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Health › Re: The Video Of Kano Empty Isolation Centre Is Fake - Kano State Ministry Of Health by femi4: 12:02pm On May 27, 2020
bigfish3k:
The isolation center at the sanni Abacha stadium is the focal point of the video

Show us your own video of the place
That place is undergoing renovation. Did you see any bed there? If you cant read, pretend now
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Reacts To Jude Okoye's Interview, Clarifies Contract, Issues by femi4: 6:40am On May 27, 2020
Made4naijalove:
This Girl problem from the start is Pride and just listen to her now ..never change �
you still cannot read...smh
Education › Re: How 27 Became Children's Day by femi4: 6:38am On May 27, 2020
Tadeknkeepcalm:
Still did not explain how 27 came to be
We don't have a singular date for Children's day. It varies from Country to Country


But some other countries observe Children’s Day on their own special days. Countries like Nigeria, May 27; Japan and South Korea, May 5; Hong Kong, April 4; Tunisia, January 11; Pakistan, July 1; Germany, September 20; Brazil, October 12; India, November 14; Sudan and South Sudan, December 23.
Phones › Re: My New Infinix Note 7 (x690) by femi4: 6:31am On May 27, 2020
89k on chinko phone, I would rather by 4 nokia 3310
Family › Re: Help!!! My Wife Is Putting Me Through This Right Now! by femi4: 6:28am On May 27, 2020
Seekness:
Please permit me to bring my marriage issues here for the very first time. Its true I've been on this forum for almost 10 years, I'm not very good at opening threads. But because of the necessity, I had to create a new Moniker so that I can briefly share my worries to ease off the pains in my heart.

Though she is very hardworking, generous and kind, but she has some very negative traits that belittle whatever admirable ones she may have.


This marriage has lasted a little over half a decade. But the problems I've always complained about right from the start is what I'm still talking about.

(1) My wife bottles up her anger a lot. If I offend her, she will never (hardly) tell me about it, I will only get to know about it through her facial expressions or her response to conversations, and if I ask her if anything was the matter, she will simply say "there is no problem".

(2) She takes too long to forgive. I can plead with her for forgiveness till "Thy Kingdom Come", yet she is not moved by my pleas. She will continue to wear a sad face for a very long time, (sometimes hours or even days) before she will grant me forgiveness, sometimes even in minor issues that I sometimes overlook if she was the one that did it.

(3) My wife hardly apologizes when she wrongs me. Even if she does apologize, she will expect me to accept her apologies immediately she said "I'm sorry" but she will not do the same if it was the other way round. That's pride!

All of these I have dealt with in silent pains with no hope of improvement in sight.

As I type this message, she is all alone in the room because of a situation we could not resolve. For over a week, she has carried a long face for reasons I do not know. I have asked severally, she keeps telling me "its nothing".

For over two weeks, she has not allowed me to touch her, neither have I had sexual intimacy with her. She keeps refusing all my advances to the point it was so painful after I pleaded with her for over one hour she still did not yield that I almost forced it on her tonight, but I exercised restrain.

All effort to have her talk to me in sincerity has not yielded any positive result for the past eight days.

I've told her of my suicidal thoughts (I'm not joking) but it fell on deaf ears because whenever she crosses her mind over something, bros, forget am! She can't be convinced to take up a contrary view.

Modified: As a result of these, I have relapsed once again to masturbation which I had overcome in the past. Since cheating on her is not an option for me, at least for now. Though thoughts of it are on my mind, but I can't just do that.

Please help a brother. Depression is gradually setting as my thoughts are going wild. huh huh huh

I need good suggestions please...

Seekness!
Stop begging her, expecially for sex. she'll come around eventually. They have needs too

2. She's wearing that longface for long cos she knew you ll always come begging , be the man in that house and reduced your serial apologies

3. Create your happiness, and stop looking sad around the house. Let see how far her anger can take her
Sports › Re: Real Madrid Announce Sad Death Of Marcelo by femi4: 6:13am On May 27, 2020
Tolani0167:
Always tell us the full name next time, poor journalism
It was deliberate ......click bait
Celebrities › Re: People Shame Woman After She Shared Photos From Her Graduation. PHOTOS by femi4: 6:12am On May 27, 2020
Officialgarri:
She graduated, but with what grade?

These kind of girls simply went to school because others did. They really can't tell the use of education other than partying and hooking up with rich dudes
she bought the grade with her body
Health › Re: Depressed Because Of My Yeye K Legs by femi4: 6:03am On May 27, 2020
Bonatheripper:
Yes I have K legs although it isn't visible that much.
I have lots of confidence which tends to help me but then when someone tells me I have those scissors legs my confidence drops to 0 then climbs back gradually ones I get angry and make love to a new girl.


