₦airaland Forum

jesmond3945:
if you are married, you would know the issue of talking to ex especially newly wed couples is very rampant. The fire brigade approach you are proposing will only drive her further to the ex but adopting an aloof approach coupled with greater family responsibilities on her part will quench the fire.

So, you have married and ur wife still charting with exes? Not only chatting with exes even to ur notice? If it's true you are a confirmed woman rapper.


You are one of the reasons those urchins on redpill thread nicknamed ur type of husband as "simp".

If true u have married and have kids, I will advice you to try to do DNA of ur kids.

HeavenVGate:
Yes and I'm one. Why should I speak good English for what? I'm more better and flow freely when speak in pidgin. Guess what was my class of Degree? FIRST CLASS 4.52. If you're looking for a crazy man when it come to mathematics, come knock on my door. I'm better than many gurus 100%

Even you yourself knows that somehow, you are at disadvantaged, yes you are a guru in mathematics, but the knowledge you acquired in the university is supposed to be impacted on others for self development and by extension for nation building, to do that, you still need communication, since you are struggling to express yourself in English language, the knowledge you laboured to acquired in your university days, might be fruitless.

How? Because you need English language to express and impact it in the country you are dwelling which uses English language as her official lingual franca.

Note! For you to be deficient in certain area shouldn't be the yardstick to rubbish its importance during argument ok.

jesmond3945:
he should kill the feelings. The attention from her ex makes her feel wanted. I know this is a young marriage by the time kids start coming and with some effort, she would stop sex chats. She might still be chatting but just mere dry chats.

How did you feel with this type of stupid advice on public forum? We are talking about married woman o, even ordinary girlfriend shouldn't be given such foolish soft landing you are dishing out.

..........ehnnnnn, increase ur attention for her, it would kill any interest she has for ex.
..........ehnnnnn, after 3 kids, the attention would die naturally.

If the lady in question still has passion for her ex, why can't she go for the ex instead?
Op said, they are chatting,even went to the extent of going dirt online, "asking house wife if she is enjoying sex with her husband!

Did you know the magnitude of danger, for someone outside marriage to be controlling house wife?

Ex will not only start to be sleeping with wife again, he can impregnate, infact, if he wants to kill husband, he will do it with easy from outside through wife.

justine14:
Marriages these days is terrible. After all the millions and noise yet the union can last. Simply because both couples seem to be civilized, and hence none wants to make sacrifice for another.

I think is time guys who are well to do and ready to settle down travel to village and pick a wife. Many will say the village girls are not saint either, but lemme ask are you a saint?

Since city girls find it hard to respect the african tradition that places alot of emphasis that � submission is expected from a married woman.

What am I even typing self.

And "well to do" can do anyhow, because he comes from famous and wealth family?

OBoy50:
OGAAAAAA This English is very bad sir!
You can do better than this by simply writing a very simple well-spoken good English

....... writing a very simple well-spoken good English........

How does it sound in your ear Mr prof?

OBoy50:
OGAAAAAA This English is very bad sir!
You can do better than this by simply writing a very simple well-spoken good English

Very bad, very bad sir.

It was posted earlier that kids of today are lacking of critical thinking, Op posted how bad people like you are unable to write good English, despite the fact that, vast majority of people like you are boasting to be graduates. Now you confirmed it already, sending you to school is totally waste of resources, ........no single logical responses on any thread but to write jargons.

OBoy50:
Your English is very bad sir!

Mr Attacker, it would have been better if you underlined the errors in the write up.

I guess it touched deep inside your bone marrow.

LordIsaac:
Very apt indeed! Unfortunately, the same generation in contention would come in here and insult you for not understanding the entire piece. We need help as a nation. The facade and the hypocrisy that have hitherto guided our so-called values are fast coming apart.

They only interested in taking over government, they want to leave large without single sweat.

No thanks to waec and neco that special centers have been badly damaged beyond repair

Even the analysis on nairaland alone confirmed it.

Wen threads hit front page most especially "family and politics sections", larger percentage of those who normally comment, hardly would you read critical responses that are of critical thinking and detailed analysis.

