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IKBARUTEN11:
When money dy, naija wife go stay

When money finish, naija wife go japa


Lesson: naija ladies don't marry based on matrimonial vows but based on the weight of the man's pocket

Did u ever do findings when *money dey, how agwu used his money?

One foolish guy said he changed rented apartment and started leaving in another rented apartment of #5m, tomorrow when he broke and marriage scatters you will still blame innocent wife

Skyfornia:
Seriously I watched the game and I wondered to myself, from all over the country, is this the best set of players the coach could pick? They didn't play like professionals at all, no focus, no tactic... Even a village match will be more entertaining.

But I are man nah, and the last time I checked the match was for male, why can't you volunteer and play like professional for father's country

One by one, even ex cabal is carrying hand up now.


But for nairaland urchin with no PVC..........

Throwback:
I still wonder how Tinubu managed to cultivate his national appeal?

More like when his political peers were sleeping and basking in the gains of their then present glory, he was plotting his moves 16yrs ahead.

Very rare to find a patient politician. More like a composed and calm Nwankwo Kanu with a striking opportunity inside the 18yard box.

Tinubu had been nurtured the great ambition for several years, he built an opposition party, allowed and waited for him to complete 8 solid years, how many politicians can endure that?

Comparing him with Atiku, for Atiku he couldn't even wait for his boss to finish 1st term.

Comparing him with Umahi, Umahi jumped from party to eat where he practically not labour, who does that?

If DNA can be made to be compulsory and free for every child born, naija would explode.


They say it's woman who know the father of her child! ...........how accurate it's?

I'm just imagine how marriage will look like in next 20 years.

luminouz:
Did you just say relationship bring HUGE AND BIG FINANCIAL RESPONSIBILITIES?

As per what?

You men are your own problems biko

Since you are dealing with zombie nah, zombie that must align with u at all cost, as if women are not part and parcel of us.

Carry ur lamentations to redpiller hopeless thread biko

2braithe:
Hmm another school of thought.

Sometimes, friendliness can be mistaken for greenlight.
Also,I believe Women should be able to go for what they want.She might not be the only one showing him greenlight.The one who makes the bold move might win him over.

I disagree with the emboldened.The only thing common to guys in this case is to brag to their friends."Gee,stella con toast me for my crib today o",and they'll chatter over it.But labelling and treating her like trash?Only kids do that.

Before you disagree, endeavours to make nairaland as a case study, our culture is too rigid for that.

flokii:
It's like you're still in your teens.. ori e ma pe when you clock 30-35yrs with no suitor.
Enjoy your teenage exuberance.

Hope you know relationship can borne out big and huge financial responsibilities? Will fine boy alone foot the bill?


Why you don't question guys with no money that are going for relationship?

siofra:
We women are really suffering in this life. So because of some group of stupid mean, girls in Afghanistan will not go to school again What kind of life is this? Who gave these foolish men power over women? Why do men love power and control so much? Why so insecure?

What did you want to say in another clime where man will be booted out from house he built/rented in which the wife that contributed no dime will be instructed to stay there, in fact, she has liberty to bring different men to the house to do whatever they like, while the real owner will be languishing as homeless man outside.

Pls give us ur candid opinion on that.

2braithe:
No reasonable guy will label such lady(except online keyboard warriors lol).
In real life,I admire such lady's courage and always feel flattered.

My advice to ladies is to shoot their shot if they wish.No reasonable guy will see you as cheap.

A reasonable guy would see the green light and act, any guy who couldn't see greenlight not deserved to be wooed .

Out of 10 guys that lady will ask out, I can bet it with you that it would hard to see 2 that would not only label her as farm tool but also treat her like thrash.

Even Lady that took time to agree for some guys, after seeing what they want they change it for her.

Descottes:
KingPhidel I hope you can now see why most ladies don't comment on this section–too many immature romanceland boys waiting to assault them for no reason.

........Immediately I read that girl comment , I said it in my mind that crazy guys would start insulting her


They say women cheap but I can say about 80% guys here are sex starved and frustrated, I found it hard to comment directly on such foolish and complete negative guy, no wonder they open a full thread and gather there to vent their frustration on hourly basis on woman mater.

Graceihotu:
My question is "what do guys really want"
I am not saying I am perfect but I know I am surely the best girlfriend any guy could ever think of yet I am still experiencing heartbreak at 31���


Had issues with my boyfriend since last year April bkos of a particular girl he posted on Facebook addressing her as the mother of his house. I became angry and told him I was only going to continue the relationship if I spoke to the lady in question bkos same lady posted him too calling him her first love.


He told me the lady was his cousin sister and ofcourse I believed him bkos she bares same surname with his cousin brother whoose wedding we attended together, He addressed me as his wife to be throughout the occasion so I had everything to believe in him

Just five days ago I saw his wedding notification on Facebook with that same lady. My heart has never been this broken B4 in my life. I have cried out my soul to the extent that I barely see clearly this days. I tried not to cry but I just can't. I am seriously weeping as I am typing this.

