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Chinkos99:
Our company recently employed this guy, we worked in the same company before, then he was a manager and i was a junior staff.

I left the company years ago and joined another, so few months ago he got employed in my new office as a Director.

When he resumed, being that i knew him before, i started playing around with him, like when he was introduced to us, i was like oo, common, i hug him tightly and people were surprise at our closeness before i informed them that we have worked together before.

I am a jovial person, so each time i go around his office, i will call him boyfriend, my love, hope no girl is trespassing cos i will fight o and his subordinates will laugh and say you are not serious.

On the job, we get to work together at times cos i am a Manager now, we go for meetings etc, then some of his job includes doing some short production, even though i am not employed as a video producer, i told him i can do those for him personally, cos i recently learn those, he was surprise before but he decided to give me a try, i did it for him and he liked it, he became close and said i was helping him solve alot of problems.

Recently when he comes to my office, he will ask my PA where is my woman and that one will laugh knowing i started it but i just thought that was it though.

So last month when we went to the Palms Mall, to seek for permission to film their facilities in the short production work we had, we were together then he decided to do some shopping, i helped him carry the things he bought and just had fun, he took me to shoprite and ask me to shop, i just pick two things, drink and rice and he said is that all i said yes, he started showing me things, take this, take that i said i was okay, that it wasnt appropriate to come here and start shopping like its month end. So we left, in the car he said, you do have some very good attribute girl, i said like what, he said never mind and we drove off.

After that he started asking if we can have lunch but most time our lunch time dont sync, so i told him not to worry, then he asked for a dinner, i close late, im a workaholic, so most times i will agree but i will work till 9pm and he would have waited and get tired and left.

Finally i get to have a dinner date with him and he ask if we could do this more often, i said why not boyfriend jokingly, the next time we were having dinner, I said boyfriend let me greet that guy there, i really needed to meet him, he has a contact i need for work, he held me and said you call me boyfriend jokingly, i want you to mean it lol.

After i met with the guy, he started telling me how he loved me and how he will really love us to be in a relationship, he doesnt expect a yes and he knows its so wrong on all level because we work in the same place, but i can think about it and give him a response later that he will respect any decision i make.

I said thank you o, but since then, dude is so soft and nervous when he sees me, i can see the butterflies even when we are in a client meeting.

Even though he tries not to make it obvious at work, after work he is all over me

Last night we were together, i told him i am scared as he is almost 40 and not married, that i believe any guy who gets to that age, with enough money but has not married is a play boy lol. He couldn't say a word for like some minutes then he said, yes i am old enough to have been married and i had relationships, beautiful relationships with wonderful women, some didn't work because of my mistakes and because of things i neglected and some didn't work because it was not meant to work, but above all have learnt alot to be at least a better man and i am ready to make it work this time i promise, i have no doubt if you are the right girl because have known you for long and have never had a second thought about my woman, so forgive me for not making it work all these while, i want to make it right this time - MEHN THOSE WORDS RINGS IN MY HEAD LIKE KILODE, i loved the fact that he didnt put the blame on the ladies he's dated.

Now on my own side, I do not feel anything for him but i like him alot, i like that we should be hanging out, go out, do dinner and talk from morning tonight but i do not feel anything aside that. What do you guys advise.

You must be out of your mind

After leading him on, hanging around him, calling him pet names. You must be a joke

Mathscum:
Just imagine if i am in that big brother Niger house my brother my dick go day erect 2 4 7

I don't know if it is because I am a shower.

Out of all the women I have slept with no one has seen my flaccid state before sex, immediately I enter the bedroom with them my dick erect immediately
After the first round within few minutes it pick up again

Even if I am talking to a girl and it is going erotic ban e done stand.

Guys that hardly get erection they don't know what God has done for them.

It lacks control, you have to train it to that level else you ll embarrass yourself in the public

Clout chasing

Black whale

I did not see Elephant o

LilMissRobbie:
What have we done to Corona? The numbers haven't gone below 500 in quite a while.

We are romancing covid19

This lockdown edition lacks creativity. Seems their brains are lockdown

He looks and act gay, I m not disappointed

Ayebaeapretai:
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Is that the Summery

Baba Muniru

Low budget Erica....appreciate yourself and stop trying to be someone else.

ID before entering kidnappers and cultists den?

Money miss road

Apart from no1, other reasons are irrelevant

Nicoddemus:
Doctor in the house help a brother out. I have a friend of mine that is the church type. According to what I know about him he's also a born again. He got married last year and travelled back to Ghana were he stays. Recently he came back and I went to visit him; to my surprise his wife's family were there to finalize on a harmonious way for the woman to divorce him. According to my findings from his wife they have not had sex from the day they wedded. She said her husband penis doesn't get erect and so cannot penetrate her. According to her they have undergone all kinds of treatment yet the man doesn't get aroused. This man is close to forty years o and he's saying that he has never had a girlfriend before except the woman he married. My question is what could have knocked this man's engine knowing that he has never had sex before?

