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BUSHYANUS:
I visited my uncle last week but I am not happy. His husband is fond of touch my buttox when my uncle is not around.

Please advise

Ur uncle husband?

Is ur Uncle gay?

I dnt even have a single pity on how buhari is dealing decisively with south, we are oportuned to be in power for more years in our latest democracy, the two men that were there, busy chasing shadow.
Obasanjo was craving for unity where there is none and Jonathan doing like ogogoro man.
They forgot that they were dealing with region who only remember and still be with them only because of their oil money.

ImaIma1:
Someone I know was a bit like you. She used to get tired of people easily. If you visit her today, tomorrow, she's already tired.

We asked her how she would cope with a husband. That maybe she would marry a man that would just be visiting her. Behold, she married a sailor. He's usually away for 6months at a stretch

What a marriage! Married but single.

klbakare:
use most women instead. My own woman does not melt on sighting celebrities.

Ok ok, thànk God u observe that many women and women that do that are in higher percentage.

etokhana:
...Declares Niger Delta have had enough of colonial oppression

* demands reversal or block IOCs from region



https://www.sunnewsonline.com/breaking-passed-pib-satanic-unjust-embarrassing-clark/

Weep not, for ur own Jonathan was there, and he did nothing.

If they wanted to use her as a meat to welcome visitor (reekado), I biliv she wont think twice before grabing the offer, not mind if she is in serious relationship, even University and adult ladies will do the same thing,......women melt when they sight famous (celebrities)
guys

Galacious1:
no kind these people. Always stake responsibly. Betting should be fun not job.

When one of my friend introduced newly, l want him not to stake more than 200, no matter how sure but he kept deaf ear, staking 7k-10k per day

When bet9ja wanted to finish him, he quickly came back to his shell, he lost nothing less than 120k for period of 2 months and won less than 40k

If you go throu the website of bet9ja, it was written clearly that dnt stake amount you know you can loose, but many of you want to become overnite milionare

It's also written clearly when you know it has has become addition, try to stop for a while.

You have to know it in that any form of business that bring more than 30% returns, watch out and be more careful, such business is likely to bring 0%

mmm, betting, forex, 419 stuff of high return

Are prone to bring zero profit if not suicidal

KristaPretty:
Never have I been pressured into getting married

Seen friends that are getting married is enough to be pressurised

Even me a guy could feel pressure then , how much more ladies (not girl) go to university or poly and see and how final year female students are giving birth / get married.

JovialJune:
You don't push people into marriage, it's a very very bad idea, everyone will meet their partner at the right time and at their own pace.

Yes ma.

It's not only in marriage but every good thing in life, pray against spirit of discouragement in moving forward

JovialJune:
You sound daft, what do you mean by " you go hear am"? Single ladies will die or what?

Before you yap spittle about, note that marriage doesn't define happiness, know this and have sense.

But why insult, it sounds like good advise for nah.
Atimes we need someone to push us before we start moving

Sparkle777:
The only way I will not see it as an insult is when the adviser gives the advisee at least 2million naira. That is for the menfolk. But it will be quite unfair if said to a lady knowing that she can't propose to herself. But if can get me my dream man, who am I to say no.

And when your dream man refuses to become reality? ? I guess you will mould one urself
At least a potter can do whatever she likes with clay!

KristaPretty:
If anyone tells me to go and marry like other ladies, I will tell them to go and die as their mates too.

Una goodnight

But it would be piling more pressure on you

Calibrator:
Don't know about you all but let me share a bit of street reality with you.
I am free this morning.

Presently around my workplace (self employed), there is one particular well structured early 20s girl who is in FWB agreement with someone I Iook up to as a big street broda, note that the agreement between them requires him to give her feeding allowance everyday regardless of what else he gives her if they go out for knacks, sometimes if the guy is not around, he will tell her to come and collect money from me, then reimburse me later.
Normal guys stuff, the guy has already cleared me on happenings between him and her but the girl doesn't know that I know.
After like the third time of the guy sending her to my side, I noticed she has started developing a soft spot for me, after collecting money, she will find a reason to hang around and try to strlke conversations with me. Knowing about happenings, I respected myself and try keeping my distance then resorted to telling the guy not to send the girl to my side again.
He stopped telling her to come and collect anything from me, after that she now started coming to my workplace for no reason other than to see me.

So one day, I teased her to explain the reason she is always coming to collect money from the guy, Sons of Adam, she said she is collecting it for her elder sister who is dating the guy. I didn't say anything. Just kept quiet.
This girl also have the same arrangement with one other guy who also happened to be my acquaintance but my street bro doesn't know.
She is collecting money from two guys I be more)

Long story short, I can't touch her out of respect for the guy, though the guy said that since she is the one pushing herself on me, I shouldn't spare her on his account.
She is always offering me her body and the only hole I am yet to finger in her body is her eye socket and I have never given her one kobo.

She and the guy are presently not on speaking terms because he didn't give her money when she wanted to travel last month, same crime I should be guilty of but she can't hold me to account because my money was never on offer.




