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interim4:
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment
the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience.

Let me give u surest, shortcut, open a Facebook with someone else pictures, make sure he will be a guy that she can easily fall for, chat her and asked her out.

Richy4:
OP, how do you think a distant relationship will work for you? Assuming you were married to her before stepping out, I would have said Ok ...This kind of scenario is one of the reasons why it is discouraged. Even if your assistant is not there, your mind will be thinking....

But on a lighter note....Is it too hard to say that it was a hanger that fall off because of enormous western breeze blowing toward Ojuelegba across Atlantic ... that the weather forecast predicted heavy storm ... She can even excuse herself, hand up for 2mins just to close imaginary window ...Dull people shaaAaa!!

You can't deceiving anybody who is expert in knowing body language.


You are saying this, because u re not the person at center of whole scenario. (After thought).

.....if u re talking with someone, who suddenly ask questions which are not expected and immediately point to emotion/body language you display, u dnt have options rather than to argue blindly.

Just like police PRO said yesterday, every crime committed always has trace if not traces.

ezegold4we:
Tinubu is a goner, today is the end of his political dynasty in Yoruba Land,

When a King Maker decides to make himself king,the restaurant effect is also painful

Self consolation.

I salute ur reverse psychology.

saintjimos:
May God grant all of us safety as we step out to elect Peter Obi

By this time of tomorrow, ur body would have been calm down,at least forum will be peaceful a little bit.

They will come on nairaland, ranting and wailing whole day, ......that girls not giving them free sex, they want situation in which, "any girl they like to bed , must open legs " the situation that not even possible in the jungle.

Yet, shishi they dnt have, they only want pleasure themselves with various girls but avoid responsibilities and put girls in jeopardy.

Yet foolish people following him bomber to bomber.


Mad tribe killing their tribemen to show hatered for lifeless fulani in faraway Abuja

What combine Nigeria security personnel could not do, small private security is doing it.

Indeed, Nigeria government can do business successfully. More reason I support privatisation of govt assets if Nigeria wants to move forward.

Preciousgirl:
Will u marry an unemployed woman?

Why
Why not

In as much am not against it, I will just beg the intending husband to plan to establish for her as soon as possible.

If u dnt want ur marriage to turn toxic within twinkle of eye, ur wife must engage and be bringing money home, even the money would be spent by her alone.

No man can give everything his wife desire

StrongAlphMale:
Read the comments on this thread and even check the simp below you. You'll be shocked at the level of simp men we have in Nigeria.

Some guys are just naturally fools. The same unemployed girl can never think twice of dating her fellow unemployed male, let alone planning on getting married to one. But some fools here didn't see anything wrong whether she's unemployed or not. Check those guys comments here, na fools like them dey make that jennycl abi Wetin be her name dey always cap rubbish

Think to be a real my for once and not like dummy that planning to be a cook in his house.


The day you know ur woman is ur most precious property is the day you come out from ur cage.


...... What stops you from establish for the girl you think, she share same vision with you?

You prefare a lady that works in multinational, but will be thrones in ur flesh, latter u come here to wail marriage na scum.

They want to leave zoo and want to be head of zoo same time.

What a confused homo sapiens!

afiaonline:
Just yesterday, I was discussing with my friend and he told me what his wife said to him. They were having talks about their sex life and all, then he asked his wife why she isn't flexible during sex. She just lays down there while he does all the jigi jigi. To his surprise, his wife said to him;

"If You Want Me to Do Different Styles Then You Will Pay Me for That."


He asked me what she meant by that?

I answered, if you ask meeeeeee.... Na who I go assskkkkkk?

Though ur post is figment.
.......but Incase of reality, this is real reason marriage used to wear out and bcome bore and loveless......if u think, ur husband dnt have right to do different styles just cos u re married wife, or husband try not to do her desire style on his wife, but instead seeking it outside from random girls.


90 if not 95% of wives guilty of this, they would be saying,..... don't you know I'm your wife? As if, the way they sex wife different from girlfriend, and that is why husband at times, seeking adventures outside.
Meanwhile, the same woman who is denying her husband styles at home, will do crazy things with concubines outside.

Cutehector:
No time. I like this guy.

Some women will just come into your life to frustrate your existence and make you miserable everyday.

They come to ur life? Or u invite them because of ur lustful desire?


I think u guys bragging that club girls are marrying weekly why godly ladies are turning to evening paper.

U never see anything ok, after satisfy ur sexual desire from club girls, you should also prepare to accommodate her other sides, ......club wife

Not until intending couples learn what it takes to be husband and wife,(how to play the rules of the game) you guys will continuing wailing.

UncommonLogic:
Tinubu will win. No need for all these fake polls.

All these are just mind game to play on intelligent of voters and perhaps self consolation.

