leetech93: Hello my people, I am writing this post with a huge sadness in my heart, My longtime girlfriend of 6 years ,just told me we shouldn't waste each other time ,that she can't marry me and so we should call it quit. I am presently 27yrs and she is 24, we both met on 2go while I was 21 and she was 18, that was long before I entered the University and she his presently a final year student of Ta sued, she should be done by now barring the corona pandemic, I just concluded my Nysc and am trying to establish my feet. Though, we have had it roughs along the line especially in her 200 level when a guy entered the frame( student of the same institution), we settled and move on, and since then it been pretty cool but bumpy sometimes. The moko is that I love her a lot and from what she said yesterday, she said she had been doing everything to make me see that we can't marry but I am just too loving and loyal, I am a confirm street guy that knows how to run matter but I am the type that don't know how to commit myself in two ways, so I gave my best and commit my energy one one front. Though, I have made up my mind to let her go for real boos I think she is taking advantage of the too much love I have for her, and the fact she is the only one. All my days in the university( OAU), I never engaged in any relationship bkos I can't commit myself on two fronts, and I lost two ladies that evidently love me on that ground. please I just need opinions on what to do, bkos some part of me want to let her go, but I love her too much , that am feeling like to convince her again Please I want contributions from the experienced persons in da house. please, even if you want to insult me, no problem, just make a meaningful contribution
just let her go. Don't force any lady into marriage. I will not advise her to marry you out of pity either
eejo: Nigerian Soldiers are not well trained and lacks battle plan. How can a group of Army officers walk in a single line into a battle? I have watched many videos of our soldiers driving in a straight line into battle. I think the Army need help to defeat Boko Haram
They are still recruiting, not too late for you to pick a form
Xinox: I started driving at 15 and became a defensive and trained driver at 19.Don't get me wrong, I am a graduate from one of the prestigious universities but my love for driving pushed me into a difficult situation. My Boss is a nice man and the wife will always want me in bed! How can I pay this Man that is so kind to me with evil. At 25 iam a mess if I can do this to a good man... I resigned from this job a week ago cos I can't tell the man this is what the wife is doing and the man keep asking me to come back to work. Please I am confuse, advise me.
Tell him the truth first. if he still want you, then you can go back
MimieJay: This is not much of what should have made it here, but I can't contain my joy, so I just decided to share.
For anyone who might have been wondering if Youtube actually pays, Yes, they do.
I started Youtube about a year ago, and actually got monetized about 4 months back because Youtube has some requirements you must meet before you get monetized.
Actually, my major reason for starting was not to make money from it, I just wanted to do it. But when you make money from something you love to do or do for fun, no matter how little it is, there's this sense of accomplishment that comes with it, which is what I feel now.
And the only way from here, is UP.
If you are less busy or you are just interested in watching how I spent my first Youtube payment, I did a vlog on that and don't forget that a "subscribe" goes a long way. Thank you.
hiddenip: it sound like I have been monitored and been tracked.
branch loan have been bombarding me with threats with legal action if I don't pay their loan. no matter what I said concerning the economy and lockdown never matters to them, they keeping saying nothing concen them and I have to pay my loan immediately. until it get to a point I start ignoring their calls.
they later warned me for the last time. since then they haven't called, later they sent me sms one day that they will report me to federal bureau that night. and since then I haven't heard from them.
right now I have been getting endless calls from strange landline number and when I pick nobody says anything.
sometime it sound like my phone calls is monitored. until a kind of police ambushed. I was heading home and saw police pickup van packed on my street. with men with different guns.
could my suspicious be right? is this branch loan? is this how they operate with legal action? are they trying to track me? I'm a bit scared though.
Findind yourself in a financial embarrassment shows that you are grossly irresponsible. Get a payment plan and pay your debt.
ScholarAcademy: Today, after closing from work somewhere on the island, I saw a guy holding up a placard on which his number and these words were written "Home Lesson Tutor". As motorists drove by, the guy held the placard advertising his service.
He might just be one of the private school teachers whose source of income has been cut for months.
Sometimes we criticize lazy people, but this is someone who is probably skillful and who advertisizes his service the way he can.
