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Acidosis:
You've only reiterated my view. The emboldened text is the issue. How did they move from friendliness and office chats to inseparable love birds? She found in him what she thought her husband didn't have. That's a very wrong mindset. Your spouse won't have it all but you can intentionally place your spouse above everyone else.

The "friendship" isn't the issue per se. Everyone must condition their mind and be content with whatever qualities that made them chose their spouse in the first place. Getting your mind wander away from your spouse because of how someone talks, walks, or poo is a sign of self-control deficit and matrimonial immaturity. If you're truly married, these fickle things won't matter at all.

She simply made a mistake. And she has herself and no one else to blame, not "friendship".

Her "friendship" with the guy led to that, there are some qualities which you would not see or notice when you are not closer, such qualities would be as if it's not exist if you are not aware of them in a particular man or woman (Yoruba adage, if u dnt hear particular story you may not be bitter).

If she wasn't closer to her colleagues more than necessary, (after all, not only that man in that office), she wouldn't have discovered the quality in him, After discovery of such quality, nature would must definitely make that quality fascinating and render her vulnerable to go beyond her boundary

Laggafin:
And if you're also a blind owl not to read properly what I put out before responding .. then I can't help but also recommend u go fix ur Lens.. Now let me rephrase what I put out before u became an attack lapdog.. All I said was * I hope this burst by military collecting back this ransom paid to the bandits by one of the released victim won't infuriate the bandits and make them kill the rest of the hostages that is still held by them* and u just jump to type witout reading to comprehend what I said.. your mumu is classical bro

Did u know the particular victim/victims?

Did you know if it's just one victim in their captivity that gave them 100m?

Did you know how long they have received that ransom? Perhaps more than a month?

Infact, who told you that the ransom intercepted today or this week?

These are the questions, sane and reasonable man will think careful before jumping to conclusions, most especially if the event did not happen in his present.

Many of u are assuming and jump to conclusions and using ur hastly conclusions to mislead general public.

Laggafin:
Dis one is high on local cheap steroids cuz it's obvious ur brain has knocked and needs surgical transplant of an animal brain that befits you.. lazy clown who doesn't know the Genesis of story he's responding to just come out to spill trash cuz ur leprous hands can type words.. hey now get some facts moroon.. the 100 million naira is ransom paid by one of the victims kidnapped in the train hostage along that kaduna Abuja route.. he's only but one out of the many hostages still held by the bandits.. So if ur brain is dead .. den stop typing so u don't further make mockery of ur insanity

Since u are one of soldiers who intercepted them , that made u know genesis

naija problem has finished ur brain, perhaps, all these kainkain that u guys drink to feel high is now making you go insane, endeavor to read carefully and properly before you answer gragra, u can go back and read, though many of u do comment after reading headline only and quickly come to occupy front page with no logical reasons in ur comments, why won't you be commented like mad boy?

I still waiting for u to underline, where they said, the ransom is from particular victim, that made u to foolishly assumed,that such victim is in danger.

Do that and stop be like mad cow in public forum

Acidosis:
I don't have a problem with keeping friends of the opposite sex as a married man or woman. The distance between you and your spouse and the excuse of incompatibility are the main issues here and not your friendship with the opposite sex. I see this a lot and wonder why people just love to deceive themselves.

Cheating is a deliberate act. Friendship or no friendship, you're never always going to be with people of the same sex. You will meet fine men and women, you will meet good public speakers, great writers, excellent political analysts. Okay fine, they speak better than your spouse, so what next?? Open your pyant??

You cannot tell people to cut off communication with the opposite sex because you're now married, please. That's a sign of irresponsibility, evidence of total lack of self-control and a red flag.

The excuses you sort of gave yourself are the issues. Establish the kind of communication you have with those friends with your spouse and you'll be fine. If you don't have sensible things in common to talk about, simply gossip and make stup!d jokes. Life is not that serious.

Read and read the illustration of op and use it to align with ur own, if it's the same,

Colleagues, acquittance, neighbors, church members are quite and complete different from bestie (very close)

Going by illustration of Op, you should ask urself , after discussion in office which was supposed to be office affair, what are they discussing again that two of them are now almost inseparable ? Which type friend is that oga?

You also ask urself, if you come home and seeing ur wife colleagues in ur sitting room almost daily basis after office hours and be telling you that it's just friendship and nothing more, after all, he is my colleagues, how will you feel?

