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Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 8:42pm On Nov 25, 2019
kingkakaone:
Are you for real?
This case cannot be a set-up at all. I don't comment on issues like this but I need to say some things because of you.

First is that the guy saw his wares online and came to get for himself and his girlfriend (OP's now ex). Remember op said he talked with the girl concerning the kind she likes while he was in the shop?

Secondly, op saw that the guy updated his WhatsApp of their club enjoyment(this is someone that is in a no sex relationship with another guy o) that same night.

Thirdly, that her WhatsApp update has destroyed whatever games she wants to play because her conscience is killing her. If it was a game she won't play it alone, he guy would have been aware and they would have stopped the OP right there and explained.

Finally, I want you to stop commenting on this thread please.
You are not helping anyone here with such comments.

Conclusion, how can a lady claim to test someone who is into a no sex relationship with her? What does she want to cement?

Please don't comment here anymore, I don't know why you are trying to deceive the OP.
He is not Deceiving d OP but show casing his Naivity and FOOLISHNESS. Some People done any Sensible stuff to give and wont Keep Quiet or Mute in a Thread fro Mature Minds...
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 8:26pm On Nov 25, 2019
Daviddson:
Lol. It has to be Dimples.303, because apart from midnight.er and olanre, she's the other lady who has commented so far on this thread. Decided to do a minor check on her previous posts and saw that the OP made a grievous mistake by initiating relationship with her in the first place. You are against premarital sex because of your religious conviction and instead of looking for a lady who shares similar conviction, you went for the opposite - you invited this disaster, obviously. Her comments on other threads portray her as a very indecent and a sexually active person. So you even forced your abstinence stand on her, and left with "no option", she decided to take you as a side boyfriend.
Romance or Relationship Investigator
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 8:14pm On Nov 25, 2019
peepydelano:
so na that olanre babe,with her comments sef,u go know say na she
She is not. Its some one earlier...
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 7:19pm On Nov 25, 2019
Respect55:
She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha
Some are manipulated by Satanic Forces from their home... when u make Finer and She becomes more attractive,then She messes up with another Foolish guy who thinks he is lucky...
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 7:12pm On Nov 25, 2019
midnighter:
She may not deserve it, but he does. It's better for his psyche in the long-run if he really cements the break-up for good. He needs a chance to argue it out with her.

What you're saying about a real lady isn't really relevant here, a real lady doesn't do so many things yet guys still marry unrealistic ladies every Saturday.

We are talking about gathering evidence. We just need to hear what she is going to say so that he can finally catch her in her lies.

When his sister asks him what happened and he can't give a concrete explanation, don't you think his family will be looking at him one kind?

He needs to hear her own side of the story.
Rubbish thinking and Talking. Which Family. Let him move on abeg, which kind Foolish Questions dem go ask am?
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 7:10pm On Nov 25, 2019
midnighter:
She may not deserve it, but he does. It's better for his psyche in the long-run if he really cements the break-up for good. He needs a chance to argue it out with her.

What you're saying about a real lady isn't really relevant here, a real lady doesn't do so many things yet guys still marry unrealistic ladies every Saturday.

We are talking about gathering evidence. We just need to hear what she is going to say so that he can finally catch her in her lies.

When his sister asks him what happened and he can't give a concrete explanation, don't you think his family will be looking at him one kind?