More reason they bombard romançe section to post jargons

Karlosorji:
you sef reason am, pH na Muslim state? You no know as Muslim state de be? Wike was right when he declared pH a Christian State

And such man will now be campaigning for office of president, will that declaration help him or not?

27Pushing30:
If By declaring Rivers a Christian state “some people” are pressed then Wike must become president ..

The same people who have declared their states as Islamic states by imposing sharia law?

Pfft

Are they contesting for president? Will that declaration brighten their chances

Wike the dictator, he too wants to rule Nigeria, naija mult religions and ethnic nation, thinking govern Nigeria is same like govern River.

Too lousy to occupy such post jor, person who once declared River as a Christian state, you think "some people somewhere" would forgive u?

Wike and yeye Bello too like drama Jare.

It's PDP I pity most, still comfortable to be in opposition.

Under normal circumstance, anybody who studied up to SS 3 and successful got admission as an undergraduate in any higher institution,
he/she is supposed to be able to speak and write good English language, SSCEs are the examinations that are meant to separate the chaff from wheat,hence, all undergraduates are supposed to be able to express themselves fluently in English language, but here in "naija", miracle centers have succeeded in damaging the sieve that meant for separation.

Eben91:
Most guys who nacked anything nakable later ended up with virgins as wife while most nice and decent guys will later end up with girls with uncountable body counts, girls who have done many unimaginable things in the past

That was what they told u abi? Though I don't know ur age, but on the contrary those who sleep with anything in skirt usually ended up with bad women, many of such bad women would use diabolical means to enter the life of such play boy. I know countless of such guys who we grew up together.

Pascopele:
We hear news of ladies who sleep with their ex few days or months to their beautiful wedding. These ladies can have sex with multiple ex two weeks to their wedding & later may even shed tears of joy during the wedding day like a faithful bride who does not cheat......Some may even have sex with an ex or a friend when they go to distribute wedding card.

But what is the root cause of this? Why do some ladies do so?? before we judge anybody, is there a psychological cause of this

How many of such you have seen by "ur very self" slept with her ex before marriage? Mention just 1.
You heard unsubstantiated rumors that lady slept with her ex, making u go crazy and console ur inability to marry.

Here on nairaland, they only focus on bad past of ladies and not mind/show blind eye on guy's past yet they want peaceful and blissful marriages. The same guys that opened thread and discussed various sexcapades,even to the extent of sharing info and visiting brothels. They ready to sleep with every available holes, yet want virgin as wife.

...........guys here only want to eat their cakes and also have it same time, how possible is that?

Ournolly:
Tinubu is actually the one relying on money and attracting hates in many parts of Nigeria which I see as a very poor strategy.
Atiku has over the years built friendships across Nigeria through marriage, business, investment and political bridges.
Atiku for obe has no enemy across Nigeria.

I also do not know what you mean by Tinubu's strategy.
You mean paying pennies to online trolls who are actually attracting more enemies to him?
Visiting money bag politicians that actually do not have control over the masses?
As I said above, Tinubu cannot win serious candidates in the South. He can't win Amaechi or even Peter Obi in the South, the north is the big asteriks here.

Keep on analysing on tribal sentiment

Bye and disappear!

Ournolly:
And Atiku has been strategizing for over 20 years now which means nothing.
Buhari's choice candidate matters a lot to get Northern vote.
Tinubu did not have much influence to go beyond South West.
Amaechi can easily take South South and South East. The two regions in the South give block votes, South West do not give block votes.

Middle belts will always shift along Christian friendly candidate - Amaechi.
The battle ground is in the North East and West which Buhari's influence will matter.

And you think so? Capital No. In real sense, Atiku only putting himself for presidential election for 20 years and not strategizing ok.

Atiku only has his home state governor back him. Atiku only rely on money to win election and nothing more.
Tinubu has everything, he went as far as gotten media,( print and electronic) among other.

ctrl09:
Is so funny how some people can read and not understand, despite being learned
Nobody said can Wike or Tinubu rule Nigeria.
It is an opinion poll for the both of them. Why can’t some people stick to the subject matter rather than bring irrelevant discussions up.
If Wike is put in contest against Tinubu, can HE (Wike) win?

