₦airaland Forum

Darkseid:
I don't have problem with a girl coming with her friend if it's the first time we're meeting; you know this country is filled with crazy people and I understand that she might be having security concerns but that her friend will never sit in the same table as me, she doesn't even to greet me.
Make the friend just go dey her side for one corner, anything apart from this, I go just excuse them, collect another table, enjoy myself alone and go home.

under ideal situation, if she is bringing the friend for safety, she must tell the guy that she is bringing her friend o, not only to prepare for financial implications, but also to avoid unnecessary inconvenience

this will achieve not during tenure of bubu and his rubber stamp for emirate

AnonPoet:
https://www.mediaorchid.com.ng/2021/05/hsd-policy-round-table-tweet-meet-with.html

the same way you completely hijacked state house of assembly during ur reign and turned it to extension of executive arm of government.


then you thought you are doing the best for ur state the same way bubu think the best thing for Nigeria now is to make you guy rubber stamp

if Buhari can remove Malami, Garba Sheu and replace them with diatribe persons, this country will withness a little bit of peace.

but can bubu reason towards that direction?

When a leader surrounded himself with only people from his own clan in multiethnic and multicultural nation, this type of anachy is bound to happen.

Casalindal:
You don’t have to pity my husband uncle... he is more enlightened and bright, Chanel that pity on yourself

not only the poor man but all those who will imbibe ur dangerous opinion and take it to thier marriage

Tugee:
Let me advise you as a married man myself, try not to make it a big issue and trust your partner more. It takes time for women to settle into their marriage both mentally and emotionally especially if you guys didn't date long enough. Most of ladies are prepared for wedding and completely unprepared for marriage and will still cling to their previous attachments such as Friends, Mother, Sisters, Cousins, Family, etc (although 'Male Bestie' is sort of strange). You will need to invest time, resources and energy into your marriage especially in these early stages to gain her absolute trust until she feels comfortable enough to detach from them. It may take a while, say two to three years but trust me when you get to that stage, you'll be cruising in your marriage like it's a bonanza. There's nothing better emotionally than having a loyal partner, no amount of money can buy you that and the sad reality is that it doesn't come automatically with the marriage certificate, it takes a conscious effort and God's Grace.

I'm a happily married guy myself and I have absolute PEACE. Happy Married Life Brother

as a married man, who is also an adult, I partially disagree with you, though I agree when it comes to family or perhaps females friends but for even ordinary male casual friend it's a no go area, not to talk of male bestie.

a guy who is ready to marry a lady ought to have cut ties of any bestie her woman has even before introduction, we are talking of married woman in this scenario sir.

how will you feel, you and ur legally married wife are at home and she is making excessive calls with bestie, (giving him attention right under nose) asking him to give her advice, when ur brain as husband is still intact?

Casalindal:
Reading through comments I can’t help it but laugh at some people poor stage of mind.... hello Op you don’t have to worry about your wife and her bestie, most girls keep gays guys mostly as bestie and trust they feel more safe having them around. I have a male bestie and he is one of the best thing that have ever happen to me. Your wife bestie probably have shared deepest things and darkest moments together, don’t take that away from her please it will hurt her badly.

I am married and my best friend is a guy and I love him so much you don’t want to even imagine. The difference with me is I have learnt to balance both. I feel you should help your wife learn how to balance both relationships and trust me gay bestie are the best ever.....

Don’t allow people here who are so backward and who live in carve pollute your mind.. Kim has a male bestie and you never see him come in between her marriage?? Please enjoy your marriage and take away this worries there are not needed at all.

I did not pity you o, but the guy you called ur husband

Sheggy13:
There is nothing nonsensical about this write up. Stop picking up issues where there are none. This piece by Aketi is meant to be a rebuttal to Garba Shehu and his Fulani co-conspirators who are supposedly learned and should easily grasp whatever imagined complexity you perceive in this piece. It's not addressed to market women or motor park touts. By the way, what's complex about words like mendacious, extraneous, pervasive, parochialism, delineated, for God's sake? These are words that ordinarily would be required by SS3 students to find synonyms to in their WASSCE exams.

why wasting energy on someone with good grade in his NECO but to prove it becomes daunting task?

