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chrisblack:
Well wishers that would need to be gathered in a physical place.would would likely have travelled from far and wide to share in the joyous occasion. courtesy and hospitality demands they be given ordinary water.You want them to spend 20k on clothes for your occasion without even a bottle of water.why the invite in the first place. It's better you do the stuff on Zoom

People do buy clothes because they love the fabrics. I bought two suits cos I was part of the grooms men not because I wanted something in return.

If you are giving out quality, people will buy your aso ebi without even showing up at your wedding

Godoverevery:
My fiancee is attending a childhood friend wedding this Saturday....We are meant to attend together but it is no reception wedding.(boldly written on IV)

My question is it right to sell aso ebi for a wedding that has no reception because we had to cough out more than 20k for the lace/gele and bachelorette party material alone.

I am feeling this just a clever way to extort money from friends or am I wrong.

It's not compulsory but it's ok

The origin of "aso ebi" is to provide uniformity in identifying different groups of well wishers

izaac23:
Pls Pals, I need to buy a tyre for my car Asap cuz the one I have now is critical, pls can any one advice me on a very good but cheap tyre to buy that cud be easily seen cuz my budget is low, it was unplanned.

Thank you for your contribution

Buy according to specifications

Check for date of production on the tire, usually 4 digit numbers

Check the thread of the tyres, it must be able to provide friction when you feel it

Check the inside, it must be patch free

Developers at work

educhigo:
Urgent advise needed I'm deported from abroad with 1 million naira only, what kind of business can i go into, i was into motorcycle parts before i travel out, but seems the government bound okada some part of the country such as Lagos State where i started life, I was born in 1982 and I'm still single.my parents are not happy with me, I'm seriously confused.

You can start all over again. You can still do the business in some states like Lagos

"Police is your friend" is just a cliche

Irobot ke?

Preciousgirl:
I personally love thick black lips



You?

Humm ...smokers are on that table

Ilamina:
It looks like igbo men
Are the best thing since slice bread now are days

He's just so t.ush
Smart
Clean, neat
And has muscles
Like all igbo men do

Why you dey type like this

abraham01emma01:
I need Federal teaching appointment I have been teaching in KOGI state for eleven years and no better payment.

Discipline: mathematics/economics education

Please, if God touched you link me with the person (s)
My phone number is 07053872894

Who do you know?

mascot345:
My girlfriend is from idoma tribe ... A tribe in Benue State. That tribe that if you marry from there. if she dies u take her back to her father's compound and burry her . U don't burry them in their husbands house. I am an Igbo guy. The culture is just too local and weird. We have dated for a year and 2months. I really love her... But I hate that stupid culture... She is just 22 years old. And she is just in 200level at University of Agriculture Markudi Benue State.

I told her that I hate her culture. She told me that our relationship is headless. That she is looking for husband not boyfriend again.

I told her no problem...

Why are you guys discussing death? Why not leave everything till old age

VicM6:
Last week thursday, i received a call from my close pal that a guy needed some labourers who would work in his site(to help him pack sand inside his building for filling). So immediately i received the call, i mobilized some of my street guys to go do the job. On getting there, i saw the man who owned the building and he was a very young guy, we agreed on a price of 3k for each person and the guys i took there were two. After the agreed price, the owner of the building left but before he left, he gave this my guy that called me on phone 6k that after those boys are done he should settled them. I my self was busy since i work at Nimc office so i told my pal i will be leaving also for office and he said no problem at all........On that faithful day around 4pm, those guys called me that they were through with the job since 2pm and they haven't seen my pal who is gonna pay them. I called my pal and he refused to pick my calls but since i don't want to be embarrassed, i quickly called those guys and told them to send me there acct details and i made transfer to them from my own money thinking i will collect my money back from my pal......Now it's over a week and my pal has refused to give me back my money, the last time we spoke on phone he told me he has used the money for something and he was like why are my disturbing him bcus of 6k and that..so luckily for me, i saw him yesterday and was like "guy where my money na", he told me he will only give me 4k bcus 2k is for him dat he was the one who introduced the job to me....I was angry bcus we never discussed abt that at all but i never mind so i told him to bring the 4k and he said in the evening he will give it to me. later that same day around 7pm, i saw him and i requested for my money again from him and he told me "guy abeg no disturb me jare, i go dey see u later"....To cut the long story short, Someone told me he said that he won't give me 5naira and that he would continue to scope me up and down. I just smiled and left....
This morning, I called 5 guys and took them to the site and told them to pack all the sands out side back and they did a very clean job. In fact they packed everything including the one we met inside the building b4. I paid them and i left....Now, people who saw me said i went too far by doing that and am sure my pal must av heard abt it but he won't dere challenge me and i am also waiting for the building owner to asked why they packed all the sands outside even after he had paid.


So please did i do anything worng by my actions?

You went too far though but you spent more than what you are being owed to make a point. Next time, he won't try that with you

Same old song

Shawnnotmendez:
I created a new account because my other account is not so anonymous anymore.

Nlanders, I honestly don't know how to feel about this.


Some months ago... 3 months ago to be exact I started dating this pretty girl, dark skinned, tall and shapely. She is everything I want in a woman and more. What made me fall in love with her was how open-minded she was and the deep conversations we have.

When we started dating, she told me she wasn't a virgin but wanted to wait until marriage before we have sex and I consented.

