Celebrities › Re: Rita Dominic & Her Fiancé Celebrate Christmas With Loved Up Photos by femi4: 10:28am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Seun...your ex lover is going
We ll still be here to see where it ll end |
Business › Re: I Can't Celebrate Christmas As FCMB Refuses To Pay Me My Google Earnings by femi4: 8:19am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Go through twitter |
Family › Re: Sombody Wants To Spoil My Joy. Guys, Is This Fair? by femi4: 8:14am On Dec 26, 2020 |
CalliDora1: Long post alert!
Please bear.
Dring the lockdown ( around May), I saw the news about FG grant on nairaland here. so I called the HM of one of my schools that we are very close ( she's just like a mother to me) and told her about it. she said she's not heard or seen anything like that. I then told her to be on the lookout and just in case, she should remember me. She said ok.
Around September, towards resumption, she called and said she and the husband discovered the FG fund and asked me to come around let's talk. I got to school and she said we are going to have an agreement that for each month I get the grant I'm going to give her 5k, to which I agreed. So she took my details and got me registered. She also did same to all the other teachers both visiting and full-timers.
so last month, immediately I got the alert, I called her to send her account so I can send the 5k for that month, she said to hold on. That we'll discuss when we see. I got to school and she told me since she's still owing me 15k Bal from my salary ( she already paid most part of it during mid-term) that I should use her own cut (15k) to cover my balance so she won't be paying me again till next year. I said ok. So i didn't get my bal as she made me pay it at once but I didn't feel it because i have other schools.
Unfortunately, of all the people she registered, she was the only one who didn't get the grant. I wasn't happy. sincerely I felt for her.
She called me last night and asked if I got a message from FG., I said no. So this morning, after church, I received an alert for November and called her immediately that I've received the stuff. She now said she's going to send her account that I should send 15k. Huh?? I asked what of the one I paid you with my salary bal? This woman changed and started yelling over the phone that what we agreed was 50-50 bla bla bla that I should send it.
I told her we never agreed 50-50 and I've paid my own part from my balance with her. She started bringing up another issue that she told me to remove 5k for her from what she's paying me initially because of the lockdown and all that. That I have to pay that. I said ok.
This night she texted me and said I should send her the 50-50 agreement. I called her she picked but didn't allow me to talk as she kept on talking and later cut the call. I tried calling her back but she didn't pick so I texted her that what I'm owing her is only 5k . As for the grant, I've done my part.
Am I being insensitive? I mean the other teachers complained that they were not going to give her anything. That she's a greedy woman but I was even calming them down that they should give her since it's an agreement. They didn't give her. she had to forcefully deduct it from their lesson money.
Since morning, I've not been happy. Even when I went out to give myself a treat, I didn't really have fun.
Human beings are amazing. Mehnn... You are too soft and she's taking your magnanimous heart for granted. Ignore her empty threat, she can't kill your joy Going forward, always put pen to paper when dealing with people like that cos verbal agreement is no agreement |
Pets › Re: See How We Innocently Invite Snakes To Our Home Without Knowing by femi4: 8:04am On Dec 26, 2020 |
OP did not Nigerianised the thread. I didn't see clearing of tick bushes in your environment |
Pets › Re: See How We Innocently Invite Snakes To Our Home Without Knowing by femi4: 8:01am On Dec 26, 2020 |
internationalman: Just know that snake is living with you if rats no longer run around I your house. It can also be cat |
Education › Re: KNUST University Ghana In Pictures by femi4: 7:54am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Nice vegetation.... keeping it natural |
Romance › Re: She Said I'm Too Gentle For Her by femi4: 7:52am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Salex007: pls, can someone tell me how to be a tough guy? Although she was not the first female to tell me so. Just ungentle yourself |
Sports › Re: Anthony Joshua: I Thought #EndSARS Protest Was Against Virus by femi4: 7:50am On Dec 26, 2020 |
WonderManly: I need to understand. Please I need summary! I know somebody on this thread will not read it |
Romance › Re: I Am In Tears, She Is In Tears Because We Were Wrongly Accused by femi4: 7:46am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Office romance ... Pros n Cons |
Phones › Re: Mobilecart34 Scammed Me 60k by femi4: 7:43am On Dec 26, 2020 |
sociologymajor: That's not true bro. All of the phones I have ever used were all gotten from NAIRALAND. ALL SMARTPHONES I HAVE EVER USED.. I ve been here for long. You ll soon fall into that trap. Just don't write epistle in your thread when the time comes |
Celebrities › Re: D'Banj Christmas Photos With His Wife And Son by femi4: 7:40am On Dec 26, 2020 |
Zzor: Still surprised how this rough man turned out a good home keeper,hmm. You are judging him by his style of music. He's not Dbanj at home, he's Dapo Oyebanjo with different personality |
Romance › Re: Who Is The Prettiest Among These Chicks? by femi4: 7:32am On Dec 26, 2020 |
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Phones › Re: Mobilecart34 Scammed Me 60k by femi4: 7:19am On Dec 26, 2020 |
DarkJeddi: Which rule? People buy things online,pay before shipment all the time..  Nairaland business rule. People are not normal here, never trust a Nairalander when it comes to biz even me |
Celebrities › Re: Actress Iyabo Ojo, Children Celebrate Christmas In Costumes (Photos) by femi4: 7:18am On Dec 26, 2020 |
pyyxxaro: When I de primary some years back , this Father Christmas costume was very special to me
But now Nigerians don turn am to normal Apron
God de shaaa  It's now for every iyabo, Dick n Harry |
Romance › Re: Check Out My Hot Outfit. Will You Smash Or Pass? by femi4: 11:18pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: No So, respect the colour of the celebrant. Don't worry, on your b-day...I ll join you to wear blue |
Romance › Re: Check Out My Hot Outfit. Will You Smash Or Pass? by femi4: 11:15pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: Maybe because I really don't like red colour It's not about you....Is it your birthday? |
Romance › Re: If Your Sweetheart Prepares Food With This Meat For Xmas(photo) by femi4: 11:13pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Preciousgirl: Will you eat it? Your sweet heart prepares food with the animal below and says you eat it or break up
What will you do? If it's well fried, you won't even know |
Romance › Re: Check Out My Hot Outfit. Will You Smash Or Pass? by femi4: 11:08pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
BaddieFreak: Rate my Christmas outfit from 1-10.
