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Politics › Re: Army Bans Motorcycles In Some States To Curb Kidnapping (Full List) by fof1: 2:09am On May 06, 2019
id911:
Who gave Army such powers and where did they derive it from? It is illegal and unconstitutional. Okada riders should go about their normal business and disregard the order of the incompetent Army.

It is the Governor of each state that has the power to ban Okada if it sees them as security risk and not the useless Army that only show their strength with unarmed civilians
ON NAIRALAND O OR THEIR CARCASSES WILL LITTER D FOREST...
Health › Re: Depression: When I Think Of Sex, How Can I Die? - UNIPORT Female Student (Video) by fof1: 8:00pm On May 05, 2019
Emmyloaded:
With tensions going on in the university of Port Harcourt (Uniport) about students feeling depressed and giving in to suicidal thoughts, several student bodies have began campaign to overcome depression and unyielding to the thoughts of committing suicide.

This development came after a dead body of a 100 Level female chemical engineering student of the University was discovered by her course mate in her room.

Now, students among themselves pay attention to those who they notice are displaying signs of depression.

A female Uniport student however have come out to say that no matter how depressed she is, thinking of things like bole, ice-cream, cars and s*x will delete the thought from her head.

In her words "when I think of s*x, how can I die?"

Watch video below
https://youtu.be/XRBHam9ojwoT
THEY SHOULD THOROUGHLY INVESTIGATE THAT DEATH OF D 100 LEVEL CHEMICAL ENGINEERING FEMALE STUDENT IF IT IS SUICIDE OR OUTRIGHT MURDER BY HER ROOM MATES OR FRIENDS...OR WHAT...?
Family › Re: He Said He Doesn't Feel That Connection Between Us by fof1: 5:27pm On May 05, 2019
Adaego5:
Help! I Am In A Serious Dilemma!!

Please what does it mean when a man tells his woman that he is not connected to her?

I was in courtship with this guy late 2017, we were working towards getting married. we broke up sometime in 2018. Since then, it's been difficult for me to love again. I really loved him and could go extreme for him.

He has tried going into other relationships same as me but non worked. So we decided to give us a shot once more, I was happy and felt whole again.....

He is very principled. Now he is saying that he doesn't feel that connection between us. He said I am everything, intelligent, smart, beautiful, hardworking, a graduate, Godfearing with good home upbringing, from a god background, tall infact taller than every girl he has come across but he just doesn't feel that connection between us. When it comes to qualities, I am better than every girl he has met. He went ahead to tell me of a girl who he felt that connection with but she broke his heart. I am shattered and devastated once more.

Its easy to say move on, but easier said than done. It took me months to move on, i was only able to by trying to hate him. One of the reasons why I really loved him was because he never tried taking advantage of me as I am a virgin.

He never for one day talked me into it unlike some other guys I have met.I have been so good to him, he confessed that no girl has loved and treated him like I did. I have been trying to understand this whole connection thing.... Where am I going wrong. I am not a boring person, there is no boring moment with me. Most guys I have met always tell me that I am priceless and some keep coming back but I find it hard to like them.
I only keep remembering the beautiful memories we shared.
I am so devastated..... I really wanted us to work things out ..
BE PATIENT WITH GOD STILL. DR VIRGIN LADY...
Politics › Re: Clara And Sullivan Chime Divorce: Husband Only Had Sex With Me On Wedding Day by fof1: 4:58am On May 03, 2019
sholatech:
I dont know that asking questions means one has judged. When u see question Marks after a statement, it means questions are been asked please.
PLS TAKE HIM THRO ENGLISH LANGUAGE CLASSES... D MATTER OF EX.GOV.CHIME'S MALTREATMENT OF CLARA,WAS IT NOT ALL OVER D MEDIA THEN?

ANOTHER Q? ANSWER STUDENT OF LETTERS
Crime › Re: My Parents' Lives In Danger - Lady Raped In Lekki By Hotelier’s Son by fof1: 5:50pm On Apr 29, 2019
incogni2o:
you expect me to waste my precious time to read your epistle on a rape case

why not just put a tl;dr at the top

i spend 0.5 seconds on nairaland every 2 hours.

so i will not always have time to read your epistle
LAZINESS PERSONIFIED. REASONS FOR DULLARDS AND HALF BAKED EDUCATORS EVERY WHERE IN NIGERIA.
Romance › Re: Man Shares His Experience With The Real Boyfriend Of Girl He's Dating by fof1: 5:57pm On Apr 28, 2019
damiloladuke:
A man has taken to social media to share his experience with the real boyfriend of the girl he is dating.