Laggafin:
Oga keep kwayet if u are simply ignorantly unaware of what is going on.. the 100 million naira is ransom paid by just one of the kidnapped victim.. the MD of one devolopment Bank that was captured and released yesterday after ransom was paid

Foolish people, who will always add 11 wen the the narrator say 1


Meanwhile, if it's MD as u foolishly and stupidity assumed, you won't say the victim will be in jeopardy now, knowing fully well that, MD has been released since yesterday.

How will victim that had been released would be in jeopardy again?

Logical reasoning is far away from you.

Update urself u say no, .....u will keep jumping from tread to tread to share false and foolish information.

Laggafin:
Chai.. dis bandits go kill the remaining victims they are holding with this devolopment

Where did u read that, they intercepted it immediately they collected the ransom?

Did u know after several days that they have release victims?

You just assumed and jumped to the conclusion as if those who paid the ransom are still in captivity.

If I'm a woman, there are certain class of guys/men that I cannot even wait for them to ask me out not to talk of following them to anywhere, but it seems the way women think wen it comes to relationship different from how they think outside relationship (business, career etc)

It will take alot of endurance for any man to marry this bitch, infact ,it's only a woman rapper that can marry her convinently, too fool of herself and totally arrogant.

Kobojunkie:
I am afraid I don't follow! What has the having of mental maturity to do with the meeting of weak/innocent men or women? Are you under some delusion that mental maturity is somehow dependent on characteristics of individuals you run into on a regular basis or something?

And this so-called saying you claim has wisdom to it, what does it have to do with this topic or anything at all?

I commented on ur previous comment not because of u in particular but general public, go back and read my comment again and again since u are under delusions, I think by now your eyes would have been cleared enough to read my comment clearly, I didn't pity ur type o, since you derailed more than repair already, I pity innocent which ur foolish opinion will derail as well.

Go back and re-read post from OP, I wasn't OP, she is a woman whileI am a man, if you read properly or better give it for who knows how read and interpret exact meaning for you, you will learn one or two lessons from it.

NB, in my previous. Comment, I talked about , either weak man or innocent man, I meant weak man who didn't know how to break any maturity you think u can display, or innocent who not ready for sexual immoral act with u.
Wolf in sheep clothing (player), will not only break ur defense but also commit nonsense with married women.
You might have been have a field day before, a day is coming that "monkey go go market,wey ehn no go come back again"
hundreds of it are happening on daily basis

Ire o.......

oldienavie:
Where in my post did I say I was born again ?
You don't need to be born again to live a decent life.
I am sick of seeing too many wolves in sheeps clothing masquerading around in the church.
If you are weak and need help don't pretend and act like you have overcome.
The OP rather than express herself from a point of repentance, decided to arrogate to herself a false sense of victory while still in touch with the same person that made her commit emotional adultery.

From her write up it was obvious the other guy seemed to have a bit of respect for his marital vows, if it was someone who didn't have the fear of God the OP already slept with him in her mind.

If you think you know how to write, there are people who know how to read exact meaning too .

First thing you did was to attack her about her being born again,
2. You also said, being born again, her spiritual antennas should tell her direction. Apparently to dodge Satan, i.e, for her to almost fallen for sexual immorality.

Lastly, you narrated your own encounter, inside church, (not disco house o)..... about a particular lady wanted to commit such sin,in which ur spiritual antennas saved u by keeping her at bay! "What do all these references mean sir"?........this is spiritual antenna (discerning spirit)
you projected that all born again should possess, which you latter confirmed in ur right up you had ooo.

2, let say u didnt even say that, if you are not yet born again as u latter affirmed, which moral ground did you have to attack woman who born again but tempted? wen she has not even fallen into temptation?

You guys should learn how not to attack, attack, attack , ......too judgemental, most especially wen it comes to female gender, as if you are better of, nobody holy past oooo

From her write up, you dnt pick any lesson, salute her courageous, ....that she quickly applied break, but you choose to criticize and narrated how u dodged ur own bullet as if you are holy............

oldienavie:
This was exactly the same thing going through my head, the type of people calling themselves Born again these days is shocking.
This is what Christianity has become, it has been very diluted.
Someone that should bury her head in shame and cry out for forgiveness, someone still keeping in contact with the same person she committed emotional adultery with is still proud to seat on the throne of advise.

