₦airaland Forum

adadike:
Our local rice Farmers are very greedy. At a point, they were raising the price almost every week. Should we starve because of local rice. A cup is100 to 120 here last Christmas. The govt is not helping matters too

Exactly, increase in price for low quality rice.

Nigeria is not ready yet for made in Nigeria

Regret cometh soon

David's allawee is working

A case of my money is my money....his money is my money

imran90:
Good Morning everyone, I sold my phone to a friend, even though I have delete most of my stuff on the phone before handling it to him but the issue is the first bank app the guy is unable to registered his account on the phone, we have delete and download a new first bank app on the phone. It's like my account details is permanently registered on the phone. Please what's the solution to this issue.

Perform factory reset

A typical way of a man around a naive woman

Missnewhrt:
our rent expired in Oct last yr and we couldn't renew it due to the fact that my husband's contract job came to an end early last yr, and throughout the pandemic, no salary for me. We managed throughout.

My parent offered to help. We moved to my family house,(me and my 6rs old son) my husband left after some days because he was not comfortable. He presently stays with a friend and sleeps in his shop.

Since I came back here, everyone have been advising me to push him away and chose a better man who can take care of me and my child became I'm young and beautiful and I can correct my mistake of marrying my husband

Someone is coming already and everyone love his packages with all the gifts he brings. My aunty already told him I'm having problem with my husband and we're divorcing. Which is not true.

The pressure is much here. I can't even pick his calls in peace any more without them pokenosing in our discussion, i sneak out to see him. They make me feel like i'm wasting my time on a poor guy and suffering with our child. I don't want to push my husband away, i dont want to bear children with multiple men, he has been so good to us, just that things are not working well right now, but I believed, staying together with him, we can go through it together

I love my parents as well, I know they meant good for me, but this decision is too hard for me.

Pls, help us pay for an accommodation, so my family can stop humiliating him like they do now.
We have seen a self contain of 140k. Pls help.
Our location is Abuja.

I know before the yr runs, we will get back on our feet and we will be able to meet up with subsequent rent. Pls help.

Collect 140k from your man friend. Scammer

AntiChristian:
Paul was approving himself. Abi who wrote it?

Luke did

Olayetan:
I met a girl recently through my job, I'm actually a bolt driver who's been doing fine since August last year, I had a girl whom i was dating since last year November and I realised the girl isn't my ideal woman so I began to search for my ideal woman.

I was still with my former girl when I met this girl, she requested me from Allen going to gbagada, I love her dress sense and love how she talks.

I asked if I can save her contact of which she didn't reject, I didn't message her since last year I saved her contact until this year I started having doubts about my former girl, i messaged her on WhatsApp and asked for a date with her, we talked about so many things and she talked about her past Ex's, I got to know from our discussion she isn't the wayward type, she's hard working and striving to be independent.

I love independent sound lady and I got attracted to her, we started with friendship and things were going fine in the 1st week, I started going to her place every night before heading home to sleep and we got so attached to each other, I was already thinking of how to leave the other girl for her since she's my ideal woman but the other girl is so attached to me that I don't want to break her heart. So I kept communication with her but not as usual as before.

The new girl is taking over my life and I even took her home to introduce to my mum since I made my decision she's the one I want.

On Thursday I invited her to come over to my house to keep my company since I wasn't in mood as I'm feeling so much emptiness in me, I ordered bolt ride for her on cash trip cux I had issue with bolt deducting more than trip fare on my card trips.
She messaged me that a container is blocking road from her to reach my street so I came down from my car to go and pay for her taxi where they parked, along that line, I couldn't feel my Samsung phone has fallen from pocket, we both went to greet her friend that lost her dad of recent and we intend to branch my friends place, on getting to my friends area, I wanted to bring out my phone to call him, that's when I realized my phone has lost, I couldn't even understand how the phone fell off me without me knowing.

Due to my job, I can't work without a phone and not just anyhow phone but a phone with high Ram to run bolt app smoothly, so I went to slot with my girl the next day and I bought another phone for 105k, that was on Friday 22nd of January, I was happy I was able to bounce back, I resumed work back on Saturday hoping to recoup from what I lost.