You are free to draw whatever conclusions you.
Money or Game.

As long as you are not selling yourself short.
Carry go!

@ bolded

She fell playing you basically the way she did for other 2 guys and it's purely for monetary gain, she is giving her body free for you now, with hope that when you eventually knack, you will start vomit all fingering you did before

Infact it's this 20 yrs old girl that's playing all of you (street niggards) in this scenario.

hbemigho:
Laurence and I were at a shop close to the house trying to get one or two things when one lady I knew only in passing asked if Laurence is my son and I said yes.

Shey I for just buy wetin carry me come and go back to my house?

I now added, he is my first son actually.

Lady was like wow, you mean you have another son? Like this boy don senior person already?

Pride nor gree me just say yes and go my way. I was like he has two siblings following him already.

This lady legit shouted Obara Jesus!!!!!!

Everybody just start to turn look me, like make we even see the guy wey dey talk sef �

Omo!

One old mama, that was selling pap for the store owner now said, when your age still dey mama house you don born children full everywhere.

To be honest, I didn't know whether to laugh or to vex, because I nor understand the mama.

But whatever she meant, clearly, the mama was deceived by my babyface.

That was how one Oga that was newly posted to our department asked if I was a Youth Corper.

I just said "No sir" and jejely walked to my office.

Me, a whole Registered Engineer and Head of Department oh.

Abeg, I don't want to do baby face again.

Abeg where dem dey sell old man face?

Meanwhile, do you have babyface? What's it like for you?

I think u suld be happy for ur statute and baby face

You might not be getting respect as you want now, but you will enjoy your body maximally at old age.

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Juliearth:
Your last paragraph is a further proof that I cannot help you. Move along, you ill-mannered boy.

I patiently waited for you to read ur comments on new thread

Is it wrong for married lady to cook for her ex in his house?

I'm still waiting for you to come and give ur wise opinion as usual, at least if the married wife tells her husband that she wants to cook for her ex no problem.

Wazzaowner:
Please guy I am at a crossroads, my fiancée loves clubbing and night parties a lot, is it right to marry a girl like that?

FYI, she does not drink or smoke, she just loves the nightlife.

Go ahead nah, at least whenever she is coming from night club, you will wait beside ur gate and when you hear horn you can open gate for whoever that's his turn to drop her that nite

Thank God ur scripture says God loves a cheerful giver, modernisation also gives credence to such type of cooperative and blissful marriage.

Zabiboy:
I dont want to join this debate because you all are saying the same thing..
Joker09 is saying because of the situation of the country, most naija girls wont reason you if you no get money which is true
Now, ubunja is saying if you dont want to spend, go for those who have chosen you.
So in summary, naija men spend because they want to smash anything and everything instead of focusing on themselves and dealing with only those giving them greenlight or those who have "chosen" them..
Meaning if you meet a naija girl and she bill you, leave am..allow who wan spend to dey spend.. Just keep working on yourself and you'll not need to spend on the money hungry girls if you only deal with those that "chose" you..
The argument suppose don end ..
Too much pvssy talk is annoying tbh..

@ bolded!

If a lady goes for a guy that she chooses, why such guy playing game again? Since she falls for him already.
Is it not needles for such guy to be playing game or whatever!
Infact it seems you guys are completely confused with situation Buhari subjected you into.

I doubt if you guys dated up to 2 regular girls before.

Ashewo and olosho won't let you understand logic of women .

kinggSamuel:
I have been asking. Why do girls love good boys but wont date them prefering to date bad boys. meaning rebels, uncouth, boys and why do boys love bad girls that is girls who are loud both in dressing and character but wont date them prefering good girls.

When and where did u do ur statistics to proof girls mostly go for bad boy?

Abba114:
im not a troll i was once falsely accused of rape but i still do not hate girls but will never trust them in my life again. you guys you problem is that when you say a thing you just want us to agree with u anyhow. speaking of getting laid without money in NIGERIA is nthing that i will not believe for now the girls are blinded by poverty to the extent that they cant even see ur game if you dont have money. i believe girls do like sex and they give it free to some broke guys but those broke guys that get it for free are not satisfied because the girls remember them only when they are Hot do u expect a girl that is been recievng sex invitation from many guys that will pay her to always feel Hot? IN NIGERIA AS A GUY IF U WANNA GET SEX REGURLARLY U MUST GET MONEYYYYYYYY

They don't know that an average girl with just 50% beauty has at least 15 males,(boys, guys and men) that are on her neck for sex, out of 15 males that are disturbing her, at least 12 are luring her with money and goodies to bed her.

It's only a mad girl will leave all those goodies and run after frustrated game plan.

NB. If anyone wants to confirm or argue, he should endevour to check his sister's Facebook account first and check her charts for last 3 months alone.

Still looking for the day people will understand that what I like is different from what you like, and that is why we have more problems than advanced world , immediately someone is not doing what we like we start attacking and persecuting .

The girl in question has not committed a single offence at least for now, yet people on nairaland want to have earth attack on issue which they complete not concern.

