₦airaland Forum

Lifeandliving:
Loll... it's hilarious how almost everyone commenting on this topic has been sidestepping the truth and even trying to make the op look bad for feeling concerned about a fellow human like him.. It says alot though that Nigerians generally lack human feelings and by the way op you aren't lucky to have intelligent people comment on your post..'cause all I have seen here are just illiterate, narrow-minded people who mistake concern for lust and 'busybodyiness'

Concerning the topic,the woman don enter one chance.There are many women who are in this situation.I have two married female colleagues at work who are also overworked both at home and at work,one has even started looking masculine...Sometimes,I look at married women and I begin to wonder why people are always in a rush to get married and begin slaving themselves away!lol..

Personally,I think the problem stems from societal stereotypes and the issue of badly raised male children;who can hardly boil a kettle of water for their own bath and who thinks women are second class beings!

Some women are not much different from slaves but what baffles mostly is that these subjugated women also contribute significantly to the family upkeep!

When are you bringing ur own marriage to nairaland for us to discuss it? Since you are have taken a role of marriage mediator".


.......wen u get problem at work now, I'm very sure u will run to Nairaland to seek for undeserved sympathy and tell us lies how ur employer is wicked but u will fail to tell us, how u abandoned ur official duty at work and face people marriages to cause marital problems.

Midas01:
Abeg shut up. The woman's eyes will clear how? Are you sure you even have sense?

Who do you think will lose in such case?

The man earning 50k or the woman earning much more?

The woman will simply be free to live her life while the man will be looking for another slave to cook everyday meals on his 50 k salary...


Mumu thinks marriage is heaven's ticket for women.

Voice of hopelessness in the jungle.

Who did this to you? I guess Buhari regime is to be blamed for your frustration.

ObaOfYorubaLand:
Even the woman is very stupid to be discussing so closely with you. Are you her brother or boyfriend?

Mind your own family business, evdry family has its own peculiar problems or challenges.

The man is not stressing the woman, its just who he is not because he want to be wicked but rather hiw he grew up.

Finally, encouraged her that marriage has different sides but she should ficus on the mans good side.

Also be careful and bury the thought of sleeping with her because you'll destroy yourself.

Though, his attention seeker.

But this scenario still happening in real life, ...if it's happened, I see him entering that woman in no distance time, provided he hasn't. When the marriage finally scattered, the woman eye will now open.

westlius:
Pls pardon my grammar. Please men have mercies for your wife's. My colleague husband dont eat frozen foods meaning she cooks every day for him. She closes from work by 5 and get home before 7, she goes to market everyday to cook soup for the husband, I really do feel for her, to the extent the man treating her to resign so she can take care of him (He earns below 50k and she earns much more). She says when a soup/stew/ other meals reaches 24 hours the husband cannot eat them again.
I feel for her seeing her in the morning at work looking stress out

Is ur colleague not know this during courtship? If she knew, case closed.

Meanwhile, stop eves dropping on people's marriage, nothing destroys marriage more than third party who doesn't know his boundaries in people's marriages.

Still dnt know how his blind followers will cover faces o....



I think it's time they wake to reality Jare.

Keep on the infighting until opposition left you completely on the race. By this time of 2023, when you find urself far behind after election result, the infighting will die a natural cause.


South East votes gone already, south west not in sight, yet still fighting one another.

This man will indirectly give way for his fellow Fulani.

IamMobisola:
There's no requirement to a man's heart.
Even if they marry a virgin with good character and all, they will still cheat on her.

Stop doing things to please men. Do you and you will be fine.

Yet thousands of wives are enjoying their husbands maximally, if u are one of those who dnt have luck, go back to ur root to find out.

RepoMan007:
That's not true, in fact nothing will be left of Israel if they don't act against Iran.
It is just a matter of Iranians fabricating an excuse once they have nuclear weapons ready. Is real better act now.

Hope u know those that are behind Israel.


When u sit at shoulder of Giant, u see more than giant.

Iran cannot remove just one hair from Israel

paulolee:
Just imagine.... oshimhen to cr7? Some clubs get crazy business plan sha..
Same cr7 dt couldnt reach last 4 with a better juve even wen he was younger, Napoli don finally fall for dis scammer wey all clubs don reject? Mk we dey see sha
I jus happy to see oshimhen in EPL

Hope u read amount Napoli want to rake on osimen?

"Character" takes higher percentage for a woman to stay longer in husband house far, more than food or sex.

But quite unfortunately, ladies focus on different type of sex styles to stay, much more than characters, after a year of rigorous sex, diminishing marginal returns will set in for sex and with no good manner to keep on powering the union, husband would start seeing red flags that hitterto not seeing in the woman. Before you know, abuses and divorce will end the union.