In his narration, he mentioned that the real boyfriend of the girl called him and threatened him initially, only to start crying over the phone and begging him to leave his fiancee as they have marriage plans together.

He wrote:



https://lailasnews.com/man-shares-his-experience-with-the-real-boyfriend-of-girl-hes-dating/
SHE IS A CONFUSED LADY BETWEEN D DEVIL AND D DEEP BLUE SEA. SATAN IS PLAYING WITH HER BRAIN TRULY.
Christianity Etc › Re: CAN Warns Pastors Against Man-made Miracles by fof1: 2:43pm On Apr 28, 2019
isan:
miracle is false
NO. VERY MUCH NO. MIRACLES ARE REAL. ASK GOD FOR D PROOFS AND PROVEN MIRACLES PERSONALLY EXPERIENCED. FAKE MIRACLES ARE NOT OF GOD OR HIS CHRIST. THEY ARE D PRODUCTS OF MEN AND WOMEN OF D god OF MAMMON'S ACTIVITIES, PLS. I AM A LIVING TESTIMONIALS OF CHRIST JESUS DIVINELY OR MANIFEST MIRACLES. GOD BLESS U.
Celebrities › Re: Adasa Cookey Saves The Job Of A Teller Who Paid Him $12k Instead Of $1.2k by fof1: 1:04am On Apr 27, 2019
anonymous96:
This story is a pure lie.. There is no way a teller can make this mistake.. Do you know how many hundreds she would count to get to 12000?..Attention seeker
OK. THANK U, TRUTHFUL LIAR. WHY DECEIVE UTSELF, WHY POKE ON SOMEONE'S POST. U ARE A CONFUSED NIGERIAN. JUST PASS WHEN U SEE OR READ SUCH POST NEXT. SINCE U LACK D CHARACTER TO BE EXEMPLARY, PLS.
Romance › Re: Young, Pretty Bole Seller Warns Guys Who Inbox Her by fof1: 4:02pm On Apr 26, 2019
PastorandMentor:
She no even fine..
Dirty english. Couldn't comprehend what she was writing. Rubbish
U are a Trash as well. Can u create one Fly? Foolish Talk from d Gutter. If u can't comprehend her,then u are illiterate. Ur diction is no diff. Juxtapose against ur gribbish stuff exporonue..
Crime › Re: Lagelu Grammar School Ibadan Reacts To Ritualist Who Killed 7 Including Students by fof1: 3:49pm On Apr 26, 2019
ChangeIsCostant:
Following the confessional statement made by a suspected kidnapper identified as Ismaila Raji, a car wash attendant by profession who was nabbed at Adesola area, along Lagos/Ibadan expressway, Ibadan last weekend with a human skeleton, a school has been forced to react.

In Raji's confession, he stated that many of his victims were students of the Lagelu Grammar School, Ibadan. Specifically, the seven persons he confessed to have killed so far were mainly students of the school, and there are still some of his colleagues currently hunting for more preys at the school premises.

The school has reacted and announced to the general public that the confessional statement is just a mere sham and deceit as none of its students has been reportedly killed nor missing.

The announcement was made by the school principal, Mr Tope Onipede via a press release on Thursday.

Below is the press release.

"My attention has been drawn to a recent publication posted to The Lagelu Grammar School Government Board Platform concerning the case of a car wash attendant nabbed with complete human skeleton. The suspect in his confession reportedly revealed that he had killed seven other people So far and that most of the victims were students of Lagelu Grammar School.

"I wish to state unequivocally that there is no iota of truth in the story as no case of missing student(s) or kidnap was reported to the school authority or to any member of staff by the parents/guardian before we went on vacation on Friday, 5th April, 2019. Meanwhile, it is indeed regrettable that the faceless media outfit in the name of Double A media did not investigate the case properly before releasing such unverified confession to the public.

"Let me place on record that LAGSOBA EXCO under the dynamic leadership of Professor Olufemi Omisore had helped the school greatly by clearing the thick bush around the hostels. Hence, there is no hiding place for hoodlums to perpetrate such a criminal act at the school.

"I hereby use this medium to inform the Old boys of Lagelu Grammar school and the general public that the story is far from the truth.