He needs to hear her own side of the story.
Rubbish thinking and Talking. Which Family. Let him move on,which kind Foolish Questions dem go ask am?
Romance › Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by fof1: 7:07pm On Nov 25, 2019
Respect55:
Just woke up now to post this because I felt bad since I came back and slept off. No more relationship for me. I will marry when I'm ready
FREE URSELF AND FREE UR MIND. THANK GOD U FOUND OUT THIS WAY. GOD IS SURELY MERCIFUL TO YOU. PLS BE STRONG AND MOVE ON FOR GOOD. THEY ARE SO MANY THAT ARE PROSTITUTING ABOUT IN D CITY. GOD HELP US ALL. THE WORLD IS EVIL
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Threatened To Leak My Sex Tape With A Guy Online!!! by fof1: 10:56pm On Nov 24, 2019
pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.
Report him to Police and get an UNDERTAKING from him to be of behaviour immediately.
Romance › Re: I Had Sex With My Fiance's Friend, Please Help! by fof1: 4:46pm On Nov 23, 2019
Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all
If u didn't know about him b4 and it was during ur temp.break up.for me I will Forgive You. Confront d Guy or pick his call to hear what he will say and END IT THERE WITH HIM. CONFIDE IN UR FIANCE AFTERWARD AND IF HE TRULY LOVES U, U GUYS WILL ROLL...
Health › Re: He Noticed Some Changes In His Body System (pics). by fof1: 6:33am On Nov 19, 2019
NavalBoy:
Please, Doctors and Medical Practitioners, what may be caused of this?

Antifungal creams are not working. After applying, the itching stops, it resurfaces within a short period of time with possible expansion and growth.


Itching.
Pimples around his body.

What may be the cause?


Your relative input is highly needed.
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Celebrities › Re: Nkechi Blessing Sunday Announces Breakup From Her Boyfriend by fof1: 8:39pm On Nov 10, 2019
BlackCrainte:
We are done with their marriage.


Moving on to Funke Akindele and Mercy Johnson's marriages.


One by one, we will scatter them all.
U FAILED WOEFULLY AND TAKE NO CREDIT LIKE D DEVILS because UR HAND IS NOT THERE. FOOLISHNESS FELLOW.
Education › Re: A School Named After Sir Emeka Offor In Katsina State (Photo) by fof1: 10:28am On Nov 05, 2019
sarrki:
All I see is Unity in strength

We should all join hands and make Nigeria great
CHEAP TALK AND SENSELESS RATIONALIZATIONS. HOW MANY SCHOOLS IN D SOUTH ARE BUILT,DONATED AND NAMED AFTER ANY NORTHERN INDIGENE? PLS NAME ONE...FOOLISHNESS IN DEFEATS OR COWARDICE.
Family › Re: Lady Cheats On Her Husband After Opening A Boutique For Her, Husband Beats Her by fof1: 10:48pm On Oct 29, 2019
RenHub:
And so he na beat and tie up someone's daughterhuh Nobody can try that with my sister shar. Them never born the person mama atall angry

Modified.
So many angry potential wife beaters storming my page that they'd beat me up. Lols! We are 6 boys and 5 girls in my house. 2 officers are in the family. Remind me how many brothers you have grin
Rubbish Talk,Pls. Real Fights don't require POPULATION my Friend. U will be overwhelmed with raw Defeat and big Shame because of ur Loose Sister. Read d Naija Law on Matrimony...
Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Goes Braless In Denim Outfit (Photos) by fof1: 9:02am On Oct 26, 2019
GISTBL0G:
Mavin first lady and African bad girl, Tiwa Savage steps out in braless outfit looking radiant.

https://www.instagram.com/p/B4C3H4Phiwv
THIS WOMAN LOOKS SICKLY AND SEEKING DESPITE HER FAME. SHE NEEDS HEART CURE, A YEARNING THAT OUR LORD JESUS ALONE CAN GIVE HER. SHE IS ALWAYS NEAR TO AND LIKING NUDITY IN HER APPEARANCE SOMETIMES.
Career › Re: After One Week I Asked For A Salary Increase In A Missionary School by fof1: 9:10pm On Oct 23, 2019
Sabaugo:
Am Dying In Silent! What Do I Do?

I got a work in missionary school. The Reverend sister in charge said I will be on probation for 12 months with #45k take home monthly.

