₦airaland Forum

BrazilAirport:
See op you made salient points. like our elders use to say," to describe a storm,you must have been caught in the middle.

Back in 2015, I also worked as a bar attendant in a guest house and the things I saw was just so appalling. Those kind of jobs will never make you want to settle down or ever trust a woman.

You'll see married women and men smuggle ecah other in on bike to cum n fvck. The husband will probably be at work and calling the woman to inquire where she is.

Atimes you see very young beautiful girls being brought to have fun with. You see alot of things. These stuff nonetheless are end result of poverty and terrible economy situations. Being hungry with no one to call on will make a woman use the last option which is sex for money.

Sometimes naa to just look away, do your job and try to sleep at night without thinking too much about what you have seen

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Jbleenk:
The withdrawal could be an afterthought, don’t u think? She withdrew the money to pay her school fees according to her. She need a good lawyer to prove her case. She’s just a victim of circumstance. We’ve all been there done that. Nobody holy pass.

Befii:
Somehow, d murder maynot have bin intentional. Think about this - a 21 years old undergraduate staying with her dad and other family members wouln't jus murder a 49yrs old billonaire jst like dat. M beginning to see some truth in her story. Sometin went wrong. She isn't mad enough to come up with such plan, imagine where d whole tin took place.
She was aware, people knew they where dating & they had actually spent time together @ public joints. So m tinking, she wouldn't reason coverin up d murder was gona b easy. Another point to prove her innocency, d poor girl was easily apprehended by d police. If she had planned it, dnt u tink she could hv manage to cover up & stay off police radar. My people, sometin went wrong. Somehw someone took excess advantage & exploited her young age as he was a billonaire. Cnt u see d injustice. He did drugs & has excess money, it possible he abused d poor girl.

chineloSA:
Body counts apply to females only

Hypocrisy. Men sleep around and do fivesomes and even ga.ysomes and once they are done with their immorality they turn around and want vir.gins. Haba

Some women as we speak are married to bisexual rubbish and some husbands are continuing with their philandering ways gallivanting all over just like the deceased until death deletes them.

I hate gender hypocrisy..

chineloSA:
Which innocent man Where do you find them??

Olaideolayemi:
Y do you start your paragraph with good words and ends with misery Dogma

Lukgaf:
https://islamqa.info/en/answers/361761/what-is-the-ruling-on-saying-jesus-when-one-is-astonished-or-amazed-or-startled-as-the-christians-do

Bellotelli:
whether you teach from now till thy kingdom come, the disbelievers will not change... these are the people that Allah has permanently cursed.

But we'll keep praying for their repentance, In Shaa Allah.

PrincewithGod:
Stop joking with the Word of God, He is not your mate.

kaziblake:
Please don’t use CHIDINMA to judge other girls in unilag.

Arsenate:
Yep, her likes eventually make the lives of innocent men miserable (young men currently hustling, while they hop from one dick to another). They'll more likely abandon their marriages without giving a damn about everyone, not even their kids, when they inevitably get tired. Trust them to blame everything on their men and trust the bias society to believe them.

fertilewomb:
She is not saying the entire truth. There's no possible way she could have killed that man without him sleeping. Lies

Damidave1124:
Just learn something no matter what you study in school. Degree alone may likely not put food on your table these days. It's what you can offer that matters most in this Era of ours

Kingcalls:
Women are the most unappreciative creation on earth... this is the same man that sponsored the movies that brought her to limelight...took care of her kid from another man and gave her the celeb lifestyle... but as money come de hard for the man ,she started 4kin other men... even if u wanna leave , always appreciate what he did for u ...thats the difference between a man and woman... men naturally remember those that were there for them when no one was there...but women forget u once they see what they want coming from someone else... thats y investing in men will always b a better deal than investing in women .... women are tooooo selfish and unappreciative

AuroraB:
Why are you not dragging the father of your daughter, Mercy
You be making this man speak grammar isonu

Divinehealer:
Naija men can be very toxic when you stop being a yes sir, yes sir woman to their every whim. Very evil souls most of them.

Onyi22:
Oh God my father, help my marriage.
My future Marriage will not fail, Amen

Funkybabee:
They exonnorated her because they lacked insight to her explanation/questions or let me say unbeliever playing religion victims card

In her post she did not condemn any church but they twist it because most people on Nairaland commenting on this post must be Igbo who are Catholic or unbeliever that feel intimated.

And she has every right to consider her future and career in any of her decision she will make from now on

So what are you justifying, saying all those people there exonnorated her are correct or she did not have a right to make her future decision