I bet she is a "women leader" in church teaching young women.
Such a terrible and sad thing to read, that a wife and a mother can become so loose as to make themselves vulnerable to this point highlights how weak this person is spiritually.

As a born again person, your spiritual antenna ought to be able to spot these kind of things from a yard away.

Reminds me of a particular white girl in my church, I knew she loved me and I always avoided her, we were put in a group together and she eventually got my phone number, that was when the stalking began. But having a pre-knowledge of her intentions I already knew how to handle it.

By the way I am single, so I wonder when married people who claim to be christians and have loving families behave like goats on heat without self control.

It is a shame... spits

Ur write up didn't project you as born again sir, going by ur references , arrogancy is one of cananities that must be purged out from who claimed to be born again, arrogancy and self righteous reek all over ur body just like Leke Adeboye.

Learn how not to be judgemental as Jesus did during his earthly ministry.

Nobody, I insist, nobody that cannot be tempted sir.

Kobojunkie:
Like I said on another thread, not everyone have what I refer to as mental maturity to engage in these kinds of relationships for real.

No single person and stop saying not everyone.

If you think about mental maturity/discpline

Perhaps, you have been meeting weak / innocent men before, a day is coming that you will "meet wolf in sheep clothing man", he would not only break your defense (any mental discipline you think you can display) but also enter you completely.

A wise saying, need not smelling what you dnt want to eat.

chioma134:
This post was triggered by an earlier post I saw where the poster was having long talks with his friend's wife. I've been in a similar situation. I changed location and had to be separate from my family due to work. I was lonely and needed a friend. I talk with my husband regularly, but his interests are not my interests, so I find that besides household and family matters, we have little else to talk about. I found myself talking to this guy I met when I went for an official assignment. We started as friends, but we became attracted to each other. So when I travelled back to base, we started these long conversations. We're both born-again Christians and both married, so we kept to certain boundaries. I enjoyed conversing with him more than with my spouse. I became consumed with thoughts of him. He also expressed his desire and attraction towards me, but we laughed over it as jokes.

My husband noticed the conversations when I travelled home and became suspicious. He forbade me from speaking with him. He had never seen me have long talks with any friend, talkless of a male one. I informed my friend and he said no problem, he would wait till I travelled back to work base before he would continue. He later travelled to meet his family and conversation became scanty. I realized how much I was addicted to him when I couldn't talk to him as much as I wanted. He returned to base and we continued like before.

I started praying for God to help me overcome these desires. Maybe he also felt the same, because for some reasons I don't know, he reduced the frequency of calls and chats drastically. I didn't try to find out why, just thought the time-off would help me clear out immoral thoughts. But I got hurt when he acted indifferent on one occasion when I felt he should have shown more care. I asked him about it and he pretended not to understand what I was talking about. I read the writing on the wall, and decided to play along. So I said "bye. It was nice meeting you." Part of me was grateful it ended, another part was wishing I could still be with him. I love my husband and children, I cannot come and scatter my home.

He thought I was joking. I was no longer responding to his chats, and when I did, only with monosyllables. He became hurt and accused me of going silent on him. I told him he started it. He wanted me to become defensive, but the Holy Spirit whispered "keep quiet ". So I allowed him rant without saying anything. I thank God I didn't, because I would have exposed how deep my true feelings for him were.

Right now, he chats once in a while, just general "how are you". I say "fine". My feelings have healed and I thank God we didn't continue because I wouldn't have been able to stop myself from an affair if we had eventually had any physical contact. I can categorically say I'm no longer in love with him.

I penned these down for those struggling with similar situations. Just cut off the relationship. Stop conversation, chatting, or physical contact. Then pray for God to help you overcome those lusty feelings.

You said it all, I hope others, most especially women in committed relationships will learn & stick to ur advise.

Wen two unrelated opposite sex, close unnecessarily, the feelings would just come from nowhere, "I think certain homones in the body responsible for that".
No wonder bible says, flee away and not run o, for Satan, ........ human being can do anything for devil but certainly cannot dribble him and win.......

People should stop hidden under one finger.

[quote author=SilentQueen post=111710145]According to my observations and Stories shared from female freshers (100l) on campus.

