NEWSREPORT: CSP Rabiu Garba is in charge of Fegge Police Station Onitsha. It was reported that almost all his men jumped the high walls of the police station and disappeared in the thin air, but CSP Garba stood his ground and talked the hoodlums out of their planned action and they started hailing the DPO.
The incident has attracted a lot of commendations for CSP Garba who was known for his kind gesture and humane nature in policing Fegge and it's environs. This is a win-win for all.
If a partner loses money and can't afford the luxuries you love and you want to leave then MONEY was the basis of your marriage. If a partner cheats and you can't forgive then SEX was the basis of your marriage. if one commits a crime and is truly broken, i believe they deserve forgiveness. It will be wise not to forget but dent bring back the past to right the present. The future is uncharted, be your best self and love like you have never been hurt. Be friends firstly, Let love lead as love is God and God is love. Forgiveness will creep in where Love lives. I hope I've been able to convince you and not confuse you that Love is all we need.
You need to get rid of all those things that make you lean on porn and masturbation Look for a permanent source of joy and happiness Confess all your sins and listen to audios from great men of God Saturate your environment with christian worship songs and change will come. Its just a matter of time but with God all things are possible. Pray against the spirit of Lust and slowly but surely all will fall into place. be Intentional and ask the Holy Spirit for help We are all humans and fall many times but what matters is we get back up
The subject refers, I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non Christian like habit. One of such habit is watching of pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now. I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual. I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it.
I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT.
Pls I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself and other people please help.
Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful.
At work I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked of the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me.
This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself.
I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me.
My prayer life too has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God!
oga you have a good girl right there, WIFE HER ASAP. Be supportive, loving , caring and understanding. Take her on a vacation once a year and give your kids the gift of dual citizenship. Does she have a sister like her?
Ninobraw: I am a guy of 29 years old and she's 24 years old. She is a nurse and she is working and earning good salary. We have been dating for the past 3 years, ever since she came into my life things have been moving forward. Between the space of three years I was able to buy a land and build two flat (almost completed) and also buy a nice car. All this was possible because she was in my life. She assisted me with the money she accumulated before she met me, (2 million naira) gave it to me to add it to the money I was using to build the house, she has really been the best thing that has happened to me. We both have never cheated on each other, I'm very happy having her in my life. During the period of covid 19 my business was shut down totally she was the one that sustained me Althrough and never complained.
She later resigned from her nursing work and started her own chemist shop, I supported her with 300k she rejected it and asked me to add it to the money for house project. She is making some good money from her store any way.
Now we plan to do our marriage by December and I budgeted more than 1 million naira. the problem is that she insisted that it is too much that I should not spend more than 500k that's been a problem to us but later settle it. because she won't just listen to me she wants me to spend less than that the reason why I wanted to spend more than 1 million Naira was because she deserves it.
So because of that we adjusted the marriage to three months time since it's just 500k I am spending now my question is can I spend 500k for a moderate marriage? And I wanted to do something tangible for her because she deserve more than everything I have, please what other things can I do for her that will be equivalent to everything she has done for me.
Since we have been dating she has never asked me for big money and also when ever I give her she always tells me that she gat money that no need to give her, in fact she love me so much that she don't even accept money from me unless gift. Now I want to do something tangible for her because since I have been dating her she doesn't allow me spent on her that much, and she doesn't complain.
This is how virus starts by chopping what you no suppose chop.
Cti28: Food is ready. I just Caught this monitor Lizard in a bush close to my house. Well I have never had a taste of it and doing so might not be bad.
JAKPA.....You need to define what you want for yourself and your future. Take care of your health and Secure where your money is coming from as you will need this to take care of yourself. Pls as for that girl its either she is immature and/or you are blinded by looks, there are plenty fishes in the river. From all you have said she has no handwork and is quick to squander your funds but not help you when things are low. Anyway its because she is your first girl, focus on what really matters and the best is yet to come for you....KEEP YOUR HEAD UP BETA WOMEN YAKPA
Olamila: Let me not bore you guys with my relationship history but this girl is my first love, i met her while i was in school 300l. Ever since then i have always been there for her despite even having a low budget as student because I'm not from a wealthy home, even her parents has times10 more than my family. But despite that i try all i could to maintain my role in the relationship because i don't fancy myself asking anything from my girlfriend.
Before anything else i need to tell little about my girlfriend, she is beautiful and nice. Almost every guy wants to woo her and all of that. Aside of that my girlfriend is very stingy to me, she can never allow her anything be in my possession, she doesn't have this idea that we could end up one day though she will always say something close to it only during fun time. But when she is at her leisures she will say how she fancy how husband to be and all of that which i no I'm not the person she could had been referring to. That not even my major issue.
