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In Nigeria, pentecostal churches take large portion of the blame.

They came in 80s, convincing everybody that cared to listen, as if, it's only through them (PFN) one can have salvation, they impose stiff and intimidated doctrines for people to obey them hook,line and sinker.

In 90s, people out of fear started giving church more than enough money and material gifts, the managers of the PFN, now realized that, they have more than enough money to spend in their entire life time, "just like oil boom that started crippling naija economy in 70s".

GOs and Superintendents now in plenty money, they too fall yakata from holy to worldly path, ....... jobless, babalawo, wolves also noticed that church now a booming business, before you know, world completely entered the church..........

AnyanwuSilas:
Total rubbish

For people like you, who are spiritual blind.


Keep on shouting marriage is scam, blaming everything on husband or wife and forget that spiritual forces can also be a problem..

Eyinju112:
I do tell my man every blessed day. You can talk to girls, flirt with them because I know talking to me alone might be boring, as some time I might be busy but the day i catch him fucking any of his so called friends, I’m done with the relationship, and if it’s marriage I won’t divorce him as I fear for my children growing up in a broken home, I’m just gon give him his total space, that day anything like emotions will be dead within me. I’ll just see him as the father of my children and not a husband. If he can’t deal with it he’s damn free to move out to his bitch, then I’ll have an explanation to give to our children that their father left. I can’t deal with an undisciplined man. I love loyalty and the day he breaks our loyalty, the betrayal will definitely kill my emotions.

May God do for you according to ur heart desires.......but have it at back of ur mind that, life is difficult beyond how you just analysis ok

JASONjnr:
I had a girl I was madly in love with and we dated for a while and I opened up my salary to her ...


The next month ending...I got billings from her...

Infact, it was very difficult to tell her I don't have money...

She knew everything about my finances and my worth.


It wasn't long I ended the relationship and took another girl in...This time around, she tried to know certain things but I kept them secret and the relationship lasted, she never complained about anything as I provided but she always wondered how I did it.

So OP, you can't open up to a woman, she will never understand the purpose of being sincere to her.


And the example you give...The man will lose both wives and his kids of he dares.....

Your last paragraph said something about understanding. No woman's will understand that you have another woman you visit. She will poison you or she will begin to cheat on you l.

Ur first girlfriend is bad girl, a leech, she is not worthy married, if it's another girl, she would be putting pressure on u to do good things of life, most especially getting ur own site and building project.

Though, it's better not to let ur woman has clue about ur income, if u truly want ur relationship to last longer.

The story op shared is not how to go into marriage but only sex partners.

Not until you play the game of marriage according to its rules, it will continuing falling like pack of cards.

* Before you go into marriage with someone, common sense should tell you to know about his family and perhaps few of close friends.


If u re married to a man/woman, under normal circumstances, you are supposed to have clues of your husband or wife job.

With the knowledge of my highlights above, it will be extremely difficult for ur partner to go astray without you (wife/husband) have a clue of present situation, unless if u re a dullard.

It's glaring to the blind that Obi would have managed the country very well at this crictical stage, far better than other, who believe chop and chop is the best to way manage county resources, most especially Tinubu.

Meanwhile, apart from that Obi chance is dim, even if he is allowed, him kinsmen would still find their way to surround him and turn the presidency to Igbo presidency, before you know , he would appointing incompetent tribe men that would pull down Nigeria furthermore just like Buhari.

Before you play office politics, make sure you know ur worth,......are you sine qua non in that organization? If not it will backfire,most especially if u don't hang on the side of those who really own power in the office.

Haakeem:
no single room for grace you say.
You must be really dumb then.

Hakeem, they instructed you in ur book,to curse, to insult, to maim ,to kill and to suck blood.

No room for forgiveness when they offend religion.

Everything about Islam is laws and orders, no single room for grace. Indeed you are into slavery!

arantess:
and people are blaming emefiele on this one

there is serious institutional rascality from commercial banks

And who to blame Oga? I guess "me" that lack power to deal with any bank that flouts the order!

Not to give directive that most important but to enforce, and how will you enforce?You send ur own (CBN) staff to different bank's branches to see compliance, for those that are not obeying, you punish them and make it public as deterrent for others.

Here in our jungle, they only interested in Making laws and less concerned about obeying, they forget that if u re not punish errant subordinates, human beings have tendency to disobey.

Why can't you cut the country? So that you guys can rule "arewa republic" perpetually.

kunkelhanspeter:
Been living alone for 3 years now in Uyo no friends to talk to , I need change that this year I really want to make new friends not the type that will start billing me when they know the kind of person you are . If you are interested just let me know I base in Uyo and 13th will make me 32. Both male and female are welcome.

