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GrammarNazi1:
Sarcasm?

Lol.

That's what these out of touch people actually want to make us believe.

Imagine saying that money is not important and that it is guys with game who score the most girls!

Lol.

Broke guy x zero money = zero pussssy

Only here is when you are broke-guy you are automatically good in bed and when you have money you are authomaticaly poor in bed, what a foolish way of reasoning!

Since trending is bringing money, every olosho wants to renew their oloshoism with unnecessary trending.

Sweeetheart:
iyabo olosho in ologundudu's voice



even if Baba ijesha is guilty, your group had disciplinarian unit to handle such, why go public to badmouth your colleague on whatever disguise







Awon Omo Belial everywhere

I have never seen doctor or lawyer who went ahead to protest that erring member committed offence, if the erring member has been reported to council, the rest will wait for outcome to be determined by board/ court

But in her own case she and that bastard ibo girl ,who couldn't make it ibo land but in Yoruba, they want to destroy entire industry because of one erring actor.

Kingcalls:
Women for u...they act b4 they think....kids in adult bodies, thats women

Wat about funsho adeolu, who came online gragra to defend useless olosho

No matter how good intention is, the character of occupant nos seat will determine the success of any law in Nigeria

Examples. Those who drafted federal character understand Nigeria peculiarity on tribalism, hence they did it to bring oneness in Nigeria state, but buhari as president now, dnt he destabilise it?

What about inec and neutrality of commissioner ?

destiny4luv:
Chai "HUNGERBAD" I understand ur frustration. Kpele.

Keep on keeping late night with ur good old friends sir, infact make it a duty to spend weekends in their houses one by one sir.

.........few years to come,......
Nairalanders, pls my wife has become something else pls advise me.

Frustrated woman who likes marriage institution but lacks manner to sustain it.

Instead to amend her ways to enjoy relationship she keeps fighting every man up and down

I pray depression won't kill u at last, rich men are patronising you with big money today because of what yoruba film industry made you of, which you want to pull down at all cost.

destiny4luv:
Who offend u, u just dey provoke 4 where provocation nor dey. So I am automatically a prisoner because am married. Hanging out with my friends late once in a while don't make me an irresponsible husband or father. Gush! how do some people reason. Na comment like this dey make some guys dey fear to marry thinking marriage is a cage meanwhile is not.

Ur anger, take it to ur wife that is sniffing life out of u for hanging out with whoever you want.

I biliv ur so called friends are happy when disagreement came in ur house as a result of olosho you carry to sleep with but claiming u hang out with friends

SATANICALLY:
How Yoruba Woman In Military Uniform Led Deadly Invasion Of Sunday Igboho's House, Took Along Cats — Occupant | Sahara Reporters.

The woman spoke loudly in Yoruba as she commanded others to take along with them the cats in the compound.



https://saharareporters.com/2021/07/01/how-yoruba-woman-military-uniform-led-deadly-invasion-sunday-igbohos-house-took-along

How many Yoruba that support igboho o, we are patiently waiting for power to return to Yoruba in 2023, so less than 2years out of 8 years can kill us.

udoji2021:
I have been thinking about this lately and decide to share it here. Don't get me fellas, I'm a Christian and believe in God and his son Jesus Christ

BUT

It is believe that God created the world and knows what happened before, what is happening presently and what will happen later till the end of time. This brings me question on why he allowed Satan to decieve man, why was he also angry since He knew beforehand of what will happen? Then the consequent punishment, was it really justified?

The most confusing part to me now is life after death. I personally believe that there is heaven and hell right from my childhood days until one guy (Jehovah witness) told me that there is nothing like hell, he went on that even heaven is for a specific number of choose people and not for everyone, above all, he said that when one dies, your own is finished and you are not gonna go anywhere. Simply put, your body and spirit will die.

I nearly insulted him for spewing such rubbish but many years after, I'm beginning to think think twice about this issue.
Now, imagine suffering in this life for all the days of your life only to meet death (body and spirit),

My question is;

1) why not just enjoy your life even if it means doing bad things to enjoy life?
If you can't enjoy life, why not kill yourself and rest to avoid the sufferings?

2) Even if there is life after death, what if there is no suffering cos God may decide to give everyone peace after death.

3) Those that didn't hear anything about God, what is their fate?

4) which of the scriptures is to be trusted?

