₦airaland Forum

Fearyourcreator:
Una sabi be think for person like kilode... How you know this

If u no Sabi ur bubu for past 7 years which century u go Sabi am

Buhari I know will not tell them not to go but he would impose candidate he wants as a flagbearer.

ALOCORA:
Nairalanders, please i need your candid opinion on this issue. Would you as a christian allow your wife of 17years practice islam which she claimed to be her new faith in your home as against your wish. Even bringing Alfas /Clerics to come and appeal to you.

If you can leave peaceful with her in her new found religion and if crossing to Islam is not by any way to harm you or ur people. After all, religion is personal.

Siwel25:
Reality will soon stare U at the face. The funny thing is, even Osinbajo and Buhari will be banking on Tinubu's structure if they win the primaries. Lolz. The reality is that, there's no more father Christmas and Jagaban's allies do not have another time to pay him back but NOW. U guys said the same in 2015 even when the grassroots was in Buhari's favour, U kept deceiving yourselves. The National Assembly caucus and most swing states are for Asiwaju. No wonder Lawan told Osinbajo - "we wish u Goodluck ".. Just watch!

Oga nothing will happen, after pry they will appeal for him and he must accept appeal, tinubu no be bastard nah.

And if he refused, nothing and nothing will happen, last time I checked, tinubu struggled to win for sanwo-olu in Lagos

Aufbauh:
Seriously I don't know why people can't decode that Prof. Yemi Osinbajo was the 'closet candidate' of PMB.

The gut & courage of Osinbajo to openly challenge his erstwhile benefactor can only be motivated by a mortal superior power backing, who is Mr. President.
No one else could have prompted him out for this challenge, not even an audible voice from God. This is why Osinbajo shouldn't be underrated in this contest.

It is also important to note that the political dynamics of 2023 will be entirely different from 2019. This time around PMB will be interested in who succeeds him. He has already shown that through the election of the APC national executives.

The Nigeria leadership factor shouldn't be wished away. We've already concluded that all Nigeria politicians are the same so, PMB may equally be tempted to play god. That means that PMB to a large extent he'll play pertinent role in who emerges. We should not also forget that he will still remain the president after the primaries for couple of months, so it'll be extremely difficult for governors especially from the north to go against his wish.

Again much is always said about political structure but we shouldn't forget that 'structure' can be built, inherited and bought.

Conclusively this is politics and anything can happen to change the balance of power. One meeting of like minds with Mr President can send BAT to oblivion.

"Absolute power does not only corrupt but attract the corruptible"- Frank Herbert

Oga u dnt need to replying those that are consoling themselves on impending defeat most especially at primary, infact, events of last 4 months about how Buhari deliberately pushing Osinbanjo to different official events are enough for deaf to ear loudly.

If you check PMB's cabinet, larger percentage of those who worked with in him in first term are not only in the cabinet now but also in the same ministry. It's enough for a wise to know that Buhari strongly believes in continuity.

What about CBN? First time one person will serve two terms.

They talked about structure, as if naija politicians are not the most infidelity and disloyal globally.

Those you see behind you, they will leave u unannounced at eleven hour. I think they should ask Eyitayo Jegede on Mimiko, about looking behind and see political structure disappearing and leave you to face ur own hurdle alone in politics. Not even northern politicians that are still much fear and respect Buhari in the north.

MikoB:
You are very correct! Come to think of it, how can a VP summons, the governors, Senators and the reps for a meeting, without buhari's approval? The stystem of the presidential primary coming up will be different from the chairmanship convention, the presidential will be the photocopy and repeat of 2014 primaries which brought buhari, it will look clean and clear but the power that be would have given instructions. That's my take

Buhari of today, weirds much more power and influence than Obj welded during his time, ...... executive, legislative , judiciary, party structure,all in his pocket, yet blind people are saying Rubbish.

adelaja70:
IF APC mistakenly pick Osinbajo.. APC will lose the election.

And SDP will be declared winner!

Oga stop all these hallucinations that only Tinubu can win for APC.

Infact ,where is the opposition?nthat will defeat APC, irrespective of who they put forward for election.
In normal clime, Tinubu will not even come third in the primary if not our own election that's money bag, .....I will implore you to go to market and among masses ,try to mention Tinubu and come back to tell me the statistics.

