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At 21, she was already fvking

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@bolded...is the reason for this thread.....

I can't just do that...

Was contemplating on ghosting her to avoid stories that touch...

Leave her if you don't have self control

Fake operation

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But that can only be possible to me if no sex is involved...

You mean you can't control yourself around her...smh. She's preggy with another man's child. It's an abomination to sleep with a preggy lady that's not carrying your child

Joyrider404:
What was the condition they gave you that made you reject the job offer

Mines quite funny,they told me I would resume work by 7am and close by 8 pm ,ontop of 15k salary I ran for my dear life.

Share your experience

During my IT, no allawee, no tfare

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I met this girl last week, we discussed for a while then i let my intentions known to her... She accepted and fell in love with me...

TBH i loved her too unconditionally, after 3days she paid me a visit, we talked, got to know each other better and ended up having an epic romance but no sex because i had no condom at home when she visited....

Yesterday she visited again and i heard the worst news i never expected...


As we were talking she was just staring in space, i noticed and asked her what is bothering her,, she was reluctant to open up but after persuading her she open up to me.....


She told me that she came here to hustle but along the line she discovered that she is pregnant, she called her bf and told him but he ended up telling her to take care of her self that he is not ready for any pregnancy issue... After some days she called him again but his number was switched off.. Since then she have not heard from him...


Now the problem is that she wants to terminate the pregnancy but i talked her out of it because it's a 50/50 something... She agreed to keep it but since yesterday i have been thinking of how to continue with her, I don't know whether to end the Relationship or to still keep her so her sanity would still be intact... She looks so disturbed, betrayed and depressed but she told me that anytime she is around me she feels comfortable because i was still showing her love and caring despite her condition...


My brothers and gentle men i need your input because i am confused....

Be around her till she put to bed, after that you can decide

She's comprehensively married. Move on bro

What makes it apocalyptic

The guy beside him in the third pix is 25yrs old.....no wonder Musa is only 28

RiyadhGoddess:
I hope he's mentally okay

Mentally unstable

Meister:
Fairly used very neat Nokia X5 3/32 phone and charger only

25k firm

Location is Benin, waybill very possible

My contact is on my signature

N.B. it's charging board was recently changed

Another way of saying it has charging port issue. Naija and scamming tendency, they ll never come out straight

chrisblack:
must they sell asso ebi. Asso ebi culture is a yourba stuff. It simply means the purchase of same attire by well wishers to be worn for a particular occasion with a caveat that you are entertained on the day of the occasion and given a gift if available.
They can do it registry style no need for asso ebi.
Asso ebi is synonymous with a reception

That's the part you are getting wrong. The motive of aso ebi is to identify the group rejoicing with the celebrant. It's only in this part of the world that we go to a party to take from the celebrant. It should be the other way, the celebrant should be at the receiving end. You are not buying clothes because you will receive gift or giving food with big meat on the d day. It's your little way of telling the celebrant I appreciate you.

And hey....It's not by force

Amanee:
In addition

Leave your country! Especially if it's Nigeria

Honestly, that's the ultimate point

Holluwhakemmy:
dont mind him, he has been saying nonesense just because I commented on one post about SARS officer that was been denied in Canada here he has been tagging me as a criminal and yahoo boy girlfriend.

Probably, some of his family members used to be in SARS

chrisblack:
yes but some would ,and courtesy demands you provide a bit of hospitality for your guest. It's a natural order. Even in time memorial, eko and akara or ego are provided. To me it's fraudulent to collect 20k for asso ebi. Weddings is usually a joyous occasion that brings two families together, people from far and wide would come to celebrate with them.provision of refreshments for such guest us an age long tradition , even you give water to a stranger not to talk of people coming to celebrate with you. It's absurd

It's not fraudulent. Nobody put gun on your head to buy. If I m giving out 25k material in the market to you for 20k, that's more than hospitable act.

No1 African Bad girl

Premiumwriter:
Good morning,

Just putting this out here to get things off my mind, but your kind input will be appreciated too.

So I had this fine girl that I'm dating. She is quite pretty but very naive.

She's kind of very religious and some Sundays when she hears a good message from the church she will almost always say she doesn't want the relationship again.

The reason is you probably may have guessed is that sex outside marriage is sin and she wants to dedicate her life to God.