"Tope Onipede, MSTAN
Principal,
Lagelu Grammar School, Ibadan"

See more; https://www.nationalhelm.co/2019/04/school-reacts-as-man-claims-to-have-killed-7-people-including-students-photos.html
LIARS IN CONCERT WITH KIDNAPPERS, RITUALISTS AND CRIMINALS. FACE MENDING PROPAGANDA TO SAVE HIS JOB. GOD WILL REVEAL D TRUTHS.
Politics › Re: Bashir El-Rufai Blasts Igbos On Twitter, Apologises Later by fof1: 8:13pm On Apr 23, 2019
nku5:
Bashir El-Rufai, son of Kaduna State governor Nasir El-Rufai on Monday night launched an unprovoked attack on Igbos via his Twitter handle.

Bashir gloated about the massacre of Igbos in the north via the 1966 counter coup amidst other ethnic slurs on southern Nigerians

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https://mobile.twitter.com/BashirElRufai/status/1120596190742102016
ARE WE SEEING D BITTERNESS, ENVY, HATRED, SATANISM BEING PASSED ON FROM ONE GENERATION TO ANOTHER? WHAT A GOOD RELAY. ALL UR TRASH IS WORTHLESS AND VAIN.WITHOUT SUBSTANCE AND CAN NOT LIMIT D IGBO RACE. A PEOPLE DETERMINED FOR GREATNESS BY UR CREATOR. SO CHILL...
Celebrities › Re: Fraud: "Nobody Holy" Davido Replies Tunde Ednut by fof1: 11:28am On Apr 23, 2019
nairafame:
War! Nobody holy, Davido writes back on Tundeenut page after calling out ĺNairamaley on IG, says Nairamaley is very wrong for saying Yahoo Yahoo is not crime.

Read more and see original post below
Source https://www.nairafame.com/2019/04/nobody-holy-davido-fires-back-at.html
TUNDEEDNUT IS VERY RIGHT IN HIS ASSERTION PLS.
Celebrities › Re: Alex Unusual Slays In Cleavage-Baring Outfit To AY Live by fof1: 5:17pm On Apr 22, 2019
Celebrities › Re: Alex Unusual Slays In Cleavage-Baring Outfit To AY Live by fof1: 5:17pm On Apr 22, 2019
Romance › Re: Man Set To Wed Fiancee After Wedding Was Delayed 7 Years Ago Over Accident. Pics by fof1: 11:24am On Apr 22, 2019
Satan66:
That woman looks so ugly lipsrsealed
Am sure she has sickle cell anemia
I can't sleep with such a disgusting woman
UR BLAND NAME SPEAKS VOLUMES AND SAYS IT ALL. PACK UR LOADS ASIDE.PLS.
Family › Re: Father Refused To Attend My Wedding by fof1: 8:08am On Apr 22, 2019
Biglittlelois:
Be patient, continue to make money, heed to your dad's advice, he knows best, why are you in a hurry to marry since you are not in your 30s? Or is it sex with her you're eager to taste, though I don't believe you've not had sex with her for 7 years, best of luck any way.
WHAT IS D PROBLEM WITH PEOPLE TO ACCEPT THAT ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE, WE HV DIFFERENT LEVELS OF STRENGTH. WHAT IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH ME OR U IS VERY POSSIBLE WITH OTHERS. ACCEPT IT OR KEEP QUIET FOREVER. A DEPRAVED SOCIETY WE ARE IN IS NOT COMPLETELY OURS. U BELIEVE OR NOT LIFE GOES ON. IT DOES NOT ALTER D BEST OF D TRUTH OF LIFE.
Celebrities › Re: Olajumoke Orisaguna Confirms Divorce, Places Curse Of Misfortunes On Follower by fof1: 7:47am On Apr 22, 2019
nairalaila:
Olajumoke has confirmed that she has divorced her husband via an Instagram post, as she also changed her surname to Chris.Olajumoke who confirmed that she divorced her husband as she reverted her surname to Chris, also placed a curse of misfortunes she escaped on her follower who questioned her divorce and further called her a prostitute. She however deleted the post shortly after. 

Here is a screenshot of the exchange below; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/21/olajumoke-confirms-divorce-places-curse-of-misfortunes-she-escaped-on-follower/
NONSENSE AND IGNORANT PEOPLES WITH POOR EDUCATION EVERYWHERE. GOD SHOW MERCIES AND RECONCILE THEM IN GOOD FAITH. SHE MUST HV bleeped UP BIG TIME.UNABLE TO MANAGE HER SMALL FAME & BECOME IRRESPONSIBLE...
Christianity Etc › Re: The Holy Stairs Jesus Climbed Before Crucifixion Unveiled After 300 Years (Pics) by fof1: 2:21pm On Apr 14, 2019
Martinez39:
Jesus never existed. He was a version of early mythical figures. This is just a tourist scam. grin
U ARE SICK IN D HEART. GET UR DIVINE HEALINGS IN HIS NAME NOW. AND GET UR THOUGHT LIFE STRAIGHTENED OUT PLS. THIS UNBELIEF WILL SURELY LAND U IN HELL FIRE. GOD IS A CONSUMING FIRE. BEWARE & BE WARNED.
Politics › Re: Police Officer Who Destroyed A DELSU Student's N250k Phone Has Been Arrested by fof1: 8:08am On Apr 11, 2019
Muyiwaipere:
some police officers just like getting themselves in unnecessary mess......u will see that phone fit be ordinary iPhone 6 o...


