...
Since women can be broke and wretched and still want a rich man to bring them and their family out of poverty ...

((Some of them even bash men who are doing better than their fathers sef ...))

Allow the men also to sleep around and still want virgin wives and if the men bash the wh.ores in the process, LET THEM! ...


I'll start taking post like yours serious when y'all start pushing the alternate narrative as vehemently as you push this ...

Until then, let's all just keep being unrealistic ...

izonborn098:
I'll not say the man was wrong but the action he took is not proper.

Really?! ...
So the girl pressing her phone on a date (while the guy was prolly talking to her) for that long a time is proper, ba? ...

I would DEFINITELY do the same if I was in that guy's shoes ...

I cannot be talking to you and you're pressing your phone, that's SUPER OFFENSIVE & DISRESPECTFUL

When someone who is inexperienced on a subject matter is talking, you would know immediately ...

There isn't any chat to see here OP ...

But to be honest, I wouldn't help her out even if I could ...

((Except God Himself echoed from the heavens that I should)) ...

Let her run to the guy she turned you down for to help her with whatever issues she has ...

She made a wrong decision, allow her face the consequences alone! ...

And don't allow anyone blackmail you or manipulate you into giving that girl 1cent ...

Ask yourself a question, why are you amongst the people she reached out to when she ran into issues? ...

So like this now, you're good enough to be milked of your hard earned resources but you're not good enough to be with ba? ...

Don't send her shi shi OP ...

I like this OP ...

After some people had called him all sort of names, he was able to convince them otherwise ...

OP, please demand an apology from those people ...

Justice for OP💪


But on a serious note sha ..
There's so much truth to what the OP is saying ...

Na from clap dance dey take start ...

Their Facebook feeds (and suggestions) ...

lanocfoods:
if the man hits you first nko?

Walk away! ...
A real woman doesn't hit a man NO MATTER WHAT ...

Thanks for sharing ...
This video just made my evening ...

Analysis of the video ...
A girl slapped a guy first ...
The guy slapped her back ...
The girl collapsed instantly due to the force of the slap ...

A certain "captain-save-a-hoe" then went to be a "real man" by standing up for the girl, oga also received his fair share of gbas gbos ...

What a wonderful video ...

To the ladies...
I don't care what a man does, YOU NEVER HIT A MAN AS A LADY
Real women don't hit men NO MATTER WHAT!! ...

If you do, then be prepared for a backlash, cause last I checked, we're in the era of equality ...

Did you say "forgive her dirty past"? ...

Well...

There's nothing to forgive on my end, since obviously I won't be dealing with her, so yeah, I'll allow the unfortunate man to have the privilege of forgiving her ...

Most females are like dogs, they ALWAYS go back to their vomit ... - Fahvvy

Females don't necessarily marry who they love, but rather they marry who is ready (that's how desperate they all are for marriage!) ...

So if your wife to be have had several se.xual relationships, you best be sure that there's a very high chance she'll cheat on you the first chance she gets ...

When the elders say that women are intrinsically selfish, y'all be arguing with your keypads ...

You expected him to buy two tickets for both of you and prolly sponsor the entire trip ALL ON HIS OWN ...

And when he couldn't (because the cost was high), you didn't even bother to support him but rather you went on your own without considering him... Or do you think men don't like going on vacations? ...

And what's worse is that you're not even willing to share your hotel room with him now that he wants to come over, how selfish! ...

If you had given him the money you spent on your tickets and other miscellaneous to add to what he had, not only would both of you had an enjoyable trip as man and wife, he would've appreciated it and your value would've grown in his eyes ...

But no! You just had to be selfish ...

"Help meet" indeed! ...

And what's worse is that they go around chanting "I cannot suffer in my father's house and suffer in my husband's house" like a mantra ...

Yet they have no skill, tweeeehhhhh ...
How disgusting can most ladies be ...

They all look good enough to na.ck ...

But whether or not they're worth keeping is another story ...

Neither! ...

Why do I have to choose between the devil and the deep blue sea, when I can just find me an angel (well charactered virgin girl) ...

1Sharon:
Every woman has a pussy, but you know damn well men don't just approach any pussy.

Exactly my point! ...

So now you know why I said "she's not worth the hype" (from her looks) ...

siofra:
You men can lie sha!!

You people will still say the opposite of this to justify cheating

Where is the lie? ...

Abi don't every female out there have a pus.sy? ...

SMH ...

Whatever is in-between her legs can be found in every other woman ...

And unless she has those very rare qualities that's hardly found in other women, she's no different from other women and thus isn't worth the hype ...

Which one be luck? ...
Abeggie leave that thing ...

You see a girl who is a who.re...
A girl that has been jumping from pole to pole, spreading leg like rumor and you'll still go and propose to her, are you ment? ...

And now you're expecting her not to go back to her past poles? ...

Have you not heard that girls (in general) are like dogs, they ALWAYS go back to their vomit? ...

Don't worry eh...
Continue wifing who.res, you'll learn ...

All of them are the same thing jareh ...
Are they not all spreading their legs for peanuts? ...

Happy belated birthday OP...

Please don't allow anyone spoil your day for you...

Just go about your normal activities and if she doesn't reach out to celebrate you, bring it up with her, her response would decide whether she truly did forget your special day or if she doesn't really care ...

Happy birthday once again...