Ameachi is gone to the history of dust bin politically, most especially if PDP wins Rivers and APC wins federal.

sweetman2022:
Which yeye Sterling...wey Foden bench through out last season abi na the one wey go miss glorious chances. Abeg make him go jare..make we see wonders wey him wan do for Chelsea

.. despite benching sterling for foden last season, sterling still score more than foden, what does that tell you?

oloyedewaris:
It's two different scenarios, one is talking about fornicators generally and the other is talking about women found of indecency provider 4 witnesses

But at least, they both show clear message of Islam perspective on indecency


But in the case of Bible above, the two chapter are direct opposite naa

Crazy dey worry u, the same analogy applicable to bible.


Even wen quran says "kill ur enemy" and in other version "show affection" to ur enemy yet still not talking cross-purposes.

See, ur common sense is removed already, give ur confused book for someone who knows how to read and comprehend for better explanation ok.


Bye and disappear.

MNDY:
Sex is different from money. Many women are working and earning good money. Every woman should learn how to make money.

If he starts cheating because of a problem that she can solve by herself, she will still be the one to be angry and be complaining. But to solve money problem, she can be earning money and supporting the family together with him. Moreover, she will enjoy the sex too if she improves

Going after another man for money is a shame on her. When she is an adult that can get a job and earn money for herself as an adult. It's very wrong way to punish her husband. No respect for her own body?

Common sense should tell you that the girls outside are using "good in bed" to snatch men from their wives. A man loves sex very much and his wife will make him addicted to her and not look outside if she is doing it well. She will enjoy it too and she will also be able to keep her man.

Abeg park well, keep on hallucinating on redpill and running away from justice and fairness.
.bye

oloyedewaris:
That's another topic for another day, first discuss the confusion and ambiguity in your Bible


Why deviation from this current topic

Quran.24:2 give canes lashes for adulterers

Quran.4:15&16 confine adulterers to house until death.


Human beings like you who were might not educated like you wrote Quran and bible, these beings are prone to making errors, know this and have peace.

More than half of what ur religion leaders told u are incomplete truth, they are doing so, to keep hold u tight down for their doctrines and to keep having rulership over ur conscience.

MNDY:
What are you even saying?

I am talking about women defending their wrongdoings especially when it involves men. Men usually condemn something bad done by the male gender.

You are saying what I don't understand.

And for men like u defending their wrong doing?


Because ur wife not good in bed u tempted to go outside

But it's abomination for wife that her husband not bringing money home to be tempted.

What's good for geese not good for ganders again abi

oloyedewaris:
That's another topic for another day, first discuss the confusion and ambiguity in your Bible


Why deviation from this current topic

Quran 2:191..."kill"all unbelievers where ever u see them
Quran 9:5...kill all unbelievers and chase them away.

Quran 60:1..."show affection" to unbelievers



Ouran 5:7..."do not be friends" to unbelievers (but not kill them)


Go to ur Quran and correct irregularities first before coming to bible.

Kwanza:
■PDP candidate to concede key cabinet, NASS positions ■Downplays calls for Ayu’s replacement



https://www.sunnewsonline.com/pdp-crisis-atiku-wike-strike-deal-2/

I pity Wike and his camp,after election is over for them and nothing for them again, he would count his gross loss by then.

Everything wrong for the PDP from very beginning.


A Fulani man is on the throne for 8 years did whole lot of horrific things during his reign, yet another Fulani that went to self exile came back to hijack party he abandoned and expected to take over from another Fulani man, who does that in multiethnic society?

PDP not done with that, they also want to retain northerner as chairman.


By this time next year, ur eyes would have cleared.

MNDY:
This gender sef...

When will the female gender ever accept a wrong instead of defending your gender against the male gender. Defending your gender and making matters worse in everything.

I pity any man who argues with a woman back and forth. The female gender that always wants to win an argument.

Men condemn something wrong pertaining the male gender easily but the female gender rather defends (especially if it is connected with men too).

IF YOU REALLY ARE TO COMPARE THE ISSUE AT HAND WITH TEMPTATION FOR HER TO GO AFTER ANOTHER MAN WITH MORE MONEY, IS SHE AMPUTATED THAT SHE CAN'T WORK TO EARN MONEY HERSELF?

Hope u read well before you comment Sha?

I pity people around you because they are interacting with "devil in making", must you always support ur gender? Even if he/she is going wrong, I will advice u to go back and reread and possibly give it to any of ur neighbor who knows how to read and comprehend for better explanation.


If u come out from family where female giving husband problem, does it mean all females are giving husbands problem?

Nigerians will still beat the system and continue their normal fraud and stealing.

IPPIS, BVN still equal to fraud and stealing in naija system.

Everything that works perfectly in another clime, immediately it enters naija soil, it will be working upside down.

Internet turned to yahoo.
Democracy becomes cracydemo.
Education now ordinary paper
Religion now business.. etc
Petroleum reversed to curse.

czarr:
All he needs is a mentor who has the same gifts, daily reading of the Bible, at least 5 Chapters daily, and to activate his spirit by speaking in tongues. Church is good too, because of coperate anointing but it is not necessary in helping him ascend. I know what I'm saying.