I have tried to encourage myself but I just can't stop crying and WAILING.

Who have I ever offended and what exactly do guys want?

I have searched all through the 5 yrs of relationship and aswear with my life that I never stressed him but I only requested Love not Money from him

My heart is bleeding.
I only sent him his pre-wedding pics and congratulated him then he replied "thanks''

He feels I don't deserve an explanation �����

5 years ago, fucking at will till you reach 31. I don't pity u o but ur parent.

legallyminded:
Which Presidential ambition? Lol, I laugh in swahili. If he defected because he was promised Presidential ticket in APC then he's a fool.

Dnt know if prof is a fool o, but believed his chance to become number 1 citizen in Nigeria is brightest as a PDP candidate.

Instead to be preparing ground for his presidential ambition, he is now fighting how he would not drown empty handed.

What an irony!

davillian:
I'm old enough
How many virtuous women de.....?

How many good men dey?

davillian:
I'm not blaming women
But I doubt if I can leave with one for a very long time..

Though I don't knw ur age but with time you will understand the role of woman in man's life, ..........a man without a woman is empty thou "virtuous" woman ni ooooo.

davillian:
On a serious note
I feel trapped when I'm in a relationship and I easily get tired of women
Sometimes I don't want thier calls , text or visit...
Last last is to get a child take care of the mother and child while I leave alone...

U think you also need kids?

Read what you posted and re-read again, don't you notice you are in problems and trapped from home? What's happening to you is family problems which you should confront spiritually and perhaps assisted by psychologist, instead you are blaming women.

whippersnapper:
he is old enough to be your grand father

That give him power to talk rubbish


Meanwhile, it's not even up to younger brother of my dad ok.


It's not everyone that kid on nairaland.

Rosement:
I met a particular guy when I attended a short course. He was in a relationship with me in his mind, even after he asked me out and I told him we can only be friends. He was bothering me with frequent calls and complaining whenever I did not pick his calls.

I found out after the program ended that he told several people he was in a relationship with him and we are having sexual affairs. A male mate of mine was upset with me because of that but I did not try to prove myself to him. Several people started asking me about the relationship also. When I told him to stop pestering him, he started pestering my brother. He met my brother when my brother visited me during the short course. The guy is a stalker.

He even called my mum and told her he had something very important to discuss with her about her daughter, my mum was about to go and lecture her students that day but she had to wait to listen to his nonsense. I did not introduce him to my mum but he had my mum's number because one day I missed his call and I used my mum's phone to call him back, then I did not know he was a liar.

I unfollowed him on instagram and addressed a warning video to him. He sent me a DM asking me to delete the video and he promised to stop pestering me but he recently followed me back and started liking my pictures.

At last u started liking him back, on the long run you will still end up in his bed. All the shakara will now die permanently.


.........the only way man will not be able to get woman is if she completely avoid him from conversation, this is reason why woman cannot be bestie with guy.

Though if you and the guy not in relationship yet, not bad if you end up as lover , temporary or permanent.

Hisbah21:
time will tell.. and by the end of the day we will see if he really meant it

If he meant it, he wouldn't be in nigeria since 7 years that APC took govt.


I pity people around the foolish man who choose his career in pull down syndrome.

Inferiority will sure send him to early grave.

Kwestionair:
Story. I will remind you of this post in few months

Hope u re following event ,I also believed you have read another thread, where they say presidency keep elrufai under watch?

Mph2022:
Good evening all,

I will need your inputs on this.

I work from home and my girlfriend do too. We have been dating for 2 years and I intend to marry her.

I understand she is not my wife. Lately, we have been spending more time together. Most times, we spend months, weeks together.

Anytime we are together, We both do the chores, she cleans, I mob. She cooks, I go to market to buy foodstuffs I cook too, we both wash the dishes.

But Lately I have noticed that I can't say No to her..It always results in a fight. She sees everything as a red flag.

For instance, we planned to go market together today to get some foodstuffs and I changed my mind that I wasn't going again because I wasn't in a good frame of mind and I was also angry because of some words she used on me prior to that moment. She refused to go to the market alone, instead, she packed her bag and left my house.

Another instance is that I lent her money twice but has not paid. She tried borrowing the third time and I refused, that led to a problem too . N.B she is not broke.

Should I be worried or not?

The kind of relationship you are in, showing no clear leader, with this u re calling for anarchy , as guy perhaps future husband, u must exact ur authority, helping her doing house chore always had reduced u substantially, if you want to help, u do that occasionally.

And for the money, from this very beginning, make sure roles are clearly defined and boundaries are not crossed unnecessarily, if not, if u eventually married, it will definitely become toxic and the marriage may hit the rock.

Vinnie2000:
Honestly, I cant help but Feel that Lionel Messi's somewhat dwindling form in the past 3 years may be because he has A WIFE!