And since I won't continue with a sex less relationship, she have no option than to break up with me.

Today is the second time she's doing it after yesterday's Sunday message which she claims touched her heart.

Sometimes during sex I can almost feel guilt written all over her face.

Now I do really love the girl but it's getting too much for me. Thinking about finally breaking up with her and letting her go.

But I love the girl die sha

Let her go and make peace with her maker. You are the temptation in her life. She wanted to quit but you being in her life will make her to continue to fall into the sin of fornication

SportsHD:
Okay, this girl i was toasting came over to our hostel which was off campus.

We were just like 8 boys and 11 girls living in the compound. It is a two storied building.

This girl i was toasting came to visit her friends upstairs, they were gisting etc, we men dey our lungu (a small place we demarcated downstairs to gym and smoke). Some were pumping iron and some were smoking.

As the girl i was toasting was coming down the stairs with two other girls, she just slipped and fell down. She slid downwards the steps.

It wasn't funny, but it was also funny.

Like 5 guys just rushed to her rescue, I just sat down on the bench, earpiece in my ear while puffing my Benson switch.

Shaa, she didn't break anybone. And my guys paid for an uber to take her home.


The next day, I hit her up on whatsapp, I asked how is your body etc, she replied; she's fine but kinda sore from the fall.

I then asked how about what i talked to you about sey make me and you dey tamahog i.e, make we dey date.

She said, she can't date a heartless person o, I said how come?
She replied that i didn't even come to her aid when she fell down that what if she died or got seriously injured? In my mind i was like shey i resemble your mama ni or shey na me dey chop you pussy ni that I'll come to your aid.

I told her that over 5 guys came to your rescue that what difference would me being the sixth one do? And there were at least 4 girls present there with her too.

Long story short, she say she can't date me but she can still change her mind. Then she sent a picture of a new restaurant in palms Mall that she'll like to try their food.

I said I can Cook better than this at home. since this last message, she hasn't replied me she ignored me.

Things i noticed;
If i wasn't a lil bit rich, she wouldn't say she can't date me but she can still change her mind.

2. Until i have that pkekus, I'll never take that bitch out.

I know sey na shakara she dey do, I go still Bleep her.

Shaa, hope you enjoyed my epistle.

She's hungry, only after your money

lilije:
I have been dating this guy for close to three months now. At first, we would talk and chat late at night but all of a sudden, he told me about his younger brother who just came back from school. Since then, he doesn't take or return my calls when he's home. He visits my place often but wouldn't want me to visit his. I have complained about his attitude but he has refused to change. I'm thinking of calling it a quit. Your candid advice please.

Call it quit. He has skeleton in his cupboard

OPG...O pọ gan

Alexgman1:
Below are the best black american actors that has ever graced hollywood. For decades they have entertained us and are still entertaining us.

Which of them is your favourite?

Who do you think is the greatest of all time?


1) Denzel Washington
2) Morgan Freeman
3) Cuba Gooding Jnr
4) Will Smith
5) Wesley Snipes
6) Samuel L. Jackson
7) Jamie Fox
Eddie Murphy
9) Terrence Howard
10) Idris Elba
11) Ice Cube
12) Tyrese Gibson
13) Marlon Wayans
14) Kelvin Hart
15) Chris Rock
16) Tyler Perry
17) LL Cool J.
18) Steve Harvey
19) Terry Crews
20) Forest Whitaker

Denzel all the way. No one come close to him

Try herbal solution

Ilamina:
Compared to nigerian or African men

In caribana, notting hill carnival
You will see caribbean men showing love and embracing their big tummy girls. .making them feel sexy and beautiful

No one feels left out

All nairaland guys complain all day is that nigerian girls look like kwashiorkor patients

Caribbean men accept their women, how they are

This your damage control ain't working

Lovethaa:
There's this neighbor of mine , He used to be an Abuja based but work made him relocate to Lagos ,

To cut the Long story short we became friends after a while and we do chilli and Go out together . Although he is 5 years older than me .

He told me of his intentions to settle down as soon as possible which is right considering the fact that he is financially stable plus not getting younger ,

He recently met this babe around where we both stay and they started going out , I didn't think it was something serious until he revealed to me that he wants to marry her .