May God forgive my ignorance if what I just wrote is bad and punishable.

One thing I know is that nobody fully understood existence of God, but we are just trying our best and to be on the side of God. God, Devil and Death are mystries in which the more you try to know more about them the more you get off the road.

Both the Bible and Quran that are major scriptures and available for me are not explained detailed about God, hence they are just a confused books most especially if you place science besides them.

.....how can one explains a father who tested his one year old kid with JAMB questions and when he failed, the father said he must suffer for not passing exam he himself know he won't be able to pass even before the son came for the exam for eternity , yet we say such father is a loving father.

Perhaps scriptures do not give detail about God.

Little wonder religions leaders in the past termed religion as a dogma.
Even till today if one tries to ask shrouded questions about God people will result to attacking and will not give sactrifactory and convincing answers

Nevertheless, whenever I see certain individuals who have gifts of knowing past and future, I will quickly come back to my senses that indeed there is a supernatural being somewhere.

Tranquillity360:
I don't know why yoruba muslims are always aggressive and hateful.


We yoruba muslims need to do something about this,i don't know if is because we are 20% christians,2% traditionalist and 78% muslims.

It was in ur genetic make up, very unfortunate you can change, the first man in which ur religion came from.... Ismael, has been prophesized to be attacking (Bowman) and people and will attack him (children)as well

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Juliearth:
I think since you see me as someone way older than you are, it is possible that I am old enough to be your mother. Since you have the nerve to call someone old enough to be your mother a kid, it means I cannot school or try to change you via this platform. I cannot achieve what your parents, religious leaders and academic teachers could not impart in you all these years at a go

I guess u re there the day I was born, for ur information you can't never old enof to be in my age bracket.
I just called you old cos u still reason better than many urchins here on nairaland.

Going back to real issue, change me? How? What a self adulation ! Pls stop raising shoulder .


U can only give what u have , with ur comment u have nothing upstair.

A lady who advices an engaged lady to tell her fiance that she wants to visit her ex bcoz of lonneless. What foolish advise from a retarded 'fish brain' clown! A clown who think only with hole .

In life everybody want to associate with person who will add value to his life nah, even guys worship another guy who is loaded

Lecturer respects students with good money nah

Hunter being hunted ?

When will you stop womanizing?

I even evedropped that ur head game is 2nd to none, that you were the reason davido dump chi codedlly.

Galaxybar:
It’s living and not leaving, you ignorant presumptuous dummy.

I didn’t see any such question when I quoted you. But since you asked, I do not have the right to approve the terms of my brother or son or daughter’s relationship as long as it’s not criminal. Their rules of engagement is really none of my business. It’s left for them to set the tone of their relationship[b][/b] and figure out what works for them. Boundaries...dummy.

Now dummy, If you had asked if I’d permit my fiancé to make visits to his ex out of boredom, I’d probably say yes and no depending on various factors. Yes if it’s an ex that they’ve both come to terms with their relationship being platonic and have been good friends for years. And no, if she has shown signs of or expressed that she still likes him. It’s not even something that will come up for discourse because he’s aware enough to avoid that situation. I’m grateful I’m not surrounded by damaged men without self control like yourself. You know, people like you who have been poorly conditioned to view every relationship with the opposite sex as an avenue to scratch their smelly itch. Be better for the sake of your health.

It’s almost 8am. I’ve got to take my morning walk. I’m done trying to light up your brain.

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THEIR RULES OF ' ENGANGMENTS' "ARE" REALLY NONE OF MY BUSINESS, IT'S LEFT FOR THEM TO SET THE TONES* OF THEIR (RELATIONSHIPS).

I stopped there because your write up is full of errors, not obeying concord in English language. Take note of signs in the corrected version.

Going back to the issue, no wonder guys and exes are passing you from one hand to another, when you enter menopause you will understand how relationship work.

Bye.

Galaxybar:
I’m probably younger than you so keep the kid in there. It’s not my fault that all the female figures that have shaped your life were easy lays for any man who snapped their fingers. Your painful life experiences shouldn’t be projected on others.

If u re not leaving a frustrated life, you won't give foolish advise, since u re in such situation?

You refused to ans question I asked u

And 2nd questn, will u approve ur brother or son fiancee to visit exes cos of loneliness ?

