₦airaland Forum

tensazangetsu20:
Abeg gurus I wan ask o. My girlfriends birthday is coming up soon and I offered to cook for her on that special day and I have been having second thoughts doing it. Does a man cooking for a lady make him a simp. Please help before I do something I regret

I salute ur kindness and bravery.

You are one of few men that see woman as part of them and not slave as some see them

This is attribute and quality of good man and good husband, so far you are doing it once in awhile and she doesn't see it as ur work.

If everyone of us can be doing this and for women to appreciate it too, we will have "just" society and marriages will be rossier and last far more that it's now.

Hendrixky:
And you think government eyes will be everywhere?

What are those head of department in government parastatal doing?

You know the funny thing

Nigerians have accepted already that what we do in the street is not corruption but what the politicians do in office is the one we should be seen as corruption

Govt eyes everywhere? Yes that is reason they called it govt. Meanwhile, it doesn't even need to be everywhere, they only need to be cleaned themselves and deal decisively with erring subordinates to serve as deterrent for others.

Hope u guys know passion is synonymous with encouragement.

Many people that answer before me dnt really know what passion is and many misinterprete displined.

U set up a business bxos u have passion for it, even if profit not coming initially,u will still go and borow to keep it going. If u receives any insult u wouldn't mind but keep it going.

Meanwhile, u will displined urself, not to be sleeping with ur staff, not to spend more than money that u put in business, by waking up early and sleep late.

For those of u talking displine , if u loose passion, that is u re discouraged, even if u re displined by not sleeping with ur female staff, discouragement (loss of passion) will make u close the business with just few insult u receives or the plan profit not forthcoming

Indeed, this is three horse race.

Hendrixky:
Hmmmm
I will always say and i will keep on telling people that our politicians are not the corrupt ones

But the masses on the street
Go to government parastatal and organisations
And see the way workers and civil servants are behaving....
For all of you thinking we are gonna tackle corruption should forget about it
Nigerians are sincerely not angry about corruption but they are pretending to because they are not the ones carrying out the corruption

Wait just take a walk to any government yellow fever vaccine centre and tell them you want the vaccine...I repeat they won't give it you...the person on duty willl demand 20k to 25k...this is something government supplied for free for the masses to be vaccinated

Please 🙏 our media houses wether TV stations and radio should stop airing programs on only how listeners will be calling in to criticise our politicians only.....all media houses should enter the street of Nigeria and see corruption...

The blame is still come back to govt and politicians, since they are the head of govt.

The ministry or other govt agencies you talk about, if govt/politicians are punishing them appropriately, it would serve as deterrent to others , before you know, corruption will die down

YinkaOlusesi16:
My biggest fear in life is marrying the wrong woman. I pray I never carry the bone that does not belong to me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Try ur best not to use money and gifts coner woman to marry you.

2. Make sure you run away from materialistic cum selfish woman.

If you can stick to two above advise above, ur problem has solved at least by 75%

If you talk, they will say, this is mordernisation and we are not in 18 century and that people should be doing the way they like.


.....let wait and see how doing the way we like we eventually lands us...


How I wish school management can recall her back to re-defend her project, just project alone and not courses from 100l to final year o. Everything will blow open yakata.

Mitsurugi:
True. But the government is also you and me. That bro is the sad root.

Me and you are followers, why govts are at the top, that are supposed to be watching over us.

Very unfortunate, some guys/men dnt know how to deal with woman.

...the more u force urself on woman the more it would give you psychology stress and regrets at end.

Mitsurugi:
The heart of the average Nigerian is black. Blacker than soot. We are the cause of our problems and that's why no policy seems to work. We have this inbuilt mechanism to cheat, steal, to take undue advantage and those who don't are those who haven't found themselves in the opportunity to.

U see, everyone human beings have tendency to do more than atrocities u mentioned above, but the different btw other society and ours is that, the government is up to the task and quickly checkmate perpetrator to serve as deterrent.

If Nigeria govt from local to federal can be cleaned and start deal with whoever violates rule and regulations, surely Nigeria would back to normal and starts working the way other societies are working

Thermodynamics:
A slave and his master, you guys should be ashame, see how the guy is bowing unconsciously, to play talking drum for one European monarch now don turn archievement, who do Africa like this ?

The way your tribe is slave in "obodo naijeria" third class citizens that would only dream presidency, while the real owners will occupying it turn by turn

Anyway,inferiority complex will surely lead to depression, and depression will automatically lead to suicide.

This is Projecting Tinubu the more, so many people now see him as victim of Buhari and his cabal.

I'm seeing Buhari bulldoze Buhari and his cabal out of office

I think they said it's only man that normally abandoned child or refused to take care of children.