It's really annoying.


I can't help but admire those with straight legs... They don't know how lucky they're.

I yen for straight legs.
I know ones I have enough money I'll travel out and perform osteonomy to correct the genu valgrum... Yes I know all about K leg.



Ok... I syked a girl in the night and god willing she wasn't that hard to get.

She slept over on Tuesday so in the morning I was up trying to put on th Tv.


She was like jeeez.
Babe you have K legs... Walk let me see

I felt depressed immediately.


Even when I'm on skinny jeans I feel someone is laughing at my K small legs

I won't complain if it was Bow arrow legs.... Bow legs don't make your whole body look out of shape like K LEGS...

When I was in secondary school K legs where my biggest insecurities... I didn't approach any girl or have a girlfriend because I felt she won't like my K legs... Yes they actually don't like K legs.


How tiring to have K legs.

Oh I hate K legs.

I've done numerous times to exercise to fix the K legs but the K legs won't fix

How hard is it to get fix?
Why won't my K legs fix after much exercise.


I can't where shorts because people will say I walk like a horse or a broken table.


What's all this?

K legs is killing me... I swear I'll have a surgery done because I feel after the K legs heal to normal I'll feel more at ease... Jeeeez I think of it all day long.


I hate K legs
I just dislike it... I know everyone with K legs in my street.


The word K alone annoys me.


Jeeez

Why didn't my leg just grow straight.











GOSH...... I HATE [size=40pt]K LEGS I AM SAD[/size]



DO YOU HAVE K LEGS OR ANY OTHER INSECURITIES?
You have X leg (K on both sides) equation balanced. It s not obvious when compared to the real K leg people ( One straight leg, one K leg)
Politics › Re: You Are A Sex Offender And You Ran Away To Canada - Gov Akeredolu’s Wife Slams by femi4: 5:44am On May 27, 2020
This woman is a rascal
Romance › Re: Please Help Me Locate This Girl Pic And Number Attached by femi4: 5:33am On May 27, 2020
sheggsliveth:
God to what I saw yesterday she not Ashawo she's from Delta but she speaks osun dialect, she friend was dark and thin, to me she's well dressed like SU, if she's Ashawo I wouldn't have helped her...don't judge by the pic
Not all Ashawo dress indecently
Health › Re: The Video Of Kano Empty Isolation Centre Is Fake - Kano State Ministry Of Health by femi4: 9:01pm On May 26, 2020
majamajic:
grin
Kai

He ended up explaining nothing
Its a shame, you cannot comprehend

@KanostateNg has four (4) isolation centers that are fully functional and well equipped and three (3) more nearing completion.
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Lied Against Her Record Label? (Contract) by femi4: 8:54pm On May 26, 2020
Sanchez01:
Cynthia Morgan may not have been truthful when she said she can no longer use the name 'Cynthia Morgan' because it was contained in her record label that the label owns the name and that she is prohibited from using it.

The only time it is mentionedt that her name and images would be used is when the label wants to promote her materials, such as her singles, albums, EPs, and possibly videos.

She had the exclusive rights to use her name all along, contrary to what she said in the Instagram Interview she had with Sandra.
And what does she stand to gain in changing her name to Madrina or whatever. I expect you to be thinking outside the box
Romance › Re: Ladies, Can You Marry A Guy That Still Lives With His Family? by femi4: 4:05pm On May 26, 2020
savvy12:
My younger Sister has a suitor who has been disturbing her for marriage. The guy is an n-power beneficiary and currently runs his dad's little business.

The problem is that he still lives in his family house but promised my Sister that he will relocate once they get married. We told my sister not to accept his proposal because he might refuse to relocate after marriage.

Note: he stays in the village and he is a graduate too.
Scam.....tell him to relocate first
Education › Re: Please Help My English Is Very Bad by femi4: 11:57am On May 26, 2020
Takeit2017:
God why? Why me?
I dnt have confidence speaking good English always Craming what to say?

Please help me.
Start reading articles and watch movies in English and sub in English.

You learn to speak a language by speaking more in that language. Have conversation more
Education › Re: Prof Olanike Adeyemo Wins ‘scientist Of The Year 2020’ Award by femi4: 8:34am On May 26, 2020
A complete woman......Brain & Homely
Romance › Re: 3 Weeks To Wedding & I'm Confused! Please Advise Me by femi4: 8:23am On May 26, 2020
Donbabaj:
I could be happy now but the next minute, she changes mood all of a sudden. We dated for over year after someone match make us but this mood swing things continued overtime so sometimes I get confused even as i really tried managing the pressure. She's a nice girl, takes good care of me, buy clothes, cook, always want me to look good but the problem is the rate which she switches mood easily.