However, the question is: will people even trust him enough?
Lalasticlala Dominique Mynd44
In this era, you ll blame yourself if you rely on just one skill. You have to be multi skilled to survive in this Country.
I have a guy who is a tailor, painter and an agent. He's never out of job
Kizzygentle: Lolsss. This players are so funny with excuses how they join bigger clubs. He joined Chelsea because Chelsea is a bigger club than leipzig and he would get playing chances in Chelsea than Liverpool. No be any lampard. If Sunday oliseh was chelsea's coach he would say d same thing. Check all players transfer interview. They say d same thing always.
he actually watched 2012 UCL final in Munich and was inspired by Drogba and Lampard
sogodihno: I need to urgently disburse some cash in Bank, about 5 million to some people, but I have not been able to do this due to lack of NIN number, the NIMC center is currently not functioning, so their is no way I can't get it. The bank won't accept other means of identification like voters card or driver license, only NIN.
Please, what can I do, I need to transfer the money before this month end?
Late April during lockdown, my friend sent me a post, which was advertised by her mom customer in need of an accountant urgently, the job was for graduate and I'm an undergraduate, final year thou I should have graduated since 2018 but left school in my first semester 400l due to mental health issues I was facing which no one know( I can't read and comprehend as I used to anymore) got bored of reading and preparing for exams, set eyes on making money. Just too broke at that time.
I applied for the job with fate, and I was called, went for interview thrice before I was given the job. due to my experience of working as an assistant accountant in one big hotel and working as branch manager in another hotel, and not staying far I was given the job. The pay range was 35k based on my qualifications thou.
I started work first week of May, not too stressful but I'm to resume by 6am and close 6pm, daily allowance 2k and my salary ... I do make 50-60k weekly aside my daily allowance and salary.
Reason I'm thinking about quitting is, early June, on my way to work on bike, I had an accident with Keke, which the Keke man was clearly at fault for swerving without checking his side mirror, but then again, it was just the two of us (bike man and Keke man) on the road, same lane, nothing coming back or front of us, yet the accident.
I had a bruise on my hand and a kinda deep wound an inch from my ankle bone. (which haven't gone yet, used original honey to bring out the surface, thou I no longer feel pains, recently it has dried up).
During that accident period nor of my colleagues/bosses came to visit me as I was home for a week. But my colleagues kept sending my own share from the runs money.
Last Thursday on my way to work, very close to my work place, walking on the street that lead to my office and one man I don't know, was inside his shop/house, saying to me, oboy this your leg never go, na wa oh, them wan just spoil ur leg for you, that your place wey u dey work many don run commot there cause of the juju things wey them dey use follow their workers, better dey pray every day and when u enter office guy. I said thank you sire, while getting to the office tears dropped from my eyes as I prayed.
Next day being Friday on my way home, the bike I took we both fell down, falling to where my wound is, I had to be smart and quickly dodge the bike from landing on that leg... I paid the bike man and trekked to the bustop to get Keke.
This job has really changed me from that sad dude to happy dude, due to financial capability right now... I'm now free of debt and brokenness.
Please advise me, cause I'm not really a spiritual person but all these are making me prayerful (never believed in juju and attack before).
The victim had reported that she met a man, simply identified as Enny Money, who gave her an application to download on her phone with an assurance that those she will meet through that application will help her financially.
Fish brain! See where greed has led you. If they were ritualist, you would have been gone by now
adaperry25: I fell ill and told my babe. Fast Forward yesterday I couldn't go to work. I stay in ABA and she in Owerri. I told her tho that I'm at home because I was ill. I was surprised when later in the day she called and said she was at my gate. I welcomed her and asked her politely that she should have called before coming that it's a good Courtsey and she became paranoid. She wanted to go back home but I had to beg her before she became calm. She said she wanted to surprise me and if im not cheating on her.. why should I request for a call before hand.. Please nairalanders.. what do you think
She is right, if you don't have any skeleton in your cupboard you won't be thinking like that. Owerri to Aba is not a 10 mins journey and instead of you to appreciate her visit, you are more concern about petty things