Now the issue here is that I used to know a guy that once dated the babe and after they broke up the guy revealed to me the crazy things they did and he also mentioned some of his friends that have tasted the babe in the same area too , I almost toasted her myself back then just to get a piece of the cookie but I later ignored the thought ,

So when my friend told me he wants to marry her ,It broke my heart because I felt he deserved more than a lady who had been used many times especially where he lives , Although at first I didn't want to tell him but I later opened up to him and the guy felt bad because he loves the babe but he thanked me , (Unknown to me that he had gone far as meeting the babe parents).


Long story short My friend broke up with her and the babe called me up ,laying curses on my head, Strong curses saying I won't know peace for destroying her relationship..

.How she got to know I was the one who told her boyfriend I didn't know.


I blocked her numbers and warned her not to call me again because the curses were too much and she was actually crying why cursing me

Those curses and tears got me feeling uncomfortable and I have been wondering if I did anything wrong.

Was I wrong for interfering ?..Truth is I would have felt betrayed if my friend knows some secrets about my fiancee and he didn't tell,I was only putting myself in his shoes



P.s I need you honest opinion .....

You are wrong. She did all that before meeting your friend. She's probably a changed person. Not minding your biz will put you in a lot of trouble in the future

lucky999:
i saw a girl in my area standing on the road looking so beautiful and charming.
I have never seen her before in my area, I was wondering if she packed new in my area or waiting for someone.
well It doesn't mean, a nigga must shoot his shot, I walked straight to her.
hello beautiful, I have been staring at you for so long so I decided to talk to you, you look beautiful. I told her my name and she told me her name too. I asked her if she is waiting for someone she said yes if the person didn't show up she will be going home. I asked her where she lived, she smiled and said that's not necessary now. I said okay, I want us to be good friends, I asked her for her number so we can be talking on the phone. she said I don't even know her and I want to be a friend to her, what if she is a Ghost. hahaha I laughed and said lol how can a beautiful girl like you be a Ghost. she smiled and later gave me her number, I called the number to confirm if that is her true number, I saved her number and asked her to save mine too. I left and I decided to turn my back and I couldn't see her again.




still typing......

Hunger in action.

Add yr 2000 to the list

JW and comedy, they are like....

Awọn ọmọ wobe

Ọmọ ajinamoto

HappyCanadian:
Hey Guys,

I created this thread to thank and update you guys how my strong closeness with the single mother ended after receiving advice here....
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6477303/how-leave-single-mother-without/6

Before I start I want to correct the negative impression a lot of you had thinking I was chatting with her in Nigeria> FYI me and her live in the same city in Canada but I met her through a popular dating site.

So after the brilliant advice from the previous thread which I remained grateful to everyone that contributed. I messaged her two days later on Instagram to come let's talk. She arrived at my apartment and called to tell me that she was trapped in the snow mud with her car and I had to come out and labor that night in a wicked cold weather to make sure I brought out her car which I did and she went gaga the more heaping all kinds of romantic praises on me . Later on, we started discussing and I told her respectfully that I needed time to think through our friendship as I wasn't ready for something serious/relationship which she is gunning for, since I noticed she became too obsessed and close with me that a day does not pass without her thinking about me or messaging. As I talked to her she remained quiet of course I knew she was disappointed and didn't look happy cause that was not what she expected. Then after, I jokingly told her a family friend saw her photo on my WhatsApp (false) and became interested in knowing her she was quiet and kept listening till I finished and then one hour later she said she was going.

When she got home she wrote me that she has seen I needed my space and time and that she would move on with her life but saying she doesn't like the idea of telling her about someone else when it was me she had feelings for.. which I apologized.

Since then she became quiet kinda saying I friend zoned her though I didn't, hardly writes me and does not think of visiting me or whatsoever. But I recently called her to "extend an olive branch" since she wasn't cool about my friend I told her, and she was rather interested in knowing why I called her to appear saying she thought I would define what we are or ask her for a relationship having known for months and all that which I maintained my stand . At the end, she mentioned everything I said boils down to her distancing herself from me so I will have my time and do my thing. Few minutes later she stood up to leave and I walked her down, she entered her car and left.

I felt for her then but I know she is fine now. The thing is that I do not likely see myself settling with her as I have my reasons, plans and spec in a babe.. yes I liked her and we vibe and crack sometimes but I got to be honest with her as was advised here.. again she is so sensitive probably her Canadian lifestyle.