As someone who has been at home for months I just accepted the job. After one week in the office, I found out that the work was heavy on me to the extent that I will go home with lots of them to do at home. I went back to her and pleaded if she can add small money to my salary, so she got angry and told me that they will pay me for the one week I worked for, that they don't need my type of person to work with them, that It seems that I like money too much. I cried that day to the extent that I can't open my eyes very well. She later said that she will give me second chance but she will reduce my salary to 42k.

I wrote an apology letter to her and I specifically told her to forgive for the sake of my mother and my son because am a single mother and am the one taking care of them. When I received the alert, I saw truly that she removed the money.

She doesn't respond to my greetings, other privileges she gave to workers," I no dey smell am",she acknowledged other new workers, she did not call my name.. Please I need advice because am just there because I don't have option. Am dying in silence!

Thanks in anticipation
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Health › Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by fof1: 9:25am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.
I HAVE READ UR POST. CONTACT ME GOOD FRIEND..
Health › Re: Sad And Depressed!! I Am In My 20s And Impotent by fof1: 9:21am On Oct 22, 2019
Hope777:
Always thought securing a future is always about working hard today and reaping the benefits tomorrow, however I am a now convinced that this is only an ideal case and your future is not in your hands like people say. There are external factors that interfere with our future.

I have basically been a hardworking person right from school, working hard to ensure my parents are proud and giving my best in any way I can. Unfortunately it seems like I am not destined for the great future I have always dreamt about.

I noticed early this year that I have a condition that makes me impotent. I can get erections while laying down but lose it while standing/sitting (I wouldn't mind if it will always remain this way but I hear it only gets worse) I visited several specialist doctors and it appears they barely understand this condition and end up saying it is psychological.

I have done my research for a long time now from global writings and forum and discovered I have a venous leak: this is a condition where the veins in the male genital drains blood faster than the inflow of blood through the arteries making normal erection impossible. This may be caused by an accident/damage to the veins.

There have been times where I have had traumas to my genital but I never thought this will be an issue and didn't even notice this condition because I haven't been sexually active.

Now from my research there is no cure to this condition and it only gets worse (meaning even erection when laying down may go eventually).

I have been depressed and sucidal; I feel like there's no point to my life if I can have such a damaging condition. Not being able to have sex isn't the problem, however the pyschological trauma this gives me about my future is the problem. I am still very young!! Will I ever get a wife? The thought of not being normal kills me!

I wonder what I did to deserve this, I am sad, depressed and sucidal. Why does God allow bad things happen to people? I feel I am running mad because I cannot stop thinking about this. I just want to sleep and not wake up, or discover this is a dream if I do.
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Am Tired...someone Should Help Me Before I Kill Myself. by fof1: 9:16am On Oct 22, 2019
Heineken:
Am seriously suffering. At 31 am still squatting. Am through with my service since 2014 but still no job. Am more than depressed... Am perplexed and am not thinking well. At my age I don't have even 1000 in my account. To eat, I have to visit friends...most times is just only breakfast and water at night. I don't want to die this way.. Am not happy. I applied civil defense. Don't know if anyone can help me.. Or any job.
PLS CONTACT ME NOW ON MY WHATSAPP OR CALL 08096165229. LETS TALK IT OVER. THANKS.
Celebrities › Re: Kemi Olunloyo: Davido's Son Arrived The Day He Sexually Harassed Me by fof1: 9:09am On Oct 22, 2019
donaldeke:
Nigerian Journalist Kemi Olunoyo has taken to Twitter to make us aware of some rare coincidence. She wrote 'Davido's son arrived the day he sexually harassed me'

Do you guys thinks this connotes anything?

Congrats to the couple!

See Kemi Olunloyo's tweet below:

https://www.reporterswall.com/davidos-son-arrived-the-day-he-sexually-harassed-me-kemi-olunloyo/



https://www.instagram.com/p/B322gzSlWKv/?hl=en
GRAVING FOR ATTENTION OR ATTENTION SEEKING IS A DYSFUNCTIONAL POSITION. IT INDICATES A COMPLEX DEFICIT DISPOSITIONS. CEASED.PLS.
Phones › Re: Glomobile To Be Disconnected From Airtel Networks In 10 Days' Time. by fof1: 3:15pm On Oct 21, 2019
TheGiftedOne:
Who uses Helltell anymore huh Even Slo na manage.