...........these are the words that are common in WAEC questions, in which they would ask students to look for their synonyms or antonyms

many of "nairalanders" have been configured to witch-hunt OP.

omolola100:
Whenever an American citizen wake up in the morning, they will pray that God should bless America.

This country is turning to something else and i dont think Nigeria can ever balance again, my cousin who works in a private school got back home after the proprietress sacked her for asking the student to pray for the redemption of Nigeria, and also telling the student to observe a minute silence for the COAS and the military personnel that lost their life in the plane crash.

Is it a crime to pray for one's nation again?
The woman is an enemy of the nation for her to have rejected prayer for our dear nation.

perhaps she has been telling students to pray whenever she comes to class and spend much more time on praying instead of teaching.

human being will not say exact what transpired for his or her downfall.

class001:
I only want to know if it is a network issue and how to resolve it.

so you can't resolve it outside WhatsApp.

WhatsApp wants to crash ur relationship or she is tired of you or you just want to trend?


if two people are in real love, nothing can separate them, not even ordinary WhatsApp, for girl who really loves you, the more 3rd party tries to separate, the more she would be dying in love and be clingy.

it still beat my imagination, for a man not be able to caution his own people when they are going wrong, if you caution ur own people most especially when you are in power, it will definitely bring peace for whoever in power to focus on meaningful thing rather than conflict and crisis during his reign.

one thing common to us in Nigeria, whenever one is in power ,( federal, State, local, even religion or MDA) his people will want to overdo things at detriment of others, our own time slogan.

if such incumbent does not caution his people to send signals for everybody, such person hardly successful during his reign.

how osinme go feel now?

nairalee:
All these appointment of all these naive coaches just because they're ex players, young or pundits is a wrong approach. Only someone that has been tested and trusted should be appointed as a coach.

OGS
LAMPARD
GATUSSO
PIRLO
ARTETA

ALL LEARNERS
I shouldn't even mention them Neville. Those ones are just suegbe

Arteta and OGS need to go if the two clubs want to be playing like elite clubs

football legend does not necessarily translate to good coach

nairalee:
All these appointment of all these naive coaches just because they're ex players, young or pundits is a wrong approach. Only someone that has been tested and trusted should be appointed as a coach.

OGS
LAMPARD
GATUSSO
PIRLO
ARTETA

ALL LEARNERS
I shouldn't even mention them Neville. Those ones are just suegbe

what Henry?

CHoccolaTE:
Yes.

Them no born useless man well to dey demand submission.

uhmmmmm.

but you claimed anything man can do, woman can do it better.

CHoccolaTE:
Why do you men like making this statement? The issue is that the jobless man will still be looking for submission from the wife that is feeding him and paying his bills and in some cases his arrogance and stubborness will increase due to low self esteem.

The problem is with husbands that cannot adapt and assist their wives or make her life easy when they are financially down and the wife is the one carrying provider work and housework. They want to continue lording it over her and acting like oga na master until she snaps.

Men who provide cannot complain because their wives are the ones doing chores and childcare and the wives will never demand submission or slavery from their husband. The guy is free to live as he pleases unlike wives that provide.

at the bolded, going by ur analysis, if husband is not bringing money (jobless) wife shouldnt submit for him. he has automatically turned to sub-head of the family.

West1side:
But my father is still alive doing fine. Why do you want my opinion devoid of politics ethnic n religion bias ?! Do Igbos do away with these 3 when making opinions on social media ?!

if your father is doing fine and he instilled moral discipline in you during ur upbringing, you would have known how to respect not only ur father, but everyone that older than you not even someone's father. in fact education ur father gave you is half bake, because you cannot comprehend basic English language on public forum.

Cnach:
Y the woman no see all these things before she go marry the man?

I biliv she saw it "clean clear", but blinded with notion of getting married at all cost

thank God for all these articles in recent time

I think this will serve as wake up call for some people on nairaland who argued vehemently when issue of jobless guy going into marriage cropped up few months back.

man can marry a jobless woman for lifetime without problem/fighting emanating as a result of her joblessness,but woman can't do it for just 6 months without issue blown out at home.
They are not configured for such tasks.


guys if you dnt have job, do not imagine going into marriage bikko.