next time he would learn to mind his business
WHAT IS D SURPRISE! U READ IT WELL THAT ITS IPHONE X, MUNGU IS SAYING MAY BE IPHONE 6? WHY NOT REMAIN ON SAME PAGE WITH D REPORTER, OVER SABI FIT KILL U O...! OR ARE U ALSO ENVIOUS?
Politics › Re: Police Officer Who Destroyed A DELSU Student's N250k Phone Has Been Arrested by fof1: 8:04am On Apr 11, 2019
Muyiwaipere:
some police officers just like getting themselves in unnecessary mess......u will see that phone fit be ordinary iPhone 6 o...


next time he would learn to mind his business
WHAT IS D SURPRISE! U READ IT WELL THAT ITS IPHONE X, MUNGU IS SAYING MAY BE IPHONE 6? WHY NOT REMAIN ON SAME PAGE WITH D REPORTER, OVER SABI FIT KILL U... OR ARE U ALSO ENVIOUS?
Politics › Re: Senator Ben Bruce Presented Two Important Bills To Nigerian Senate Today by fof1: 7:49pm On Apr 10, 2019
RichBoy247:
This Twitter Senator Bruce Lee will run nakked into the market before the end of Buhari's 2nd term. The foolish albino who ought to be sacrificed to the goddess of the river is introducing bills when his useless wasted tenure is already ending. Has the fool paid the 11 billion naira masses money that he collected from Union bank?
DOES THIS SPEAK GOOD OF U? PLS Grow Up & be very Responsible.., mind UR Language & mend UR WAYS.
Celebrities › Re: "If My Body Doesn't Please You..." - Toyin Lawani Blows Hot At Trolls by fof1: 7:53pm On Apr 09, 2019
Dailyhappenings:
Fashion entrepreneur, Toyin Lawani, has once again slammed trolls who find the semi-nude photos on her Instagram page distasteful.

In a post she shared on her IG page, the mum of two wrote

Do I look like I Give A shit ?
Your opinions still don’t put food on the table , Go Back to your international celebrities pages and continue your night and day worship there , if my work inspire you let it , if my body and me being comfortable in it don’t please you , you can suck my p***y

Bloody hypocrites Half of you Are nasty behind closed doors and you come out to blab shit about my kids , what they see is A Beautiful hardworking woman , your minds Are messed up ,so you don’t see the work ,Half of you can’t even work half as hard as me ,nor control all I control , so go fu*****k yourselves, Do I look like all those celebs you are comparing me with , they can never be me and I can never Be them , I’m Me and I’m happy to being me #kingofallQueens