Financially, we are both average earner but I think she earns better pay than I.

For instance, recently we got a new apartment- 2bedroom flat but whenever I say something she doesn't like or she doesn't want to hear, she just reacts like why would I say such a thing, all the while we were dating, we never stayed with each other as we stayed in our parents house. Fast forward* most times, as the man, after switching mood, I try to pacify her by petting and apologising but she doesn't just want to listen. Just today, we were playing with each other on the bed, touching each other (not sensitive part) and she wanted me to kiss her. So I told her jokingly that "but you know this is not biblical" as an advocate of no sex until after marriage. I have never had sex with her either. The next thing she said, "why are you talking like this" she stood up, went straight to the sitting room and slept there. I went to meet her there to pacify her again but she wouldn't listen. Please note that I have not and can never beat or abuse her cos I'm a Christian.

I'm just tired. She's really getting on my nerves. Our wedding is 3 weeks time but I dont just know what to do. People, friends and family are already aware of the impending marriage but I'm afraid that if a lady can switch mood like this, who knows what will happen tommorrow. I cant sleep in peace...

Please advice. This is happening right now.
You ll have communication problem in your home. If you don't work on it, you guys ll gonna fight about almost EVERYTHING
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Issue: “you're Selfish” Paul Okoye Fires Back At Peter Okoye by femi4: 8:18am On May 26, 2020
Lekison:
Rudeboy please just lock up. person say him no get freedom you say him dey selfish, na by force to dey the group??
Abi o, what's the link between the two
Romance › Re: This Is Why Bodybuilders Have Small Pènis VIDEO 18+ by femi4: 8:12am On May 26, 2020
Sweetgirlmimi:
Ever wonder why your pernis is small as a bodybuilder this video is for education purposes.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvOzxlgDbys
shy girl, you ll be better as you practice more
Romance › Re: She Cheated I Forgave Her Yet She Refuses To Take My Conditions by femi4:
Lifedonor:
Pls refer to my thread about my girlfriend cheating on me even in the church

https://www.nairaland.com/5880851/girlfriend-just-confessed-she-fornicated

Finally last night she called me and was still pleading so I went to her place.

The door was open and I walked in only to see her crying so badly.
I talked to her and avdised her this talk went on for almost 4hrs.

I finally forgave her and decided to take her in again. But on the condition that she leaves the church. Its a redeemed church and its just here i n our area. I told her to join me at my branch (same redeemed) or she should choose any other church and that I was going to follow her.

To my shock she agreed to change she promised nothing of such can happen again and that she still loves me but can't change her church. She still wants to remain there and work out her salvation... I told her if that is the case then the relationship can't continue and that I was going to leave And then block her from my WhatsApp. She agreed and I left then I blocked her.

It Hurst still but I would remain like this
Both of you need genuine repentance unto salvation. You are an embarrassment to RCCG.
Phones › Re: What Does This Mean??(see pics) by femi4: 7:52am On May 26, 2020
sheanzy:
Everytime I recharge on my Airtel Sim,I always receive a bonus on each recharge.


Now the issue is, Everytime I make call,my Airtime is been deducted from the amount written 'local call', while the amount written 'Airtelcall' is never debited for once hence each time I recharge it keeps pilling up.


now the question is... how do I get to use the Airtime for calls?
airtel calls = airtel to airtel no
Politics › Re: Why Abike Dabiri Attacked Pantami, Communications Minister by femi4: 9:59pm On May 25, 2020
Finnese001:
okay


abike is a tribalistic bizzy body, always playing to the gallery. SHAME ON HER
Exactly what a folly mind will write. They form opinion without reading the article
Sports › Re: Messi Shaves His Beard As Enthusiastic Barca Stars Train Before La Liga Return by femi4: 9:51pm On May 25, 2020
obembet:
If you rem Messi 2012 hit like... Even though I haven't start watching football then.. But I love football



To me.. CR7 is the best..
ki lomode e mo
Politics › Re: What Has A Black Man Invented That The World Is Using by femi4: 6:39pm On May 25, 2020
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naijaracist:
Both in technology, science, sports etc!