No billing

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No billing? I guess this is the reason why nobody wants to be ur friend, it seems u re seeing urself above others in ur area.

Must you announce it to the whole world that they shouldn't bill you? When u re looking for friendship and not relationship.

Latest Feb 28, labor party will die a natural death.

I wish Muslim faithfuls that are reading this post can learn and reset their mentalities.


Islam or any other religions not meant to die for, it's ur personal conviction towards ur God that most important.


These criminals are the one that claimed to be fighting for Islam ooooo, yet they are thieves, just the way pastors are, yet some foolish can die because of criminals that cover themselves with garment of religions.

I'm very sure, some "lslam lunatic" will still come out to defend Sharia criminals

CHoccolaTE:
You put up very intelligent points in this debate but the thing with arguing with males is that they hate losing to females so they keep taking you round in circles until they wear you out or they change the topic to another one they can defend properly or they start using ad hominens and telling you how you are irrational or untruthful or emotional and so on.
Very difficult and irritating gender.

Where is intelligent point? I deliberately stopped convo with her because her submissions full of gender sentiments,......if u follow our argument, when she asked,what of guy from single woman? I quickly agreed that the same thing will play out, but for her, she kept denying obvious, she was saying opposite of what is going on in reality.

......It's an open secret that women will not think twice before they move up to a guy they persive is better than the current boyfriend, it has nothing to do whether the girl is dependent or independent.

U ask urself, why Linda ikeji went for a man who only interested in sex and not Marriage?

Why Dj cuppy not married any unknown guy that full naija?

Did u think these ladies not seeing several unknown guys asking them out? They are doing that because of hypergamy.

neonly:
Dated a single mother once and anything we eat together she dey alway grab d best meat in plate first

That's one of the reasons husband dumbed her, (not submissive and competing with husband) if you go back to her root and study her parents, it might be single mother that raised her.

Fancy4e:
you lie my friend…..I was raised by my mother all by herself, after she lost her husband when I was 3yrs, she is so Godly nd taught everyone on how to live nd respect their spouse…….my dear, when someone is bad, that person is bad, irrespective of the family’s background……you all know the main cause of breakup in our society, so stop making look like they weren’t raised properly……

Dear friend, go back to basic English class and tell your teacher to teach you the exact meaning of word the 'MIGHT '

After that, give my post to your teacher for detail explaination without being prejudiced,tell him or her to take cognizance of the word "MIGHT " that I used heavily in my post.

fxexperts:
You are right. that idiot should be sued to his last penny.
Na everything you want to score cheap point. Naija station do worst, and they will not even issue any apology. for your information it was a phone ringtone. Joker

I said it, I imagine what oyinbo slaves would say if it's NTA or ARISE TV. AIT etc.


Please give the pic below for ur neighbor to interpret it correctly for u.

I imagine what congregations sheep of this shepherd man will be going through in his hands.

I think his members are attending political gathering rather than going church.

If this had happened in naija station, I imagine what my fellow Nigerians would say, comparing us with BBC, CNN,FOX, ALJAZERAL etc

When Buhari himself, is major beneficiary of such political gains, using religion and ethnicity sentiment.

Maybe in ur case, for me,the love is waxing stronger day by day.




....... anyway, one of the reasons for people like u is that, you guys are in LUST and not LOVE from very beginning of ur relationship, after you might have smached back and forth, the LUST will gradually fade away, the vessel will now be irritating. But for geinue love from both ends, the relationship will be growing day by day,in which the couples would be find it hard to be separated for just one night.

Jennyclay:
It depends.

If she need financial help even on the very first day of the relationship, let her ask.

Infact, immediately the man shows interest in her!

We complain of scarcity of dollars, yet we are smuggling little available one to London for yeye chattam dialogues.


Our inferiority is not curable til date.


Kwankwaso is also heading to chattam house tomorrow for wasteful gatherings.

Romanoff:
I can't tell but my generation is different from what we have these days.

In my circle of friends, I have an almost equal number of women who earn more than their husband.

So you're asking the wrong person bro.

U re not truthful to urself

Bye.

Romanoff:
I am also married.

Now let me shock you, I dated a senator's son once. Why did I break up with the clown? Dude could never apologize to save his life. Rather than apologize, he'd ask "where do you want to go to, let me spoil you".

I saw right through it and ran away for my life.

Another one, rich but would insult my life and family during any disagreement, that was the point I decided it was better to marry an average guy than a rich dude.

Only hungry and lazy women are impressed by money.

If money was always the case, what happened to the rich women who are also being abused?

Or the abuse that goes on in the ghettos?

My second question.

If girl has relationship with public school teacher and medical doctor came from nowhere to has her hand in marriage.

Out of 10 girls how many will still stick to Mr teacher?