Source: https://www.musictori.com/2019/04/if-my-body-doesnt-please-you-toyin.html
SHE IS TALKING TRASH, NONSENSE FOR THAT MATTER.PLS. DECEIT OF D AGE.
Celebrities › Re: "Catching A Vibe" - Tiwa Savage Shares Sexy New Photo by fof1: 9:37pm On Apr 07, 2019
kennygee:
Even Tiwa has joined the surgery gang. There was no time she was this curvy.
JEALOUSY WILL NOT KILL U. NA U BORN AM? OR NA U DEY SLEEP WITH AM FOR HOUSE? WHAT IS THIS USELESS RANTING FOR PLS?
Christianity Etc › Re: Daddy Freeze Reacts To Pastor Kumuyi On Women Wearing Trousers by fof1: 6:43pm On Apr 06, 2019
madmohamed:
who is man of God. How did u know he is man of God, daddy freeze can go to heaven and this your soo call man of God will go to Hall, I don't trust any soo call man of God I play for my self I deliver my self.as a human being u don't have to wait for pastor to tell you to play or fast before you do.
UR NAME SAYS IT ALL. PLS CHANGE UR WAYS B4 IT'S LATE FOR U AND UR PARTNERS.
Politics › Re: INEC Declares Wike Winner Of Rivers Governorship Race by fof1: 9:41pm On Apr 03, 2019
hisexcellency34:
Amaechi should help the AAC guy challenge the result at the tribunal..We are not going to take this!
U MAY DIE IN UR IGNORANCE AND SELF DECEIT. DO U BELONG TO D GANG OF ARMED ROBBERS,WHO WANTED TO DEFRAUD AND ROB RIVERS PEOPLE OF THEIR ELECTORAL MANDATES? BE WARNED.
Politics › Re: Rivers Election Results: Wike Leads With Over 600,000 Votes by fof1: 8:06pm On Apr 03, 2019
Hallenjay:
there's no how they wud av seen up to 700,000 votes for dat massively rough election. ..this is a result of best rigger ....bfor u say anything. ..I based in ph and been here 6yrs now...
COMFORTABLY SHUT UR MOUTH, I LIVE IN OZUOBA TOWN OF PORT HARCOURT. THE RESULT U ARE SEEING IS NOT ENOUGH OF D PDP. D MASSIVE VOTER TURN OUT WAS BEYOND THESE FIGURES,DESPITE D MILITARY DISGRACEFUL STUPIDITY. D GANG UP WAS MUCH MORE BUT D PEOPLE WERE MORE DETERMINED. D REASON FOR OBVIOUS DISQUIETUDE OF D MANIPULATIVE STANCE OF D APC/AAC. RIVERS STATE IS PDP AND PDP IS RIVERS STATE. SO BE POLITICALLY UNBIASE IN UR JUDGEMENT, PLS.
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by fof1: 12:46am On Apr 02, 2019
Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?
MY FRIEND. HV READ UR EPISTLE. LEAVE THAT WOMAN ALONE TO LIVE HER HUMBLE LIFE. DO NOT FORCE HER INTOSOCIAL MEDIA CRAZE. SHE WILL BUILD UP GRADUALLY. INTROVERTS ARE SOMETIMES VERY UNPREDICTABLE FELOWS,SO DO NOT PUSH HER AROUND
SHE IS PROTECTING U BUT U ARE IGNORANT. HER AGE IS OK, THAT'S A MATURE WO INDEED. WHAT HAS SHE NOT SEEN,? SHE IS NOT HAVING ANY ABNORMALITY OR COMPLEX.PLS GIVE HER SPACE, LOVE HER MORE & LOVE D HOME MORE
WORK WITH HER AND BE PRACTICAL AT HOME
THANKS....
Family › Re: My Wife Doesn't Post My Pictures On Social Media, She Is Abnormal, Help! by fof1: 12:46am On Apr 02, 2019
Pkingman:
HELP! My Wife Is Abnormal

Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue.
I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.

I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another.
The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.

It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type.
When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way.
She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.

Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.

After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her.
Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date.
She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings.
She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me.
On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them.
Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private.
The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.

By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off?
Why does she not want me to show her off?

In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave.
I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change.
What could be wrong with her?
MY FRIEND. HV READ UR EPISTLE. LEAVE THAT WOMAN ALONE TO LIVE HER HUMBLE LIFE. DO NOT FORCE HER INTOSOCIAL MEDIA CRAZE. SHE WILL BUILD UP GRADUALLY. INTROVERTS ARE SOMETIMES VERY UNPREDICTABLE FELOWS,SO DO NOT PUSH HER AROUND
SHE IS PROTECTING U BUT U ARE IGNORANT. HER AGE IS OK, THAT'S A MATURE WO INDEED. WHAT HAS SHE NOT SEEN,? SHE IS NOT HAVING ANY ABNORMALITY OR COMPLEX.PLS GIVE HER SPACE, LOVE HER MORE & LOVE D HOME MORE
WORK WITH HER AND BE PRACTICAL AT HOME
THANKS.
Politics › Re: Speaker: PDP Reps Reject Gbajabiamila by fof1: 8:21am On Apr 01, 2019
BuhariAdvocate:
One idiot from east common minority can't dictate for us.
ONE IDIOT....! ARE U TWO IDIOTS ON RAMPAGE? U ARE VERY VERY UNCULTURED AND ILLITERATE.
Politics › Re: Rivers Guber: Wike And Awara Clash In Port Harcourt by fof1: 7:22pm On Mar 31, 2019
yarimo:
WIKE is a criminal he must be kick out from government house.
ARE U D PERSON THAT MADE HIM A CRIMINAL? WHAT ARE U PRESENTLY PLS? U BETTER SHUT UP UR SMELLING MOUTH AND FACE UR STATE AFFAIRS, PLS.

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