Thankfully its over and we are free.. most importantly I have learnt some lessons but above all I wish her well.
When next I see one I will recall this incident and keep calm

#Respect to the Mods & Nairalanders

Cc Lalasticlala, Mynd44, Dominique, Ishilove, Seun, Obinoscopy, Oa4mj una weldone oo!

No pity party. You ve done the right thing. If it's the other way round, she ll move on without all these salaye you are doing.

perkyB:
So this beautiful sunday morning I was invited by a friend to a new church, but I came late. So therefore I sat at the back seat with the protocols behind me, I so much felt like a late comer, and the most unimaginable thing happened....

there's an usher right behind tryna give me a shoulder massage or yank my boobs from right behind me like seriously

So guys and ladies what would be your reaction if.

an opposte sex is trying to seduce you in church. How would you react?

Stop exposing your boobs, cover up dear. Not even cleavage is allowed especially when you are going to Church. It's not easy to remain sane in this insane world

stancydg:
The above mentioned music reality show currently running on DSTV and GOTV platforms may likely be the "wackiest" (for want of words) music reality show in recent times going by the quality of opinions thus far by the jury, made up of a 3man panel of Obi Asika; a Record Label Exec, Seyi Shay; a perpetual upcoming artiste going by the unpopularity of most, if not all her songs and DJ Sose; who at best is skillful at selecting songs that'll mostly appeal to club audiences.

One would have thought the record label executive in the person of Asika, who ordinarily should have been exposed to artistes of various kinds, will as a father figure, be in full control of the selection process, by way of influencing the opinions of the others even though the antecedents of past judges on the show clearly sets a pace for divergence in opinions that in the end, engenders a robust decision for or against the candidates. This is terribly in deficit this time on the show, as as much as a snarl from the perpetual upcoming artiste is enough influence of the opinions of two supposedly mature and independently minded men. Sose even managed to take his obvious lack of knowledge of music and consequently, a lack of sound judgement to annoying levels by always concurring to whatever Seyi Shay breathes, despite his body language telling otherwise.

All of the above is obvious in the audition of the young music producer, whose image you'll find attached to this post. I can bet that IK, the show host was shell shocked that the young man had to be turned down for no reasonable point, except for displaying his musical dexterity. If that's a crime, then pray tell me what Idols is all about?

I was part of the very first Idol show in Nigeria that produced the likes of Timi Dakolo and Omawunmi and what I can clearly remember is that singing foreign songs or even displaying your vocal dexterity wasn't a crime. If it was compulsory for candidates to do local pangolo songs for the show to be seen as "Nigerian Idol", like Miss Shay foolishly posits, then I dare the show organisers to switch the nomenclature to "Naija Oosa/Ojuju etc" and compel the judges to speak Yoruba, Hausa and Igbo.

Besides, in the first Idol show in Nigeria, the jury made up of seasoned music industry legend like Dede Mabiaku, Radio Joc; Dan Foster and a Ghanian lady popularly referred to as "It's not werking for me" had their independent opinions of the candidates even though one out of the trio always played the devil's advocate.

Question now is; who the hell is the devil's advocate that'll ensure a robust decision making process in the ongoing Idol show, when from all we see, all trio are sleeping with their heads in the same direction??

Reason the current panel needs to be disbanded, asides the joke Seyi Shay has made of the show by unprofessionally making mockery of young chaps she is meant to encourage, thereby wreaking psychological damages that may be indelible in the lives of the up and coming generation.

PS: I don't know the guy being auditioned in the attached pictures as I am speaking for countless others that are in my opinion, obviously far ahead of the judges musically, but were turned down.

Next time, do proper research so that you don't misinformed the public. Bibie brew was part of project fame judges not Nigerian Idols


For season one, Yinka Davies, Audu Maikori and Jeffrey Daniel were selected to be the judges. In season two, Maikori was replaced with Charly Boy as a judge. In season three, Femi Kuti replaced Charly. In season four, Darey, Nneka, and Dede Mabiaku were selected as judges. In season five, Yinka Davies replaced Nneka. In season six, Obi Asika, Seyi Shay and DJ Sose were selected to be the judges.