Ronaldo, Wizkid, Burnaboy, Drake, Chris BBrown and lots of Successful Superstars have refused to get Married! Even Alh. Aliko Dangote is said to be single!

Oprah Winfrey, Rihanna have not Married till now. While the dancer Kaffy abandoned marriage because she felt it is an hindrance to her career!

SO, IS MARRIAGE A DISTRACTION IN A PERSON'S PURSUIT OF SUCCESS?

Lets not forget that Married Peeps like Beyonce, Jay z, Mercy Johnson, Yul Edochie, etc are doing well!

Ronaldo, wizkid, davido are all married mr MR.


For them not to get papper back up doesn't stop them to function the same way those who did elaborate weddings as husband and father do.

Infact they do more of husband and father functions far more than many unknown certificate backed husbands.

Bigchristo:
No emotion or tribal sentiments I am not an Igbo man but seeing what Obiano did in his state alone should be enough to give him a pass, no government is 100% free of corruption but we should always look at their score card, or did they tell you Fashiola didn’t steal Lagos state money before leaving office? Till date nobody probe him, this is a political witch hunt for Obiano standing his ground not to allow APC take over his state they’re still pained of losing to APGA they will fight Obiano with everything in their disposal just expect more to come.

Please look at the mirror and check who is inside very well.

I biliv you know the amount they called #50billion!
Very sure he misappropriated more than 1/2
I don't pity you o ur wife and children now or future, they will have father or husband but not good councilor, I won't surprise if ur wife still married to you and still chooses her pastor or any other man as adviser.

PointZerom:
See Tinubu's urinated commodity.

Number 1 has been signified still counting..............

Pierocash:
Nothing like conversion ,he was never a Christian

So it's only a christian that one can convert to islam?


Do you know we have uncountable religions in the world today? Learn how to respect one personal descion,so far it doesn't against laid down rule, also know that religion is personal and know peace.

debbydams:
Dating pool is now a mess right now, a big mess. If you are already married, God has saved you. If you are in a serious relationship with someone who's goin to marry you, you are very luck lucky.

A lot of us are in relationships but single, you think you are dating someone but the person is not even dating you. I think we need to talk about how damaged alot of us are, how materialistic we have become, how sex obsessed most of us are, how selfish?

"I deserve the best" yes you are but while you deserve the best , is your partner getting the best as well?

Our generation is just too selfish.
It is always about 'you'

You want your partner to accept you the way you are but you are a bag of negativity and emotional liability, you are unstable, you are selfish, you don't look inside, you never tell yourself the truth and you want your partner to accept you when you are not even ready to change.

But you want people to change for you but you're not willing to change for them in return. Isn't that selfishness?

No sincerity, No commitment, No honesty, No love, just expectations without reciprocation.

We keep blaming our partners for our mistakes..

There's no day we won't hear about divorce, domestic violence, bf killing gf, gf stabbing bf ,

How long will this continue?

It's tiring

#Lalasticla

Since many of you blindly follow men not because of future purposes but solely what you want to gain from him immediately.

(So many guys not dere visit their girlfriend if they don't have cash in their pockets, is that relationship ma?)

Unlike before in 90's or even early 2000. Then, on the average. Ladies dating mainly for future partner, I still remember that ,the easiest way to get to the pant of woman was to tell her, that I wnt you to be my future wife and not mainly money can spend. Then, when ladies noticed that guy they were going out with married already, they would run as fast as possible away from him, but now, its pure amount you able to spend, married or no married not concerned.
In fact, teenagers prefer married men this day, hope you know the end results of such relationship even before it started?

Now, even 4-5 ladies know one another and that they are dating same guy, they would still not use their head and think logically, if you ask all of the girl individually, each of them would say, I know I am his main girlfriend and that others are just warming bed. With this,why won't you be dating guy and the guy will not date u?

Mooh247:
They can't hold him for Security vote if he has smart lawyers and he is good laundering money... But that Sure-P fund is his nemesis

They can hold him if spend any ,I repeat any money recklessly, including security vote, so far EFCC know what they are doing ooo

Igbo man can also loot, I think big heads say their bloods are clean and that's why they must occupy number one seat by 2023 2039

You can't have serious relationship with a particular man or woman for continuing 3 months at least without knowing him or her, even a blind will notice.

*Many married such men because of pressure and assuming that they would change after marriage.

*Some married because of money, believing she has seen escape from poverty.

*Some because of handsomeness, .......to bragg for her friends.

*And some bcoz of fame........she wants to feel among.


........they noticed the traits well before marriages, it's after marriage when they realized expectations weren't met that they will start to say it's abusive marriage.

davodyguy:
BAT is a gogetter.

Whatever he wants, he goes all out to get it

But as a fellow Yorùbá man like him, I hope he doesn't become our president.
Any of Osinbajo, Fashola, Fayemi, Amaechi, Rochas, I am cool with

Those people you mentioned, let them work with him as cabinet members, after all, its team that wins matches and not individuals