For special"gift" like this, it's extremely necessary. Infact, it's important to be going to church, the mentor u mentioned, where will he meet him or her? Market? Hospital? Disco house? School?

because others are turning church to money making ventures, doesn't stop person that God really wants to use not to have his own ministry if it's will of God o.

boyfwend:
I told my girlfriend to be productive with her time, she called me few days later, that after searching for a job she was unable to secure any good one.
Asked her how about learning a craft? she said she talked to her dad about it instead, he shouted on her to go and meet her boyfriend to give her money to go and learn a skill.

Lol, this got me thinking,

Is it the responsibility of the parent or the boyfriend/ girlfriend to acquaint their wards with a means of livelihood?

Since you are digging hole meant for husband, I think you should endeavor to carry few of responsibilities of husband nah

czarr:
My brother ignorance is written all over you and I don't blame you, you don't have to be a pastor for God to use you or speak to you, do you think I am a pastor? Or religious? Christianity is science bro, it is spirituality( spiritual realities) because it is real, you don't even have to preach the Gospel to work with the holy spirit....let me ask you if your brother or friend would have accident on a travel(God forbid) and you can see it and save them, you would not want God to USE YOU to warn them?....What you believe doesn't matter, what you like or don't like, won't change what is. God is real and just because you don't like his pattern or methods doesn't make him any less real. Let the wisdom of man or the philosophy of man not blind you.

Ok since you know it all, why are you seeking for answers to things that are clearly supernatural? Do you think I'm here typing this to you by mistake or coincidence?
Coincidence is when God chooses to remain anonymous.

Instead of you to build capacity so you can have the intelligence of the holy spirit guide you to become the best version of yourself you are here abusing what people travel to India to buy powers to get. I have been where you are and I'm telling you how to navigate what you are experiencing and you are here talking nonsense, do you think I don't have better things to do than write this essay. You think you are smarter than people who do these things, you are letting human philosophy stop you from accessing higher dimensions of intelligence gathering.

Do with this what you will, I'm done.

Oga, I biliv you read it in his post above that , atimes, he would pray after went into trance and he would now see solution to the problem encounter in the dream.

since God has given him gift to see beyond physical, he needs to develop the gift in other for him to use the gift optimally.

How? He must first purge himself from sins and running away from sins, he will be going to church regularly, from there, he would develop himself from things of the lord, you can't just sit at home and thinking u will be updated with words of God automatically. (Though he should avoid fake church o). After that he must be involving in reading of the bible, a lot of fastings and prayers.

Thinking, u can do work of God in "prophetic ministry" without involving urself deeply in Church and other things I mentioned above ,u are deceiving urself, it's not to see vision that most important but ability to solve problems u see in vision, hence u become a mere seer.

oloyedewaris:
This shows ambiguity and confusion in the Bible, you can never see that in Quran or sunna


That's why if you ask, who is Jesus, different answers
And many more...

More reasons why Islam becomes curse to the world today.

Any place where thre are killings in the name of gods, you hear Islam.

Nigeria.
Afghanistan.
Somalia.
Iraq.
Niger.
Pakistan.
Yemen. etc

dryakson:
Blame yourself for the contradictions in the Bible not me

Since I'm the one who wrote it nah.



Give ur bible to the bible scholars around you, who know how to read and comprehend, for details explanation. Just like Philip did to that man in the bible. Act 8:30.

Jimmythewise:
She can be tempted as well but a "good woman" will overcome.

The same way you should overcome temptation of poor skill in bed from ur wife.

I biliv u re a "good man."

Jimmythewise:
I won't leave her for not being good in bed but her inability to satisfy me is a temptation to get a better option.

Can she look for alternative for your inability to satisfy her financially.

dryakson:
Fathers shall not be put to death for their children, nor children put to death for their fathers; each is to die for his own sins." 2Chron 25:4

Exodus 34:7


The sin of the father shall be visited upon children, even up to 3rd and 4th generation.

Islam with obvious denial.


If anybody tells you children not partaken from the sins of their parents, tell him or her that he is a liar from pity of hell.


You dnt need any old book to know this. Even the poster is either enjoying the good deeds of his parents or suffering from evil deeds of his parents now,no matter how small its.

(Just use ur common sense, you have opportunity to help just one person. First person, his dad did terrible thing to ur dad and second person, his dad saved ur dad from calamity wen they were young, BTW the two, who will u help?)

Today, Mohammed Abacha not be able to succeed politically in Kano state, no thanks to evil deeds that his dad perpetrated few years back.

EVIL THAT MEN DO LIVES AFTER THEM......... SHAKESPEARE.

SIMONEKPA7:

Religious tolerance, Respect everybody's faith and religion.... FYI , there are about thousands of religion so don't think yours is the best.

That's why, no religion should coerce other to stay indoors or restrict their fundermental human right wen serving their gods/God.