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Omg@tbaby. Dont know what to say

I pray God reveals himself to you and comfort you the way only him can

Hugs

Happy birthday and anniversary to all the celebrants in the house. This time next year i know by the grace of God your stories woukd have changed and your testimonies will be sealed.

Enjoy your day and keep giving thanks to God

Most times it is a sign of hormonal imbalance...which may lead to annovulatory (no ovulation) cycle

Relax, dont worry....when you are ready to have kids...you may see a gyneo to check you out and advice if you are actually ovulating...bcause you can menstruate without ovulating

Source:mylife. I had irregular random periods for the longest time

@tbaby...im good o...my apetite is improving although i still eat little quantities because of bloating

Iv also not been to the bathroom in 4 days so i bought oranges today....hopefully it will help move my bowels.
Im feeling so heavy..iv been afraid to weigh my self this week this is probably because of the constipation sha!

Pimples! Hmmm! Still my best friend o! My mom said maybe im having a girl...i thought about having facials too but i'm scared mehn...my skin is so sensitive and im also light complexioned before i end up with scars or an allergy reaction....make i just dey jare

It is well

No fasting for me either

@ chef....i'l update.

Its normal i hear...my own was and still is belching abi na burbing without control...ewwww. lol

i suggest we pick a date and be consistent, e.g last day or first day of every month except on special request

fabulousdame: d op might not ve used d word control right buh u should understand wat he meant(he is not trying to boss her around)
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You are in his mind right? To know exactly what he meant....pls check the dictionary for the meaning of the word 'control'.....read his first post again then maybe just maybe you can explain better how you know what he meant

Congrats @ diamondring...

I knew it........pls tell us what you did differently this month

I knew it!!!! There is no smoke without fire

@olivia...welcome to the thread. Pardon the oversight.

Your preggy mate (march) is smokey drinkey

Dont live in abj so i cant help with your earlier question

@honiepie omoge you fine o! U fine well well well.

Happy birthday to your potential husband...you people should enjoy

@gen buhari....thank God for the good news....i think the drs may be on to something with the cyclogest though! I read aigboma's old posts yesterday....we all know she had pre eclempsia too....she took cyclogest till 30 weeks!

You can read more on this page
https://www.nairaland.com/889053/pregnancy-pregnant-going-through-high/50

Whichever way sha we are sure this baby is going to be carried to term!

@op pls stop trying to control her. She is not a toy that you are holding the remote control.

She is a human being to be loved and cherished like you vowed to on your wedding day.


Have you considered what may be making her angry and consequently disrespctful? What responsible family man comes home at 4am?? The money you spent popping champagne in the club can be channeled to better use in the home!!!

I will be angry too if i had to cook, clean, take care of the children, do night shift alone while my husband parties away in the club, do all wifely things and stil have to do husbandly things like contribute half to the projects at home..

Your wife is not a stay at home wife neither is she superwoman.......she is clearly bursting her ass off for the family....be considerate too and help out in the house including with the children....you can help feed them, bath them in the night, etc instead of hanging out with your friends clubbing. doesnt make you less of a man

May God give you understanding

Nashville: Not sure you need to remind him of this as we are all trying to earn more.

Poster this is tricky and honestly if care is not taken can ruin your marriage. First of all, your wife also needs to be respected. You mentioned that anytime you try to control her, she will say that her money is also there. May you should stop controlling her too. The fact that the husband is the head of the wife does not mean he should just order her around. How can you be fighting your wife over TV? Cant one of you record it and then watch it later? You are the head of the family so focus on the big things and provide direction for the family not fight over remote control. You are a big brother and even a father to her. I am a man and I dont do that. I will rather watch my own later but that itself is not a sign of weakness and you should remember that. Sometimes conceeding to your spouse is not a sign of weakness, it may even be a sign of headship as you are saying - I am bigger than that.

Having said that, your wife's behaviour is not ideal. A good wife should never talk like that as it seems she is rubbing her money in your face and that is not good. I will advice you to teach her. And the word is teach. Let her know that it is wrong to do what she is doing. Let her understand that both of you are one and the same and who bought what, should not matter and it is a clear sign of disrespect for her to say such things to you. I will also advice that you buy things you can afford and stop forcing her to contribute. If you can't afford it, then dont buy it but reduce the number of times you want her to contribute. Women look to men for leadership and you can still provide that leadership even if you earn less. Do the needful as you deem fit and leave her money for her. My prayer for you is that God will give you a better job so that this does not continue for too long because it is not the best.

God bless you for this

critique101: intimidate her.shout at her.
REmind her that you are the husband.

Threaten to leave her if she tries it again.



Spend late nights outside, don't eat her food for a week. Spend most of your time away from home for a week. And don't smile for a week


If she becomes nicer to you, pretend to still b annoyed.

This came from a woman!!!!!! speechless mehn

So where will he be eating for the one week or spending the time since he is away from home? In the club or with another woman!!!!!!

NA CAPITAL WOW FOR THIS KIND OF MENTALITY

@chimdalu...howfar? Were you able to get the clearblue in ph?

@prettytrust unique, special and interesting indeed...but what is your EDD from LMP??

@alwaystrue...we will appreciate that very much....thanks mummy

Iyabetajos...twins is double the stress o! Pls take your feet off the ground as much as you can....if you can afford to get a driver and a maid...pls do ..if not try to schedule your outing when dh is available to drive you and you can get one of your younger sisters to come help out with house chores

Incorporate fruit, fiber and cereal into your diet as well to help keep the weight Gain in check

Pray pray pray against gestational diabetics and preclempsia

I know come april....the twins will be in your laps...

@diamond ring just do pt na and put yourself out of the misery

@dream hope this diet/ cleanse is safe for a pregnant woman? Pls check with your doctor's first

Abeg where person go sew sallah meat chop! Safelicious, tbaby and others Happy sallah

@joysolo with twins?? perfectly expected to show early

Yes.....now our sister iyabetajos has fainted a couple of times now- in the banking hall and also in the hospital due to high blood pressure ..

Pls let us remember her and gen buhari's wife in prayers

Also tbaby and nice14 about their spotting

And all the other ttc pregnant women

Mummyf
Udoka2
Smokeydrinkey
Tbaby4real
Nice14
Iyabetajos
Joysolo
Favored gal
Slimphemmie

That's all i can remember for now

@all pls let is be reminded about the PRAYERS in10mins at 7pm...

@overblessed...welcome to the thread...may your prayers be answered in Jesus name

@prettyrosefave...my sister as you have asked God to arise...i pray he will and show himself strong in your matter in Jesus name. Men!!! I tire for them...i canr even lie


@iyabetajos...my sister..it is well with you. You will carry these twins to term by the power in the blood of Jesus...pls get your feet off the ground and rest as much as possible...get help for the house if you dont already have one!

@ chicolo na real pregnancy glow! Im still waiting and watching sha...my face is still pimples infested...and oily!

@ kaynee i'm confident you will have a positive pt at the end of the cycle......

We really need to revive this thread especially for prayer purposes...getting a bfp is only half the battle

I have been so burdened and unhappy since i read Gen buhari's post this morning

@gen buhari..i just said a prayer for you and your wife...this baby will not come pre maturely in Jesus name

@twingirls....pls where did you buy the clearblue opk and how much? Was it the pack of 20?

Enjoy your visit! Safe trip

@skimpy chic...medplus...healthplus...etc...

@all sorry for derailing the thread

Oh i see. Its usually 40pounds but it was on sale or something...

Ok...lemme know