9mobile? nothing write home about.



MTN still the best.
U LIE WELL WELL. THAT IS IN UR AREAS ALONE. MTN MY FEET...
Crime › Re: Taxi Driver Accused Of Kidnapping 3 Kids From Pastor Oyedepo's School In Rivers by fof1: 5:49pm On Oct 18, 2019
stephenduru:
As shared by Augustine....

'Touch Not the Anointed “KINGDOM HERITAGE CHILDREN” are Super Protected by God of LIVING FAITH CHURCH and the Spirit of our Father Dr. David Oyedebo.
Before us this afternoon at D/Line PHC a cab man adopted 3 school children from a woman that was about taking his cad on a drop after school, she put the children in the cab and just tuned to enter the cab, this fool drove off with the Children to an unknown destination for his selfishness purpose.

The God of Living Faith Church took over the search of the Children, few hours later this same foolish  cab man drove to same point where  the frustrated mother was still  crying and praying to the God of OYEDEPO for Help.
Probably with the mind that nobody took notice of him or  nobody  recognized him.
But as God would have it,  on sighting his face and the color of the cab, she recognized him and raised alarm, we all ran out and accosted the man, after much interogation he accepted that the 3 children are locked up in his house.

What is this WORLD  TUNING TO?
What would have been the fate of this innocent children?
This goes on to justify the saying thus. "Everyday for the thief,
One day for the owner"

This man's cup was full today, he adopted the wrong children by torching God's children.

NOTE:

Bad people are everywhere and we can't be careful enough but we  should always pray and anoint ourselves and our children everyday before leaving the house'

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2019/10/taxi-driver-who-adopted-3-kids-from.html?m=1
D RSG CAME UP WITH COMPULSORY UNIFORM TAXI COLOR WITH OTHER MEANS OF IDENTIFICATION, BUT GREEDY AND ACKNOWLEDGEABLE FELLOWS SPOKE AGAINST GOVT EFFORTS AT SANITIZING D ROAD INVADERS UNDER D GUISE OF CABUCABU OR PRIVATE TAXI... CONFUSED FELLOWS WHO WANT THEIR EVIL PLANS TO REMAIN. GOD WILL PUNISH U ALL.
Crime › Re: I'm Pregnant For My Brother, Lost My Virginity To Him 10 Years Ago -lady (video) by fof1: 6:19pm On Oct 09, 2019
FlirtyKaren:
A lady has recounted how she lost her virginity to her brother about 10 years ago, continued dating him and is now pregnant for him.

The lady whose identity was not revealed, sent a message to a radio station seeking for advise after claims she intentionally got pregnant for her brother.

The lady claims her relationship with her brother started 10 years ago when she was 16 and her brother was 18 and their parents had traveled. She claims he had sex with her in the shower and defiled her before they promised each other they would never date anyone else except each other.

She claims they continued to have sex without their parent's knowledge for 10 years now. Now, their parents are pressuring them to bring a partner home as they both work in very good places but she always found it annoying until recently, her brother brought a girl to meet their parents.

She got very furious about it and he tried calming her down, saying they cannot do this forever.

On hearing this, she decided to intentionally get pregnant for him so that nobody else can have him as she felt betrayed after he brought another girl home.

She is now seeking advise because she is 6 weeks pregnant for him.

Watch video

https://mobile.twitter.com/LailaIjeoma/status/1181901026946932736

https://lailasnews.com/im-pregnant-for-my-brother-i-lost-my-virginity-to-him-10-years-ago-lady-video/
Stupidity and Foolishness are in same Realms of wasteful lifestyle.
Politics › Re: APC Tells Jonathan Not To Defend Hinself Against Cameron's Allegations by fof1: 9:13am On Oct 06, 2019
skypper:
The ruling All Progress Congress (APC) has backed former British prime minister who accused former Nigeria president, Goodluck Jonathan, of refusing help, when 274 schoolgirls were kidnapped by Boko Haram terrorists in Chibok, Borno state back in 2014.