FriendsAndFans:
I am planning on getting married this year, so i want to seek guidance from married folks how they were able to raise funds to sponsor their introduction and wedding.

i dont have a partner yet, i just want to plan ahead.

Do according to ur power oga, if it's 50 guests u can feed, invite that fifty. It's not wedding that most important but marriage.

Planning how to have successfully marriage and not wedding.

Ended in marriage years back.


That's only relationship I ever built/building.





The rest, deep inside me I know they are dating themselves, many left without telling them, and the rest, I forced them to leave.

Samantha123:
Nah! I'm not interested in this one.

Besides, dark guys are not really my spec... I prefer them brown..

Yet u re conderming him for his spec in women.


It seems people that full this for us are all intoxicated whenever they attack every post.

Obidient how is market?

Many are blindly following two foolish people (Emefiele and Buhari) claiming good policy

they are good yet their time withness most corruption in history.

. love the policy initially, but start hating it when I realized that, the whole reason of the policy,is to support a particular candidate and not either because inflation or corruption as EMEFIELE projected it.

This means, after election, whatever way the result goes, the policy will die a natural cause, despite billions of naira wasted to redisign and stress he subjected millions of Nigeria to.

meanwhile, CBN doesn't have mandate of stopping vote buying, if Buhari serious need to curtail vote buying, let him give the agencies that have mandate marching order nah. (EFCC, ICPC, DSS, POLICE, INEC

Samantha123:
I'm not dark..

It doesn't stop u to apply.


In job vacancies , whenever they ask 3-5 years experiences, people with no single experience will also apply and on many occasions they do get the job.

Samantha123:
You're dark and you want a dark woman? Do you want to have extra dark and invisible children?

What's ur business with his choice, if you like him, it's better to apply rather than crictisized

You are crazy, anyway naija is synonymous to hardship. Govt subjects you to unnecessarily untold hard, instead for citizens to protest, you are here giving foolish opinion.

Infact, you should have given opinion that sun shouldn't set today, for Emefiele policy to work.

Believeintruth:
My wife is a banker. I worked in the bank. The swap yes will cause inconvenience, but this is minor compared to the benefits. Look in the financial circle globally Nigeria is among the red flagged countries for monet laundering, we have consistently failed all Money laundering certification tests as a country. This move is classic and the best for the country. It is a three pronged strategy. First redesign the currency and force those who have cash hidden outside the system to bring it in. Next redesign the AML policy to limit cash withdrawals and criminalise large cash withdrawals. Next redesign the cashless policy which makes it such that large withdrawals must be carried out using online channels, and make reporting of suspicious transactions easy for banks.

Talking as if bank officials are not even corrupt than politicians.

All these yahoo boys that their transactions passed through banking halls, how many have u reported?

U think we dnt know how bank officials collude with yahoo boys to defraud oyinbo people?


What about multi millionaires that their accounts domiciled in your bank, and in which they can't explain the sources of their wealth? Is bank officials not seeing that large volume of such money? What did they do about it?.

After election, all these gragra will die a natural cause.

Emefiele only trying to help his kinsman to win election jare.

daragrams:
The major problem in Nigeria is we don't want to sacrifice to get better.

I believe in this redesign just like you.

Why are the governors begging Buhari to extend it?

The sacrifices of closing borders up to 5 years now, where has it landed us? Is food surplus? Economy improve, security improve? Tell me just one positive thing came out from it .

Believeintruth:
You miss the point bro. This sudden move is the best thing the CBN has ever done because now it has made money laundering difficult and has boxed politicians and corrupt elements in a corner. If you bring large volumes of cash for swap, the banks are under obligation to report to NFIU and that singular move has put the person on the spot. What it means is that for a corrupt politician you are already giving the opponents material to institute a court case against you because moving with large wads of cash already contravenes the AML act which will be easily linked to vote buying, and if they decide to even use online channels it leaves an audit trail which will be traced to the politician.
This is good abeg.

If NFIU reports corrupt politicians and efcc spend whole lot of govt money to prosecute them, when court finally sent few of the politicians to jail, .... Buhari that's fighting corruption will now release them without collecting Kobo from money they stole.


Oga ur head need to be rechecked if u think Buhari and Emefiele want to fight corruption.

People with sentiment, always happy to go against govt of the day even if the individual is totally wrong.

......govt and people have to be cleaned to build the nation jare.....

Think9ja:
If you're an APC supporter, you should be worried about what just happened in Zamfara at the APC presidential rally.

I won't tell you what happened, go and watch the video.


It'll take something special (like Buhari's support) to stop Atiku next month.

Northerners are mostly for Atiku now

Dnt you know that, it's only in Zamfara they want to do election ni?

rummmy:
I'm still shocked why other candidates are not complaining..
Tinubu can not win talk more of dealing with anybody...who dash am.