Juliearth:
Honestly, you shouldn't have brought this here because some of the "kids" here would give you wrong advise. I am not going to say this because I am a woman, so consider this an objective approach. Was that her first time visiting this ex? Asides this issue has she been showing any bad character? How did her fiance find out? Has he been tailing her? Does he trust her?


I think its possible that she was truly bored, reason why she visited that ex. Some people break up and still maintain the chord of friendship and Okafor's law is an exaggerated patriarchal happenstance. My grouse with her is , she should have informed her fiance before making such a move, but is that a good enough reason to break off an engagement?

What I think he should do is to get the marriage plans on, but in slow motion so they can get to settle this difference and further study themselves.

I wish them all the best!

Inform her fiance that she bored and it's her ex that can wipe out her boredom?

Aunty you are old but reason like kid clown.

You ask urself out of hundreds of females in neighbourhood it's only ex that she can visit to whirl away time?

In the church or mosque she attend among her colegues or co tenant /neighbour no single female to make friend and visit?

If she is ur brother fiancee u will approve it to visit her ex?

You girls should endeavour to reason like adult for once at least to shave all those who tag women with fish brain

Godbless3:
So his fiancee visit to her ex-boyfriend house and refuse to change number is ok to you?
I always tell my gf, if you're married, don't come to my place because e sure say we go fvck.
Nah so one girl was about to wed and a day to her wedding, she came to my guy who is her ex to fvck last time and thats how my guy run leave house and the girl went home in the morning.
Some Girls gat no brain

You see some girls are devil incarnate and many of them just marry because of tag....Mrs

Little wonder marriages are falling like pack of cards on hourly basis

Edusouls:
So he should go on and marry ashawo without senses, at 33 to 35 God gave her a second chance to marry at the last minute, still her stupidity and wayward behaviour that kept her single and almost approaching menopause still haunts her, no problems make she go marry her ex boyfriend nahh, tufiakwa ufodu umunwayi Ndi nzuzu..

This scenario is real o, I know a lady who extra struggled before she finally got married at 39, could you imagine my friend show me his chart with her, how she was planing to visit him in another state and in which she will spend a night with him.

For a lady who Gold gave a rare golden opportunity privilege.

bukatyne:
The hangout might be impromptu although he should have informed her when it can up.

My issue is peeps thinking it is wrong for a married person to hang out or they have to give up fun and enjoyment because they are married (viewing it like a cage).

That's why they snap at every little thing.

All work and no play makes jack a dull boy.

Recreation is very very important.

Which kind of idiotic impromptu hangout with old friends will make a married man of 11 years hang out till 12 am?

You guy dnt understand responsibility of being a father and husband that's why u re spitting trash.

destiny4luv:
Hmmm... Madam or Bros I don't know ur sex, but if u read some of my reply u will see where I said I brought home babique and pepper soup and that was what we ate after we resolved our differences and made sweet love before going to bed. Cheers.

Oga I pray you won't destroy ur beautiful marriage and come to nairaland to blame naija women as usual.

U see when you are in a company of guys, you will meet whole lot men, many are not in good marriages, hence they talk trash of their wives or look down on you that appreciate ur woman, if you don't careful you too you join their league and before you know, marriage will start experience strain and affect kids.

In as much I'm not against hanging out with friends, you should try ur best not to satisfy ur friends to inconvinent ur marriage , if anything happens friends will disappear like thing air.

Let me tell u my experience , I have a friend who has problem in marriage , he forcibly married the wife without consent of wife's parent , now my friend is contemplating of leaving her becos his bussness is stagnant and he attributed it to his wife.

We normally hang out virtual everyday , when its 7 or 7:30pm, if I say I'm going home he will be making jest of me that i fear my wife and that my wife is monitoring me too much, I have tried to convince him that the habit of not keeping late night was embeded in me as a result of my upbringing and not neccessarly wife but unto no avail.
Oga, if I shift ground and start keeping late night like him, is it not foolishness on my part? For him, his marriage is in crises while mine is peaceful. If I follow him, and marriage start having problem like his, who will I blame?

olabrinks:
its not like the man comes back home every night at 11pm for goodness sake it’s a one off thing occasionally. Let that man have his life, my husband comes back at 3am sef sometimes, I don’t give a damn I want the man to live his life and I live mine. I don’t want to feel like I’m in a cage all because of one marriage, what is it sef? Are married couples supposed to be tied with rope to always be together? Na wa oh.