My girl asked me to come pick her up for her friends dad's burial ceremony and I went to pick and drop her while I resumed work back, it was time for her to leave and I was on island working but I told her to wait while I get trip to the mainland so I can take her home back but I didn't get on time and I don't want to waste fuel to the mainland, so I told her I will make an order for her while I will come see her before I go home, she was already angry cux I couldn't come pick her but I calm her down by saying I will be seeing her before going home.
I was able to get ikeja from island and I decided to visit her after dropping my rider, this was around 9:30pm, I got to her place by 10 and she was already giving me attitude cux I didn't drop her myself but I tried to talk to her.

We talked about our plans for the year, along the line, we shifted topic to sex, she wanted me to wait till we get married before we can have sex and I asked her what if it's next year we are both ready, are you saying I will have to wait till then, she said yes and I started laughing at her cuz I and her ain't virgin so how does she expect me or her to wait till that time, I then ask will she be okay if she hear I impregnate another woman and she was like why will I let it get to that if I sex another lady.
I later told her I wasn't ready for argument and I'm not ready to force her into what she doesn't want but she was already changing her face cuz I said I can't wait till then and I noticed it on her face so I told her I want to leave.
I went to drop her at home and left without her bidding me goodbye or giving me kiss, so I left not being in mood, on my way, I forgot to wine up my passenger window glass and I got to ile zik trying to cross to the other lane heading towards along but due to the speed of other cars, I couldn't cross immediately, I was waiting and flashing other cars to slow down, on waiting, a thief just shook hand inside my car thru the window and picked my phone, it was like a movie to me and I wanted to quickly cut my steering to chase the thief, that's how a Lexus Jeep speeding just hit my car and cuz minor accident.
Had to explain to the owner and begged him before he let me go, but at that moment, i lost in thought and was thinking why me in just 2days, I lost phone worth over 200k and both is because of this girl.
I drove back to her house to tell her what just happened to me and told her it's over between us cux it's been bad luck she brought into my life.

She called me later when I got home but I kept swearing for her not to ever call me again with the bad luck following her, and before all this happened, I had a nightmare where I helped a lady in the dream and the lady was later accusing me of what I particularly helped her with.

So I started linking the dream to what happened to me.

With all this I narrated, could it mean it's the girl that brought bad luck to me or it's the former girl I gilted or all it's just a coincidence...

It not the girl. You are just careless and not security conscious. You won't blame yourself and you ll continue to be careless with your phone and late night movement around Lagos

bukatyne:
See how the women are so serious

No pretence over there

Queenslander:
Hmmm, I reserve my comment!!

Reservoir

kweenfash:
Hello nairalanders. I've been seeing this guy for about a year now. I'm 22 and he's 38 and doing very well. For this 1 year I've been with him, I've been getting some redflags which I'm not happy with. I'm an independent lady, I have a very lucrative business that I do of which he knows but he doesn't know how lucrative it is. I'm not the kind of girl that begs for money but as a man, even your girl doesn't ask you for money, I think you should give her something once in while but since I started dating him, he has given me nothing. Towards the end of last year, I decided to test him and ask, he started lamenting about how he has been helping a lot of family and friends blah blah blah.... But he will see what he can do. The next day he sent 7k when I asked for 10k. I don't know if it's because I don't sleep with him because I told him no sex before marriage. I want to give my virginity to my husband. Now during Christmas and new year, he didn't even give me a dime and I didn't ask either. Yesterday was my birthday and I reminded him on Wednesday and he didn't even call me on my birthday. It really broke my heart. This man is very wealthy and he's behaving like this towards me, I don't what to think anymore. Guys, how do you see this?

You're dating yourself

This is a serious red flag. Birthday not remembered even after dating for 2yrs? Quit now, cos it seems he's not really into you

Only idiots will work for 30days and dash pastor his wages

Hidden secret

AntiChristian:
Paul wrote this too na!

olodo

Thiago ‘if you miss the ball, don’t miss the leg’ Alcantara

Some years back, I was in Abuja for documentation with other trainees from other states in the visitors room

Immediately the dir of admin asked us to be on a queue, somehow the first five people on the queue happened to be from Lagos. Yours truly was no3

The director was like " See them, hurry hurry people....you must be from Lagos

Years back in Aba, I jumped down from a moving vehicle because of small traffic and the conductor was like "No carry Lagos spirit enter here o"

MeeLan:
but my kid bro is using smart 5 with 2gb ram + 32gb ROM. he rarely takes hand off the device, yet no complain, he is always on social media and playing games too. I envy the phones battery and stress tolerance. but its only 2gb ram

that's the reason

MeeLan:
I've got the 63k to buy the infinix hot 10,
but yesterday I read a review which said;
1. THE PHONE AUDIO IS BAD
2. THtAT THE USER INTERFACE IS NOT PROPER.
I.e when you click settings for example, the icons overlap each other.
please any one using this phone currently should please give me experience hints.