CharisEleos:
Parents of nowadays don't even care to know their children

I remember growing up, my elder sisters then will tell my mum who their friends were, the men toasting them. The one they like and dislike. And my mum will always advise them accordingly.

We were the smallys, so we just sat and listened to them, also picking the advice my mum dished out to them.

I also remember, then my mum would question them if they came home with goodies like pizza or tasty fiesta then and until they explained to the letter, no body will eat it. But some parents will see their children with big phones, cars that they know the child can't afford, they'll keep mute. How will the child not climb to worst levels?

Forget this generation. Though there are still a few good ones but majority are the cause of the communication gap between them and their children. No body cares these days.

Is it the generation that mother will tell her daughter who is yet to work ,to go out and get money where are peers are getting it.

Where father will be driving exotic car that his child gives him, a child who he still in sch without doing any known work aside schooling!

We are in generation where, when children enter University or starting having sex, parents won't be able to chastise him or her again.

Nonexistent1:
Your night call disturbs her dick session. They are all oloshos born again or born twice ones included. If you doubt me, ask her if she is a virgin and see her tell you the usual story of how she was raped and got disvirgined in the process.

In ur skull everything revolves round sex.

Op did not tell you they are dating, and if they are not dating why would he be disturbing her her at night for calls

You don't think that op might be chocking her with useless attention but jump to nail her for sex

ceede2:
Don't expect anything from that gender, if care is not taking the so call house,car, job even yourself belong to 'em. If you think everything you have is yours, pls n pls maintain you lane.

Won't you have heart attack with issue pertaining to female gender now?

Will you be able to leave happily when it's time to get married?

Don't you think you have to upgrade ur self and level in other to leave pleasant life that will make women be with you.

Something which is necesity even if it's necessary evil, you must adjust ur ways to have it.
one can't fight one creator I win oo

Calmness, Persevearance and Enduarance to handle issue pertain to marriage. (husband, kids and 3rd party)

Job in other not to be too dependent on husband's money.

Farms that ur kinsmen(herders) are properly protected against cow and in which they are supply with organic manual, noooooooo wonder prices of food are going down on hourly basis .

tamdun:
I just dey pity the next president after Buhari, the problem will be too much for him to manage

Even vast majority of elite northerners have tired about lifeless regime

The only cabal and almajiri who don't know right hand from left but have totally brainwashed with religion that are still with him

NgHotGirls:
Hi everyone,

I have a very serious family problem, my parents decided to take a female relative of ours from our home town to come live with us in Port Harcourt, due to the fact that she couldn't continue with her education and had to learn a skill.

This lady was enrolled in one of these computer centers to at least be a computer literate since non of my family members had the time to teach her and she wanted to learn.

Every morning she goes on an errand for my mom before moving along to learn in the computer center, not knowing she was dating and sleeping with a guy.

My mom never thought she would ever behave in such a stupid way, I mean coming to an unknown place for the first time and already dating a guy within a short period was something my mom never expected.

She got pregnant a month, she told no one and waited till we all travelled back home to tell her mother. All of a sudden we started hearing rumors of how the girl we brought back home got pregnant and my mom was to blame for it.

This girls mother took out the all the blame on my mom and not her daughter, this woman said that my mother neglected her daughter to fall prey to men in the city but took care of me because am her own child, till today my mom and the ladies mother are not speaking to each other.

For Christs sake this lady is 26 years old and 4 years away from clocking 30, am younger than the lady and due to my introvert nature i tend to stay indoors and out of trouble not even because of my mom, if I wanted to become wild i would have, a long time ago.

So pls is my mom truly at fault here?

Why family trading blames for 26 yrs who got pregnant? She should be told to move to her husband house, I think it will relief you of burden, both her mother and ur own mother.

Rozcol:
Tell them please, where will a broke man have the energy to be good in bed when he can rarely afford a balanced diet,ubunja is busy giving hope to them instead of encouraging them to work hard.I understand its not easy for Nigerian men but if a man is still in the broke stage,he should be focused and not waste his energy on sex.

Infact if u dnt have money, every plan, manipulation game, even good decision you might have would disappear from brain .


I carried one girl to hotel today ,when we about to sex I see ukwu that too big not attracted to me, I discharge her and called for another smalie that I latter bang, these are not olosho o, but regular girls that you need to bang and give change. If I'm broke which logic, game or manipulation I wanted to perform to call different girl with space of 30minutes .

But why the pic of kidnapper not snapped and posted but only the boy, if it's caught according to the post?


I think the boy had domestic accident but changed by bloggers to gain attention and traffics

Some guys will be doing all stuff of werld and thinking he is big boy not knowing he is moving faster to his grave

Only you will drink the strongest wine, smoke cannabis , sniff hard drug and do foursome,

Humans are dying every second , but the owner of the body can make it faster

GrammarNazi1:
Only here.

The appalling line of reasoning is shocking.

They say one thing online and do opposite in real life.

They are the type who will be begging girl on their knee to see pant.

Infact any girl that guy is fuckkking and doesnt demand money from him, the guy should look back and run as fast as possible for his dear life........An admonition from the wise.