The APC also said that there is a consensus that the PDP elevated corruption in the country to a national culture. Going further, the APC said Jonathan should explain to the families of those whose children were kidnapped why he did not do anything for two weeks after the kidnapping incident occurred


Source: https://thickmatch.com/dont-defend-camerons-allegations-apc-tells-jonathan/
RUBBISH, THE BLAME GAMES OF AN INCOMPETENT APC GOVERNMENT CONTINUES UNABATED AFTER 5 DEAR YEARS IN D SADDLE. WHAT A WOEFULLY INEPT CROP OF DEAD CITIZENS IN D HELMS OF NATIONAL MALAISE.
Celebrities › Re: The Resemblance Of 2face Idibia & Joel Amadi Got Fans Talking by fof1: 9:02pm On Oct 02, 2019
Praizenewstv:
According to popular entertainer Tunde Ednut who posted resemblance photos of these two great singers, 2face and Joel Amado who look alike and sing alike.

This photo of 2face and Joel together has got some Nigerians talking and some even agree they should check their DNA. See More below

Gist From Praizenews ; http://www.praizenews.com/we-need-to-do-their-dna-fans-react-to-resemblance-photos-of-2face-joel-amadi/
SOME THINGS WE DON'T KNOW ABOUT IS HAPPENING HERE...PLS BRING THEIR MAMAS AND PAPAS FOR PROPER VERIFICATION AND AUTHENTICATION. THEIR PARENTS SHOULD TELL THE WHOLE WORLD WHAT REALLY HAPPENED. PLS. THIS IS NOT ORDINARY...
Family › Re: My Wife Says She Is Not Sexually Attracted To Me by fof1: 6:12pm On Sep 29, 2019
simbated:
I have been away from wifey for about a year due to work. We used to sex chat initially but that has stopped for a while now. She used to to tell me she was horrrnny before, but not in recent 4 months. We are good in every other aspects. She looks after our 2 kids.

Now we are about to be together again permanently, after a year of being away. She has said it to me about 3 times that I should not be angry if she doesn't feel like having sex when we see. I really don't understand what this means. I have asked her why and she said no rwason.
Somebody help me. I have no suspicion that she is cheating though. I don't really know what this could mean. Has anyone had this experience before?
CLEVERLY CARRY OUT A COMPREHENSIVE MEDICAL CHECK UP FOR BOTH OF YOU, TO FIND OUT UR STATUSES AND BLOOD COUNTS, VAGINAL AND OTHER CRITICAL TEST, PLS TO REASON NEXT DIRECTION .ETC
Romance › Re: Ex Boyfriend Problem. So Confused by fof1: 2:00pm On Sep 29, 2019
Rach111:
I dated my ex for 6yrs. Who was never proud of me, can't even post my pics on any social media, even the day I did he got angry and removed it.

Have never cheated on him because I hate double dating. Am a virgin and he was a virgin then. we promise to wait till marriage which made me to love him more. I always cook, clean do everything as if I was his wife.

But this guy never showed any signs that he will want to marry me. If I bring it up he keeps quiet over it.

After graduation we came back to Nigeria my grandmother who was like my mother because she was the one who took care of me, was sick I was in the hospital with her for 1 month he never showed up despite the fact that his house was close by. I saw so many signs that I was only wasting my time because he hardly calls even before then we had issues about a girl in his room which he denied everything yet I let it go because of love.

So through my savings from university I went to Dubai got a good job decided to forget about him for good and started dating a Canadian guy who was really nice to me and was willing to wait but my problem with him was that he always calls me sexy and shapy, big botty girl which made me feel like he was after my body because he was always telling me he can't wait to have me on his bed because he feels am too sexy.