Gozac:
Amaechi is the one backed by PMB not Osibanjo, political neophytes and tribal bigots cannot discern it. BAT knows this himself

Yes sir, keep on masturbating.

Donshegxy10:
let me educate you a little sir.

Those you mentioned won on the structure and machinery of others.

Fashola, ambode and sanwo olu won on tinubu's structure.

You should ask yourself why a little known sanwo olu was able to disgraced a sitting governor, it is simple, the governor had an elective power without a working structure.

Yaradua won on obasanjo structure.

On which structure will osinbajo stand, mind you buhari has no structure but he is well respected as a president and a elder stateman.

I dont think buhari will support anyone, i also dont think the governors will obey buhari on who to follow because they will be looking for for their own personal interest as well.

Lastly osinbajo has been in office for over 7 years, how many politicians has he help into position, just mention 1 from each zone.

The senate, reps and majority of the governor are with tinubu.

The majority leader of the senate said and i quote "most of us are here because of the support of asiwaju, this is the time to pay him back, and many of the senate members are here to support him".

I'm very pleased for your education, and I think you are correct. Meanwhile, the same way Osinbanjo will win on the structure of Buhari.

1.It's only a blind who dnt know for now that Buhari is surporting osinbajo.

2.the same Reps and Senate that cannot say pim" during recent concluded apc elections


Tinubu camp knows that Osinbanjo is fully backed by Buhari and that's why is camp had been jiltery and more reason they are lunching more than normal rockets to the personality of Osinbanjo.

You may agree or disagree, Nigeria president is powerful to do and undo not even during Buhari reign. As it stands now, it will take devine intervention for tinubu to win.

cj1900:
I married her as a virgin. She has not given me any reason not to trust her. Finally, it is not the case that I don't feel comfortable with my family members around, he has been with us for over 5 to 6 months now. My concern is a situation where I leave the house allowing just the 2 of them to stay in the house.

Specifically, there is a natural tendency for humans to grow an attachment when they spend time together and that's where my concerns are..

Anyway, thankyou for your advise

The last person that any woman (not even married wife) will bed is her husband relatives, it's only complete wayward lady that will sex his boyfriend family not even married woman.

Donshegxy10:
Firstly about age and background, there was no argument in 93,99 and 2003 when tinubu won elections in lagos, why now?
His he a yoruba man, a nigerian? If yes then where he came from doesnt matter.

Educational qualifications, requirement for presidency is a primary school leaving certificate, this is a man that has a university degree, his degree with an outstanding hons award was verified from chicago, this is someone that went to become an executive in over 3 international organisations, you cant dispute his qualifications.

About deputy, leave it to tinubu, he will find a well accepted northern christian, for example dogara is a christian and he rose up to become the number 4 man in nigeria in the midst of muslims.

Baggages.......
Show me 1 politician among the top aspirant without a baggage.

In 2019, when wike who was in charge of pdp wanted tambuwal and atiku brought money, why didnt they vote tambuwal instead.

Politics is about structure, aliances and money.

No nigerian politician as of today has helped, impacted and elevate people the way tinubu has done.

On ambode.......
If you are intune with lagos politics you will understand that ambode outsting was not tinubu's doing, it was the work of mandate group, who has the highest number of apc membership in lagos then, it was led by aregbesola and cardinal odunbaku.
Ambode stepped on many toes.

Does osinbajo has a structure to win apc primary, or does he has the money to spend.

Osinbajo is a featherweight politically, masses may like him but the delegate that will vote at the primaries knows only JAGABAN.

Tinubu is a strategist and a winner, i just hope some of you people will show your face after the primaries when osinbajo is humbled like ambode.

Its just a matter of weeks, let us be patient.

Let me comment on most confused u analysis.
Ask urself, how fashola, ambode, sanwo-olu and yaradua won election despite contesting with those who were very stroger than them, both in pry and general election.

I deliberately picked several characters from Lagos which I biliv u re familiar with very well, if you do justice to urself , you will know how Osinbanjo will convincely defeat Tinubu.

ucheheart:
As far as APC is concerned, Yoruba votes are divided BTW tinubu and osinbajo, so nothing for both of them. Amaechi will come out tops cos he got full backing from northwest and south south and also buhari 's anointed son. Watch out.

Go and do ur research from his home, how strong he is in his APC party o, before going out to Northwest pls.