AyarmBoye:
Omo during that lock down I experienced such too ..... I have a ps4 and they came in the morning and left at night ,, some even slept overnight..Although When I realized they r sending me back to village gradually I stopped stocking both drinks, food and even fuel ...When Dey came , and nothing Dey, we contribute money to buy foods, drinks and petrol...I do the cooking ( which is better) ...... How much was I earning that would make me feed grown up adults daily!!!!

Wait you think you are richer than dem? Lolz You will be shocked when you see their account balance oloun

learn how not to be accommodating grown up friends into ur house on frequent basis because when you get married.

you and ur friend should develop habit of meeting in a joint instead.

Drversatile:
Two nairalanders celebrate 10 years anniversary today. The lovely couple and children appreciated all the people who made it possible.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CPIkrSir93I/?utm_medium=copy_link

marriage is a scan crew, over to you let hear ur candid opinions.

West1side:
Reasoning to foolishness

As exhibited by your comment here. If this was Apc secretariat that was turn into that of the PDP your father won't be running up n down the neighborhood screaming naked.

I biliv the blood of ur father you killed few years back is on vegance now, making you reason as a lunatic

give ur phone for someone who knows how read and understand to tell you that my opinion up there is devoid of political, ethincity or any religion bias

bye and disappear son of serpent

ZaramT:
Nooooooi we will get it right after break-up

I DNT know if you are civil servant, even if you are not you can do findings how government run in all states and Abuja, the outcome will point to same direction.

oga after break up, will God remove blood of Southerners and put another one there? Or better still change the brain of your region to make them think aright?

We bastardise every good western's inventions in Nigeria.

Religion turn to business.

Education (certificate) to ordinary paper.

Internet to Yahoo

Democracy to authocracy.


One person wants to change political party, all other aides and legistators must change at all cost.

Even Secretariat is not spared

We can never get it right in naija, even after break up.

this is the man that naija military was unable to capture

reason, they said he use human beings as sheild.



the factional group conquered him now with no human sheild except his lieutenant that are also terrorists like him.


the day Nigeria army will start deal ruthlessly with Boko Haram just like Isreali defence force dealt with Hamas without submitting to their human sheild and unnecessary public sympathy, it will be the beginning of end of Boko Haram

whirlwind7:
Nigerians and hypocrisy.
Moral of this: keep your fetishes/fantasies to yourself, if you are Nigerian.
Most of those blasting him secretly imagine worse things, and will gladly jump at shagging a mother and daughter combo.

Yoruba song.....Erin k'arele k'owa j'oba

(Elephant let go home so that we will crown you our king)

at end human beings like you pushed him to his death as a result evil advise and praise singing.

Yoruba adage, he who ate vulture in the bush and came home saying he ate bush fowl, leaves to see tomorrow, while he who ate bush fowl in the bush and come back home proclaiming to the whole world that he ate vulture , die before second day as a result of "imaginary abomination he committed".







you will not understand me, because ur reasoning is just like Marley.

yet the chief law officer equates herder with dealer, this a man that is rumoured to be nursing presidential ambition. Anyway I dnt blame caliphate but ogogoro and monkey that earlier ruled conquered territory but foolishly fail to do the needful.

when another comes from down town next time, let see if him too will toe same path

kenzysmith:
Dating a coworker is fun it save u from spending money anygoeto impress she knows your salary and she go understand wella, when I be porter for hotel as the time reach one for night na me and the waitress dey bath together they Bleep am steady as she dey hold the bathroom window I dey give am steady doggy can u believed the girl hasn't even seen my place once na for work we take dey meet. She tell me say she get fiancee and they wan do introduction soon. The day de. Sack me na that day she see me last and na that dey I saw her last . LOVETH tanks for making me save properly

oga who told you? you never know women Sha, secondary school girl that's asking money from her jobless secondary school boyfriend, is that one earning salary too?

immediately you ask A lady out not even start dating o, you turn to her ATM, less concern if you get or no get salary