To me i can say maybe sports, basketball and wrestling. Please comment below �

Thanks.
traffic light
Crime › Re: Mmanti Umoh Raped: KanKan And Dada Twin Story by femi4: 6:22pm On May 25, 2020
Enoch07:
so these fine boys father na rapist. na wa
Black pots do produce white pap
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Just Confessed She Fornicated Inside The Church by femi4: 6:09pm On May 25, 2020
Lifedonor:
I will have to go straight to the point. The lockdown due to covid 19 made my girl friend and i bond even closer to the extent she practically was almost living with me. She only leave my place to her house (not too far from mine) just to change her clothes or her other items as the case maybe.
Sometime along the line I fell ill and she was very much helpful.

Fast forward to early may, I discovered she had become too glued to her phone . we would be seeing a movie on TV and her phone will be with her (chatting) at a point I complained. This got worse to the extent that when I wake up in the night say 1AM this girl is still up charting. Two days ago I went to the hospital for my final check up and I left with the keys since she wasn't around when I left the house. When i got back I found her small Nokia phone on the table and I decided to go through it.
The messages I found there are things I won't want to talk about but the major one that promoted this thread is that I saw a message from her choir member telling her that he is on his way to church already and that she should come fast before the program starts so they can meet. I went through his previous messages with her and lo and behold they have been dating for a month now.
Guys when she got back I threatened fire and brimstone and booommm! The confession.
They usually meet an hour before choir practises and they went behind the church towards the generator house to kiss touch and romance that was the reason she always left the house so Early.
Do you guys know that we had a very good sex that same day she left to the church to kiss this guy. Do you know she bathed in my house, she used my deodorant, she ate my food and wore the clothes I bought for her. Apparently she kissed and romanced two guys in less than 3hrs.

This is the second time she is cheating on me. I know quite sure there could be more but this is the only one she agreed to may be cos there was a text evidence.

She has been pleading and begging. But if she could do this even in the church and on a day I was in the hospital ... I am thinking of quitting. Pls advise me

She is 22 in her finals the guy is 25 same university (I live in a university town)

I have met her parents and I have verbally told her that I would marry her. If not for the way 2020 turned out I wanted settling down November this year. We have dated for 2yrs

She even spoke to my mom in the morning of the same day

CC:

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Finestboy
You are not different from the guy that fvck her in the Church. Both of you lack fear of God. You fvck a choir member, you fvck someone that's not your wife.
Romance › Re: How Old Were You When You Discover The Meaning Of CC by femi4: 5:56pm On May 25, 2020
Goldenrod1:
CC is usually attached to a post or business letter which means Carbon Copy

How long long does it take you to know the meaning since you join this forum?
Before Seun created NL....In the days of yahoo, we learnt attach, copy and paste before other complicated internet skills
Crime › Re: Osun: Amotekun Catches Gang Leader 'Shadow' Through A Commercial Sex Worker by femi4: 10:44am On May 25, 2020
Lyydia:
I hope they are well investigated before being labeled criminals
You probably don't know the meaning of "investigation"
Romance › Re: Nigerian Girls Are So Dull Its Unbelievable by femi4: 3:42am On May 25, 2020
Badboibipo:
So I live in a three bedroom flat yeah, and I live alone. I decided to give out one of the rooms for free to anybody really in need of accommodation. Alot of fish brains made enquiries but later changed their minds cuz I'm a GUY!!!! Some saw my picture and had the guts to request that we remain friends but are too scared to stay in a house I'm giving for free? We wont be in the same room, u will have ur own key and theres a landlady in the same compound with us that has three grown kids. What am I supposed to do? Break up door at night and rape u when there are neighbors everywhere? I have given up on these people, that's why I only help men nowadays. It's better to help a brother than a girl. Can u imagine?
Even with free house, girls still reject you. You just have to come online to lament. If this is how you handle rejection ...E ma ni problem gan sir
Celebrities › Re: Wizkid’s Ex-girlfriend, Sophie Alakija’s Marriage Has Reportedly Crashed by femi4: 3:35am On May 25, 2020
Ajeku WizKid, very unstable
Celebrities › Re: Olamide's Tweet That Is Buzzing The Internet by femi4: 3:11am On May 25, 2020
UndauntedYOCA:
Why do I think this is aimed at Burns boy? huh. Na dem San sha.
Its davido, they are never in good terms
Family › Re: To Empathize Or Not To Empathize by femi4: 7:19pm On May 24, 2020
t00dugged:
am I supposed to emphasize more with the offender or offended? Cos you have failed to realize there is actually a victim who deserves all the empathy more.
show empathy to both.

E.g Sorry, but you have to go to jail (for offender)
Sorry for your loss, justice has prevailed (for offended)

You have to be neutral dear

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