Hot or Not?
Will you smash or pass? . 4.5.….no touch of red |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Explosion In Nashville, USA; FBI Calls It Intentional by femi4: 11:05pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
vickydankal: Corona and bomb. Why do people seriously want end this world before the time? Wicked people everywhere |
Celebrities › Re: Temi Otedola Celebrates Christmas With Her Family (Photos) by femi4: 11:01pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Cuppy n pink |
Education › Re: Can You Solve This Physics Question? by femi4: 10:50pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
PresidentBuhari: Can anyone solve this physics question attached in the photo please? Wow....Hooks law, F =Ke Find k Find extension e Original length = new length - extension |
Sports › Re: Breaking: FIFA Cancels World Cups In 2021 by femi4: 10:44pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
Advantage Nigeria.... 2021 won't be a blackout for Nigeria football as predicted earlier this year |
Celebrities › Re: “you Made A Big Mistake By Marrying Ned Nwoko” – Fan Tells Regina Daniels by femi4: 10:41pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
A good one |
Family › Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by femi4: 10:39pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
slawormiir: Damnnn niggarrrr Isoright ... See as nairaland members just base their comments and advice on the facts say na bang them go bang for inside the room..
Very archaic, primitive and sophomoric way of reasoning They went inside to pray ni |
Family › Re: Is It Right For My Niece's Boyfriend To Visit Her In My House? by femi4: 10:37pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
[quote author= wwwkaycom post=97423813]My niece came visiting for Christmas, I was so glad to have her with us since yesterday. She'll be leaving on Sunday. We came back from our church programme today and just as we were finishing lunch, this young guy just knocked on the door and my niece Shola went to open the door for him. He came in and she just introduced him casually as Clement, her boyfriend. She led him straight to her room and were there for like 3 hours before the guy left. I felt insulted and irritated by her action but my wife would not allow me to say anything. She said I will talk to her angrily, she however promised to call her and counsel her gently before bed this night. That must be the kind of rubbish she has been doing in her school because I know she won't even dare it with her parent. She has been telling me her mum especially is high handed and just too tough for her liking. I'm still not so happy because of my wife's action, or am I been too old school or archaic?[/quote]You have to talk o before her parents think that you are in support of her waywardness. You ll be blame if she gets pregnant under your roof |
Food › Re: Post Your Christmas Food Here by femi4: 10:35pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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Culture › Re: Owa Of Igbajo, Olufemi Fashade Is Dead by femi4: 10:33pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
IfGodbeforus: [s][/s] Empty brains always look for someone to attach themselves to.. Make your own Summation or remain silent Blind bartholomew, my summation was before yours |
Phones › Re: Mobilecart34 Scammed Me 60k by femi4: 10:30pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
sociologymajor: Hello all, @Mobilecart34, scammed me 60k I payed for Redmi Note 8. He/she has refused to communicate with me or update me at all. I paid since Tuesday. Till now no update. Please don't transact business with the organization. It's a scam site.
Mobilecart34 He or she ke? You don't even know whether na spirit or human being scammed you. You broke the rule, making payment without seeing your goods |
Phones › Re: 10 Ways Your Phone Can Kill You, Be Careful And Take Note Of Them by femi4: 10:23pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
MIRACOOD1: Humans are Soo addict to phones nowadays. I'm not innocent too 
Some body should click the link on my signature so that I can make this 1k withdrawal.
I'll give the person 1h airtime Quote me when u're done I mistakenly clicked on the boobs. How can I unclick it |
Food › Re: Post Your Christmas Food Here by femi4: 10:16pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
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Food › Re: Post Your Christmas Food Here by femi4: 10:15pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
abobote: Wahala for who no get better landlady Your next rent though....kontinu eating it |
Food › Re: Post Your Christmas Food Here by femi4: 10:14pm On Dec 25, 2020 |
precy111: My own na fried rice, chicken and salad then I come still chop jollof rice,abeg no go try o Lol Christmas was really great,what about yours dear? Calories |