Update urself and read how Atiku is complaining.

Tinubu will buldoze Buhari not to talk of minute Emefiele on his way to Aso rock.

You will still come here to lament by July/August about new president dealing with CBN gov.

ochejoseph:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIZW-eSEZnU
Watch Full Video Above.

Always known for taking sides with the people, the Presidential Candidate of People's Democratic Party, H.E Atiku Abubakar has released a video on his position on the January 31st deadline of the ongoing currency redesign program of the CBN.

In a video he released, Atiku Abubakar called for a slight extension of the monetary conversation policy to ease the burden of the policy on ordinary Nigerians especially the unbanked population in the rural areas.

Reports from commercial banks indicates that as at yesterday, virtually all banks were still paying the old naira notes to customers making withdrawal over the counter. New notes are only available at the ATMs where a daily withdrawal limit of 20,000 exists.

Most, traders including transporters have stopped collecting the old notes triggering crisis in market places and restaurants across country.

Atiku understands the economy, he understands our people, and understands how businesses work. With Dr. Ifeanyi Okowa as his running mate they are poised to make our currency strong again and help our economy grow.

A vote for H.E Atiku Abubakar and Dr. Ifeanyi Okowa is a vote for two good men who mean well for Nigeria.


As One we can get it done!!!!!!

Dr. Oche Otorkpa (FRSPH-UK)

Only Obi will remain silent, he is less concerned about millions of people suffering, he only concerned about sinister plan of his kinsmen (Emefiele) to win at all cost.

Thousands of bank officials are in the banking halls now, ditto tomorrow Sunday, just because of one unpopular policy from failed presidential aspirant

Slynation:
Nobody is even saying anything about why his so called uncle would allow his daughter to be cohabitating with a man when she's not yet married to him...!!

When many people born more children they can cater for, they only know how to nack but would evade responsibilities either for wife or boyfriends.


Some parents would be putting pressure on teenage girls to find food/money where their peers are getting it, this is jobless young teenage girls o

Freshtruth:
There is a girl i met 2 years ago she is very attractive we re just friends she is in the university 200level , she came to my house to ask for help to pay her school fees i said no problem the money she is looking for is 25k, i brought the money to her and show her i told we should lolo and i will give her the money she refuse and shed crocodie tears and walk out of my house. Funny enough she had boyfriends opon boyfriend the blood sucker is now pregnant we saw 3wks and we talk i dash her 5k when she was lamenting to me the guy that got her pregnant ran away.

Did u also look at it this way.

That, he was impregnated when she has pushed to the wall as a result of financial struggles. He agreed to give up for the tout because she was in serious finacial need and not necessarily that she is bad girl.

Atimes, human beings do things that ordinarily he/she wouldn't have done

Willy7:
Hehehehe, it's getting clearer to them that the next generation will see them as men without honor. How can you slaughter your hard earned reputation on the altar of greed and selfishness? This icons and football legends don't really know how they are seen now for allowing themselves to be used by Tinubu. It's a pity.
As for Tinubu, the coming days will make him understand that the prayer and will of the masses cannot be subdued. It is Nigeria's turn.

Foolish post with stupid likes, everybody must queue behind ur candidate at all cost.

Doing gragra as if angel is among the candidate, talking trash as if, we haven't seen all of them as political leader in their own respective ways before and we saw their antecedents when they were in power.

Millz404:
CBN is making it scarce on purpose, what is the point of changing the old notes when you are just going to flood everywhere with the new ones.

Get new notes enough for petty transactions, anybody that wants above 1k from your hand, do transfer.

For CBN gov to buy APC presidential ticket and later came out with naira exchange policy when election is around the corner, having failed to clinch the ticket few weeks back, it has already eroded any good intentions that CBN might have.

rummmy:
you don't know what you are saying....all ATMs are dispensing new notes ...your daily cash usage can be gotten from ATMs.
It's only people that wants to stockpile cash for election that are complaining..
CBN should insist on the 31 Jan deadline...
Let us suffer it now and enjoy later...
Meanwhile our house of rep is representing tinubu not us..

Go to inside bank hall, tell them you want to withdraw #100k (provided you even have up to that)

Come back and tell us ur experience.

Everything shouldn't be judged on the desk of politics ok...

Secondly, go to down town and market places and see volume of old notes here and there.


I insist, CBN has no business in curtailing vote buying. Let those who are established to do it to fight it.

In nearest future, if Tinubu now wins and he is dealing with emefiele seriously, you would run here and wailing. Claiming marginalisation, tribalism, that CBN is supposed to protected from politicians, but u failed to see him dwelling with politics now

Bye, but make sure u purge ur self from prejudice, only if you want to have peace of mind in remaining years you want to spend on earth