Also I liked to buy the new Note 8i but they say it heats up quick during use. how true.? please
thank you.

True, infinix boards are crap

kenzysmith:
In a sane country Naira Marley would have be ban from making music he is a bad influence to the youth. olurun

Bad influence?

Is wizkid a good influence?

chinedumc91:
My dear people in this great forum. I seriously need your advice.
I'm dating a deeper life lady, we have see each other up to six times but four of our meetings were at eateries while the remaining two we met was her own house and I always go with gifts like shoes, sandals, slipper, clothes etc.
The issue now is that, I wanted her to at least know my place since we are both living in the same city. But she said no, that her parents wouldn't approve it even though, I told her to come along with her two sisters if possible. She insisted no is against her church.

In this last Xmas, she asked me to buy her Ankara materials, which I did but she was expecting me to either take her out and use the opportunity to bring the gifts I bought for her. But I used covid19 as an excused. As I'm writing this now those gifts are still in my house.

Now, she urgently needs 50k to register her carry over courses and her parents said no money and she crying everyday because Tuesday next week is the deadline.
She begging me to either give her or borrow her the money. But I told her that there's limit of what I can do for her now since we have not yet marry. in fact I told her it is against my church to be spending on her when we are not yet to marry.

Note, we are getting marry this year even though we have not started our church courtship.

what do you advice me to do.

You are doing well...in fact you re just awoke. Spending on the woman thats not your wife is against your Church.

I m skeptical about the relationship, I don't think genuine love is there. Every girl I have dated were always curious about wanting to know where I live at least 2months into the relationship to be sure that they are not dating a ghost.

Think twice before you wife her, cos the handwriting on the wall is very clear. She's after your money not you

illicit:
Christains' can call it anything but everybody knows what's right and what's not....


We really don't need religion to decide that....

That's not true

Some sexual sin are not sin to moralist

Timothy took alcohol for his stomach

Taking of alcohol for medical reason should be encourage

AntiChristian:
Paul was the same person telling u he was called.

Act 13:2

While they were worshiping the Lord and fasting, the Holy Spirit said, "Set apart for me Barnabas and Saul for the work to which I have called them

overdrive:
Women tooi always thought scamming was a man’s domain?

Naija and scam...trust no gender

AntiChristian:
Says Paul.

Where did God claim he has many sides?

Read Ps 136

Paul's apostleship is valid

Rom1:1

Paul, a servant of Christ Jesus, called to be an apostle and set apart for the gospel of God

AntiChristian:
So which side is your God using now?

Who can know the mind of God?

For to us God revealed them through the Spirit; for the Spirit searches all things, even the depths of God. For who among men knows the thoughts of a man except the spirit of the man which is in him? Even so the thoughts of God no one knows except the Spirit of God. Now we have received, not the spirit of the world, but the Spirit who is from God, so that we may know the things freely given to us by God” (1 Corinthians 2:10-12).

AntiChristian:
You mean God changes rather? More killing in Old testament when the Lord had an army unlike the new testament when their was no army on ground.

Has many sides , he does not change.

He killed one and let another live

He is sovereign

AntiChristian:
On point 1, you said some religion uses force but Jesus uses Love.

Was Jesus not available when the LORD was ordering several massacres in the Old testament?

Moses killed many on God's command.

Joshua did same on God's command.

Elisha cursed 42 kids and God Killed them.

Where was Jesus' love back then?

God has many sides


Have you not read in Ps 136:10

Give thanks to him who killed the firstborn of Egypt. His faithful love endures forever

4. Seek God before his work, else you ll be doing his work amiss

Cos she know that she isn't going to marry anytime soon