Bounceboune7:
A consensus can emerge for chairman n not presidency.

All u wrote up there na rubbish

And if they screen tinubu out the way they did for Edo gov? Which court can upturn that?

I biliv you dnt the personality of the man in charge of apc, perhaps you still naive to understand his antecedent during 3rd time agenda.

You guys keep consoling urself on unrealistic happenings, Nigeria president is too powerful not even Buhari who rule like emperor.

Tinubu himself know that his chance is dim, that is why he has started funding SDP underground.

[quote author=vivilafrosh post=111963741][/quote]Urchins will never proof otherwise, maybe that was what they told you about Atiku and Obasanjo presidency.

How many things Atiku did not agree with Obasanjo ? Pls mention job just one out of many things after 3rd term tenure.(meanwhile, he disagreed on that cos he was an interested party)

Pls mention it ooo

davodyguy:
Is Osinbajo your finance Minister or CBN gov?
ASUU is on strike because finance Minister and Labour Minster says they don't have money.

Inflation is very high because Nigeria is import dependent and the CBN governor stopped selling foreign currencies to BDC. Same CBN gov that reports to Buhari banned Abokifx.

Tell me how Osinbajo is in charge of economy.

Did u need to answer foolish people, who attack just because they see other people attacking? .... someone who dnt know different between fiscal & monetary policy , ..... different between "Adviser & minister and the different between president & vice president..

For me, I love to argue with those who are in my league and not urchins.

cj1900:
Hi guys,
I won't take much of your time. I have a very delicate matter in my hands and I need diverse opinions please.

Background
I don't live in Nigeria but me and my wife both have a very comfortable 4 bedroom duplex in Nigeria. We have a one year old baby. I have been in Nigeria for 5 months now and I will be returning to UK in a few weeks.

Ever since I've been in Nigeria, my cousin (mid 30s) has been with us. Quite frankly, it is not very easy for him at the moment and i do care about him as a brother. He is in the process of processing his visa, so its not as if he is loafing about.

The plan is that both me and my wife will be taking turns in visiting each other for the next 2 or so years until I return fully to Nigeria.

The problem
The problem is that I do not feel comfortable leaving just him and my wife under thesame roof whilst I return and he is not showing any signs of leaving when I return to my base.

So, this is my situation and I don't know if I am being insensitive.

I married a very good wife and under most circumstances, I trust her. I am just not comfortable leaving my wife with any man atall under thesame roof.

I need your opinions pls.

Trust her? Yet still doubting her staying with ur own cousin not friends or outsiders oo.

If you cannot trust ur family around ur legal wife how much more outsiders and exes.

I think you should be more concerned about her exes who may likely play rebound ball after several years of separation.

oikirodah:
Whose Mandate Is Osinbajo Standing On? Tinubu Or Buhari? Matters Arising by Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah

Nothing is more noble, nothing more venerable, than loyalty. ~ Cicero


https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/whose-mandate-is-osinbajo-standing-on-tinubu-or-buhari-matters-arising-by-osigwe-omo-ikirodah/

Oga starting from where you started ur epistle, you said talk about removing sentiment and bias, but immediately you started be biased and sentiment follow from thr until ur last full stop.

Meanwhile, most important aspect that maybe you dnt aware to mention is that God installs king" by his mercy and grace, if it's divine for Osinbanjo to be president, thousand of govs, even sitting president can't stop him, the same thing goes to Tinubu.

See how the thread refuses to get comments and likes, despite that several ladies had already viewing it , I think we should endeavor to be neutral in our judgement.

If it's other way round, outpouring of emotion, insults and curses would have littered the thread, infact, any male that appear to be neutral will be labeled with rape apologist.

If we keep blaming one gender wen issues of man & woman crop up, marriage can never ever blissful.

We should endeavor to blame who ever that need be blamed wen conflict arises, that's how societ can be sanitized and move forward.

siofra:

Tooo arrogant, not good enough for that job, he will definitely turn to ur boss in no distance time wen giving slimmest opportunity.

adebayo987:
Let's have an adult discussion. No insult please. I have a girlfriend that we were set to marry by December. Let me cut the story and go straight to the point. I travelled to a distant place for work since november last year and since i can't cheat on her, i decided to be mastvrbating whenever i'm high. I even let her know and she said it's Okay. She's a good church girl though and always dislikes sex when i was around with her. So, i got shocked when i saw her on a january uploaded porn video just last week. I didn't believe my eyes because i thought it's someone that looked like her. so i took some screenshots and sent to her to ask if she can recognize this person, only for her to start begging me that it was the devil's handwork as she didn't know "they" would post it online. This was someone i due send 45k monthly as salary and additional 10k every 20th of the month for miscelenous. Right now i'm heart broken as i'm going to call her family to inform them of my non interest again. Or what should i do?