I have come to the raw facts that most of them gets disvirgined or raped on their first few weeks on campus by all those Randy older male students( 200l- 500l) who see them as their prey and easy target because they are new to the system and also naive, innocent and mostly virgins.
Some male students will disguise as tutor, school daddy, caring neighbor just to lure and sleep with them
They will also organise parties like fresher's party, I could remember back then on campus when I was in 200l, a fresher's party was organised that night for the newly admitted 100l and most of the ladies that attended were drugged and raped by other levels guys

Well most of these female freshers also see going to campus as an opportunity for them to explore and have boyfriends since most of them are not allowed to have while still at home they will now go from good girls to bad girls
While their male fresher's also see going to campus as an opportunity to knack diff babes

Share your experience as a fresher on campus![/quote

remember 3 jambitos that yahoo boys ritualists used few years back, those 3 newly admitted students, got admission, they started admission processes but not started classes yet, during the process of admission, it happened to be time of valentine, some guys invited them for valentine/hook, and after few days they were shrinking, vomiting & discharging blood from private parts, it was 3rd girl that died last that confessed wen she was about to give up the ghost.

The 3 students got admission, came to school but not seeing a single lecturer neither did they attend a single class before they met their downfall because of sexual immoralities.

As if those girls too are not fully ready for such sexcapades, they taut they were in cage in their respective parents' houses and want to fully explore new freedom that university education offers them, they also thinking they are fully ready for any form sexual relationship that comes their way since they are confirmed fully mature adult now.

It's after first semester results they will know that ,it's not what they think they met on ground.

BetterHeadline:
A Muslim in central Uganda is suspected of hanging his wife and two children because the young mother and oldest child received Christ after attending Christmas Day and Sunday worship services, sources said.

A neighbor on Dec. 28 found Shamira Nakato hanged with her two children, ages 3 and 8, in their house in Bwetyaba village, Kayunga District, after area residents witnessed signs of violence against her, a church leader said. She was 27.

Another neighbor had invited Nakato to attend a Christmas service at her church on Dec. 25 while Nakato’s husband was away on a two-day trip, said the pastor of the church, unidentified for security reasons. At the end of the service, the pastor spoke with Nakato and prayed for her and her children.

Nakato and her two children returned to the church for the Sunday service on Dec. 26.
“At the end of the service, Nakato remained behind and told me that he she had a deep conviction to embrace Christ after the prayer of Christmas Day,” the pastor said. “I then prayed for her and invited her for a special prayer day on Monday, Dec. 27.”

Nakato’s 8-year-old child also received Christ, the pastor said.

While Nakato and her children were attending the service on Dec. 27, her husband arrived home earlier than expected, and a Muslim neighbor told him that his wife was seen attending church services on two consecutive days with the Christian neighbor, area residents said.

The Muslim neighbor told Nakato’s husband, Hamidu Kasimbi, that she might be gone to another service, and Kasimbi left his house and went to the church site, residents said.
“When he entered the church, his wife and the children were seated at the back,” the pastor said. “He pulled her out of the church, and about 100 meters away, a member saw him beat his wife.”

At mid-day, another neighbor heard screaming from Kasimbi’s house, the pastor said. At about 4 p.m., a neighbor saw two men wearing Islamic prayer caps outside Kasimbi’s house putting together an undefined wooden structure.

Late at night, area residents heard brief screaming in Kasimbi’s house, the neighbor said. When he went to the house early the next morning (Dec. 28) to borrow a tool for cutting firewood, he did not find anyone at the compound.

The neighbor said the door was unlocked, so he entered the house and found Nakato and her two children hanged. The wooden structure built earlier appeared to have been used to elevate the victims before hanging, he said.

“I made an alarm that brought area residents, including the chairperson of Local Council 1, Fred Sekatonya, rushing to the scene,” he said. “Later the police arrived from Bukaloto police post, and the three bodies were carried to Kayunga Hospital for postmortem.”

The results of the portmortem were unknown, but the neighbor noted other injuries indicating that one or more of the victims might have been strangled before being hung.

Kasimbi has disappeared and is sought by security agencies. Police registered a homicide case (SD REF 27/27/12/2021).