So one day we were discussing about 20th century Japan and geisha's, when she told me about a peculiar custom called the mizuage among Japanese geishas, she told me it was a custom where young geisha's sold their virginity before becoming proper geishas.

I was intrigued and asked her what she thought about it, she only shrugged and told me she too had auctioned off her virginity.

I was shocked when she said that. She said that was how she got the money to start off her business and doesn't regret it one bit. She also told me she auctioned it online and it was with a white man, she said the man who disvirgined her gave her the option of being his mistress but she declined, to her it was just a business tansaction.


I've been thinking and I don't know how to even feel about this thing.

It doesn't sit well with me but I understand why she did it, she's from a very poor home and she's the bread winner of her family.


Nairalanders I need your opinions.

You should be afraid of this part of the discussion "I don't regret it one bit". That means if she faces any financial challenge in the future, she ll do it again. She's not everything you want in a woman afterall

Hintona:
Wahala no dey ever finish


At least she was sincere with you.
But come to think of it, is it not better than giving it out cheaply?

I presume she's an adult and so has the right to do whatever she wants with her body.

Only prostitute think like that

Husbandsnatcha5:
Hmmmmm,


I've noticed that most Narialand guys lack the balls to talk to big ladies here.

Why is that?

Just asking ooo.



@LadiesForever

Big ladies in terms of?

MrMacinterchi1:
Your point is Yours. However,
Getting married can actually make him to, if you get to understand the circumstance surrounding their vocation as a priest. That's why the foundation is like that right from inception.

That's all. You can save the rest of your epistle

AfricanKingkong:
upon all the man have said, this is what you could say? You have moral issues

That's misleading, I detest error in teaching

MrMacinterchi1:
A sick person goes to sick leave. Another Vicar assumes the position.

Can you tell another Vicar to takes your child to hospital in time of emergency while he has his own family problems to deal with?

Just like the father Said, if they are allowed to have children and all that, it will bring divided focus and multiplication of duties.

Modus operandi of the Catholic are far different from that that you know.. you, yourself knows that as well.

That's my point....he can't be always available. He can be kidnapped or fall sick for a very long time. Saying not getting married won't make him miss mass does not make sense

Akube1z:
Six Important ways to obtain God's Love.

Here are six ways to obtain God's love

1) You need to seek Jesus Christ and Holy Spirit ( Righteousness)

2) By keeping His commandments, words and will.

3) By counting yourself precious in His presence and honouring Him.

4) By having the fear of God.

5) By Loving God with all your heart and soul.

6) By praising, worshipping, magnifying and glorifying Him.

no2 is the summary


John. 14. [15] If ye love me, keep my commandments. [21] He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him

Amotolongbo:
Those aren’t Central Europe. Only Germany is in Central Europe among them

Hope you still remember we are discussing football leagues

Yxxx:
E pain you.

pain me ke? I m just looking at the flaws in his statement

Trustedpronet:
What about church founders that are married with children? Don't mind them they are brain watched.

They are dogmatic

Akuruoulo:
U KNW NTN ABT THE CATHOLICS. ALWAYS SPEWING PAIN TO CATHOLIC RELATED MATTER. GO ENJOY UR ONE ROOM CHURCH FOR WE CARE LESS ABT THEM

Illiterate! You shout when you write in caps.

Ubenedictus:
It is the priest that preside at the mass. So the mass can't go on without him no be fellowship.

And sickness cannot prevent that?

Amotolongbo:
Which one is Central Europe again?

The only Central European country in the 5 top leagues is Germany

England, Germany,Italy, Spain and France. If you're not in any of these five leagues , you are no where.

Akuruoulo:
Oga shut up . Marriage will make u miss massed alot, and also ridiculing our doctrine. Do u think the only mass the take is the sunday mass ?

Odẹ! Sickness won't

Elgorny:
Hi nairalanders. I'm about to do my international passport, and totaly i'm confuse, i spent much time searching on google for weeks i'm yet to decide what is best for my future, is not easy to make such decision. That's why am here to seek an advice from public, i'm in my early 20's with nigeria being my country of birth, and also eligible to be citizen of cameroon through my parents who are 100% cameroonians based in nigeria for almost 3 decades, we recently travel to cameroon, i love the place and the people are friendly, very organize country with law abiden citizen. What i noticed in my short visit to cameroon. One can't even buy bus ticket without
cameroon national identity card, or lodge in a hotel, or rent a house without idendity card, for foreigners, they must provide all necessery document in order to be issued ticket, is very rare to hear the indigines discusing politics publicly no tribalism no religions sentiment, and its citizen has the equal right Irrespective of tribes,

You ve chosen already now

Amotolongbo:
How come na the footballers we see as not being useful to the Super Eagles dey break record?

Paul Onuachu just scored a brace

He's not playing in central europe.

Nonsense. You think you can always be available to attend the mass cos you are not married. What if you are terribly sick? Won't the mass go ahead without you

Numerouno94:
Chelsea fans it's ok. Oya make una go sleep.

Oloshos nd beers go suffa 2night for Chelsea fans hand.

Day just dey break for my side

orohbiro:
Am not a Chelsea fan but every time they have a good manager they delivered am not ruling them out of the uefa champions league winners. a very special club

You have spoken well. Let me find you something..