Excessive Masturbation

Nbote:
Hehehehehe.. Oh SpaceX flying over Nigeria means future aviation coming closer? Coming from an aviation Minister
Whixh kind of shameless statement b dis for heaven's sake... How can a spaceX flying into the international space station go thru Nigeria before getting into orbit?? Who we offend abeg..
The future he is talking about is clearly the past for d Americans..

It shows you are using free basic. Watch the video

Millenniumlady:
It's not safe to be a lady in Nigeria anymore i'm scared.

for the first time....let me agree with you. At least no rant about nl guys today

AntiChristian:
Jesus does not know the hour just as he was not aware the tree was fruitless!
Matthew 24:396 and Mark 13:32 But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father.




Have you studied a Mango tree before? It has leaves mostly throughout the year. However it has fruits only at the right season!

Before a tree grow fruit it first grow leaves. The leaves through photosynthesis produce glucose.

6CO2 + 6H20 + (energy) → C6H12O6 + 6O2 Carbon dioxide + water + energy from light produces glucose and oxygen.

So the tree was about to start producing fruits.



This 2nd fig tree parable is unrelated to the fig tree story in discussion.

Why is it unrelated, the second fig tree had second chance and he started producing fruits.

Comparing mango tree to fig tree shows your knowledge is limited anyway.


Stop twisting the scripture: Jesus not knowing the hour was referring to judgement day for humans and not fig tree


John 13:1
New International Version
It was just before the Passover Festival. Jesus knew that the hour had come for him to leave this world and go to the Father. Having loved his own who were in the world, he loved them to the end.

John 12:49
For I did not speak on my own, but the Father who sent me commanded me to say all that I have spoken.

Amya:
I've been looking to get a federal agency job in Abuja for a while now and haven't yet had any reasonable connection.

My sister inlaw ( husband's sister) a lady in her mid 40s who's divorced and a hustler type still trying to find her feet called me up one day and told me a friend of hers had a connection for Civil Defence and i should email my CV right away to her. I have never discussed jobs with her before so the call took me by surprise. I wasnt particular keen on Civil Defence and as a lawyer i had my sights much higher on parastatal or agency jobs. She might have sensed my reluctance on the phone and she went on to say

"I'm just doing you a favour ooo, many people are hoping for opportunities as this"

She had this tone of urgency.

I didnt especially like how she was hurrying me as i never approach anything with desperation and as such, have never been scammed. I told her I'll get back to her. Two hours later, she was messaging me on whatsapp that she hadn't seen my CV on her mailbox. I replied her saying

"Aunty i haven't sent it ooo, is the job slot free because me i don't have money ooo"

This was a very dicey situation for me because this woman is over 10 years my senior and i wanted to be as diplomatic as possible without causing family wahala.

She read my response but didnt reply.

Very early the next morning she called me and when i picked up, she said that the job wasnt free but the price wasnt too much, just N350k. That i shouldn't worry that she'll call my hubby (her brother) and ask him for the money. When i saw she was still pushing, i opened up to her that even if i wanted to pay for a job slot, it definitely wasnt going to be a Civil Defence job as i had my sights set on agencies and parastatals. I knew she was upset by how her voice changed. "Agencies? What's that?" I told her like NNPC, DPR, NCC and the likes
"NNPC? ehnnn.. Okay" She cut the call and i heaved a sigh that it was over. It wasn't.

Two days later, this woman called me again to tell me she has an NNPC job for me.

(you've gat to be kidding me!)

She said that her friend knows the director and he asked for one million but after begging him, he agreed to take 500k she started with her hurrying tactics that i had only 24hrs and if payment wasn't made before then that the offer will be withdrawn. At that time, NNPC were done with their recruitment process and i didnt even apply and knowing how stringent NNPC recruitment was, i knew that offer was impossible. She went on that if I didn't have the cash that she'd call her brother (hubby) to make the transfer immediately. I knew right then without a doubt that this woman wanted to use me to obtain her brother by all means. She can try to scam him directly and if he falls mugu, good for her but why try to use me in the scam? I went further with questioning her on the supposed NNPC job. "Please Aunty the director that is helping, where is he?
" Abuja nau" she replied getting irritated with my questioning.

She was in Lagos and i was in Abuja at the time
so i asked her if i could meet the supposed director one on one and pay him directly and even promised to reward her and her friend handsomely if the deal pulls through.