Sekatonya, the council chairperson, said Nakato suffered head and neck injuries. The wooden structure that Kasimbi and the two accomplices were making were used for the hangings, he said.

https://morningstarnews.org/2022/01/mother-children-in-uganda-hanged-for-faith-in-christ/

Up to 90% of religions adherents do not know that religion is personal,it's highly unfortunate. Someone uses to serve whatever God/gods shouldn't be headache of another person. Highest,you divorce him or her if it's in marriage.

If you truly know your religion offer you paradise and ur fell human uses hell, I dnt see any reason why one should have heart attack because his fellow human being go on the way of hellfire.

People are practicing religions without even knowing the reasons of doing that.

queengift:
Nairalanders and plenty wahala, it's well with you my brother.

Wen will u give us ur own version of plenty wahala u ve seen in ur own relationship

Osobi32:
I can tell u bro, my wife has been a blessing to me. Ever since I met her it's been from testimony to testimony. Yes there's been a lot of challenges but it doesn't take time to overcome them.

Hope redpilers hopeless crew can read this!

Those their marriages are working won't go to public and announce it, but few whose their are going negative would get loudest noise, which make some frustrated guys to say negative about marriages.

My wife too is blessing to me, the way my mother is a blessing to my dad.

SmartPolician:
In psychology, it is taught that there are two major factors that affect people.

These are genetics and environmental factors.


Everything you learned from your environment, including what agents of socialization taught you, is subject to change. I don't remember talking about genes.

You people need to unlearn some things.

Hope they told u in that psychology, that ur gene, would still be exhibit her character, no matter environment you find urself, ur environment cannot [b]absolutely [/b]overshadow ur gene.

Reason why u will see real" pastors still doing her real characters even after born again.

You will see king displaying act of hooliganism even in palace.

Gov crossing illegal way, even as a sitting gov, it's endless.

Yoruba will say "eefin ni iwa, ko se n bo mole. (Your character is like smoke, nobody can effectively cover it) not even environment you find urself pls

MedicH:
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE

Do away with bias mind and make sure you are not doing things ignorantly this you are emboldment of wisdom.

MedicH:
will and jada comes to mind

just be careful of women, they can destroy you

as e be now, jada has destroyed will smith and something tells me will smith will commit suicide

This same way man can destroy woman, infact man destroy woman far more than woman do


All these yahoo boys using ladies, which definition you want to give it.

Guys impregnating ladies and run/abandon, leaving them to stop education and suffer alone, what will u call that?

Let try to balance judgement pls.

SmartPolician:
Don't let the society fool you: people change.
Your character today was not the same when you were 5 years old. If that's not change, what is?

Agents of socialization taught us everything we know today and everything you know is subject to change because it is constant.

However, it is wrong to get into marriage believing that your partner would change along the line or you can influence them to change because that may not eventually happen.

But do people change? Yes, they do.

Oga, " fundamentally" people hardly change.


Before you argue, pls make sure you understand the entire statement and not just words.

At my age, I think known people who would grow up together, right from childhood, some in primary school, who ,latter went same or different secondary schools, ditto universities, who latter working or jobless, and latter married or single, some in naija , while some outside etc.

The basic character that every one of us was displaying since we new one another ranging from 25-40 years now), such trait/character/behavior still manifesting till today.

Ur genes can never ever change, at time, present situation/predicament/status may slow it down but can never ever change it.

If woman can bring misfortune for man, definitely she can bring good luck too
Life is either negative or positive, nature gives no room for vacunm.

Kuriosmynd:
Shebi TRP say look at women as a whhore.e that even your wife canot be trusted, some SIMP be looking for that special woman to trust , at the end they get burned, some commit murder cos of woman and get jailed like this man....10 year jail, 5 years trial..choi.
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Una eyes go clear by force. U kill cos of woman, Dem jail u, no be express licence u give that same woman to fvck up and down? Who u go kill this time when u come back and see ur wiffe don born two pikin for your neighbor..lol...I have no sympathy for stupiid men who think women are there to complete their life. Women is just side attraction, treat them as such....even ur wife. Don't trust!!!!!
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It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.
It's never worth it to trust any woman.

Wen will redpilers would start marry one another? At least ur doctrine is super trusted and work like magic.

Wen will you comment about wife that give peace for husband and supported husband to achieve in life.

Oga, u re not doing justice to the society, if you use ur own parental experience during ur upbringing to generalize all women and marriages.