She always been cruel when she asks me for anything and i refuse to give her maybe i don't have or just don't see needs to do so. I also discovered that most of our fun times comes immediately money enters my hand. Because i remember when i was in school my first 800k i made was finished and squandered with her, i haven't dated anyother or even have another girl since i met her. Because i try to make her feel comfortable because i no how many guys wish her to be with her. So secondly i made another 1m i squandered it with her too. But when this money just finish guyz i always see hell in her. This was the ups an downs i was experiencing till i finished my school with her. It was a shame for me upon the money i made in school i graduated with zero account looking for money for my law school. I wasn't fortunate to get any help so i sat back to Hustle. Then i was begging looking for helper to assist me when i saw one big opportunity that i need to take but it the opportunity required money as my account was bleeding zero. I begged everyone including my girlfriend but she told me she doesn't have even if she happened to get money for me i will pay her interest. This words alone made me cry, did you no instead of helping me out she told me I'm not the only one that needs help she also need to invest on her self which she was right i believe her. She later invested her money in one fraudulent sheme which she lost the money.
FastTrack to what is happening now, i later got help from someone who offered me 50k and my mum 20k making it 70k i picked myself up and started my Hustle again. Within three months i made 800k again. All this times i was giving her update about my business and earnings. Could you imagine she had the gut to ask for money despite her behaviors. Because of my nature i don't believe someone's bad nature should change my own nature so i still sent her some money because i also no she is broke.
Since then i just forgot about what she did and all of those stuffs because my money kept coming and i don't keep grudges i keep taking care of her. Now i had issue with my business i want to fix something up i was also telling her. this girl went ahead to start asking me to send her money. I was really disappointed i protested because i noticed when i have money i become very careless. It seems money covers so many things. I just need advice because i think it is time to let her go coz with her nature and type of girl it might end in tears for me. All she do is stay on social media, snap and post and look for who will send her money. No skills, i have begged her several times to look for something to be doing she refused and tells me how her dad won't allow her. She doesn't listen to me, always feel like boss when little money enter her hand. Guys i really love her but i think it is time to seek help because i will regret if this continues.
The police in Anambra State have arrested a 34-year-old man, Ifeanyi Apulosi, for allegedly killing his two children.
Police spokesperson Haruna Mohammed disclosed this in a statement on Sunday, June 21st, 2020. He said the man went berserk and used a wooden pestle to club the children to death and injure his 72-year-old father on the head.
“On the June 21 2020 at about 1a.m., police operatives attached to Ogbunike Police Station arrested one Ifeanyi Apusiobi, ‘m’ aged 34 years, of Azu Ogbunike in Oyi LGA of Anambra State”
“Suspect allegedly ran amok in a circumstances yet to be ascertained and attacked two of his biological children namely Chinecherem Apusiobi ‘Female'' Aged 7 years and Obinna Apusiobi ‘Male' Aged 5 years with a wooden pistle on their heads while they were sleeping”.
“Suspect equally used same object and injured his father one Dominic Apusiobi, aged 72 years on the head,” Mr Mohammed said.
He said that police detectives rushed victims from the scene to the hospital where the two children were certified dead by a medical doctor while the aged father is responding to treatment.
He said the corpses had been deposited at Isienyi hospital morgue for autopsy.
Mr Mohammed added that the officers recovered the weapon used by the man for the attacks, adding that the case has been transferred to the State CID, Awka, for discreet investigation.
Flee from all of them with all your might and spirit if you want to experience a good relationship with your lawfully wedded spouse or your fiancee or fiance and more importantly God.
There is nothing like sex sampling before you can know who is the right person for you.
Marry because you love and cherished him or her and not the physical look, why? Because beauty fades with time but is the love that keep it going.
Thank you. You can reach me on my email address for more personal reawakening.
Do have a splendid weekend.
Shalom.....
here is my version... run from all these 7 deadly sins
Only God can save you here. A test can be done when the mother is 3-5 months pregnant. If it turns out to be SS then the doctors will give you medical advice. I have gone through the same issue while courting some years back. Doctors only found out during the pregnancy that the mother was AC. Although not in Nigeria the doctors advised us to have a still born which we did. Thereafter we took a trip to the sickle cell hospital. Pls believe me the i say no child should suffer that agony due to the selfishness of parents. Be Guided!
wouldn't this innovation/maintenance make sense during the lockdown to ease traffic as against after the lockdown? I'm sure FG and LASG know what they are doing...Coughs... ECU lockdown