Yes, I have great body no doubt, I became confused of the situation and decided to break up that was when my ex started begging for forgiveness that now his working in the bank and his planning to settle down by 2020.

My grandmother died I went to Nigeria and we met I realized he has slept with different girls and was even hiding his phone from me. Acting strange so I came back to Dubai continued my work and the white guy was trying to come back that he won't say things like that because he knows am different but the truth of the matter is that I don't even have any single love for the white guy. I still love my ex but my ex keeps talking to me like am a trash, I got angry and blocked him but he sent me massage on Facebook saying am childish and called me names this is someone who can never say things like that to me before but now he talks to me anyhow without respect because he feels am desperate for marriage because I always want to get married early, am in my early 20's.

Due to the situation all the guys both white and blacks asking me out for serious relationship have said no to all because I feel I can't love anyone again in my life because of my ex I don't know if am in my right senses have tried possible ways to forget him, I deleted all his pictures on my Facebook, always watching movies yet nothing seems to work.

Now am thinking of traveling to any European country look for a good white man so I can forget about him because I know I deserve better than him. I need advice if dating another guy mostly white can make me forget him or it might make things worst since am doing it because am trying to forget him.
U MAY NOT BE WRONG BUT WHY A WHITE MAN AND WHY CAN'T U FORGET UR EX IF BOTH OF U HAD NEVER BEEN IN BED TOGETHER. RE SET UR MIND AND REBUILD URSELF. IT IS EVIDENT UR WILL END UP ABUSING U AND UR BODY TOO,AS HE MUST HV LEARNT BAD MOUTH ON RETURNING TO NAIJA. FORGET HIM COMPLETELY AND MOVE ON FOR UR SECURITY AND SOUND MIND.PLS.HE TRULY DOESN'T LOVE U. HE HAD AN ALTERNATE PLAN B B4 COMING BACK HOME...
Family › Re: My Niece Said My Husband Got Her Pregnant by fof1: 1:03pm On Sep 27, 2019
Agneseze:
I can’t sleep , i am so depressed right now . I am writing this with tears in my eyes

I have been married for 13 years , and my husband and I have 4 children together. Everything was going well in my family until my niece came to live with us. She is 19 years old

She became close to my husband, but I never thought they were having an affair. I didn’t see anything going on between them to make suspect them. She was respectful to him.then I observed that she was not looking right and complaining that she was ill. I asked her what the problem was, she said nothing. Then a few days later after she was not feeling well, I told her i should take her to the doctor but my husband offered to take her. I still didn’t take that to mean anything.

My husband took her to the doctor. When she came back , she told me that the doctor said nothing was wrong with her. Then a few days after when I was at work , she packed her bags and went back to her mother. She told her mother that the doctor said she is pregnant. It was my husband who got her pregnant and he wanted her to do an abortion, but she was afraid. Her mother said when she came to live with us she was a virgin, but my husband took her virginity.

My husband calls her a liar. He said that he never had sex with her. I can't look at him, I have nothing to say to him and all he wants to do is hold my hand and kiss me, and try to manipulate me into bed. But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please
PLS NOTE THAT, HE IS A BLUNT LIAR AND CHILD OF D DEVIL LIVING WITH YOU. UR SISTER CAN NOT AND WILL NOT CALL HIS NAME IF HE HAD NOT PENETRATED HER MORE THAN TWICE. HE SHOULD SPEAK TRUTH TO UR HEART AND SHAME D DEVILS CONTROLLING HIS LIFE NOW. ITS NOT ABOUT SAVING UR MARRIAGE BUT UR LIFE.GRATIAS.
Romance › Re: Catch my fiancee exposing our stuff to her ex by fof1: 12:42pm On Sep 27, 2019
OSITA2love:
undecided
I am about to go and do the introduction into my fiancé's family but just find out that she has been chatting with her ex( who is already married for long) they have been calling each other for some time now and she have exposed our relationship to him.
They started reminding each other those good times they spend together and the guy keep on calling her love baby sweetheart and the guy told her that she would like to be served his favorite food that she is given me