Austinbiggy:
this topic enter my head o, am not even married and am having sleepless nights with my girlfriend, she stayed with her friend and am asking her how she paid her bill and she's telling me is God and she's not working. some times some stories release a man bondage

The problem is that many of you do see red flags during relationships or courtships, but you always ignore/overlook them as minors or thinking he or she will latter outgrown such attitude, meanwhile, humans hardly change.

For your girl that she said its God that is doing it for her, tell her to give u her passwords to her social media accounts ( FB, whatsap,Instagram etc,) if you dare open them, ......."thr,are her shops located".....you will see and read those that are footing her bills on her phone and not God as she proclaimed.

Gloccz:
Don't Kill Yourself If Your Wife Is Sleeping Around.....

I just remembered a case I handled while in Chief Rotimi Williams Chambers.

A man met his Landlord sleeping with his wife. Our client took a side stool and hit it on the landlord's head. He died instantly.

He was arraigned for murder. After 5 years of trial, he told me in court one day that he regretted killing his Landlord.

I asked him why? He said he just realized that only God knows how many men his wife would have slept with during the period he has been in jail.

Sincerely both of us wept.
Luckily the court upheld our argument that he was provoked. He spent 10 years in prison and was released.

WHAT HAPPENED:
He came out only to find out that the wife already had 2 boys & nursing a baby girl for a neighbor.

LESSON LEARNT:

Do not fight over any thing. It's not worth it at all!
Just be yourself!

What will be will be, because at the end, you are just alone, even your shadow may leave you in the darkest corner.

BE SMART!!!

We normally reason and act mainly on emotions, not only in relationship but also in all area of human endeavors, and this is why things are going negative all fronts in naija on daily basis.

Anybody who is not beclouded/overwhelmed by emotions in his judgements/actions has won battle of life halfway.

Wen wife/husband caught cheating, and you know you can't withstand such attitude, tell him or her to leave, after all, you guys came separately when coming to the world.

Wen u realise that u can't continue friendship with a friend, or doing business with partners endeavour not to commit illegal actions.

Enny2013:
Bfr dey crucify me,let me ask...

Wot of d ladies ur husband had slept wt?
Has he confessed n apologized? Dont he hv conscience too?
Side chicks everywhere.

If true you are a lady,...............

I didn't pity ur husband or future husband o, but his parents..........why? their son has (would buy) bought big market beyond his capacity.

Tell her to marry so-called bestie concubine, since female friends are too weak and poor to give out advice like men for their female counterpart even married women. They said nothing bad in having close friendship with man , they said such man will be better friend even more than hubby.


Naija people had been hidden under one finger since 1759.


You shall know the truth and the truth shall set u free.....

I doubt if your statistics is accurate, uneducated you are referring to,are people who married, 25+ years ago, now,several uneducated women/ladies of ages 35 below had married more than once.

Go to Getto,Slum or "Face me $ Face you" areas in ur locality, (check ladies/women that are selling, pepper, fish, garri among others) try to do findings of uneducated couples or single mothers and fathers thr.
80% of them are in their second/ third marriage, and larger percentage are single mothers/fathers.

People are increasingly not tolerating each other in marriages in recent times, it has absolute nothing to do with education.
Marriages of educated that collapsed, often get more attentions,much more than uneducated ones,and that's major reason people think along that way. How many illiterates would go to social media to announce their break-up in marriages?

Infact, educated people even tend to last a little bit more than uneducated in marriage.

educated ones still consider societal stigma far more than uneducated.

posty56:
one must be careful when dealing with all Nigerians, I repeat all Nigerians, there are so many snakes out there's disguise as your friends, I am keeping my plans secret,na silent moving now till we japa from this country

98% of naija need to check and recheck before dealing with them

Toooooooooooo dubious a nation.

Every Barack in Nigeria is common place of every Hausa/Fulani origin as a playing ground, our military will never separate professionalism from tribalism.

Why won't they enter them, even inside their cave,barack and destroy them?

That's different between Yoruba and lgbo/Hausa wen it comes to business.

Yoruba use too much ego in business/ work which not good in developing own business. ( typical "ideology/ characters" of people working in govt offices), you would hardly see igbo or even Hausa ridicule costumers unlike Yoruba and more reason igbo are succeeding in small scale businesses far more than we Yoruba.


I am Yoruba man.........to know how to prepare ur attack very well o