Fashy070:
I recently found out that my girlfriend whom I am supposed to be getting married to soon, stays in the same room with her brother who is a full adult, takes her bath with him in same bathroom at same time, changes her clothes down to her panties infront of him, they sleep on thesame bed, she doesn't sleep with panties and she sleeps with short skirts and she sleeps very roughly

They live in thesame house with their mum, and though they have many rooms, they choose to stay in one room together and their mum stays in another room, when her other siblings come back from school (uni) they all join them in that same room, and they don't hide their unclothedness from each other

I feel very uncomfortable about this but she says it's nothing, that they dnt do anything and they have been like that since birth,

I don't know if I am wrong for feeling uncomfortable about this, what do you guys think

The relationship between two people you narrated above is husband and wife and brother and sister.

If such is happening indeed, I will be surprised.

Yet they say Buhari is doing us good, taking the biggest economy in Africa to pre independence is the way of doing us good

Only in Nigeria will election around the corner, that opposition will be praising govt policies while party in govt attacking such policies.



Anyway, Tinubu (will learn if not) have learned his lesson in hard way.

An adage says......Anjala who beats you? ....uhmmm, no be you who beat me!


I think Okoye should endure enjoy it while it lasts, it's tactics to enthrone his favorite.

Gone are days that wives see their body and love exclusively for their husbands!



Now wives Bleep outside without single remorse.

Divay22:
The only thing I'm trying to fight with now is anxiety....
Make he no drop me dead one day 🤦‍♀🤦‍♀

Anybody that's 24years and above in Nigeria must be fighting for anxiety in one way or the other, the country is in state of hopelessness,as result of this, anxiety may come, because no one sure of what tomorrow/future would bring except if such person is vissioness or focus less individual.

Upset700:
This issue was actually asked by a close friend.
A friend of mine is in a relationship with her supposed best friend.she says he is everything she always wanted from a guy.he ticks all boxes.
But.....he is broke.
He just graduated and is waiting to serve.
The thing now is while he is waiting or even before graduating,he never had that hustling spirit like her.
He relies on family for everything.right now he stays in his family house...
When asked how what his future goals where,he said he didn't want to be pressured.
That he understands the need for money but doesn't see it as his happiness.
He seems very comfortable with where he is.
He is certain when he is done serving,he will get a job which we all know is on probability.
What she is asking is.. should she still stick around since he is just broke but still an amazing person or move on cus he screams lazy?

Hope u know the different btw broke and pauper guy

So u do marriage in other to rake millions and not to settle down and start having kids.

Failure keep meeting failure.


O * 0 will always be zero.



Trying hard to hold on to naira till election day, even if millions die, ..... I don care ...so far my candidate wins and me, be in corridor of power to keep command influence.

Balyesa and Sokoto are they APC states too?


Anybody still surporting Emefiele anti-people policy is a satanist.

Goodlady:
Seems your mom was an evening newspaper before unfortunately getting your pregnant from a terrible source.
Cos if you are from a good home, you won't open your stinking mouth this early morning to the daughter of the most high.
See how stinking your mouth is

Foolish oldie lamenting few days ago, how she was broke and posted food items she bought with her last money, in which she posted one cheap rotten fish.

If a single oldie is struggling to feed her mouth alone. .......but sees nothing wrong for a man to feed a single mother together with her numerous offspring, when the kid's father still alive, hail and healthy.

Evil woman does will surely leave after her.

Goodlady:
With the situation of economy in Nigeria, broke guys like you shouldn't think of having sex. Stick to masturbation.
Single men with 3 kids shouldn't bother to marry a new wife. They should just castrate their penis and become Reverend Fathers by being useful to humanity in other ways than adding to undue overpopulation of the world.

An evening news paper talking to person who married for years


I repeat, despite the fact u are evening new paper , can u foolish advice ur brother to marry single mother of 3?

Goodlady:
Though the character of the lady is questionable. But what's wrong with marrying someone that has 3 kids or has kids before?
What if it's a man that has kids before? Should we discourage single ladies from marrying them?

With economy situation in naija, and high inflation couple with scarcity of naira.
Will you allow ur brother to marry single mother of 3? Dnt forget all the 3 kids are in her custordy o.

I think single mothers of 3 should either remain single or marry man of 60 yrs and above.

If your story is true.

You and the wayward girl are same and you are involving in a matter that is not concerning you ,.......you said you want to confront...? I pity ur sorry ass. Perhaps, you are the Mr nice! A man that sees a single mother of almighty 3 and still crazy and dying for her,it should tell you that, the guy is crazy himself.

Did u think Mr nice can adequately
taking carter for himself, together with single mother and her 3 kids? Hence she still needs different men to surport whatever Mr nice will bring ooo.

I said before, for Emefiele to introduce the policy when election is around the corner, the policy is failed even before implementation.

Asquare84:
The state government does not have the power to close down the supermarket

And now that State govt closed down the market, ...... expecting u to use ur power to reopen o

chinchum:
Polls of 1000- 3000 people with lots of undecided can not accurately reflect an outcome of an election that will involve over 30 million voters. 0.003% used as sampling size. It also fail to account for voting size of states , voters turnout and party structure. It will really mess up supposed winner supporters after election day.

........many of these polls are online polls, many of whom don't have PVC and in which they will not go to polling units on election day, even when they go, on sighting money, many would change minds before they cast votes.

I doubt if thr is other hellfire somewhere!