"No" she said abruptly "you pay the money to my account and ill give it to my friend to make the payment. All you have to do is just hope and pray"

Pray... That word. I knew then without a doubt that this Aunty was trying to scam me.

I told her "Aunty please dont be angry, i know you mean well for my future and want me to get a good job in NNPC but right now I've already paid part payment for another job somewhere and i wouldn't want to invest in two places at once" That wasnt true, i just had to get her off my tail once and for all. She was shocked. She angrily cut the call. She wanted to finesse her brother out of some cash using my future, what happens when the real slot comes around. Would i expect him to pay twice?

Her mum (mil) called me and started blasting me. Saying I'm feeling too big to be helped and her daughter was only trying to help me and now she never wanted to have anything to do with me again. That i should call her daughter and take the offer so that peace would reign. I didnt. Even my hubby blamed me and i couldn't even open my mouth to tell anyone i thought the whole setup was a scam. That's such a big accusation to make. The family dislike for me grew worse because of that incident.

Please did i do wrong?



Modified: For those asking me to talk to hubby, ofcourse i did but he genuinely believes his sister was trying to help and since i couldnt point out outright that the whole thing smelt of scam, hr thinks i rejected the offer because of pride. But i know better. It didnt cause serious issue between us though.

Its a pure scam. You did well, it shows you ve been here for long cos we have many scammers here on Nairaland

Goalnaldo:
First of all, happy new month to us all.
Yesterday, I was chatting with a girl on Facebook, I asked about her hobbies and she mentioned twerking as one of them, I wasn't surprised because a lot of girls are cashing out on twerking on social media. what surprised me though was her inability to convert days to years and she claimed to have graduated from federal college of education. She asked me about my age and I told her in days but she couldn't decipher it. I even gave her the clue by telling her to divide the number by 365 still she couldn't get it. Why can't she use her phone calculator to figure it out? She told me that I should just tell her if I want to. I told her eventually but couldn't help but come to the conclusion that a lot of Nigerian girls are really dull or should I say lazy.

you gave out your age to an unknown girl on facebook, when are you giving her your soul

Majek Fashek in a new york york york

vivilafrosh:
If you know you raped her just tell me your whereabout because they will still catch you. Don't worry when I get the money I will bring food for you everyday before you join our ancestors. Am talking to the Benin boys in this group. Osas where is your friend ���

What if the rapist is no longer in Bini

AntiChristian:
Which verse of the Bible states that everything needed for the fig tree to blossom was provided?

And Jesus was definitely not aware.

Is there anything at all that Jesus is not aware of?


◄ Mark 11:13 ►
And seeing a fig tree afar off having leaves, he came, if haply he might find any thing thereon: and when he came to it, he found nothing but leaves.

A suffering fig tree won't have leaves or have its leaves withered

Below is a similar parable

He spoke also of this parable; A certain man had a fig tree planted in his vineyard; and he came and sought fruit thereon, and found none. Then said he unto the dresser of his vineyard, Behold, these three years I come seeking fruit on this fig tree, and find none: cut it down; why cumbereth it the ground? And he answering said unto him, Lord, let it alone this year also, till I shall dig about it, and dung it: And if it bear fruit, well: and if not, then after that thou shalt cut it down.

— Luke 13:6–9

AntiChristian:
But didn't Jesus create the tree in the first place? Why did he forgot the tree he created was non-productive?
Kindly ask the Holy spirit was went wrong with the fig tree? Can Jesus cure the tree to produce fruit? Why didn't he?

The fig tree was created by God, God hides nothing from his Son. He knows the capabilities of the fig tree. Everything needed for the fig tree to blossom was provided. You ve heard about Jesus Christ and everything he represents, you have no excuse for not bearing fruits. Everything needed for you to change your ways has been provided. On that day, just like the fig tree .....it will be curse and death hanging on your head if you don't repent now

AntiChristian:
Is this what the Holy Spirit reveal to you or your own thoughts? Can you even differentiate between the two?

Anyway, Jesus was hungry and the hunger lead to the curse! I am not Hungry so don't interpret nonsense!

That's the interpretation of what Jesus did to the fig tree warning people like you that lack understanding of parables and non verbal communication

Yes, Jesus is still hungry for your good deeds, a failure of which you ll end up like that fig tree

Eberechi24:
She is right. We live in constant fear of men.


Lol, @cry me a river crew. . E dey pepper una. I can imagine but it doesn't change the fact that majority of you are rapists and pedophiles or wannabes.

Quoting me won't ease your pain when you are done wailing, you sleep.

So, you are afraid of me