You guys can cook any story just for front page sake.

Are they giving you money for ur story to hit front page?

It's foolish and gaulible ones that would take ur fake and satanist post as their own mentally in their relationships I pity most

chiommy123:
Bad boy is for fun. Nice guys is for marriage

Uhmmmm, ur comment is pregnant.

....of a truth the boy is good na confirmed foolish guy

Infact, me too I'm not started fear the future of marriage in naija, rate of infidelity among naija married women is going to breaking point, hardly would you see upright woman in marriage, gone are the days Nigeria married women strictly respect marriage institution my remain fidelity with their husbands for life time.

Just two years? If she truly Respect and love her marriage and fear that it can collapse, she won't be sleeping in different hotels.

I read points one and two when I stopped, man can posseses almost all attributes you listed in paragraph one and still atract bad woman.

Relationship/marriage goes beyond just physical ooo

Gkemz:
Am shocked to read that a one time pastor hosted a dinner for the breaking of Ramadan fast.

Are u not surprised that Jesus that one time pastor his following was hosted by tax collector?

BeardedmeatR:
How do you sell a senior pastor to the north? How did you sell a well known Islamic religious fanatic to the south?

the way Buhari was sold, not only Islamic fanatic but also tribal bigot.



When it's time to shine , millions of propaganda can't stop him.

JAMO84:
Unless Tinubu decide to accept defeat if the Presidency helps another aspirant to get the ticket, I don't see anyone else with his kind of leverage in the APC.


Ameachi : cannot win his State

Umahi: Will lose his State to PDP in presidential election


Osinbajo: Best Aspirant, zero structure. If he leaves APC, even his State governor won't follow him. Tinubu, Osoba and Oshiomole made Dapo Abiodun governor of Ogun State.


Yahaya Bello: Joker



I am 100% confident that Tinubu is the only aspirant that can destroy APC if he wants to. If the Party work against him and he decides to leave, he will do so with at least, three states from the south west. Lagos, Ogun, Osun and even Oyo states.



By the way, how do they intend to sell a senior pastor to the Northerners?




APC MUST GIVE TINUBU THE TICKET, NOT BECAUSE THEY WANT TO, BUT BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.

Nothing, I mean absolute nothing will happen if tinubu defeated or detected.

ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
Good evening Nairalanders, please I don't want to bore you with much stories, I just need a legal advice from lawyers on the FORUM. my sister who has been Legally married 8years ago to this guy, I wasn't around during their wedding because I work far away maiduguri then, the wedding took place in OSUN STATE, few months she gave birth, this guy travelled abroad on invitation visa by his family members, the guy has shown so much responsibility as a man and as a father at the beginning when he first arrived at his current country home of residence, my sister always told me how he use to send money for her and her child(only daughter) upkeep and communication was good between them, sometime in 2014, this guy having learned I work in Abuja, he personally contacted me and told me his plan to take his wife with him to abroad that he will need my assistance to help Authenticate all my sister's documents from Federal ministry of foreign affairs which I did, probably this doesn't go down well with family members or God knows what happened this guy sundenlly make U-turn and stop communicating with my sister, after several findings, he claimed his family had told him my sister was lying to collect money from him and spending such recklessly! That's her offence which he stated in the divorce letter. When I got the story like over five years ago, I heavily criticize my sister believing she must have done something worse than that for her husband to suddenly take Such action against her but what brought my interest in the case was when she sent me copy of divorce letter and I read through, I can't pinpoint to any serious offence she might have committed to warrant divorce all his excuses was baseless and earsay as the husband in question has never return back to nigeria since he travelled and from information my sister got, the husband secretly married to another wife in abroad Netherland to be precise while he still legally married to my sister here in nigeria.
My question now are:
- is it possible to divorce a woman in
absentia?
- The husband was requesting the custody of the only child the marriage produced to take to abroad, in my opinion I objected to that since the husband has married to another wife over there,the safety of the child is important.
- she's currently living in the house they
both built together which she
superviced during construction! They both contributed to the project while the husband was also sending money to build. Will she
be sent packing without any form of compensation?
Please MOD should please help me push to the front page to to have legal interpretation to the issue. Thanks i will be in comment section to take your advice. Ignor any error and advise

If your sermon isn't fake, 2 things are involved.