That's how 75% naija youths think , they hardly have logical reasons to back opinions, yet they want to take over government. Some will badmouth naija girls that they can't discuss different topics outside relationship stuff, when going out/chatting with guys ,I think it's still better than guys who can't reason logically on various issues, rather, they attack, attack and attack.

Check first 3 pages, hardly u will see reasonable and logical answers from very simple and straight forward question.

Maxymilliano:
Wike is a small fry compared tp Tinubu ...

Two people that can stop Tinubu from realizing his lifelong ambition among the present crop of politicians is Buhari and Atiku

Only Buhari, others are just ant vs elephant



Tinubu had been strategizing for the D day more than 10 years ago, even Buhari must stand firm, if not Tinubu will bulldoze him on his way to his life long ambition

Nothing bad in office of wife or governor or first lady, if and only if properly used, but here in naija many first ladies competing authority with executive governor.

bayelsaowei:


Wike is no different from Putin..Wike is a dictator and if given the chance would be worse than buhari, putin, and other dictators who have existed in the past..

The same way Amechi is, Rewind the clock back and see what Amechi did for Jonathan, even Wike saw sege in hands of rotimi.

Amechi, Wike, Fayose, Okorocha and Hope, all of them are not good men to rule Nigeria who is multicultural and multi religions society.

silibaba:
This is not about quoting the spriture.

Mind you, I don't joke with my kids.


Just don't be controlled by a woman is what am asking. Be in full control.

Women naturally hate weakling.

I go in piece.

Why u want to hit ur head on rock because of my weakling to my woman?

Why taking Panadol for another man head ache nairaland urchin?

silibaba:
i will enjoy my old age with or without my wife.

God and money will take care of my old age.

Infact u will enjoy ur old age with or without kids, as a matter of fact, I will advise u to go for man like u, at least ur gender would have understood u better and he won't put u in-between legs.


Bible says, ..to Ishmael, .........and he grew up to be arrow man, ......that his hard would hard on people and people hands will hard on him too.


The way u want to be treated, treat others like that, ............woman inclusive.

silibaba:
Try and understand me. Am not saying you shouldn't love your wife but rather, don't let her put you inbetween her legs. Are you getting?

And where did u read it that suggested that?


See, if you want to have peace in ur life most especially old age, I will give u strong advice to embrace ur woman and treat her like Queen. If you claim foolish redpill or you follow their indoctrinations, only and only you will suffer the consequences when the chips are down then.
The same redpiler will laugh at you and still blame u on top of their frustrated ideas they forced on ur throat.

Kennyfancy:
I know you are not in the venue, so chi

Until u re in Ukraine before you can know war is going on in Ukraine. Infact I salute ur dumbness

Kennyfancy:
The race is between Osinbajo and Amechi, I pity those people that think Amechi won't contest, believe any politicians at ur own risk, before you will hear it, one group will come out and say they want to sponsor Amechi campaign since he said he has no money and they might even raise donations for him like Buhari did in 2015, Nigerians politicians and game playing are 5&6

Hope u updating urself sir, pls try to update urself on newest release from Amechi


All the cabals within and outside cabinet dropped their ambitions and are queening behind professor.

silibaba:
Don't come here and open any trend that your wife son japa with your kids tomorrow. We will distant ourselves from your post that day scum SIMPle man.

Don't come here and tell us that ur ex wife is the reason u are being sent to prison, because of redpill u swallowed from nairaland ooo

silibaba:
SIMPleman man spotted

Yes oooo, if I'm not simple for man wife and kids who will?


Frustrated urchin keep wailing.

When guys start to know that they are men, when they start to reasoning, why they called "married man responsible man". When they realize that they are respective leaders in that small units called nuclear family, not only leaders but role models.

By then, marriage will be more stable and enjoyable,...for, they will work harder to fend for their family and leave responsible life as role models and above all they will open their eyes wide when choosing life partners, they would not only take consideration of today wen choosing life partners but future as well

Ink4Hope:
Omoh I'm not yet 30 but I can see myself in that shoes Man

I'm so scared of commitment, the fear scares me

Work harder , leave a responsible life and open ur eyes wide when u re choosing.

sucess001:
All those ones who keep shouting that their wife is more important than their mother ....oya come and see....

But ur own wife must love you more than anybody right! Including her own father and mother?