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I biliv you fully understood the phrase
'responsible man', you and ur husband are leaving fully irresponsible lifestyle in marriage.
Think of it, husband that comes up 3am, you should know he is susceptible to danger which is prevalent at night and if anything happens to him, I think u know it will bounce on u squarely , though you affirmed in ur write ups that you too want to leave ur life as it pleases you, that is, a lot of alternatives to hubby.

My dear friend, immediately you get married, you cannot leave ur life as you like again, why? You are now accountable to, either husband or wife and kids.

NB. Do not forget the lifestyle of ur hubby and probably you, might affect children negatively or positively in the long run o and dnt forget also that ur peace of mind in old age is also determined by success of ur children by way of upbringing too.

Meanwhile, action op' wife did was 100% correct.

LilMissFavvy:
I trust the bitter egoistic males we have here. They will help you destroy that relationship. Your fiancee visited her ex, and that's enough reason to cancel wedding. Her life will not end, life goes on. You simply want to give her shame cuz you know she is eager to settle cuz she's a mature lady, but watch and see, she will still see another man to marry, just watch out. I wouldn't be surprised if you end up still picking a worse woman. I wouldn't be surprised as well if you are cheating on her over there, yet condemned her like you are better.

If Op happened to be ur blood brother now, ur narrative will change completely. Meanwhile,the question I want you to ask urself, ex that, engaged lady chooses to take away her boredom!
Dnt you think that decision is too heavy and pregnant?

I always happy to read posts like this, even if aren't real, always give me opportunity to read minds, to know how wise, foolish, wicked, myopic some people are.

djon78:
Exactly
There are many good men and women out there
Well behaved
Well brought up

That you have been jamming the wrong ones doesn't mean that the good ones doesn't exist or are not out there


From my personal experience
One good partner that comes into your life in comparison to bad ones that you had before is like the difference between day and night

It's incomparable
The experience is beyond this world

And for you to get a good partner
You yourself must be good yourself
Because infinite intelligence
Can never allow you come near a good partner
You will mess there lives up
So you get exactly whom you are

But if you want a good partner
Be good yourself
Remove a lot of bad attitudes from your life
And voila
The right partner appears

Like some claim
They only face there life
So they end up with only selfish and self centered people's around them

How can you not give your woman
Some really good money
Sometimes lavish on her
And see whether you will not experience
The best care in the world
And even her good prayers and wish for you
You will even get so much more
In addition of genuine concern for you

Anyone that wants good
Should be good

You said it all, an admolision from adult who understands reality of ilfe and not those that are still dreaming and indulging in self consolation.

ictjobber:
i boogied down with all my platonic female friends back then in school. Nysc too. Platonic na scam

How?

Thank God for Hope and Zee's confessions, who said nothing but pure truths, deducing from what they said, it's clear that guy and girl who are not blood related cannot be best of friendd, though they can be acquittance or casual friends but platonic? (bestie) it's completely lie.

I see it as if one or two of them are hiding under one finger.

One will be enjoying while the 2nd will be hurt.

This is aside from angles of boyfriend to the lady and girlfriend to boy in platonic relationship.

Ur brother is not from Nigeria yet he wants to put it down.

Your brother who is a fugitive, he didn't stay in one place he chooses to be sleeping with different women all over the world.

Germi9:
The Igbos are snitches themselves ,a bounty was placed on Tom Polo,he was in the creeks and nothing happened

Tompolo remains quiet and went underground , just like Dizeani and Kuku

If they have been making noises and causing problem, Tompolo might have been arrested .

I think u read it where it mentioned they intensified effort since March because of unrest in East and killing of policeman

If Kanu was arrested outside UK indeed, he is a big fool.in fact a foolish freedom fighter, Since he has full protections of UK, he shouldnt by a slightest error move outside UK through out the duration of buhari govt.

I think he is greedy man, who do all negotiations in which he supposed to send surbordinates to do most especially outside UK territory.

Freestainworld:
Drug abuse is the cause of their deaths, let's face the fact, if they don't abstain from hard drugs and too much alcoholic consumption, more of his crew will still fall down.

Why olorioko no die then, abi obo no dey drink,drug and womanize?


In another angle, baba might be using them to renew his glory

O fi won biri

Yoruba says if ur spoon is not long dnt eat with devil.