1. You heard info how ur sister sleeping around in absent of her husband.

2. Maybe your sister husband now legally married to white for stay in abroad.


* I think he sent divorce in order not to continue wasting her time.

Noblewealth:
This is currently what I'm facing with a female colleague of mine at work... It was just yesterday she confessed to me that she's madly in love with me and this lady is happily married with a one child...

She has been disturbing with calls and sweet msg and I have been ignoring in all ways.. I don't want to report the case to my fiancee cos she's a no nonsense person..

Pls nairalanders advice me on what to do inother not to put her marriage in jeopardy and my own relationship to ruin..

Wen they tell u to reduce friendship with female, you would say no, opposite sex who are not blood related can fall for each other at any given time, most especially wen she sees the traits that are absent in her husband that friend posseses, ....strong among the traits are,* given her attention and ur time, *given her money and caring, *handsomeness and * being romantic

Hardly you will give women such gestures that she won't fall, irrespective of her married status, and this can easily be given to woman if you are closer as a friend.

You said she has be given you unlimited calls, that shows you are given her so much attentions , perhaps much more than what hubby given her.

Let me tell you raw fact, so many marriages today lacking attentions from husbands and for fragile woman, she would fall for outside man that gives her without thinking twice.

AgentGoat:
See this guy, medical laboratory graduates are at the bottom of the chain in healthcare sector. It's profitable if you own your laboratory. Working in the private sector is shiits compared to pharmacy and radiography graduates. It's a bit better than nursing. But nursing have this international opportunities above it.

You keep on hammering i
on get job, getting job in India or England? How many vacancies for pharmacy graduates on naija soil?

I insist, if you know what u are doing, medical lab, fine art, are far far better than all these so called big courses.

Pharmacy without white collar job is as useless as frensh language graduates ,or better open shop to sell chemist, chemist that anybody can sell.


I will advice you to just go to medical lab and try to imagining money they realize from tests.

Their eyes would soon clear, all those paper weights telling them to run because of money they want to drop from them, would vamoose when the time comes to separate boys from men.

Dozis:
Pharmacy? What did you smoke?
I haven't seen an unemployed pharmacist in this country.
I'm a Pharmacist and will never regret being one.
Medical laboratory is a good profession but bro you can't compare what they earn with what Pharmacists earn neither can you compare the job opportunities.

Combination of hard drugs in neighborhood chemist shop making you go crazy.

How many of such pharmacy graduates earning well, compare to profession you can set up on ur own and leave averagely.

Go out and ask how much they do medical test, these are the tests that must come on daily basis

Pharmacy is one on big course with nothing to show after graduation, do urself justice, go and do statistics of pharmacist graduates and ask them how many get good job after graduation?

Do gragra in sch as if it's by big name course.

Wen your brain is settled, you should also ask urself, how many pharmacy companies thriving in Nigeria, how many graduate of pharmacy can start his own company?

SavageBoy:
If you aren't going to school to study any of the courses listed below, pls don't bother going at all:

•Medicine
•Nursing
•Pharmacy
•Computer Science
•Radiography
•Some engineering courses

If it's not any of the above, abeg sit down for house, use that money you would have used to pay school fees and get a Laptop... start learning to code,in 8 months time,you'll be glad you did so.

What I came to realize about life is this; our parents know what they've seen when they urge and insist we study "professional" courses in school,but we young folks disregard their point of view as "ancient"... I for example was studying Botany in the university, reasoned what I'll do with this thing in the long run... omorr I saw I was just wasting my time oh,took jamb in my third year,applied for pharmacy in a federal university, got the admission... I'm really glad I made that decision.

Living in Nigeria is hard... don't make it harder for yourselves by studying Nonsense

Pharmacy and computer are not part of them sir, instead, medical laboratory and make sure you know what you are doing, as a medical lab scientist, just attach urself to 3 to 5 private medical doctors in ur area, you can tell them you would be given them returns from ur proceed.......with that, sky is ur limit.