Worse she told him that I'm not good at all when it comes to eat the apple.
Can a wife to be can act in such way?
But in spite of all this, she has not rebuked him but enjoying it and never been straight to him to stop him
I have catched her many times from one guy to another( all are her ex) never rebuke them but just keeping quiet. but I keep on forgiven; hoping that she will change . But this time, my cups is full.
Should I continue with this? My fellow brother
WHAT USELESS DEFEATIST QUESTIONS? WHEN UR CUP OR HER CUPS IS FULL. GET HER TO D POINT OF HER REALIZATION OF HER LLS ON THIS HER USELESS MEMORY LANE WITH HER EXES AND IF SHE IS ADAMANT, CUT OFF AND END D RELATIONSHIP IMMEDIATELY. SHE IS SOAKED IN MEMORY LUST OF D FLESH. SPIRITUAL FUCKING IN HER DREAMS...
Nairaland General › Re: Unidentified Lady With Memory Loss And Her Daughter In Lagos State (photo) by fof1: 12:31pm On Sep 27, 2019
[quote author=MASTERCHIEF0847 post=82604565]I hope her family get reunited with her soon. Thank goodness she was found by someone with a good heart and not some heartless skull miners.

DO WE EVEN KNOW IF SHE IS NOT A VICTIM OF RITUAL KILLERS RESCUED BY DIVINE INTERVENTION? OR HOW CAN ONE EXPLAIN HOW A VERY YOUNG LADY WILL LOSE HER SENSES UPON LEAVING HER HOME! GOD DELIVER UR CHILDREN...
Politics › Re: Igbinedion’s 85th Birthday: Obasanjo Arrived In A Gold Rolls Royce by fof1: 8:11pm On Sep 22, 2019
juman:
Very useless old man.
Nigeria became destroyed.
.ARE YOU NOT MORE USELESS THAN U CAN IMAGINE? WORTHLESS FELLOWS IN D HIGHWAY OF WEED TAKERS. DISRESPECTFUL CHILDREN OF NO VALUE
Christianity Etc › Re: Biodun & Busola Never Dated: COZA Reacts To Rape Scandal, Blames Jealous Pastors by fof1: 6:32pm On Sep 22, 2019
donstan18:
I never believed Busola Dakolo from the onset.
ITS UR BUSINESS. D LADY IS NOT BEING TELEGUIDED. D PASTOR SHOULD BE VERY SINCERE AND SPEAK TO THE TRUTH. RESTITUTION IS DEMANDED BY D LORD. EVEN AFTER CONFESSION,FORGIVENESS AND RECONCILIATION PLS. EGO IS D BARRIER HERE.
Crime › Re: Another Lady Killed In A Hotel At Rumuola, Port Harcourt (Photos) by fof1: 2:39am On Sep 16, 2019
babecode:
For the umpteenth time, another lady has been murdered in a hotel in Port Harcourt, Rivers State. The naked lifeless body of the yet to be identified lady was discovered, today, inside one of the rooms of the hotel located at Rumuola.

The circumstances surrounding her death is still unknown, but police officers are current at the hotel. This is coming few days after another lady was found strangled to death at another hotel in the State. .

This year alone, more than 10 ladies have been murdered in similar manner in the State, prompting people to believe a serial killer is on the prowl in Port Harcourt.

https://all-gists..com/2019/09/another-lady-murdered-in-hotel-in-port-harcourt-photo.html
PLEASE O! WHAT'S HAPPENING IN PORT HARCOURT,RIVERS STATE AND NIGERIA. WHAT ARE D SECURITY AGENCIES DOING?*? FOR GOODNESS SAKE,PLS? THIS NEED A GENERAL P UBLIC ATTENTION MORE THAN ANYTHING NOW. TEN LADIES OR WOMEN SO FAR, HABA.

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